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LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:46:31 PM #1:	It went pretty badly and the guy texted me now not even asking on like another date He just said give me another chance. Which idk seems weirder to me He also said wya like 3 times on Snapchat today Its weird seeing him this way because my friend thought he was so cool and she kinda wanted to have sex with him But he was into me And idk Im not really dating but I went on the date Obviously I didnt have sex with him because when do I ever Now hes being weird. Not the cool guy she thought he was... --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110031] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>It went pretty badly and the guy texted me now not even asking on like another date He just said give me another chance. Which idk seems weirder to me He also said wya like 3 times on Snapchat today Its weird seeing him this way because my friend thought he was so cool and she kinda wanted to have sex with him But he was into me And idk Im not really dating but I went on the date Obviously I didnt have sex with him because when do I ever Now hes being weird. Not the cool guy she thought he was...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSJGrimReaper 04/05/18 2:47:28 PM #2:	wya --- Big Apple, 3 A.M. http://i.imgur.com/CqukfNH.jpg https://i.imgur.com/Z0vo3WV.jpg <cite>SSJGrimReaper posted [p:899110077] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>wya</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:47:47 PM #3:	It means where are you --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110093] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>It means where are you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThyCorndog 04/05/18 2:48:09 PM #4:	wya --- Hey what's going on in this thread http://i.imgur.com/6fpKRW8.gif http://i.imgur.com/RNZi0gk.gif <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:899110112] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>wya</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 04/05/18 2:48:22 PM #5:	Cool guys dont date just fyi --- Chicago, greatest city in the world! <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:899110127] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Cool guys dont date just fyi</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
V-E-G-Y- 04/05/18 2:48:48 PM #6:	Give him another chance --- http://i.imgur.com/L6MQGtI.gif http://i.imgur.com/HAj1Ocp.gif http://i.imgur.com/Op6gMTg.gif http://i.imgur.com/hNkY6mv.gif <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted [p:899110142] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:49:05 PM #7:	Flockaveli posted... Cool guys dont date just fyi I dont know what this mean --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110154] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Flockaveli posted...</cite> <quote>Cool guys dont date just fyi</quote> I dont know what this mean</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:49:18 PM #8:	V-E-G-Y- posted... Give him another chance No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110173] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster 04/05/18 2:50:10 PM #9:	This means youre not physically attracted to him, because if you were, he wouldnt be weird, he would be unique or different. --- I/\ \|_\| <cite>Pepys Monster posted [p:899110222] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>This means youre not physically attracted to him, because if you were, he wouldnt be weird, he would be unique or different.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heineken14 04/05/18 2:51:09 PM #10:	Peg him on the first date. --- Rage is a hell of an anesthetic. <cite>Heineken14 posted [p:899110265] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Peg him on the first date.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:52:03 PM #11:	Pepys Monster posted... This means youre not physically attracted to him, because if you were, he wouldnt be weird, he would be unique or different. Hes attractive but I wouldnt date him. His personality doesnt work for me Besides he is so touchy the relationship has no future Especially since Im not going to have sex in the first month or so And he would probably want it first week. It just cant work. Im not compromising on my body and stuff~ --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110296] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote>This means youre not physically attracted to him, because if you were, he wouldnt be weird, he would be unique or different.</quote> Hes attractive but I wouldnt date him. His personality doesnt work for me Besides he is so touchy the relationship has no future Especially since Im not going to have sex in the first month or so And he would probably want it first week. It just cant work. Im not compromising on my body and stuff~</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:52:19 PM #12:	Heineken14 posted... Peg him on the first date. Whats that mean? Its also past the first date and there wont be another --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110308] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Heineken14 posted...</cite> <quote>Peg him on the first date.</quote> Whats that mean? Its also past the first date and there wont be another</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordZangetsu_LZ 04/05/18 2:52:43 PM #13:	LittleRoyal posted... V-E-G-Y- posted... Give him another chance No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh so u stole him from her? --- "youtube sure had it comin" - _BlueMonk <cite>LordZangetsu_LZ posted [p:899110330] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh</quote> so u stole him from her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:53:22 PM #14:	LordZangetsu_LZ posted... LittleRoyal posted... V-E-G-Y- posted... Give him another chance No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh so u stole him from her? No he wasnt interested in he he was interested in me And she was like hes hot so you should date him so I had a date. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110362] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LordZangetsu_LZ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh</quote> so u stole him from her?</quote> No he wasnt interested in he he was interested in me And she was like hes hot so you should date him so I had a date.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Orthopox12 04/05/18 2:53:27 PM #15:	LittleRoyal posted... V-E-G-Y- posted... Give him another chance No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh This makes little sense to me --- Official contributor to the Legendary "Cantina" Topic {Current clone: Orthopox 28} <cite>Orthopox12 posted [p:899110368] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh</quote> This makes little sense to me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:53:51 PM #16:	Orthopox12 posted... LittleRoyal posted... V-E-G-Y- posted... Give him another chance No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh This makes little sense to me I explained it more in post 14 --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110396] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Orthopox12 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh</quote> This makes little sense to me</quote> I explained it more in post 14</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordZangetsu_LZ 04/05/18 2:54:02 PM #17:	LittleRoyal posted... LordZangetsu_LZ posted... LittleRoyal posted... V-E-G-Y- posted... Give him another chance No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh so u stole him from her? No he wasnt interested in he he was interested in me And she was like hes hot so you should date him so I had a date. Oh ok lol --- "youtube sure had it comin" - _BlueMonk <cite>LordZangetsu_LZ posted [p:899110412] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LordZangetsu_LZ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Give him another chance</quote> No I only really dated him because my friend liked him tbh</quote> so u stole him from her?</quote> No he wasnt interested in he he was interested in me And she was like hes hot so you should date him so I had a date.</quote> Oh ok lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 04/05/18 2:55:13 PM #18:	Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:899110463] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Orthopox12 04/05/18 2:55:49 PM #19:	You guys should run a train on him --- Official contributor to the Legendary "Cantina" Topic {Current clone: Orthopox 28} <cite>Orthopox12 posted [p:899110508] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>You guys should run a train on him</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:56:12 PM #20:	Silver Bearings posted... Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110528] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:56:35 PM #21:	Orthopox12 posted... You guys should run a train on him Whats that supposed to mean? Im not a murderer --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110547] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Orthopox12 posted...</cite> <quote>You guys should run a train on him</quote> Whats that supposed to mean? Im not a murderer</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 04/05/18 2:57:36 PM #22:	LittleRoyal posted... Silver Bearings posted... Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes. --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:899110610] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me</quote> You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/18 2:57:36 PM #23:	Your intuition seems good. Dude is acting weird for only being on one date. Sounds super needy too which is the exact opposite of cool. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:899110611] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Your intuition seems good. Dude is acting weird for only being on one date. Sounds super needy too which is the exact opposite of cool.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
V-E-G-Y- 04/05/18 2:58:21 PM #24:	You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh --- http://i.imgur.com/L6MQGtI.gif http://i.imgur.com/HAj1Ocp.gif http://i.imgur.com/Op6gMTg.gif http://i.imgur.com/hNkY6mv.gif <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted [p:899110650] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/18 2:59:14 PM #25:	Silver Bearings posted... LittleRoyal posted... Silver Bearings posted... Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes. Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:899110709] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me</quote> You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes.</quote> Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 2:59:28 PM #26:	V-E-G-Y- posted... You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh Many bfs I had waited But eventually it always became a problem for them. But one week is actually not so hard to find. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110726] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh</quote> Many bfs I had waited But eventually it always became a problem for them. But one week is actually not so hard to find.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Orthopox12 04/05/18 2:59:49 PM #27:	Its prob not going to end good, just give it to him straight if he acts like a loser about it shun him and move on. --- Official contributor to the Legendary "Cantina" Topic {Current clone: Orthopox 28} <cite>Orthopox12 posted [p:899110741] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Its prob not going to end good, just give it to him straight if he acts like a loser about it shun him and move on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/18 3:00:35 PM #28:	V-E-G-Y- posted... You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh Im not religious and girls who try to fuck the first night turn me the hell off (some exceptions when Im drunk). I don't want it if it's that easy to get --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:899110780] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh</quote> Im not religious and girls who try to fuck the first night turn me the hell off (some exceptions when Im drunk). I don't want it if it's that easy to get</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
V-E-G-Y- 04/05/18 3:01:31 PM #29:	Dey must have been uggos --- http://i.imgur.com/L6MQGtI.gif http://i.imgur.com/HAj1Ocp.gif http://i.imgur.com/Op6gMTg.gif http://i.imgur.com/hNkY6mv.gif <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted [p:899110833] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>Dey must have been uggos</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Orthopox12 04/05/18 3:01:52 PM #30:	Lost_All_Senses posted... V-E-G-Y- posted... You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh Im not religious and girls who try to fuck the first night turn me the hell off (some exceptions when Im drunk). I don't want it if it's that easy to get I feel this comes with age --- Official contributor to the Legendary "Cantina" Topic {Current clone: Orthopox 28} <cite>Orthopox12 posted [p:899110857] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>You need to go after hella religious men to find ones who don't want to fuck on da 1st week tbh</quote> Im not religious and girls who try to fuck the first night turn me the hell off (some exceptions when Im drunk). I don't want it if it's that easy to get</quote> I feel this comes with age</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 3:03:00 PM #31:	@Lost_All_Senses posted... Silver Bearings posted... LittleRoyal posted... Silver Bearings posted... Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes. Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened. Okay now it sounds like youve gone beyond your expertise. People dont ghosts people to be mean or cowards or whatever It is a learned behavior. From guys ever since high school non stop texting Or guys in college sending inappropriate things And no matter how many times you say no thank you or that you arent interested ( these arent the people who just accept it) They either get mad, or get weird and beg and stuff. Ir the whole I thought you said I was nice I deserve a chance thing Or wow you act so nice but youre just a spoiled bitch. Because I said sorry Im not interested but thanks for your feelings~ So its not like its juet being a coward its because some guys actually get really weird or aggressive when you tell them things they dont want to hear Its why when people ask me out out of the blue in public sometimes Ill say something like lets me check my schedule Because Idk how theyd react to me saying no in person if theyre so spontaneous (not talking about friends who I trust obviously) --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899110915] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>@Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me</quote> You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes.</quote> Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened.</quote> Okay now it sounds like youve gone beyond your expertise. People dont ghosts people to be mean or cowards or whatever It is a learned behavior. From guys ever since high school non stop texting Or guys in college sending inappropriate things And no matter how many times you say no thank you or that you arent interested ( these arent the people who just accept it) They either get mad, or get weird and beg and stuff. Ir the whole I thought you said I was nice I deserve a chance thing Or wow you act so nice but youre just a spoiled bitch. Because I said sorry Im not interested but thanks for your feelings~ So its not like its juet being a coward its because some guys actually get really weird or aggressive when you tell them things they dont want to hear Its why when people ask me out out of the blue in public sometimes Ill say something like lets me check my schedule Because Idk how theyd react to me saying no in person if theyre so spontaneous (not talking about friends who I trust obviously)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/18 3:04:00 PM #32:	V-E-G-Y- posted... Dey must have been uggos Some were. Some weren't. That didn't really effect it. I was always disappointed she didn't care who I was before she wanted the dick. Call me soft or whatever I don't care. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:899110960] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>Dey must have been uggos</quote> Some were. Some weren't. That didn't really effect it. I was always disappointed she didn't care who I was before she wanted the dick. Call me soft or whatever I don't care.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mipond 04/05/18 3:04:10 PM #33:	I don't know... doesn't sound like a good time. --- "I can assure you guys that she is 100% real and genuine." Go_Totodile. Don't go jumping off bridges Bobby. <cite>mipond posted [p:899110973] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>I don't know... doesn't sound like a good time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 3:04:54 PM #34:	mipond posted... I don't know... doesn't sound like a good time. Well yeah, I have a bad dating record sigh idk I guess I just suck at it~ --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899111014] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>mipond posted...</cite> <quote>I don't know... doesn't sound like a good time.</quote> Well yeah, I have a bad dating record sigh idk I guess I just suck at it~</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Orthopox12 04/05/18 3:05:51 PM #35:	LittleRoyal posted... @Lost_All_Senses posted... Silver Bearings posted... LittleRoyal posted... Silver Bearings posted... Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes. Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened. Okay now it sounds like youve gone beyond your expertise. People dont ghosts people to be mean or cowards or whatever It is a learned behavior. From guys ever since high school non stop texting Or guys in college sending inappropriate things And no matter how many times you say no thank you or that you arent interested ( these arent the people who just accept it) They either get mad, or get weird and beg and stuff. Ir the whole I thought you said I was nice I deserve a chance thing Or wow you act so nice but youre just a spoiled bitch. Because I said sorry Im not interested but thanks for your feelings~ So its not like its juet being a coward its because some guys actually get really weird or aggressive when you tell them things they dont want to hear Its why when people ask me out out of the blue in public sometimes Ill say something like lets me check my schedule Because Idk how theyd react to me saying no in person if theyre so spontaneous (not talking about friends who I trust obviously) I dont see how being vague helps your situation. But if your an advocate for ghosting then just ghost him. --- Official contributor to the Legendary "Cantina" Topic {Current clone: Orthopox 28} <cite>Orthopox12 posted [p:899111066] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>@Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me</quote> You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes.</quote> Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened.</quote> Okay now it sounds like youve gone beyond your expertise. People dont ghosts people to be mean or cowards or whatever It is a learned behavior. From guys ever since high school non stop texting Or guys in college sending inappropriate things And no matter how many times you say no thank you or that you arent interested ( these arent the people who just accept it) They either get mad, or get weird and beg and stuff. Ir the whole I thought you said I was nice I deserve a chance thing Or wow you act so nice but youre just a spoiled bitch. Because I said sorry Im not interested but thanks for your feelings~ So its not like its juet being a coward its because some guys actually get really weird or aggressive when you tell them things they dont want to hear Its why when people ask me out out of the blue in public sometimes Ill say something like lets me check my schedule Because Idk how theyd react to me saying no in person if theyre so spontaneous (not talking about friends who I trust obviously)</quote> I dont see how being vague helps your situation. But if your an advocate for ghosting then just ghost him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/18 3:06:36 PM #36:	LittleRoyal posted... @Lost_All_Senses posted... Silver Bearings posted... LittleRoyal posted... Silver Bearings posted... Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks. Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes. Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened. Okay now it sounds like youve gone beyond your expertise. People dont ghosts people to be mean or cowards or whatever It is a learned behavior. From guys ever since high school non stop texting Or guys in college sending inappropriate things And no matter how many times you say no thank you or that you arent interested ( these arent the people who just accept it) They either get mad, or get weird and beg and stuff. Ir the whole I thought you said I was nice I deserve a chance thing Or wow you act so nice but youre just a spoiled bitch. Because I said sorry Im not interested but thanks for your feelings~ So its not like its juet being a coward its because some guys actually get really weird or aggressive when you tell them things they dont want to hear Its why when people ask me out out of the blue in public sometimes Ill say something like lets me check my schedule Because Idk how theyd react to me saying no in person if theyre so spontaneous (not talking about friends who I trust obviously) I don't understand how one extra text is gonna make the major difference in how a dude reacts to being rejected. Like dude before me said. Tell him and then don't respond. But of course I don't have personal experience with rejecting guys but that doesn't mean I can't have insight. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:899111112] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>@Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like you'll be fine without him. He sounds needy as **. Move along and ignore him no matter what your friend thinks.</quote> Just ignore you think? Alright~ idk how to go about handling guys at this point since most methods have historically ended poorly for me</quote> You could let him know that you aren't interested in dating him further, but I recommend ignoring any follow-up attempt that he makes.</quote> Also this. Don't just ghost him. That's the cowards move. If you actually have empathy for people you don't just leave them in the dark and make them wonder what happened.</quote> Okay now it sounds like youve gone beyond your expertise. People dont ghosts people to be mean or cowards or whatever It is a learned behavior. From guys ever since high school non stop texting Or guys in college sending inappropriate things And no matter how many times you say no thank you or that you arent interested ( these arent the people who just accept it) They either get mad, or get weird and beg and stuff. Ir the whole I thought you said I was nice I deserve a chance thing Or wow you act so nice but youre just a spoiled bitch. Because I said sorry Im not interested but thanks for your feelings~ So its not like its juet being a coward its because some guys actually get really weird or aggressive when you tell them things they dont want to hear Its why when people ask me out out of the blue in public sometimes Ill say something like lets me check my schedule Because Idk how theyd react to me saying no in person if theyre so spontaneous (not talking about friends who I trust obviously)</quote> I don't understand how one extra text is gonna make the major difference in how a dude reacts to being rejected. Like dude before me said. Tell him and then don't respond. But of course I don't have personal experience with rejecting guys but that doesn't mean I can't have insight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 3:08:51 PM #37:	You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899111212] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster 04/05/18 3:11:22 PM #38:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Your intuition seems good. Dude is acting weird for only being on one date. Sounds super needy too which is the exact opposite of cool. How is it the opposite of cool? My girl is needy and its very sweet. --- I/\ \|_\| <cite>Pepys Monster posted [p:899111345] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote>Your intuition seems good. Dude is acting weird for only being on one date. Sounds super needy too which is the exact opposite of cool.</quote> How is it the opposite of cool? My girl is needy and its very sweet.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Orthopox12 04/05/18 3:11:35 PM #39:	LittleRoyal posted... You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier The "cowardly" part would be not confronting them with how you really feel then ghosting them. --- Official contributor to the Legendary "Cantina" Topic {Current clone: Orthopox 28} <cite>Orthopox12 posted [p:899111364] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier</quote> The "cowardly" part would be not confronting them with how you really feel then ghosting them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 04/05/18 3:12:32 PM #40:	It seems that there are a lot of irrational guys out there that seemed entitled to get whatever they want from a woman. This ruins it for the rest of us, because now we all get ghosted. I'm an adult and would just like to know what is going on with people who I thought were part of my life, no matter how small. Sadly, I've gotten to a point where I take a blank screen to be a polite "No, thank you." and it makes things a lot easier for me mentally. --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:899111403] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>It seems that there are a lot of irrational guys out there that seemed entitled to get whatever they want from a woman. This ruins it for the rest of us, because now we all get ghosted. I'm an adult and would just like to know what is going on with people who I thought were part of my life, no matter how small. Sadly, I've gotten to a point where I take a blank screen to be a polite "No, thank you." and it makes things a lot easier for me mentally.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 04/05/18 3:24:04 PM #42:	Silver Bearings posted... It seems that there are a lot of irrational guys out there that seemed entitled to get whatever they want from a woman. This ruins it for the rest of us, because now we all get ghosted. I'm an adult and would just like to know what is going on with people who I thought were part of my life, no matter how small. Sadly, I've gotten to a point where I take a blank screen to be a polite "No, thank you." and it makes things a lot easier for me mentally. I am in university my mom says its different after when everyone is more grown up. I wont pretend Im polite when I do it But at least Im not publishing what people say or very angrily shutting them down! --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899112088] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>It seems that there are a lot of irrational guys out there that seemed entitled to get whatever they want from a woman. This ruins it for the rest of us, because now we all get ghosted. I'm an adult and would just like to know what is going on with people who I thought were part of my life, no matter how small. Sadly, I've gotten to a point where I take a blank screen to be a polite "No, thank you." and it makes things a lot easier for me mentally.</quote> I am in university my mom says its different after when everyone is more grown up. I wont pretend Im polite when I do it But at least Im not publishing what people say or very angrily shutting them down!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 04/05/18 3:26:53 PM #43:	Orthopox12 posted... LittleRoyal posted... You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier The "cowardly" part would be not confronting them with how you really feel then ghosting them. Exactly. "Insight into yourself" is a stupid comment too. That's just acting like learning through empathy and sympathy isn't a thing which is ignorant as hell. --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:899112240] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Orthopox12 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier</quote> The "cowardly" part would be not confronting them with how you really feel then ghosting them.</quote> Exactly. "Insight into yourself" is a stupid comment too. That's just acting like learning through empathy and sympathy isn't a thing which is ignorant as hell.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 04/05/18 3:28:13 PM #44:	LittleRoyal posted... Silver Bearings posted... It seems that there are a lot of irrational guys out there that seemed entitled to get whatever they want from a woman. This ruins it for the rest of us, because now we all get ghosted. I'm an adult and would just like to know what is going on with people who I thought were part of my life, no matter how small. Sadly, I've gotten to a point where I take a blank screen to be a polite "No, thank you." and it makes things a lot easier for me mentally. I am in university my mom says its different after when everyone is more grown up. I wont pretend Im polite when I do it But at least Im not publishing what people say or very angrily shutting them down! I guess I should be used to it since I seem to meet/try to date 21-22 year old women...but yes, things have changed in the dating world for sure. I just need to adapt to win, I guess. --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:899112305] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote>It seems that there are a lot of irrational guys out there that seemed entitled to get whatever they want from a woman. This ruins it for the rest of us, because now we all get ghosted. I'm an adult and would just like to know what is going on with people who I thought were part of my life, no matter how small. Sadly, I've gotten to a point where I take a blank screen to be a polite "No, thank you." and it makes things a lot easier for me mentally.</quote> I am in university my mom says its different after when everyone is more grown up. I wont pretend Im polite when I do it But at least Im not publishing what people say or very angrily shutting them down!</quote> I guess I should be used to it since I seem to meet/try to date 21-22 year old women...but yes, things have changed in the dating world for sure. I just need to adapt to win, I guess.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Weezy_Tha_Don 04/05/18 3:29:55 PM #45:	no sex for the first month? holy shit dude dodged a bullet --- http://i.imgur.com/hwZyGuA.jpg - courtesy of the homie United_World I speak my mind, cause biting my tongue hurts. <cite>Weezy_Tha_Don posted [p:899112396] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote>no sex for the first month? holy shit dude dodged a bullet</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 04/05/18 3:32:19 PM #46:	Weezy_Tha_Don posted... no sex for the first month? holy shit dude dodged a bullet Ehh Im cuter than him anyway Lost_All_Senses posted... Orthopox12 posted... LittleRoyal posted... You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier The "cowardly" part would be not confronting them with how you really feel then ghosting them. Exactly. "Insight into yourself" is a stupid comment too. That's just acting like learning through empathy and sympathy isn't a thing which is ignorant as hell. Didnt say it wasnt. Just saying that some of these things are crazier than you think --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:899112564] in I had a da... [t:76487845]...</cite> <quote><cite>Weezy_Tha_Don posted...</cite> <quote>no sex for the first month? holy shit dude dodged a bullet</quote> Ehh Im cuter than him anyway <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Orthopox12 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>You have insight into yourself But acting like ghosting is just being cowards or being mean is immature and shows maybe you dont really know how different a lot of guys turn out to be when they think theyve been cheated because of you not being into them. Lots of guys act like totally different than they did earlier</quote> The "cowardly" part would be not confronting them with how you really feel then ghosting them.</quote> Exactly. "Insight into yourself" is a stupid comment too. That's just acting like learning through empathy and sympathy isn't a thing which is ignorant as hell.</quote> Didnt say it wasnt. Just saying that some of these things are crazier than you think</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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