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DoubleDare
05/03/18 7:42:21 PM
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We've been on 2 dates, been texting, can't tell if shes really interested in me.

So I ask "So, If I may ask, when was your last relationship?"

And she responded "Why are you asking me that?"

How do I respond to that without it being bad?
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Turbam
05/03/18 7:45:06 PM
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"just curious"
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Kineth
05/03/18 7:52:55 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
Tell her "because I ask weird questions and lack game".


Honestly.... this.
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MrResetti
05/03/18 7:53:27 PM
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DoubleDare
05/03/18 7:55:02 PM
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I ended up going with "Just curious"
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V-E-G-Y-
05/03/18 7:55:44 PM
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catboy0_0
05/03/18 7:56:02 PM
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good luck!
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Master_Bass
05/03/18 8:07:17 PM
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"pls send bobs n vegene"
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DoubleDare
05/03/18 8:14:54 PM
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Haha, so is it ok to send another text an hour later changing the subject?
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theAteam
05/03/18 8:16:29 PM
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So yeah I mean

Why did you ask?
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Vladimir
05/03/18 8:16:42 PM
#13:


Why do people get upset/embarrassed when asked that question anyways?
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DoubleDare
05/03/18 8:17:35 PM
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It must've been a long time for her I'm thinking.
I shouldn't have asked it.
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD
05/03/18 8:17:35 PM
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Respond with "I wish to have sexual intercourse with you."
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dirtycommunist
05/03/18 8:19:14 PM
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Respond with "I wish to have sexual intercourse with you."

then wait 15 minutes and add

"..if you think that would be alright."
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD
05/03/18 8:19:45 PM
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dirtycommunist posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Respond with "I wish to have sexual intercourse with you."

then wait 15 minutes and add

"..if you think that would be alright."

lmao
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BipBapBam
05/03/18 8:20:24 PM
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
dirtycommunist posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Respond with "I wish to have sexual intercourse with you."

then wait 15 minutes and add

"..if you think that would be alright."

lmao

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DoubleDare
05/03/18 8:23:03 PM
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So wait to see if she responds to that "Just curious"
or send another text changing the subject "So how's your night going?"
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Awesome
05/03/18 8:26:07 PM
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If the girl has problems with that question then its a sign you should pay attention to.
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Mist_Turnips
05/03/18 8:27:22 PM
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She's prob a ho.
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CanuckCowboy
05/03/18 8:27:44 PM
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Awesome posted...
If the girl has problems with that question then its a sign you should pay attention to.


.... Why?

It's an odd question. It's not creepy or anything but it's odd.
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ProfessorKukui
05/03/18 8:28:02 PM
#23:


abort
mission failed
please desist
back out
send nuds
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Smashingpmkns
05/03/18 8:28:51 PM
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Follow up with "how many guys have you slept with?" And you'll definitely be in.
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Lorenzo_2003
05/03/18 8:30:51 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...
Awesome posted...
If the girl has problems with that question then its a sign you should pay attention to.


.... Why?

It's an odd question. It's not creepy or anything but it's odd.


Some of us want to know if we need to be on the lookout for crazy ex-boyfriends or, worse, current boyfriends.

She does not have to answer his question(s). Likewise, he doesnt have to be upfront about anything either, if she wants to play that game.
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dameon_reaper
05/03/18 8:32:52 PM
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I mean, if she doesn't respond, at best you can probably apologize if she feels offended over it...if that's the route you want to go, anyway.
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REMercsChamp
05/03/18 8:34:10 PM
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Might as well ask when the last time she took a shit was while you're at it
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Bestoffuture
05/03/18 8:35:04 PM
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dameon_reaper posted...
I mean, if she doesn't respond, at best you can probably apologize if she feels offended over it...if that's the route you want to go, anyway.


Yeah.

But give at least 6 hours before you do. She might be busy with work or sleeping with other guys.
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CanuckCowboy
05/03/18 8:41:00 PM
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Lorenzo_2003 posted...

Some of us want to know if we need to be on the lookout for crazy ex-boyfriends or, worse, current boyfriends.


Let it ride buds. Just let it ride. Try try try to pet it ride (that was song lyrics.... Except the buds part). Yer gonna find out eventually if it goes anywhere and it's not gonna matter if it doesnt.

It's a weird question and a weird thing to be focused on tbh.
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NeonOctopus
05/03/18 8:44:09 PM
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BipBapBam posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
dirtycommunist posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Respond with "I wish to have sexual intercourse with you."

then wait 15 minutes and add

"..if you think that would be alright."

lmao

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thelovefist
05/03/18 8:45:07 PM
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BipBapBam posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
dirtycommunist posted...
KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Respond with "I wish to have sexual intercourse with you."

then wait 15 minutes and add

"..if you think that would be alright."

lmao

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DoubleDare
05/03/18 9:00:40 PM
#32:


It's all fine, she responded lol
She never has been in a real relationship......
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Bestoffuture
05/03/18 9:01:21 PM
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Are you guys like 16 or something?
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TheVipaGTS
05/03/18 9:01:47 PM
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Why did you even want to know?
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Lordgold666
05/03/18 9:05:02 PM
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V-E-G-Y- posted...
"Oops wrong number sorry"

lollllll
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Lorenzo_2003
05/03/18 9:20:20 PM
#36:


DoubleDare posted...
It's all fine, she responded lol
She never has been in a real relationship......


A lot of people have different definitions of what real means. I found that out the hard way.
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DeadSite
05/03/18 9:23:14 PM
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Holy fuck OP so fucking cringey
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ClockworkHare
05/03/18 9:26:45 PM
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Some people are not eager to chat about their pasts on initial dates. Sometimes their past is why they're looking for someone new and they don't want to reminisce about it much.

Although I will concede: if someone's really hurting for a new relationship, they need to let some awkward questions slide. Like that should be a standard to do for anyone agonizing over being lonely. Otherwise, they basically want to stay single and buried in cats.

I didn't say everyone should just let any triggering question or comment slide just because they're lonely. I'm saying give some leeway with awkward comments when you're looking for a new relationship. Learn to gauge between responses that are outright appalling to most people and ones that are really just you being over-sensitive...

Before you consider flipping a table and walk out over a date's comment, ask yourself 3 things:
-what was the real intention of the comment/question and was it really that bad?
-is the date completely destroyed or can it still be turned around into a better experience?
-just how fucking lonely are you?

Ask your cats; they would know.

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Lunar_Savage
05/03/18 9:37:28 PM
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Did anyone else just hear Colonel Campbell yelling "SNAAAAKE" repeatedly?
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CanuckCowboy
05/03/18 9:40:20 PM
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M_Live posted...
"new phone who dis"


Nailed it.
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Pharrell3
05/03/18 9:41:11 PM
#42:


M_Live posted...
"new phone who dis"

Lol
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD
05/03/18 10:32:55 PM
#43:


Mist_Turnips posted...
She's prob a ho.

^knows whats up
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Pharrell3
05/03/18 10:34:54 PM
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KLouD_KoNNeCteD posted...
Mist_Turnips posted...
She's prob a ho.

^knows whats up


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TheMikh
05/03/18 10:35:41 PM
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honestly it's not a bad question

gotta avoid those relationship hoppers and girls with hangups
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Big_Nabendu
05/03/18 10:36:35 PM
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That was ment for ur sister
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Raikuro
05/03/18 10:38:05 PM
#47:


typically best to avoid talking about exes and that's a huge gateway question to that subject
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thronedfire2
05/03/18 10:40:32 PM
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seems like the kind of thing that should come up naturally while actually talking to each other
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MuayThai85
05/03/18 10:42:03 PM
#49:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
DoubleDare posted...
It's all fine, she responded lol
She never has been in a real relationship......


A lot of people have different definitions of what real means. I found that out the hard way.


For me, dating doesn't necessarily mean a relationship. I don't consider it a relationship until you are spending the majority of your free time together. If you are seeing each other once a week (unless it's long distance) then I don't consider it a "real" relationship, it's just two people dating.

I've dated numerous girls, some for months and I never really thought of it as being a relationship or her truly being my girlfriend. My wife on the other hand was a different situation. We spent every night together for 3 months starting the night of our second date (which was the day after our first date). That I considered a real relationship and referred to her as my girlfriend, even when we had to be separated for 6 months because I had to go back overseas.
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Orthopox12
05/03/18 10:45:08 PM
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Spam dick pics
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