Current Events > Question for guys that have ever had a hot, skinny girlfriend:

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Ok, just curious, how did you do it? I spoke to tons of them in college and either got turned down, told "I would but I'm busy" or was told "Yeah we can go out!" then they gave me a number and just didn't text or call back or didn't show up when we were supposed to meet. Most were pretty bitchy and full of themselves too. Only ever dated one, and even slept with her, but she had a bad attitude.

So I guess what I'm wondering is how exactly did you do it? What do they want? Are you rich? Into drugs? Very patient and good at playing games? Just wondering
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Now it all makes sense why youre always making topics about how attractive girls are bitchy

Its all just damage control
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TheGoldenEel posted...

Now it all makes sense why youre always making topics about how attractive girls are bitchy

Its all just damage control

[sigh] No, was talking about my experiences. Wanna hear about the hot Asian girl I fucked?
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Sting posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

Now it all makes sense why youre always making topics about how attractive girls are bitchy

Its all just damage control

[sigh] No, was talking about my experiences. Wanna hear about the hot Asian girl I fucked?

Idk man based off your posts about this subject it just sounds like youre bitter and judgmental. maybe thats your problem
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TheGoldenEel posted...

Sting posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

Now it all makes sense why youre always making topics about how attractive girls are bitchy

Its all just damage control

[sigh] No, was talking about my experiences. Wanna hear about the hot Asian girl I fucked?

Idk man based off your posts about this subject it just sounds like youre bitter and judgmental. maybe thats your problem

Nope, just talking about how they acted when I spoke to them, except for that one Asian, she was pretty cool til she started getting an attitude over nothing
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Go big or go home
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Highschool to be honest
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I had a hot skinny Asian girlfriend. That ceased when I put a ring on it and she became my hot skinny Asian wife. You have to look at yourself and be honest. If you're short and fat and hairy, yeah, things probably aren't going to go so well for you in this area.
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I found one with enough self loathing to like me
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actually, I'm average looking and skinny, been told I'm 'cute' though, but I'm too modest.

also, I'm softspoken and have seen lots of ugly fat guys with hotties, and don't say confidence is the key cuz I got plenty of that
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Sting posted...

actually, I'm average looking and skinny, been told I'm 'cute' though, but I'm too modest.

also, I'm softspoken and have seen lots of ugly fat guys with hotties, and don't say confidence is the key cuz I got plenty of that

You need to learn a few jokes and be the spirit of the party.

never got invited to parties, I'm a misfit/loner
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the hotties don't want the underdog, they want the center of attention
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Just be funny and good-looking and party with them and it happens naturally is all I can tell you.
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ledbowman posted...

Just be funny and good-looking and party with them and it happens naturally is all I can tell you.

what state do you live in Texas girls are so uptight and hard to make laugh
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Sting posted...

ledbowman posted...

Just be funny and good-looking and party with them and it happens naturally is all I can tell you.

what state do you live in Texas girls are so uptight and hard to make laugh

Alabama lol.
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Sting posted...

the hotties don't want the underdog, they want the center of attention

So be that, fool. You said you were confident, guess not, you need enough confidence to enter like this to your classroom or work, shows you are an alpha:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GnI8q_1W89I" data-time="

I never get why dudes struggle so much with skinny hot chicks. In high school maybe, but in my twenties getting a girl like that is simple as shit. Not hard, just don't be a gooby.
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crennigo posted...

Sting posted...

the hotties don't want the underdog, they want the center of attention

So be that, fool. You said you were confident, guess not, you need enough confidence to enter like this to your classroom or work, shows you are an alpha:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GnI8q_1W89I" data-time="

Thought about getting into drugs at one point just to meet women. My cousin is a huge druggie and pimps ho's left and right, good looking ones too. Always saw that as an easy way out though.
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electricbugs2 posted...

I never get why dudes struggle so much with skinny hot chicks. In high school maybe, but in my twenties getting a girl like that is simple as shit. Not hard, just don't be a gooby.

Eh, I think online kinda ruined me. In the online dating sites, even ugly fat ones are picky and I struggled to get those at first so it kinda hurt my confidence.

In real life though, the skinny ones are just so uptight about everything. Cant joke, cant say anything wrong, or they just look at you like you are stupid and stop talking to you. That kind of annoys me.
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Sting posted...

crennigo posted...

Sting posted...

the hotties don't want the underdog, they want the center of attention

So be that, fool. You said you were confident, guess not, you need enough confidence to enter like this to your classroom or work, shows you are an alpha:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GnI8q_1W89I" data-time="

Thought about getting into drugs at one point just to meet women. My cousin is a huge druggie and pimps ho's left and right, good looking ones too. Always saw that as an easy way out though.

Wat

Dude you seem to have no clue. Just be a good, charming guy and youll get the ladies

Of course your previous topics have shown that you just settled for some chick youre not even that into so I guess its moot
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Sting posted...

crennigo posted...

Sting posted...

the hotties don't want the underdog, they want the center of attention

So be that, fool. You said you were confident, guess not, you need enough confidence to enter like this to your classroom or work, shows you are an alpha:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GnI8q_1W89I" data-time="

Thought about getting into drugs at one point just to meet women. My cousin is a huge druggie and pimps ho's left and right, good looking ones too. Always saw that as an easy way out though.

You are partially right, that is an easy way, can't believe so many good looking girls like drugs, but another non unhelathy choice would be to train football or take some cooking classes, girls like that, and it is a coversation topic. And obviously as seen in the video i posted, take some dancin classes.

Sting posted...

In real life though, the skinny ones are just so uptight about everything. Cant joke, cant say anything wrong, or they just look at you like you are stupid and stop talking to you. That kind of annoys me.

Disagree. I have several female friends who I can joke with constantly. You may be just running into the wrong kind of women.
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crennigo posted...

can't believe so many good looking girls like drugs

ha
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TheGoldenEel posted...

Sting posted...

crennigo posted...

Sting posted...

the hotties don't want the underdog, they want the center of attention

So be that, fool. You said you were confident, guess not, you need enough confidence to enter like this to your classroom or work, shows you are an alpha:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GnI8q_1W89I" data-time="

Thought about getting into drugs at one point just to meet women. My cousin is a huge druggie and pimps ho's left and right, good looking ones too. Always saw that as an easy way out though.

Wat

Dude you seem to have no clue. Just be a good, charming guy and youll get the ladies

Of course your previous topics have shown that you just settled for some chick youre not even that into so I guess its moot

Eh I am into her, just wish she was hotter sometimes. Wasn't really what I was hoping for, but I would rather be with her than a skinny one with an attitude problem.

Being charming didn't work, tried that in college and got turned down over and over and over again. Idk what they wanted. I gave up on them honestly. The hotties don't like quiet softspoken guys, even when they try to be outgoing and make them laugh.

Also, was in pretty good shape at one point and it didn't really help.
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electricbugs2 posted...

Sting posted...

In real life though, the skinny ones are just so uptight about everything. Cant joke, cant say anything wrong, or they just look at you like you are stupid and stop talking to you. That kind of annoys me.

Disagree. I have several female friends who I can joke with constantly. You may be just running into the wrong kind of women.

Are you in Texas? Have noticed the girls here are a lot more stiff. It was easier up north, I miss it there.
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I went to a bunch of raves and found the one.
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Sting posted...

Are you in Texas? Have noticed the girls here are a lot more stiff. It was easier up north, I miss it there.

lol, British Columbia Canada :P
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electricbugs2 posted...

Sting posted...

Are you in Texas? Have noticed the girls here are a lot more stiff. It was easier up north, I miss it there.

lol, British Columbia Canada :P

lol oh, well yeah its probably easier there. Canadians are cool and a lot more laid back, honestly, I hate living in texas
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It would be helpful to stop thinking of all hot women as the same. It's not true, skews your perspective, and probably makes it that much harder.
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Sting posted...

lol oh, well yeah its probably easier there. Canadians are cool and a lot more laid back, honestly, I hate living in texas

My cousin is BC born and raised and he married a girl from San Antonio. One of the nicest girls I've ever met.

I was in a relationship with a girl from Pampa for a few months as well. She was a little crazy, but not uptight at all.

Maybe you just have bad luck :P
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ledbowman posted...

It would be helpful to stop thinking of all hot women as the same. It's not true, skews your perspective, and probably makes it that much harder.

I didn't though. Every time I got turned down in college I just said, oh well, will try another one. Same thing kept happening though. I think the hotties just really hate me for some reason. *shrug* Maybe if I was more pristine.
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electricbugs2 posted...

Sting posted...

lol oh, well yeah its probably easier there. Canadians are cool and a lot more laid back, honestly, I hate living in texas

My cousin is BC born and raised and he married a girl from San Antonio. One of the nicest girls I've ever met.

I was in a relationship with a girl from Pampa for a few months as well. She was a little crazy, but not uptight at all.

Maybe you just have bad luck :P

yeah my luck sucks. couldn't hook up with a hottie if my life depended on it. idk why, all I did was make small talk and then ask for coffee *shrug* maybe it was my ozzy shirts
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Being honest.... If everyy good looking girl you meet is bitchy towards you you're almost certainly the problem.
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CanuckCowboy posted...

Being honest.... If everyy good looking girl you meet is bitchy towards you you're almost certainly the problem.

lol yeah they must really hate guys who like comics and ozzy and horror movies and old school games. guess my honesty is my downfall
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Sting posted...

CanuckCowboy posted...

Being honest.... If everyy good looking girl you meet is bitchy towards you you're almost certainly the problem.

lol yeah they must really hate guys who like comics and ozzy and horror movies and old school games. guess my honesty is my downfall

It is. Leave that stuff at home bro.
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CanuckCowboy posted...

Being honest.... If everyy good looking girl you meet is bitchy towards you you're almost certainly the problem.

This board gives bad advice. Succeeding with women is a numbers game. He is not "the problem" if he hasn't found the right girl yet.
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Also "out of your league" is a thing. Just reality.
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I think I'm just an oddball, as a teen I spent lots of hours alone in cafeterias and in my room listening to Ozzy with no friends. So when I got older it was extremely hard to be social at first. But I've gotten a little better. When my wife showed interest in me it really caught me off guard because I was so used to being made fun of and told what a joke I was that I was genuinely surprised that someone actually cared about me and asked questions. Thing is, I'm not good at being fake, I just be myself and I think lots of girls really hate that about me even if I'm not rude to them and try to be respectful.

*shrug*

guess I just don't know what they want. being friendly, trying to make them laugh, and asking for coffee isn't enough for most of them I guess.
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Also, I think I'm sort of like those mid to high card UFC guys: I dominate clearly inferior competition and do well against other mid to high carders, but struggle with top contenders because a lot of the tricks I use on the lower carders don't work on the top ones
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Pepys Monster posted...

CanuckCowboy posted...

Being honest.... If everyy good looking girl you meet is bitchy towards you you're almost certainly the problem.

This board gives bad advice. Succeeding with women is a numbers game. He is not "the problem" if he hasn't found the right girl yet.

This is the smartest truest thing I've ever heard you say about women.

But regardless if all women a guy approached are constantly bitchy towards the guy he's probly doing something way wrong.

Sting posted...

Also, I think I'm sort of like those mid to high card UFC guys: I dominate clearly inferior competition and do well against other mid to high carders, but struggle with top contenders because a lot of the tricks I use on the lower carders don't work on the top ones

Yep. This would explain it.
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Easy answer? Im attractive. Works wonders.
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Honestly, I'm just softspoken and I don't really jump through hoops or act fake. Maybe that's what I did wrong. That's okay though, I want to be liked for who I am. I have a buddy that has this hot wife, but he completely changed who he was to be with her. He went from being this loud, obnoxious guy who was always laughing, to now, he is just this quiet, sensitive guy that doesn't really think anything is funny.
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