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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:46:17 PM
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to demand her working husband do her job on his days off because she needs time off even though that means he never gets a day off? They have 3 kids and the wife's mother, who also doesn't work lives with them.
This sound right?
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Aki_Narukami
04/19/18 12:46:38 PM
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free speech
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Caution999
04/19/18 12:50:27 PM
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Sounds like a man made prison.
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04/19/18 12:50:50 PM
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:51:05 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
Like the entire weekend he does everything? That's gonna be a no for me, dawg.

Yup exactly, I told my buddy fuck that shit
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Caution999
04/19/18 12:52:11 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
Caution999 posted...
Sounds like a man made prison.


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LOL yeah that's precisely what I was thinking of.
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Laserion
04/19/18 12:52:51 PM
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If I work all five weekdays, and she does housework five weekdays, Saturday off for one, and then Sunday off for the other would be OK. But then when do they get the same day off?
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MacDaMurderer
04/19/18 12:53:12 PM
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If he cant compromise with the wife to give her time off at least one damn day then hes trash. Are the kids in school?
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Dyinglegacy
04/19/18 12:53:31 PM
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Is she sick, or just being lazy?

If sick, then sure, help her out.
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voldothegr8
04/19/18 12:54:11 PM
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It's not ok, but if they have 3 kids he won't be relaxing much anyway. Unless he's a lazy deadbeat.
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Deadpool_18
04/19/18 12:54:22 PM
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Haha. No.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:54:34 PM
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marriage must suck, feel bad for my buddies that got married I'm 31 no wife ever for me haha lol
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Coffeebeanz
04/19/18 12:55:43 PM
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Taking care of kids can be a total nightmare
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Antifar
04/19/18 12:55:47 PM
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Let's be clear: taking care of 3 kids is absolutely work. It isn't employment, it's not selling your labor for a wage, but housework is work.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:56:13 PM
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MacDaMurderer posted...
If he cant compromise with the wife to give her time off at least one damn day then hes trash. Are the kids in school?

Yes but she expects him to watch the kids so she can hang with her mom/friends on weekends and do girl stuff
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EnragedSlith
04/19/18 12:57:00 PM
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Demand? No. But the husband leaving her in that position is a cock.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:57:17 PM
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Antifar posted...
Let's be clear: taking care of 3 kids is absolutely work. It isn't employment, it's not selling your labor for a wage, but housework is work.

So the dude never gets a day off and that's cool? Wife says I do your laundry and gave you kids to him.
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Coffeebeanz
04/19/18 12:57:59 PM
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Antifar posted...
Let's be clear: taking care of 3 kids is absolutely work. It isn't employment, it's not selling your labor for a wage, but housework is work.


I was about to say, staying at home and taking care of kids is harder than most full time jobs
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voldothegr8
04/19/18 12:58:12 PM
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SteveNebraska posted...
MacDaMurderer posted...
If he cant compromise with the wife to give her time off at least one damn day then hes trash. Are the kids in school?

Yes but she expects him to watch the kids so she can hang with her mom/friends on weekends and do girl stuff

All 3 are in school? I'd tell her to fuck right off and go get a job.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:58:58 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
Demand? No. But the husband leaving her in that position is a cock.

How is he a cock? she is taking care of finacially only has to watch the kids and do housework yet he never gets a day off?
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 12:59:17 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
MacDaMurderer posted...
If he cant compromise with the wife to give her time off at least one damn day then hes trash. Are the kids in school?

Yes but she expects him to watch the kids so she can hang with her mom/friends on weekends and do girl stuff

All 3 are in school? I'd tell her to fuck right off and go get a job.

Yup all 3 in school
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Caution999
04/19/18 12:59:30 PM
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You're your own boss when you're at home, though. Oh you didn't have time to cook dinner? YOU'RE FIRED.
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Aki_Narukami
04/19/18 12:59:55 PM
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SteveNebraska posted...
only

there's your problem

you came into this with your mind already made
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KStateKing17
04/19/18 1:00:43 PM
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Depending on the age of the kids, they could just split the responsibilities on the weekends. If the kids are at least 5 or 6, they can learn to do some house work too.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:01:15 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
I wanna hear more about the wife's mom. Is she living there at reduced/no rent? If so, let her take care of the kids on either Saturday or Sunday.

she technically disabled, pays some rent I think because they own the house but doesn't really do shit
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Antifar
04/19/18 1:01:52 PM
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SteveNebraska posted...
So the dude never gets a day off and that's cool?

How many days off does the wife get from taking care of three children?
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:02:19 PM
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Aki_Narukami posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
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there's your problem

you came into this with your mind already made

what?
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HypnoCoosh
04/19/18 1:02:43 PM
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It's a partnership.

If they can't compromise and figure out a way to make that partnership work they likely both won't be happy.
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Aki_Narukami
04/19/18 1:02:45 PM
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SteveNebraska posted...
Aki_Narukami posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
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there's your problem

you came into this with your mind already made

what?

you're not asking for our opinion on the matter

you're looking for validation
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:02:46 PM
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Antifar posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
So the dude never gets a day off and that's cool?

How many days off does the wife get from taking care of three children?

every weekend
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voldothegr8
04/19/18 1:02:58 PM
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Antifar posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
So the dude never gets a day off and that's cool?

How many days off does the wife get from taking care of three children?

Every weekday during school hours from the sounds of it.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:03:29 PM
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Aki_Narukami posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
Aki_Narukami posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
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there's your problem

you came into this with your mind already made

what?

you're not asking for our opinion on the matter

you're looking for validation

what? im not married bro
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Aki_Narukami
04/19/18 1:03:53 PM
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what does that have to do with my post.
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awesome999
04/19/18 1:04:37 PM
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I'm all for helping out but I'm not doing all the work
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Caution999
04/19/18 1:05:04 PM
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Antifar posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
So the dude never gets a day off and that's cool?

How many days off does the wife get from taking care of three children?


Spoken like someone who has never worked a job ;)
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Dragon239
04/19/18 1:05:47 PM
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2 women are at home every day, not working, watching 3 kids who also all go to school?

They can do "girl stuff" basically every other day, easily. Housework is "still work", but it's largely easy and a lot of it can go extended periods of being more or less ignored to no real noticeable effect - like vacuuming a room only once a week or easily even more.

The hard part is taking care of kids, but if they're away at school/on-the-bus for like 9 hours of the day...
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HypnoCoosh
04/19/18 1:08:26 PM
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My first wife was very much whiny about having to be home with one baby.

She stayed home four years before going back to work and she bitched A LOT about not having "free time". Then once she had a job she bitched about not having "free time".

Some people just aren't happy no matter what.

My current wife however is a go-getter. We make an awesome team and she makes good money.

Moral of story is don't marry an entitled lazy narcissistic female with borderline personality disorder.
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:09:00 PM
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Dragon239 posted...
2 women are at home every day, not working, watching 3 kids who also all go to school?

They can do "girl stuff" basically every other day, easily. Housework is "still work", but it's largely easy and a lot of it can go extended periods of being more or less ignored to no real noticeable effect - like vacuuming a room only once a week or easily even more.

The hard part is taking care of kids, but if they're away at school/on-the-bus for like 9 hours of the day...

great answer bro I need to tell him this
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:09:45 PM
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HypnoCoosh posted...
My first wife was very much whiny about having to be home with one baby.

She stayed home four years before going back to work and she bitched A LOT about not having "free time". Then once she had a job she bitched about not having "free time".

Some people just aren't happy no matter what.

My current wife however is a go-getter. We make an awesome team and she makes good money.

Moral of story is don't marry an entitled lazy narcissistic female with borderline personality disorder.

good point
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HypnoCoosh
04/19/18 1:12:40 PM
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Being a stay at home dad\husband would be the shit.

Imagine how awesome that would be.

It's like my dream.
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Still__Rippin
04/19/18 1:12:40 PM
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Taking care of a house is a lot easier than people make it out to be, especially if you never let it go to shit. If you regularly clean/scrub/wash you can clean a whole house in an hour/2hours a day. The kids are away at school 9 hours a day so what the hell is she complaining about? Yeah, this marriage is gonna end is a long miserable tire Fire fashion if they are already having these problems. Tell your friend to leave her ass and take the kids with him so he doesnt have to pay child support and then let that woman see how she fares for herself. But really, if the kids are old enough to be in school, why does someone have to be there all weekend taking care of them?
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:13:24 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
SteveNebraska posted...
JustMyOpinion posted...
I wanna hear more about the wife's mom. Is she living there at reduced/no rent? If so, let her take care of the kids on either Saturday or Sunday.

she technically disabled, pays some rent I think because they own the house but doesn't really do shit


Is she able bodied enough to handle the kids by herself for one day a week?

sure seems like it she doesn't appear disabled to me just fat and lazy to be honest
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SteveNebraska
04/19/18 1:14:23 PM
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Still__Rippin posted...
Taking care of a house is a lot easier than people make it out to be, especially if you never let it go to shit. If you regularly clean/scrub/wash you can clean a whole house in an hour/2hours a day. The kids are away at school 9 hours a day so what the hell is she complaining about? Yeah, this marriage is gonna end is a long miserable tire Fire fashion if they are already having these problems. Tell your friend to leave her ass and take the kids with him so he doesnt have to pay child support and then let that woman see how she fares for herself. But really, if the kids are old enough to be in school, why does someone have to be there all weekend taking care of them?

This is actually pretty much what I think
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Aki_Narukami
04/19/18 1:15:22 PM
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oh they all go to school

nvm then

that's ridiculous
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