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Amazon_Shampoo 04/22/18 5:38:00 PM #1:	So, a few years ago I moved to a small city from the small town I grew up in. When I did my best friend at the time invited me over on one of my last night to get drunk and watch terrible B movies. It was a lot of fun and her boyfriend joined in as well. I stayed the night in their spare bedroom, but in all honestly I was nearly at the point of passed out drunk, I hardly remember getting to that bedroom. I thought I heard someone in the room at one point. I remember someone removing my pants, but I was so out of it I didn't know what was going on. I remember someone holding me down and trying to fight it, but they were way stronger than me and I was in between passing out. I remember trying to call out for help, but nothing came out, I was scared, I didn't know what was happening, but It was terrifying. I'm glad to say I don't remember the act.... but I woke up without my clothing on, and it was obvious that something had happened...... My whole body ached, my arms were bruised where he was holding me down. I felt terrible.... As I was so drunk I tried to pretend what happened didn't happen. I still to this day have never told my friend, I did at one time confront the guy..... he said I consented to it and it was my idea. This seems really unlikely as I'm a lesbian. I've never told anyone this, not even my fiancee but I kinda wanted to share it with someone even if just random people. /Dark Blog FAQS /TLDR /That Happend <cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted [p:900116382] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>So, a few years ago I moved to a small city from the small town I grew up in. When I did my best friend at the time invited me over on one of my last night to get drunk and watch terrible B movies. It was a lot of fun and her boyfriend joined in as well. I stayed the night in their spare bedroom, but in all honestly I was nearly at the point of passed out drunk, I hardly remember getting to that bedroom. I thought I heard someone in the room at one point. I remember someone removing my pants, but I was so out of it I didn't know what was going on. I remember someone holding me down and trying to fight it, but they were way stronger than me and I was in between passing out. I remember trying to call out for help, but nothing came out, I was scared, I didn't know what was happening, but It was terrifying. I'm glad to say I don't remember the act.... but I woke up without my clothing on, and it was obvious that something had happened...... My whole body ached, my arms were bruised where he was holding me down. I felt terrible.... As I was so drunk I tried to pretend what happened didn't happen. I still to this day have never told my friend, I did at one time confront the guy..... he said I consented to it and it was my idea. This seems really unlikely as I'm a lesbian. I've never told anyone this, not even my fiancee but I kinda wanted to share it with someone even if just random people. /Dark Blog FAQS /TLDR /That Happend</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DavidWong 04/22/18 5:39:26 PM #2:	If the dude admitted to it, call the cops --- Patriotism is nothing but loyalty to real estate, real estate that has been conquered 800 different times by 800 different regimes with 800 different cultures. <cite>DavidWong posted [p:900116479] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>If the dude admitted to it, call the cops</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solosnake 04/22/18 5:40:16 PM #3:	Wow, thats terrible --- "We would have no NBA possibly if they got rid of all the flopping." ~ Dwyane Wade http://i.imgur.com/MYYEIx5.gif http://i.imgur.com/WGE12ef.jpg <cite>solosnake posted [p:900116523] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Wow, thats terrible</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weekoldhotdog 04/22/18 5:40:22 PM #4:	should press charges before it happens again to someone else. omg, did you tell his gf? --- Ba da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada... What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. <cite>weekoldhotdog posted [p:900116526] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>should press charges before it happens again to someone else. omg, did you tell his gf?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
g0ldie 04/22/18 5:42:14 PM #5:	sorry, man. hopefully something can be done, and the guy can face justice --- The pamphlet of First Life contains 93 lies and 7 truths. The truths don't provide any answers. <cite>g0ldie posted [p:900116642] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>sorry, man. hopefully something can be done, and the guy can face justice</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheVipaGTS 04/22/18 5:44:05 PM #6:	Wow. Im so sorry that happened to you :/. Have you considered going to the cops? --- Dallas Cowboys: 1 - 1 <cite>TheVipaGTS posted [p:900116753] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Wow. Im so sorry that happened to you :/. Have you considered going to the cops?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Amazon_Shampoo 04/22/18 5:44:28 PM #7:	I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. It also took me a few years to get the courage to confront him on it, and he was pretty adamant that I was the one who initiated things and that I was just trying to get out of it now. However I've never been with a man, and have never found them attractive.... so even when super drunk I just don't see it. <cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted [p:900116785] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. It also took me a few years to get the courage to confront him on it, and he was pretty adamant that I was the one who initiated things and that I was just trying to get out of it now. However I've never been with a man, and have never found them attractive.... so even when super drunk I just don't see it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RE_expert44 04/22/18 5:46:34 PM #9:	Did you go get a tape kit the day after at the police station? --- 0 Post Topic http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1074-resident-evil-past-present-and-future <cite>RE_expert44 posted [p:900116915] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Did you go get a tape kit the day after at the police station?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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awesome999 04/22/18 5:46:56 PM #11:	It sucks you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine Not to be harsh but this kind of thing should have been reported when it happened. How much proof do you have right now? Are they still together? How much do you value your friendship with her if they are? --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:900116933] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>It sucks you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine Not to be harsh but this kind of thing should have been reported when it happened. How much proof do you have right now? Are they still together? How much do you value your friendship with her if they are?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
-Unowninator- 04/22/18 5:47:19 PM #12:	Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. I say do it anyway. If he's done this to anyone else, perhaps hearing about this will cause them to bring it up too. And if he didn't, well, at least his reputation will be hurt, right? --- ''25 posts in and no one has addressed the orignal question. Also, I'm continuing that streak :P'' ~ Lord_Zenki Join the unknown: http://goo.gl/S75cmn <cite>-Unowninator- posted [p:900116951] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher.</quote> I say do it anyway. If he's done this to anyone else, perhaps hearing about this will cause them to bring it up too. And if he didn't, well, at least his reputation will be hurt, right?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weekoldhotdog 04/22/18 5:49:05 PM #13:	Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out. --- Ba da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada... What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. <cite>weekoldhotdog posted [p:900117057] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher.</quote> all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 04/22/18 5:49:32 PM #14:	-Unowninator- posted... Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. I say do it anyway. If he's done this to anyone else, perhaps hearing about this will cause them to bring it up too. And if he didn't, well, at least his reputation will be hurt, right? Shrug whatever she does or doesn't do is up to her. She's not obligated to do anything. --- https://puu.sh/tcLsT/24f4611235.png https://i.imgur.com/dQgC4kv.jpg <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:900117090] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>-Unowninator- posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher.</quote> I say do it anyway. If he's done this to anyone else, perhaps hearing about this will cause them to bring it up too. And if he didn't, well, at least his reputation will be hurt, right?</quote> Shrug whatever she does or doesn't do is up to her. She's not obligated to do anything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Amazon_Shampoo 04/22/18 5:49:32 PM #15:	awesome999 posted... It sucks you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine Not to be harsh but this kind of thing should have been reported when it happened. How much proof do you have right now? Are they still together? How much do you value your friendship with her if they are? She left him about a year after that because he was cheating on her actually. I don't really plan to look for justice or anything, and am glad I can't remember more then just being held down and stripped.... but it feels good to actually mention it at all really. <cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted [p:900117091] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>awesome999 posted...</cite> <quote>It sucks you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine Not to be harsh but this kind of thing should have been reported when it happened. How much proof do you have right now? Are they still together? How much do you value your friendship with her if they are?</quote> She left him about a year after that because he was cheating on her actually. I don't really plan to look for justice or anything, and am glad I can't remember more then just being held down and stripped.... but it feels good to actually mention it at all really.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EverDownward 04/22/18 5:49:55 PM #16:	Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. It also took me a few years to get the courage to confront him on it, and he was pretty adamant that I was the one who initiated things and that I was just trying to get out of it now. However I've never been with a man, and have never found them attractive.... so even when super drunk I just don't see it. Go to the police, and fight him with everything you've got. --- "And you can't tell me what my spirit tells me isn't true, can you?" <cite>EverDownward posted [p:900117122] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. It also took me a few years to get the courage to confront him on it, and he was pretty adamant that I was the one who initiated things and that I was just trying to get out of it now. However I've never been with a man, and have never found them attractive.... so even when super drunk I just don't see it.</quote> Go to the police, and fight him with everything you've got.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weekoldhotdog 04/22/18 5:50:38 PM #17:	weekoldhotdog posted... Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out. please read this post. --- Ba da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada... What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. <cite>weekoldhotdog posted [p:900117159] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>weekoldhotdog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher.</quote> all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out.</quote> please read this post.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EverDownward 04/22/18 5:51:42 PM #19:	Just putting my two cents in --- "And you can't tell me what my spirit tells me isn't true, can you?" <cite>EverDownward posted [p:900117221] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Just putting my two cents in</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Amazon_Shampoo 04/22/18 5:53:17 PM #20:	weekoldhotdog posted... weekoldhotdog posted... Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out. please read this post. Well, if you guys see some rape news stuff in Nova Scotia then it's probably me.... I just kinda felt like it was my fault for a long time because of letting myself be in that vulnerable position... I've never drank anything since that day just in case. I've had a few years to think now and I know now that it wasn't me at fault here.... but for a long time I did blame myself for some reason. <cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted [p:900117313] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>weekoldhotdog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>weekoldhotdog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher.</quote> all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out.</quote> please read this post.</quote> Well, if you guys see some rape news stuff in Nova Scotia then it's probably me.... I just kinda felt like it was my fault for a long time because of letting myself be in that vulnerable position... I've never drank anything since that day just in case. I've had a few years to think now and I know now that it wasn't me at fault here.... but for a long time I did blame myself for some reason.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kazi1212 04/22/18 5:53:26 PM #21:	Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision --- I don't know my gimmick "Does that sound reasonable to you?" <cite>Kazi1212 posted [p:900117324] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 04/22/18 5:53:39 PM #22:	Amazon_Shampoo posted... awesome999 posted... It sucks you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine Not to be harsh but this kind of thing should have been reported when it happened. How much proof do you have right now? Are they still together? How much do you value your friendship with her if they are? She left him about a year after that because he was cheating on her actually. I don't really plan to look for justice or anything, and am glad I can't remember more then just being held down and stripped.... but it feels good to actually mention it at all really. If they're not together, you really should. He sounds like a piece of shit --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:900117335] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>awesome999 posted...</cite> <quote>It sucks you had to go through that, hope you're doing fine Not to be harsh but this kind of thing should have been reported when it happened. How much proof do you have right now? Are they still together? How much do you value your friendship with her if they are?</quote> She left him about a year after that because he was cheating on her actually. I don't really plan to look for justice or anything, and am glad I can't remember more then just being held down and stripped.... but it feels good to actually mention it at all really.</quote> If they're not together, you really should. He sounds like a piece of shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 04/22/18 5:54:41 PM #23:	Wow TC.. I'm really sorry... whether you decide to pursue something further or not, it's completely dependent on how you feel about it. Have you talked to a counselor or therapist? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:900117396] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Wow TC.. I'm really sorry... whether you decide to pursue something further or not, it's completely dependent on how you feel about it. Have you talked to a counselor or therapist?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorVader 04/22/18 5:55:13 PM #24:	Just because he said you consented doesn't mean jack shit. You were drunk, which means consent is thrown out the window even if you consented (not saying you actually did). If you have some loyal family with a goon squad, have them deal with him. --- It all just disappears, doesn't it? Everything you are, gone in a moment, like breath on a mirror. - The Doctor <cite>DoctorVader posted [p:900117412] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote>Just because he said you consented doesn't mean jack shit. You were drunk, which means consent is thrown out the window even if you consented (not saying you actually did). If you have some loyal family with a goon squad, have them deal with him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EverDownward 04/22/18 5:55:39 PM #25:	Kazi1212 posted... Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation It doesn't hurt to look at all angles to the equation, though. That one poster was right, it's ultimately her decision. Maybe she will go after him, maybe she won't. All we can do is offer an ear and sound advice. --- "And you can't tell me what my spirit tells me isn't true, can you?" <cite>EverDownward posted [p:900117433] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kazi1212 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation</quote> It doesn't hurt to look at all angles to the equation, though. That one poster was right, it's ultimately her decision. Maybe she will go after him, maybe she won't. All we can do is offer an ear and sound advice.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
awesome999 04/22/18 5:56:06 PM #26:	DoctorVader posted... If you have some loyal family with a goon squad, have them deal with him. Uhhhh... --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk <cite>awesome999 posted [p:900117463] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorVader posted...</cite> <quote>If you have some loyal family with a goon squad, have them deal with him.</quote> Uhhhh...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Amazon_Shampoo 04/22/18 5:56:14 PM #27:	Kazi1212 posted... Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision It's funny, as I always thought it only happened to thin and popular girls. I'm geeky, fat, and even if I wasn't have average looks at best. The only thing I have going for me is that I have a kinda unique style.... but he told me when I confronted him that he was into "goth" girls as his guilty pleasure and that's why he even considered me. <cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted [p:900117471] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kazi1212 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision</quote> It's funny, as I always thought it only happened to thin and popular girls. I'm geeky, fat, and even if I wasn't have average looks at best. The only thing I have going for me is that I have a kinda unique style.... but he told me when I confronted him that he was into "goth" girls as his guilty pleasure and that's why he even considered me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weekoldhotdog 04/22/18 5:59:17 PM #28:	Amazon_Shampoo posted... weekoldhotdog posted... weekoldhotdog posted... Amazon_Shampoo posted... I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher. all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out. please read this post. Well, if you guys see some rape news stuff in Nova Scotia then it's probably me.... I just kinda felt like it was my fault for a long time because of letting myself be in that vulnerable position... I've never drank anything since that day just in case. I've had a few years to think now and I know now that it wasn't me at fault here.... but for a long time I did blame myself for some reason. this is a natural part of the healing. by no means did you bring this on yourself. you TRUSTED them to provide you with a safe place to stay and your trust, sanctity, and body was violated by that man. he should register as a sex offendor for life and he should never be a a member of any community, let alone the public. --- Ba da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada... What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. <cite>weekoldhotdog posted [p:900117669] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>weekoldhotdog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>weekoldhotdog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote>I've never told her, we kinda lost touch as It was just awkward after all that. I would go after him, but I'm just a call center worker and he is actually a really well known in the community I'm from and is a school teacher.</quote> all the more reason to go after him. if you speak out, other women will be empowered by your accusations to speak up about their own experiences. if he's well known, he could be using his power to abuse other women. please call the police before the statute of limitations runs out.</quote> please read this post.</quote> Well, if you guys see some rape news stuff in Nova Scotia then it's probably me.... I just kinda felt like it was my fault for a long time because of letting myself be in that vulnerable position... I've never drank anything since that day just in case. I've had a few years to think now and I know now that it wasn't me at fault here.... but for a long time I did blame myself for some reason.</quote> this is a natural part of the healing. by no means did you bring this on yourself. you TRUSTED them to provide you with a safe place to stay and your trust, sanctity, and body was violated by that man. he should register as a sex offendor for life and he should never be a a member of any community, let alone the public.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
-Unowninator- 04/22/18 5:59:47 PM #29:	Kazi1212 posted... Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision I did not consider that, but you do raise a good point. I guess it should be up to choice, and whether or not she has the willpower to handle it. --- ''25 posts in and no one has addressed the orignal question. Also, I'm continuing that streak :P'' ~ Lord_Zenki Join the unknown: http://goo.gl/S75cmn <cite>-Unowninator- posted [p:900117698] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kazi1212 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision</quote> I did not consider that, but you do raise a good point. I guess it should be up to choice, and whether or not she has the willpower to handle it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weekoldhotdog 04/22/18 6:01:33 PM #30:	Amazon_Shampoo posted... Kazi1212 posted... Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision It's funny, as I always thought it only happened to thin and popular girls. I'm geeky, fat, and even if I wasn't have average looks at best. The only thing I have going for me is that I have a kinda unique style.... but he told me when I confronted him that he was into "goth" girls as his guilty pleasure and that's why he even considered me. this is why you were targeted. the rapist knew you would be too ashamed to turn him in. be stronger than him. --- Ba da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada, da da da dada... What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more. <cite>weekoldhotdog posted [p:900117812] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kazi1212 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision</quote> It's funny, as I always thought it only happened to thin and popular girls. I'm geeky, fat, and even if I wasn't have average looks at best. The only thing I have going for me is that I have a kinda unique style.... but he told me when I confronted him that he was into "goth" girls as his guilty pleasure and that's why he even considered me.</quote> this is why you were targeted. the rapist knew you would be too ashamed to turn him in. be stronger than him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Amazon_Shampoo 04/22/18 6:03:41 PM #31:	-Unowninator- posted... Kazi1212 posted... Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision I did not consider that, but you do raise a good point. I guess it should be up to choice, and whether or not she has the willpower to handle it. It doesn't bug me as much now as it did when it was still recent, I think I got off luckyish..... I'm a pretty messed up person but I don't think a lot of it was from that.... but it really did keep me up at nights for months, if not a full year after the fact, I just never felt safe... like I knew I was home alone at times, but every sound would wake me up and make me check to make sure I was actually alone. <cite>Amazon_Shampoo posted [p:900117951] in I was rape... [t:76542044]...</cite> <quote><cite>-Unowninator- posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kazi1212 posted...</cite> <quote>Dont listen to people whos urging you go after the guy, thats not your obligation. I have a couple of good friends who were raped, one of them never reported the guy because she didnt want to relive through all that psychological torment and I 100% understand her decision</quote> I did not consider that, but you do raise a good point. I guess it should be up to choice, and whether or not she has the willpower to handle it.</quote> It doesn't bug me as much now as it did when it was still recent, I think I got off luckyish..... I'm a pretty messed up person but I don't think a lot of it was from that.... but it really did keep me up at nights for months, if not a full year after the fact, I just never felt safe... like I knew I was home alone at times, but every sound would wake me up and make me check to make sure I was actually alone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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