Poll of the Day > How do I politely tell my emo friend to stop their emo bullshit

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Nomak-54 03/23/18 9:26:20 PM #1:	I put up with it for almost two years, but now it feels like she's finally getting on my nerves She's always quick to make some kind of self-depreciating joke all the goddamn time "Hey it sure is cold out here" "Cold just like my heart haha" "Hey can you throw this out in the trash?" "Sure I'll go because that's where I belong, hehehe" Like shut the fuck up oh my God there was a time were I was genuinely concerned but now that I got to know her better she's pretty much joking all the time like oh my gooosh And more importantly, she always tries to shove her shitty goth music on everyone, with her outdated 2000s references and stupid as goth memes. like oh my gosh who the hell cares. At least I try to find out what kind of music they like before shoving stuff on them and like, she always gets so nervous when it comes to any remote form of public speaking, and I understand that, I've been there too, but it's like she never tries to take the opportunity to practice or get better. Like fucking hell everyone in the goddamn classroom is willing to help her when it comes to presentations and speaking but she fucking pushes everyone away, then she gets all defensive and shit when someone tries to critique her or give constructive criticism. and then when people (including me) call her out on her defensive bull shit she gets all upset and tries to dismiss people with some "you don't understaaaaand" like fucking bitch shut the fuck up and at least let us try to help you After nearly two years, hanging out with other people, I am finally sick of all her emo goth whatever bull crap like I still want us to be friends but fuck man I don't know what to do --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898377549] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>I put up with it for almost two years, but now it feels like she's finally getting on my nerves She's always quick to make some kind of self-depreciating joke all the goddamn time "Hey it sure is cold out here" "Cold just like my heart haha" "Hey can you throw this out in the trash?" "Sure I'll go because that's where I belong, hehehe" Like shut the fuck up oh my God there was a time were I was genuinely concerned but now that I got to know her better she's pretty much joking all the time like oh my gooosh And more importantly, she always tries to shove her shitty goth music on everyone, with her outdated 2000s references and stupid as goth memes. like oh my gosh who the hell cares. At least I try to find out what kind of music they like before shoving stuff on them and like, she always gets so nervous when it comes to any remote form of public speaking, and I understand that, I've been there too, but it's like she never tries to take the opportunity to practice or get better. Like fucking hell everyone in the goddamn classroom is willing to help her when it comes to presentations and speaking but she fucking pushes everyone away, then she gets all defensive and shit when someone tries to critique her or give constructive criticism. and then when people (including me) call her out on her defensive bull shit she gets all upset and tries to dismiss people with some "you don't understaaaaand" like fucking bitch shut the fuck up and at least let us try to help you After nearly two years, hanging out with other people, I am finally sick of all her emo goth whatever bull crap like I still want us to be friends but fuck man I don't know what to do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VeeVees 03/23/18 9:30:15 PM #2:	"stop being an emo shit" --- Rudy sucks <cite>VeeVees posted [p:898377773] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>"stop being an emo shit"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/23/18 10:09:17 PM #3:	Lol I'd love to do that but she'll probably get too defensive and like dodge everything as usual --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898379802] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Lol I'd love to do that but she'll probably get too defensive and like dodge everything as usual</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/23/18 10:14:57 PM #4:	https://we-hate-emo.livejournal.com/ lol --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898380096] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>https://we-hate-emo.livejournal.com/ lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HelIWithoutSin 03/23/18 10:25:34 PM #5:	Nomak-54 posted... outdated 2000s references Nomak-54 posted... livejournal --- And when Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept, for there were no more worlds to conquer. -Hans Gruber <cite>HelIWithoutSin posted [p:898380648] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>Nomak-54 posted...</cite> <quote>outdated 2000s references</quote> <cite>Nomak-54 posted...</cite> <quote>livejournal</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
aHappySacka 03/23/18 10:37:51 PM #6:	Grow a backbone and tell her that the emo stuff is dumb and annoying and that you don't want to hang out with her anymore then leave. --- You are now blinking and breathing manually. http://i.imgur.com/91NC0Cb.gifv <cite>aHappySacka posted [p:898381259] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Grow a backbone and tell her that the emo stuff is dumb and annoying and that you don't want to hang out with her anymore then leave.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Firewood18 03/23/18 10:41:48 PM #7:	Throw a pumpkin at her head. --- Who said that? <cite>Firewood18 posted [p:898381435] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Throw a pumpkin at her head.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 03/23/18 10:44:09 PM #8:	Let's see: Self-depreciating jokes - Just agree with her. She's clearly just wanting attention as most folk do when they fish for compliments. As for forcing music, memes on people - Don't listen to it or at least make compromises. She probably thinks your music is shit too. Public speaking - Seems normal. Still you can take a horse to water but you can't teach it how to drink. Not a big deal. Perhaps you should stop trying to help her when she clearly doesn't want it. Otherwise you're just going around in circles while giving her the attention she craves. All of this seems like things that can be sorted out easy enough. She probably was emo when you became her friend and as far as I can see she hasn't changed so eh. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:898381549] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Let's see: Self-depreciating jokes - Just agree with her. She's clearly just wanting attention as most folk do when they fish for compliments. As for forcing music, memes on people - Don't listen to it or at least make compromises. She probably thinks your music is shit too. Public speaking - Seems normal. Still you can take a horse to water but you can't teach it how to drink. Not a big deal. Perhaps you should stop trying to help her when she clearly doesn't want it. Otherwise you're just going around in circles while giving her the attention she craves. All of this seems like things that can be sorted out easy enough. She probably was emo when you became her friend and as far as I can see she hasn't changed so eh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/24/18 8:57:52 AM #9:	HelIWithoutSin posted... Nomak-54 posted... outdated 2000s references Nomak-54 posted... livejournal lolol I just thought it was funny wwinterj25 posted... Let's see: Self-depreciating jokes - Just agree with her. She's clearly just wanting attention as most folk do when they fish for compliments. As for forcing music, memes on people - Don't listen to it or at least make compromises. She probably thinks your music is shit too. Public speaking - Seems normal. Still you can take a horse to water but you can't teach it how to drink. Not a big deal. Perhaps you should stop trying to help her when she clearly doesn't want it. Otherwise you're just going around in circles while giving her the attention she craves. All of this seems like things that can be sorted out easy enough. She probably was emo when you became her friend and as far as I can see she hasn't changed so eh. Yo man, it's just not me she does this to everyone and it's so annoying. To explain the public speaking part, our school does a lot of presentations and stuff so every time it comes up she constantly whines about it and it gets tiring, man --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898397999] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>HelIWithoutSin posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Nomak-54 posted...</cite> <quote>outdated 2000s references</quote> <cite>Nomak-54 posted...</cite> <quote>livejournal</quote></quote> lolol I just thought it was funny <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Let's see: Self-depreciating jokes - Just agree with her. She's clearly just wanting attention as most folk do when they fish for compliments. As for forcing music, memes on people - Don't listen to it or at least make compromises. She probably thinks your music is shit too. Public speaking - Seems normal. Still you can take a horse to water but you can't teach it how to drink. Not a big deal. Perhaps you should stop trying to help her when she clearly doesn't want it. Otherwise you're just going around in circles while giving her the attention she craves. All of this seems like things that can be sorted out easy enough. She probably was emo when you became her friend and as far as I can see she hasn't changed so eh.</quote> Yo man, it's just not me she does this to everyone and it's so annoying. To explain the public speaking part, our school does a lot of presentations and stuff so every time it comes up she constantly whines about it and it gets tiring, man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 03/24/18 9:00:30 AM #10:	Every time she says something annoying, yell out "OH MY GOTH!" --- "when in the f* did i ever make claims to be anything other than a troll? seriously. name me one f*ing time." - schmen,trollpolice,noopnoop 3/5/18 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:898398096] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Every time she says something annoying, yell out "OH MY GOTH!"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 03/24/18 9:05:34 AM #11:	wwinterj25 posted... you can take a horse to water but you can't teach it how to drink. I think all mammals know how to drink instinctively. SunWuKung420 posted... Every time she says something annoying, yell out "OH MY GOTH!" Why recommend anime? --- Scloud posted... Its like he wants two things at the same time. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:898398229] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>you can take a horse to water but you can't teach it how to drink.</quote> I think all mammals know how to drink instinctively. <cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote>Every time she says something annoying, yell out "OH MY GOTH!"</quote> Why recommend anime?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheWorstPoster 03/24/18 9:22:34 AM #12:	Pics <cite>TheWorstPoster posted [p:898398716] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Pics</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kind9 03/24/18 9:55:19 AM #13:	Tell her start listening to better gothic music. --- http://i.imgur.com/NkZUeFd.gif <cite>kind9 posted [p:898399687] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Tell her start listening to better gothic music.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/24/18 11:11:01 AM #14:	kind9 posted... Tell her start listening to better gothic music. man that's gonnaa be hard to do since all goth music is trash save for like three or so --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898402481] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>kind9 posted...</cite> <quote>Tell her start listening to better gothic music.</quote> man that's gonnaa be hard to do since all goth music is trash save for like three or so</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kind9 03/24/18 11:15:20 AM #15:	Nomak-54 posted... kind9 posted... Tell her start listening to better gothic music. man that's gonnaa be hard to do since all goth music is trash save for like three or so Fair enough, to each their own. What kind does she listen to though? --- http://i.imgur.com/NkZUeFd.gif <cite>kind9 posted [p:898402672] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>Nomak-54 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>kind9 posted...</cite> <quote>Tell her start listening to better gothic music.</quote> man that's gonnaa be hard to do since all goth music is trash save for like three or so</quote> Fair enough, to each their own. What kind does she listen to though?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MICHALECOLE 03/24/18 12:04:04 PM #16:	How about you let her be herself and you just stop being friends with her --- https://i.imgur.com/wtEHwgB.jpg 212's #1 Colby Covington fan <cite>MICHALECOLE posted [p:898404802] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>How about you let her be herself and you just stop being friends with her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 03/24/18 12:08:58 PM #17:	Kyuubi4269 posted... I think all mammals know how to drink instinctively. Exactly. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:898405009] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I think all mammals know how to drink instinctively.</quote> Exactly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheWorstPoster 03/24/18 12:10:35 PM #18:	TheWorstPoster posted... Pics <cite>TheWorstPoster posted [p:898405076] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheWorstPoster posted...</cite> <quote>Pics</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 03/24/18 12:12:27 PM #19:	Kyuubi4269 posted... SunWuKung420 posted... Every time she says something annoying, yell out "OH MY GOTH!" Why recommend anime? It'll help get her be less emo'y. --- "when in the f* did i ever make claims to be anything other than a troll? seriously. name me one f*ing time." - schmen,trollpolice,noopnoop 3/5/18 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:898405151] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote>Every time she says something annoying, yell out "OH MY GOTH!"</quote> Why recommend anime?</quote> It'll help get her be less emo'y.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/24/18 6:52:11 PM #20:	MICHALECOLE posted... How about you let her be herself and you just stop being friends with her Bruh it's because she constantly does this to every single being on the planet I don't want to simply stop being friends with her, she'd probably get all upset and shit --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898425126] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>MICHALECOLE posted...</cite> <quote>How about you let her be herself and you just stop being friends with her</quote> Bruh it's because she constantly does this to every single being on the planet I don't want to simply stop being friends with her, she'd probably get all upset and shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MICHALECOLE 03/24/18 7:03:27 PM #21:	Nomak-54 posted... MICHALECOLE posted... How about you let her be herself and you just stop being friends with her Bruh it's because she constantly does this to every single being on the planet I don't want to simply stop being friends with her, she'd probably get all upset and shit Then here are your options A: get over it B: be honest with her C: stop being friends with her --- https://i.imgur.com/wtEHwgB.jpg 212's #1 Colby Covington fan <cite>MICHALECOLE posted [p:898425711] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>Nomak-54 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MICHALECOLE posted...</cite> <quote>How about you let her be herself and you just stop being friends with her</quote> Bruh it's because she constantly does this to every single being on the planet I don't want to simply stop being friends with her, she'd probably get all upset and shit</quote> Then here are your options A: get over it B: be honest with her C: stop being friends with her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/24/18 7:12:15 PM #22:	dawg I wanna be honest but like she never listens and it's so annoying omg --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898426092] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>dawg I wanna be honest but like she never listens and it's so annoying omg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MICHALECOLE 03/24/18 7:13:13 PM #23:	Then A: get over it B: stop being friends with her --- https://i.imgur.com/wtEHwgB.jpg 212's #1 Colby Covington fan <cite>MICHALECOLE posted [p:898426144] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Then A: get over it B: stop being friends with her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
blorfenburger 03/24/18 9:09:24 PM #24:	Take her somewhere with puppies --- I use inverted controls. Also I hate fandoms. If you see a woman and you think she's thicc, she's probably not thicc. <cite>blorfenburger posted [p:898432253] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>Take her somewhere with puppies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Selenara 03/24/18 9:21:17 PM #25:	I would suggest you stop being friends with her, or the very least take a long break. You want her to change how she acts just because it personally annoys you, and that's pretty shitty no matter how you look at it. You can offer advice as a friend, you can ask her not to push her music on you, but her life is not a democracy and you don't get a say in it. If you don't want to be around her unless she changes for your convenience, you're not really her friend at all. <cite>Selenara posted [p:898432875] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>I would suggest you stop being friends with her, or the very least take a long break. You want her to change how she acts just because it personally annoys you, and that's pretty shitty no matter how you look at it. You can offer advice as a friend, you can ask her not to push her music on you, but her life is not a democracy and you don't get a say in it. If you don't want to be around her unless she changes for your convenience, you're not really her friend at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomak-54 03/25/18 5:42:19 AM #26:	yo dawg, what is it with you people saying it's all me? Like I said earlier she does this to every single person and everyone finds it annoying like man it's not fucking me. Secondly she needs to get better for our school at least because it's so annoying hearing whine and moan about having to do anything remotely close to public speaking, like we all try to get her to ease uo but then she's so defensive and dismissive like wtf bitch we just want you to pass so aall y'all need to stop putting this shit on ME --- Ridley will be in Sma5h, you heard it here first -- 3/8/18 https://i.imgur.com/HlszBL6.gif https://i.imgur.com/INGiUQZ.gif <cite>Nomak-54 posted [p:898451227] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote>yo dawg, what is it with you people saying it's all me? Like I said earlier she does this to every single person and everyone finds it annoying like man it's not fucking me. Secondly she needs to get better for our school at least because it's so annoying hearing whine and moan about having to do anything remotely close to public speaking, like we all try to get her to ease uo but then she's so defensive and dismissive like wtf bitch we just want you to pass so aall y'all need to stop putting this shit on ME</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
trodi_911 03/25/18 8:00:44 AM #27:	MICHALECOLE posted... be honest with her This is the only way true friendship will bloom. --- "You rat! How dare you sell me so cheap." "NO ONE CALLS ME THAT WITHOUT SOME CHEESE!" Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first. <cite>trodi_911 posted [p:898453608] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>MICHALECOLE posted...</cite> <quote> be honest with her</quote> This is the only way true friendship will bloom.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheWorstPoster 03/25/18 12:13:47 PM #28:	TheWorstPoster posted... TheWorstPoster posted... Pics <cite>TheWorstPoster posted [p:898462241] in How do I p... [t:76446663]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheWorstPoster posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheWorstPoster posted...</cite> <quote>Pics</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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