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alt4445 04/29/18 10:08:11 PM #1:	Me and this coworker chick vibe super well and we have a lot in common and like to playfully flirt (but nothing sexual). The problem is she's obsessed with this other coworker that I'm 99% she's done stuff with. I'm friends with that other coworker too. She acts mad weird about him and talks about him when he's not even there. She compares me to him, in good ways, but still. I've asked her to hang three times, the first two times she was going through some shit so cancelled, but showed that she still wanted to follow up, despite doing literally nothing towards that. She still hung out with the other dude though. The only times I've hung out with her outside of work is with him, so I was starting to think that she'd only hang with me (or anyone) if he was there. The third time, she did hang out with just me at a restaurant, we end up talking for like 4 hours straight until the place closes and then more in the parking lot. Idk if she told the other guy but he knew we were there. She broke up with her bf because they werent intimate at all for years, to which I was like, thatd never happen if we were together. She said she was looking for nothing serious, just casual fun. Idk if she was saying that indirectly to me or if she was just venting about it. Earlier that day, she said she wanted to play videogames with me again. I invited her over at the end of the night to play, but she said she couldn't because of work at 6AM, otherwise she would. She brought up the other dude a few times that night even though I never asked, and said "that was the best conversation I've had since I moved up here, Bob is so boring, he just shrugs at everything and has nothing to say", I was like, "stop comparing me to Bob, I'm not Bob #2", she's like, "nah I'm saying I wish I met you first instead of him". The biggest thing about this is that Bob is moving in with me in August. So, I have no clue what to do. I also don't know if she likes me or is just being platonic about the whole situation. She works with Bob nearly every day and I'm gonna see her at work Tuesday and Thursday. Should I pursue, should I abort? Should I make it obvious on Tuesday that I wanna bang or should I make it subtle? --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900540176] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Me and this coworker chick vibe super well and we have a lot in common and like to playfully flirt (but nothing sexual). The problem is she's obsessed with this other coworker that I'm 99% she's done stuff with. I'm friends with that other coworker too. She acts mad weird about him and talks about him when he's not even there. She compares me to him, in good ways, but still. I've asked her to hang three times, the first two times she was going through some shit so cancelled, but showed that she still wanted to follow up, despite doing literally nothing towards that. She still hung out with the other dude though. The only times I've hung out with her outside of work is with him, so I was starting to think that she'd only hang with me (or anyone) if he was there. The third time, she did hang out with just me at a restaurant, we end up talking for like 4 hours straight until the place closes and then more in the parking lot. Idk if she told the other guy but he knew we were there. She broke up with her bf because they werent intimate at all for years, to which I was like, thatd never happen if we were together. She said she was looking for nothing serious, just casual fun. Idk if she was saying that indirectly to me or if she was just venting about it. Earlier that day, she said she wanted to play videogames with me again. I invited her over at the end of the night to play, but she said she couldn't because of work at 6AM, otherwise she would. She brought up the other dude a few times that night even though I never asked, and said "that was the best conversation I've had since I moved up here, Bob is so boring, he just shrugs at everything and has nothing to say", I was like, "stop comparing me to Bob, I'm not Bob #2", she's like, "nah I'm saying I wish I met you first instead of him". The biggest thing about this is that Bob is moving in with me in August. So, I have no clue what to do. I also don't know if she likes me or is just being platonic about the whole situation. She works with Bob nearly every day and I'm gonna see her at work Tuesday and Thursday. Should I pursue, should I abort? Should I make it obvious on Tuesday that I wanna bang or should I make it subtle?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlecSkorpio 04/29/18 10:10:41 PM #2:	Don't shit where you eat. --- http://i.imgur.com/vQLlUd0.jpg https://i.imgtc.com/tWy9NTL.png <cite>AlecSkorpio posted [p:900540297] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Don't shit where you eat.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 04/29/18 10:11:24 PM #3:	Why do you not understand: alt4445 posted... she was looking for nothing serious, just casual fun. --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:900540335] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Why do you not understand: <cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>she was looking for nothing serious, just casual fun.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 04/29/18 10:12:12 PM #4:	Didn't read OP but I vote bang her. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:900540380] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Didn't read OP but I vote bang her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 04/29/18 10:14:14 PM #5:	Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:900540491] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 04/29/18 10:16:09 PM #6:	Its not hard to find chicks from somewhere else. --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:900540592] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Its not hard to find chicks from somewhere else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 04/29/18 10:16:31 PM #7:	JTilly posted... Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc Slob Bob's Knob --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:900540607] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc</quote> Slob Bob's Knob</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
inloveanddeath0 04/29/18 10:16:58 PM #8:	Don't eat your shit --- http://www.last.fm/user/PolarPolaroids <cite>inloveanddeath0 posted [p:900540634] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Don't eat your shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 10:18:18 PM #9:	Flockaveli posted... Its not hard to find chicks from somewhere else. It is for me --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900540692] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>Flockaveli posted...</cite> <quote>Its not hard to find chicks from somewhere else.</quote> It is for me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 10:18:40 PM #10:	DrizztLink posted... Slob Bob's Knob la di da di da, slob on bobs knob --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900540710] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>DrizztLink posted...</cite> <quote>Slob Bob's Knob</quote> la di da di da, slob on bobs knob</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solosnake 04/29/18 10:19:05 PM #11:	How do you not know if she is seeing bob if you talked for four hours straight?> like wtf? --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade http://i.imgur.com/MYYEIx5.gif http://i.imgur.com/WGE12ef.jpg <cite>solosnake posted [p:900540732] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>How do you not know if she is seeing bob if you talked for four hours straight?> like wtf?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 10:19:22 PM #12:	JTilly posted... Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc They both aren't interested in anything romantic --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900540745] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc</quote> They both aren't interested in anything romantic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 04/29/18 10:20:01 PM #13:	don't slob bob's shit --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:900540780] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>don't slob bob's shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 04/29/18 10:21:01 PM #14:	alt4445 posted... JTilly posted... Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc They both aren't interested in anything romantic It sounds like she has a lil something for Bob, no? --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:900540831] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc</quote> They both aren't interested in anything romantic</quote> It sounds like she has a lil something for Bob, no?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 10:21:38 PM #15:	solosnake posted... How do you not know if she is seeing bob if you talked for four hours straight?> like wtf? She was sneakily hinting at it but didn't say it outright. I already know they fooled around. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900540866] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>solosnake posted...</cite> <quote>How do you not know if she is seeing bob if you talked for four hours straight?> like wtf?</quote> She was sneakily hinting at it but didn't say it outright. I already know they fooled around.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 04/29/18 10:22:01 PM #16:	alt4445 posted... JTilly posted... Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc They both aren't interested in anything romantic Exactly. Not interested in anything romantic. Not interesting in what you want. Time to let go and move on. --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:900540882] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc</quote> They both aren't interested in anything romantic</quote> Exactly. Not interested in anything romantic. Not interesting in what you want. Time to let go and move on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 10:23:30 PM #17:	DarkChozoGhost posted... Not interesting in what you want. Time to let go and move on. I mean I'll take FWB happily too. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900540957] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkChozoGhost posted...</cite> <quote>Not interesting in what you want. Time to let go and move on.</quote> I mean I'll take FWB happily too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 04/29/18 10:24:26 PM #18:	You don't sound like it. --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:900540995] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>You don't sound like it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solosnake 04/29/18 10:24:41 PM #19:	Just tag team her with bob, then ask her to move in with both of you. What could go wrong? --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade http://i.imgur.com/MYYEIx5.gif http://i.imgur.com/WGE12ef.jpg <cite>solosnake posted [p:900541006] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Just tag team her with bob, then ask her to move in with both of you. What could go wrong?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 10:59:05 PM #20:	I'm worried about a) blowing it or b) constantly wondering if there was something there or not I guess I'll just ask her to chill Tuesday. If she tries to invite Bob, I'm gonna make it clear I was only trying to hang with her. If she says no, I know where I stand. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900542630] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>I'm worried about a) blowing it or b) constantly wondering if there was something there or not I guess I'll just ask her to chill Tuesday. If she tries to invite Bob, I'm gonna make it clear I was only trying to hang with her. If she says no, I know where I stand.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 04/29/18 11:00:43 PM #21:	alt4445 posted... I'm worried about a) blowing it Keep your job, slob Bob's knob --- http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:900542706] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>I'm worried about a) blowing it</quote> Keep your job, slob Bob's knob</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkChozoGhost 04/29/18 11:06:32 PM #22:	You know where you stand. She doesn't want anything serious, but knows you have a crush on her, therefore you are not a suitable FWB, which is all she wants. You can be her friend and that's it. --- My sister's dog bit a hole in my Super Mario Land cartridge. It still works though - Skye Reynolds 3DS FC: 3239-5612-0115 <cite>DarkChozoGhost posted [p:900542976] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>You know where you stand. She doesn't want anything serious, but knows you have a crush on her, therefore you are not a suitable FWB, which is all she wants. You can be her friend and that's it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NES4EVER 04/29/18 11:07:27 PM #23:	DrizztLink posted... JTilly posted... Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc Slob Bob's Knob Like corn on the cob Check in with Bob, and do your job. --- *nu-horsemen 4evar* [A GameFAQs Moderator was deleted by this message] <cite>NES4EVER posted [p:900543032] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>DrizztLink posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Bob > her Bros b4 hoes tc</quote> Slob Bob's Knob</quote> Like corn on the cob Check in with Bob, and do your job.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 11:22:12 PM #24:	DarkChozoGhost posted... You know where you stand. She doesn't want anything serious, but knows you have a crush on her, therefore you are not a suitable FWB, which is all she wants. You can be her friend and that's it. I think I'd take either FWB or relationship. Basically whatever I can get. There's no scenario where I can get fwb? I'm still gonna try regardless though --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900543709] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>DarkChozoGhost posted...</cite> <quote>You know where you stand. She doesn't want anything serious, but knows you have a crush on her, therefore you are not a suitable FWB, which is all she wants. You can be her friend and that's it.</quote> I think I'd take either FWB or relationship. Basically whatever I can get. There's no scenario where I can get fwb? I'm still gonna try regardless though</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 04/29/18 11:26:08 PM #25:	Pics of girl? --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:900543897] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Pics of girl?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MutantJohn 04/29/18 11:39:08 PM #26:	Bro, you already know the answer. --- "Oh, my mother; oh, my friends, ask the angels, will I ever see heaven again?" - Laura Marling <cite>MutantJohn posted [p:900544499] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Bro, you already know the answer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trumpo 04/29/18 11:45:19 PM #27:	Friendzone'd <cite>Trumpo posted [p:900544718] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Friendzone'd</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/29/18 11:45:22 PM #28:	JTilly posted... Pics of girl? I don't do this anymore, too many creeps on the internet that try to trace back the photo. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900544723] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Pics of girl?</quote> I don't do this anymore, too many creeps on the internet that try to trace back the photo.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Psychosexual 04/29/18 11:48:48 PM #29:	Pee en dee <cite>Psychosexual posted [p:900544861] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Pee en dee</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 04/29/18 11:50:42 PM #30:	alt4445 posted... JTilly posted... Pics of girl? I don't do this anymore, too many creeps on the internet that try to trace back the photo. Gotcha --- WittleJimmyJimmyjumper <cite>JTilly posted [p:900544935] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JTilly posted...</cite> <quote>Pics of girl?</quote> I don't do this anymore, too many creeps on the internet that try to trace back the photo.</quote> Gotcha</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/30/18 1:46:29 AM #31:	After a lot of thought, my two biggest fears are 1) if my advances get rejected, I'm going to constantly wonder about what if X, Y, or Z would've worked instead and be trapped in endless what if scenarios. 2) That, if I fuck up such a golden opportunity, there's no hope for me ever --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900548806] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>After a lot of thought, my two biggest fears are 1) if my advances get rejected, I'm going to constantly wonder about what if X, Y, or Z would've worked instead and be trapped in endless what if scenarios. 2) That, if I fuck up such a golden opportunity, there's no hope for me ever</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 04/30/18 8:03:34 AM #32:	Bump --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:900556142] in What shoul... [t:76564969]...</cite> <quote>Bump</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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