Current Events > Maybe I'm one of those non-binary (not male or female) people.

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halomonkey1_3_5 posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

I want the girl body parts, I think at least

well then I think you know what you really want, you're just hesitant because unknown shit is scary

:/ yeah you're probably right actually thanks

gunplagirl posted...

I know cis girls taller than that. That doesn't make them less of a woman or less feminine.

aaaa... idk. it just doesn't seem worth it if ill still look like a boy.
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I wonder if gunplagirl thinks that there are 42 genders or whatever number sjw's added since then
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gunplagirl posted...

Expand upon this fragmentary thought, I can't read your thoughts

You can make fun of people for being short but I can't say anything about trans people (literally anything) without you being condescending and being an ass about it. If you didn't like yugioh I would have ignored you like 27 years ago lol
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_Rinku_ posted...

gunplagirl posted...

I know cis girls taller than that. That doesn't make them less of a woman or less feminine. Scares off manlets but there's not much that doesn't scare manlets.

Hey

I'm a manlet, and I like tall girls.

There's a difference between being of short stature and being a person of insignificant demeanor.

You may be short but I've never seen you going out of your way to be an ass, is what I'm saying.
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Expand upon this fragmentary thought, I can't read your thoughts

You can make fun of people for being short but I can't say anything about trans people (literally anything) without you being condescending and being an ass about it. If you didn't like yugioh I would have ignored you like 27 years ago lol

i like king games too
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frozenshock posted...

Stop trying to fit yourself in a category.

You're you and that's all that matters. You don't need a name for it.

^^^^
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MoistenedYouth posted...

i like king games too

:D

I like u
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Expand upon this fragmentary thought, I can't read your thoughts

You can make fun of people for being short but I can't say anything about trans people (literally anything) without you being condescending and being an ass about it. If you didn't like yugioh I would have ignored you like 27 years ago lol

There's a difference between being a short guy and a manlet

A short man is just a man who is lacking in height with respect to the average height of adults

A manlet is like... Think of some douche bro who hits one chicks then says "oh yeah I wasn't into you anyways you're too tall" regardless of how she responded

Incidentally, men are accepted in society and hold tremendous social and financial power. Trans people do not. So targeting a fringe group that is frequently targeted by cruel laws and the like is not comparable in impact or harm when compared to targeting a group that is in the most powerful position within society, both figuratively and literally.
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gunplagirl posted...

_Rinku_ posted...

gunplagirl posted...

I know cis girls taller than that. That doesn't make them less of a woman or less feminine. Scares off manlets but there's not much that doesn't scare manlets.

Hey

I'm a manlet, and I like tall girls.

There's a difference between being of short stature and being a person of insignificant demeanor.

You may be short but I've never seen you going out of your way to be an ass, is what I'm saying.

I know. I just like how flustered some people get over being called one.

gunplagirl posted...

There's a difference between being a short guy and a manlet

A short man is just a man who is lacking in height with respect to the average height of adults

A manlet is like... Think of some douche bro who hits one chicks then says "oh yeah I wasn't into you anyways you're too tall" regardless of how she responded

Lol
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chill02 posted...

frozenshock posted...

Stop trying to fit yourself in a category.

You're you and that's all that matters. You don't need a name for it.

^^^^

meh...
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gunplagirl posted...

Incidentally, men are accepted in society and hold tremendous social and financial power. Trans people do not.

So ftm people aren't men?

gunplagirl posted...

There's a difference between being a short guy and a manlet

A short man is just a man who is lacking in height with respect to the average height of adults

A manlet is like... Think of some douche bro who hits one chicks then says "oh yeah I wasn't into you anyways you're too tall" regardless of how she responded

Huh I didn't know that.

And you act as if every man is like that. I'm a man and I am a piece of shit so wtf
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Kid_Buu posted...

halomonkey1_3_5 posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

I want the girl body parts, I think at least

well then I think you know what you really want, you're just hesitant because unknown shit is scary

:/ yeah you're probably right actually thanks

gunplagirl posted...

I know cis girls taller than that. That doesn't make them less of a woman or less feminine.

aaaa... idk. it just doesn't seem worth it if ill still look like a boy.

If you're a girl, you look like a girl. Don't let dysphoria or society's impossible standards hold you back. For that matter, most cis women will never come close to the magazine or movie standards which they are compared to. In the end you have to understand that society has impossible standards and uses literally photoshopped images as the basis for their standards of beauty. Nobody can ever meet those standards and that's okay that nobody can meet the impossible. What needs to change is society but that's getting into a different subject.
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

I'm a man

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DocileOrangeCup posted...

MoistenedYouth posted...

i like king games too

:D

I like u

thanks, i like using steelswarm and zoodiac deck
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Kid_Buu posted...

DocileOrangeCup posted...

I'm a man

you really wanna go there

MoistenedYouth posted...

thanks, i like using steelswarm and zoodiac deck

i no longer like u
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gunplagirl posted...

If you're a girl, you look like a girl. Don't let dysphoria or society's impossible standards hold you back. For that matter, most cis women will never come close to the magazine or movie standards which they are compared to. In the end you have to understand that society has impossible standards and uses literally photoshopped images as the basis for their standards of beauty. Nobody can ever meet those standards and that's okay that nobody can meet the impossible. What needs to change is society but that's getting into a different subject.

I don't look like a girl though

maybe I will with hormones and stuff
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Incidentally, men are accepted in society and hold tremendous social and financial power. Trans people do not.

So ftm people aren't men?

gunplagirl posted...

There's a difference between being a short guy and a manlet

A short man is just a man who is lacking in height with respect to the average height of adults

A manlet is like... Think of some douche bro who hits one chicks then says "oh yeah I wasn't into you anyways you're too tall" regardless of how she responded

Huh I didn't know that.

And you act as if every man is like that. I'm a man and I am a piece of shit so wtf

Trans men are men and yes, they're socially much higher than most cis women because male privilege is a hell of a thing.

I made the designations clear and qualified the statements. You get no points for admitting to what you called yourself.
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

you really wanna go there

go where
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Kid_Buu posted...

gunplagirl posted...

If you're a girl, you look like a girl. Don't let dysphoria or society's impossible standards hold you back. For that matter, most cis women will never come close to the magazine or movie standards which they are compared to. In the end you have to understand that society has impossible standards and uses literally photoshopped images as the basis for their standards of beauty. Nobody can ever meet those standards and that's okay that nobody can meet the impossible. What needs to change is society but that's getting into a different subject.

I don't look like a girl though

maybe I will with hormones and stuff

Precisely. You won't know if you don't go and god dammit that song is in my head.
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gunplagirl posted...

I made the designations clear and qualified the statements. You get no points for admitting to what you called yourself

What

gunplagirl posted...

Trans men are men and yes, they're socially much higher than most cis women because male privilege is a hell of a thing.

So why don't regular women become guys if it's so great I don't get it
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Kid_Buu posted...

DocileOrangeCup posted...

you really wanna go there

go where

why are you this way
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

i no longer like u

don't tell me u don't like chain burn :(
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MoistenedYouth posted...

DocileOrangeCup posted...

i no longer like u

don't tell me u don't like chain burn :(

Anything after 2007 I don't like
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im not really dysphoric though

id just prefer being female
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

gunplagirl posted...

I made the designations clear and qualified the statements. You get no points for admitting to what you called yourself

What

gunplagirl posted...

Trans men are men and yes, they're socially much higher than most cis women because male privilege is a hell of a thing.

So why don't regular women become guys if it's so great I don't get it

Did you literally just ask "why don't cis women become trans men"

Like

Why am I wasting my time on this if you think that's actually a reasonable thing to ask
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Kid_Buu posted...

im not really dysphoric though

id just prefer being female

Oh sweety :( that's dysphoria
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gunplagirl posted...

Did you literally just ask "why don't cis women become trans men"

Like

Why am I wasting my time on this if you think that's actually a reasonable thing to ask

Did you just call me a piece of shit Wtf
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gunplagirl posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

im not really dysphoric though

id just prefer being female

Oh sweety :( that's dysphoria

I thought you have to be sad
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DocileOrangeCup posted...

MoistenedYouth posted...

DocileOrangeCup posted...

i no longer like u

don't tell me u don't like chain burn :(

Anything after 2007 I don't like

man, people used to hate synchro monsters and i was one of them too but after playing the deck i don't think it was that bad. in fact i was having fun with the librarian synchro spam combo that let u draw all the card in ur deck.
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Kid_Buu posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

im not really dysphoric though

id just prefer being female

Oh sweety :( that's dysphoria

I thought you have to be sad

You can have depression and not feel sad

It's one aspect of it but not the end all be all defining trait or feature
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gunplagirl posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

gunplagirl posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

im not really dysphoric though

id just prefer being female

Oh sweety :( that's dysphoria

I thought you have to be sad

You can have depression and not feel sad

It's one aspect of it but not the end all be all defining trait or feature

what

also then what is dysphoria

I thought it meant hating your body
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It's the feeling of incongruity between your body and what it feels like your body should be like

This may present itself in varying forms of discomfort, such as desiring to have body parts of the gender opposite of the one you were assigned at birth
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ok

im really scared of being a transtrender
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you'll never be TruTrans you imposter

dont worry, you'll be fine
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You can't be a transtrender, that's TERF and other edgy nonsense made up to try and completely deny the validity of trans people. There is also no such thing as autogynephelia.
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Kid_Buu posted...

ok

im really scared of being a transtrender

then don't be a trans

do u really want to go through a surgery just to get approve by people?
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gunplagirl posted...

You can't be a transtrender, that's TERF and other edgy nonsense made up to try and completely deny the validity of trans people. There is also no such thing as autogynephelia.

there are people on Tumblr that pretend to be trans for attention

i would know I've been on that hellsite for years

hmm. Idk. that's another thing I tell myself

im not trans im just a sissy
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Kid_Buu posted...

gunplagirl posted...

You can't be a transtrender, that's TERF and other edgy nonsense made up to try and completely deny the validity of trans people. There is also no such thing as autogynephelia.

there are people on Tumblr that pretend to be trans for attention

i would know I've been on that hellsite for years

hmm. Idk. that's another thing I tell myself

im not trans im just a sissy

The people who pretend like that are the same type as those racists who make fake black or antifa twitter accounts to post stuff then screen cap it on 4chan. Don't take it seriously.

And if you were just a sissy you'd not have this level of thought and emotional depth to your thoughts. You're definitely not cis.
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gunplagirl posted...

The people who pretend like that are the same type as those racists who make fake black or antifa twitter accounts to post stuff then screen cap it on 4chan. Don't take it seriously.

no I mean like they pretend to be trans so they can feel special and makeup bullshit like stargender

gunplagirl posted...

And if you were just a sissy you'd not have this level of thought and emotional depth to your thoughts. You're definitely not cis.

yeah true. but this is just one of those things logic doesn't help

thanks though
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They're faking on purpose. You don't accidentally end up doing that stuff. Don't take any of that crap to heart or think "is a what I'm doing" because it's not. At all. Not even close.

And yes logic helps a lot but feelings can't really be wrong when it comes to figuring out what you are.
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You might be trans, but you also might not be trans. For example, there are plenty of heterosexual people who've had real concerns about whether they might be homosexual or not. Some of them were heterosexual, some turned out to be homosexual. And I imagine others discovered they were actually bisexual.

Critically, you shouldn't make quick judgments about who you might or might not be simply because you find the concern popping into your head more often. Rather, that's the time to slowly and carefully evaluate yourself, along with seeking professional help if you feel it's necessary.

And if it helps, understand that you won't actually be different after this process. You'll only be more aware of who you already were.

gunplagirl posted...

They're faking on purpose. You don't accidentally end up doing that stuff. Don't take any of that crap to heart or think "is a what I'm doing" because it's not. At all. Not even close.

>/////< I didn't want to admit this but

I used to call myself "catgender"

gunplagirl posted...

And yes logic helps a lot but feelings can't really be wrong when it comes to figuring out what you are.

I think i worded something wrong

I was saying that you telling me I'm not a sissy because i care so much about it makes sense.

but things like this or my habit of checking for things over and over can't be fixed by logic
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Dragonblade01 posted...

You might be trans, but you also might not be trans. For example, there are plenty of heterosexual people who've had real concerns about whether they might be homosexual or not. Some of them were heterosexual, some turned out to be homosexual. And I imagine others discovered they were actually bisexual.

Critically, you shouldn't make quick judgments about who you might or might not be simply because you find the concern popping into your head more often. Rather, that's the time to slowly and carefully evaluate yourself, along with seeking professional help if you feel it's necessary.

yeah

i have a therapist

thanks
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Dragonblade01 posted...

You might be trans, but you also might not be trans. For example, there are plenty of heterosexual people who've had real concerns about whether they might be homosexual or not. Some of them were heterosexual, some turned out to be homosexual. And I imagine others discovered they were actually bisexual.

Critically, you shouldn't make quick judgments about who you might or might not be simply because you find the concern popping into your head more often. Rather, that's the time to slowly and carefully evaluate yourself, along with seeking professional help if you feel it's necessary.

And if it helps, understand that you won't actually be different after this process. You'll only be more aware of who you already were.

dont worry, they'll have plenty of time to think about it while they're getting the runaround from doctors, insurance and therapists
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halomonkey1_3_5 posted...

Dragonblade01 posted...

You might be trans, but you also might not be trans. For example, there are plenty of heterosexual people who've had real concerns about whether they might be homosexual or not. Some of them were heterosexual, some turned out to be homosexual. And I imagine others discovered they were actually bisexual.

Critically, you shouldn't make quick judgments about who you might or might not be simply because you find the concern popping into your head more often. Rather, that's the time to slowly and carefully evaluate yourself, along with seeking professional help if you feel it's necessary.

And if it helps, understand that you won't actually be different after this process. You'll only be more aware of who you already were.

dont worry, they'll have plenty of time to think about it while they're getting the runaround from doctors, insurance and therapists

what do you mean runaround
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Ah. Well, over thinking and taking panic thougts seriously and letting them overwhelm you doesn't help.

Also, it's a running joke in the trans girl community with how many like to do catgirl stuff that most are catgirls. Like you can google trans catgirls and find a reddit post about it.
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Kid_Buu posted...

what do you mean runaround

sometimes no one wants to deal with transgender problems and they prefer to kick the issue down the line to a different doctor or therapist

this can continue for a while until you finally get into a decent place

but every time they do kick you down the line, you'll have to wait for a different appointment which can range from a few days to maybe a month or two down the line depending on the doctor/therapist

in the US you can partially avoid this with informed consent laws but I'm not sure about the rest of the world
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halomonkey1_3_5 posted...

Kid_Buu posted...

what do you mean runaround

sometimes no one wants to deal with transgender problems and they prefer to kick the issue down the line to a different doctor or therapist

this can continue for a while until you finally get into a decent place

but every time they do kick you down the line, you'll have to wait for a different appointment which can range from a few days to maybe a month or two down the line depending on the doctor/therapist

in the US you can partially avoid this with informed consent laws but I'm not sure about the rest of the world

oh.
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gunplagirl posted...

Ah. Well, over thinking and taking panic thougts seriously and letting them overwhelm you doesn't help.

Hard not to
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