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UnfairRepresent
03/18/18 1:13:26 PM
#1:


Would you accept?


Your daughter is getting married to her long time partner and human being Heather and they have agreed that at the wedding she will have a best man and Heather will have bridesmaids.

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Your daughter then tells you that out of all the men in her life, none have been more important to her than you, so she wants you to be her best man.

Would you do it?
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_MorningStar
03/18/18 1:14:08 PM
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Vegy
03/18/18 1:14:23 PM
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Error1355
03/18/18 1:16:07 PM
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You could rename the poll "Would you be a good father or a scumbag?"
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UnfairRepresent
03/18/18 1:17:19 PM
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Error1355 posted...
You could rename the poll "Would you be a good father or a scumbag?"

I don't think that supporting your daughter would make you a scumbag.
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EastKingStar
03/18/18 1:19:18 PM
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....no
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_MorningStar
03/18/18 1:31:54 PM
#7:


UnfairRepresent posted...
Error1355 posted...
You could rename the poll "Would you be a good father or a scumbag?"

I don't think that supporting your daughter would make you a scumbag.

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Tropicalwood
03/18/18 1:34:12 PM
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I'd sooner believe a Nigerian Prince than believe some random chick I'd never met telling me she's my daughter.
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Mr_Biscuit
03/18/18 1:34:42 PM
#9:


Error1355 posted...
You could rename the poll "Would you be a good father or a scumbag?"

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UnfairRepresent
03/18/18 5:34:16 PM
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Pretty one sided so far
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UnfairRepresent
03/19/18 9:33:18 AM
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Tropicalwood posted...
I'd sooner believe a Nigerian Prince than believe some random chick I'd never met telling me she's my daughter.

It's a hypothetical scenario where you have a daughter friend
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StarReaper13
03/19/18 8:17:43 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Error1355 posted...
You could rename the poll "Would you be a good father or a scumbag?"

I don't think that supporting your daughter would make you a scumbag.

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ImTheMacheteGuy
03/19/18 8:20:16 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Tropicalwood posted...
I'd sooner believe a Nigerian Prince than believe some random chick I'd never met telling me she's my daughter.

It's a hypothetical scenario where you have a daughter friend


A daughter friend? Sounds hot, where do I sign up?
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Garioshi
03/19/18 8:21:09 PM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
long time partner and human being

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UnfairRepresent
03/20/18 5:35:08 AM
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ImTheMacheteGuy posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Tropicalwood posted...
I'd sooner believe a Nigerian Prince than believe some random chick I'd never met telling me she's my daughter.

It's a hypothetical scenario where you have a daughter friend


A daughter friend? Sounds hot, where do I sign up?

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Mistere Man
03/20/18 6:48:17 AM
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Well since I guess I cant walk her down the isle this is the next best thing so sure why not?
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Dash_Harber
03/20/18 6:55:33 AM
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Yeah, who the fuck would say no? Complete fucking monsters.

Plus, you know, tradition is only useful as long as it serves a purpose. Fuck it any other time.
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UnfairRepresent
03/20/18 8:21:50 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
Yeah, who the fuck would say no?


1/3rd of CE
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Tyranthraxus
03/20/18 8:24:00 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Your daughter then tells you that out of all the men in her life, none have been more important to her than you, so she wants you to be her best man.

My only concern at this point is who she's going to want walking down the aisle with her.
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Distant_Rainbow
03/20/18 8:27:01 AM
#20:


No.

By the way, this is not a matter of this being the daughter who asked this. If it were my son, I would still say no.

That's not the point of the best man.
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UnfairRepresent
03/20/18 8:31:41 AM
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Tyranthraxus posted...
UnfairRepresent posted...
Your daughter then tells you that out of all the men in her life, none have been more important to her than you, so she wants you to be her best man.

My only concern at this point is who she's going to want walking down the aisle with her.

Her mother dude.

If she's dead then she walks alone, which is common. Do you even wedding bro?
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lilORANG
03/20/18 8:32:42 AM
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I'd tell her to get some real friends. My job is to walk her down the aisle. If she really had no friends (then I've failed as a parent) but I'd say yes.
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UnfairRepresent
03/20/18 4:21:50 PM
#23:


Distant_Rainbow posted...
No.

By the way, this is not a matter of this being the daughter who asked this. If it were my son, I would still say no..


@Dash_Harber is this guy a monster?
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Dash_Harber
03/21/18 1:00:20 AM
#24:


UnfairRepresent posted...
Distant_Rainbow posted...
No.

By the way, this is not a matter of this being the daughter who asked this. If it were my son, I would still say no..


@Dash_Harber is this guy a monster?


If he's refusing because the couple is gay, then yes. If not, he is just incredibly selfish and pointlessly obsessed with some sort of idea that wedding traditions are ancient instead of being pretty much entirely an invention of the 20th century.
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Slimfizzle
03/21/18 1:05:23 AM
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Ain't no daughter friend of mine is marrying a human
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Pitlord_Special
03/21/18 1:07:38 AM
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Distant_Rainbow posted...
No.

By the way, this is not a matter of this being the daughter who asked this. If it were my son, I would still say no.

That's not the point of the best man.


Surprised more people don't know this...best man should be your favorite bro (either literally or figuratively)
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Distant_Rainbow
03/21/18 1:29:59 AM
#27:


@UnfairRepresent
@Dash_Harber

Be labeled a monster or a selfish nutjob just because I'm not a philistine and am going to do traditions right if it's going to be done. Ha. That's a good one.

Keep spouting more garbage. Go on.
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MabusIncarnate
03/21/18 1:31:06 AM
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Only if it ended in a 3 way
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Dash_Harber
03/21/18 1:34:42 AM
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Distant_Rainbow posted...
@UnfairRepresent
@Dash_Harber

Be labeled a monster or a selfish nutjob just because I'm not a philistine and am going to do traditions right if it's going to be done. Ha. That's a good one.

Keep spouting more garbage. Go on.


A tradition for ... like a hundred years out of a few hundred thousand? It's funny. Do you think the first guy to do it was doing it because of tradition?

Edit: You also value not looking like a 'philistine' more than your children's happiness so at the very least ...
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Vita_Aeterna
03/21/18 1:37:29 AM
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That would be really bizarre so no, but I wouldn't be totally opposed to it. The reason I say no is because it reduces my role as a parent to one of a friend.
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Distant_Rainbow
03/21/18 1:45:13 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
A tradition for ... like a hundred years out of a few hundred thousand? It's funny. Do you think the first guy to do it was doing it because of tradition?


What does that have to do with anything? Who cares when it was started? Oh right, guess you do, 'cause you're the nitpicky sort who decides that old traditions deserve being followed while new ones can just be ignored.

Edit: You also value not looking like a 'philistine' more than your children's happiness so at the very least ...


If anything, I would argue that this is actually done FOR her happiness, instead of watching her self-destruct her happiest day of her life at a moment's whim/horrible decision.

Yep, keep the garbage coming.
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Dash_Harber
03/21/18 1:48:15 AM
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Distant_Rainbow posted...

What does that have to do with anything? Who cares when it was started? Oh right, guess you do, 'cause you're the nitpicky sort who decides that old traditions deserve being followed while new ones can just be ignored.


No, I'm pointing out the fallacy of tradition as an ancient and unchangeable thing. Literally the first person who did what you are describing was going against tradition.

Distant_Rainbow posted...

If anything, I would argue that this is actually done FOR her happiness, instead of watching her self-destruct her happiest day of her life at a moment's whim/horrible decision.


How is it going to make her happy if you refuse to participate in her wedding unless she does it your way?
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Distant_Rainbow
03/21/18 1:57:10 AM
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Dash_Harber posted...
No, I'm pointing out the fallacy of tradition as an ancient and unchangeable thing. Literally the first person who did what you are describing was going against tradition.


Absence of tradition isn't a tradition itself.

Also, if you're going to follow tradition in the first place, then follow it as seen per societal norms. If you're not going to, then don't even do it in the first place. Don't half-ass it.

If she's going to have a 'best man', then she will have a 'best man'. Which I am completely ineligible for.

How is it going to make her happy if you refuse to participate in her wedding unless she does it your way?


Good job, genius, overinterpreting what I said. Learn to read.

I never said I wasn't participating in her wedding. I'm sitting up front row to congratulate her with my wife. Which is what is expected and enough.
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Dash_Harber
03/21/18 2:01:18 AM
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Distant_Rainbow posted...
Absence of tradition isn't a tradition itself.


So you are saying that no one had a specific way to do a wedding until a few hundred years ago when someone came up with the best man? Seriously, traditions change. Most of what you consider wedding traditions are the product of incredibly recent ideas.

Distant_Rainbow posted...
Also, if you're going to follow tradition in the first place, then follow it as seen per societal norms. If you're not going to, then don't even do it in the first place. Don't half-ass it.


But she has made it clear she is not following tradition, so what is the fucking problem?

Distant_Rainbow posted...

If she's going to have a 'best man', then she will have a 'best man'. Which I am completely ineligible for.


Based on? You even said it was the man who was your closest friend. What if you are her closest friend?

Distant_Rainbow posted...
Good job, genius, overinterpreting what I said. Learn to read.


I'm not overinterpreting, you said you were refusing her request. We could all do without the ridiculous insult slinging, as well.
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Distant_Rainbow
03/21/18 2:11:10 AM
#35:


Dash_Harber posted...
So you are saying that no one had a specific way to do a wedding until a few hundred years ago when someone came up with the best man?


Is overinterpreting people your schtick or something?

Dash_Harber posted...
But she has made it clear she is not following tradition, so what is the fucking problem?


Actually, by trying to have a best man, yes, she IS following tradition. But trying to half-ass it by having me in the role.

Dash_Harber posted...
Based on? You even said it was the man who was your closest friend. What if you are her closest friend?


I am not her friend. I am her dad.

On a personal level, sure, I am most likely her friend. But that's not what this tradition is looking for.

Dash_Harber posted...
you said you were refusing her request.


To be her best man. Not coming to her wedding. The latter's a given.
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Kid_Buu
03/21/18 2:13:26 AM
#36:


Slimfizzle posted...
Ain't no daughter friend of mine is marrying a human

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Dash_Harber
03/21/18 3:57:27 AM
#37:


Distant_Rainbow posted...
Is overinterpreting people your schtick or something?


No. Is purposely ignoring the obvious yours?

Best men only became a tradition because at some point someone decided to do something differently. That point was not really long enough ago to argue that it is somehow sacred. Traditions only become traditions by breaking other traditions. The argument that it is wrong because it's not 'traditional' is bullshit on every level.

Distant_Rainbow posted...
Actually, by trying to have a best man, yes, she IS following tradition. But trying to half-ass it by having me in the role.


So you are saying traditions cannot be altered? Convenient, since you are okay with the whole homosexual marriage thing.

Distant_Rainbow posted...
I am not her friend. I am her dad.


Why can't you be both? What if she has no male friends?

Distant_Rainbow posted...

On a personal level, sure, I am most likely her friend. But that's not what this tradition is looking for.


So who is putting a gun to your head saying, "You have to follow this tradition in this exact way"?

Distant_Rainbow posted...
To be her best man. Not coming to her wedding. The latter's a given.


I never said the latter. You are making that up now. You say the day is supposed to be about her and she doesn't have to follow tradition if she doesn't want to, but also claim she is going to regret it if she does not do what you view as 'tradition' despite my very clear explanation about why that is bullshit.
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Funkydog
03/21/18 4:40:27 AM
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I tell her very funny, yes your mother has no make up on this morning but it doesn't mean I'm now some hideous man troll :(
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UnfairRepresent
03/21/18 6:58:23 AM
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Pitlord_Special posted...


Surprised more people don't know this...best man should be your favorite bro (either literally or figuratively)

Dash_Harber posted...


A tradition for ... like a hundred years out of a few hundred thousand? It's funny. Do you think the first guy to do it was doing it because of tradition?

You guys are talking like family being a best man is not a regular thing. It happens frequently.

I don't even go to that many weddings and I've seen it 3 or 4 times.
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Dash_Harber
03/21/18 8:10:11 AM
#40:


UnfairRepresent posted...
You guys are talking like family being a best man is not a regular thing. It happens frequently.

I don't even go to that many weddings and I've seen it 3 or 4 times.


I'm not sure why you quoted me. I was the one saying I didn't see a problem with it. I was just pointing out the best man is pretty new to the whole wedding ceremony, and also pointed out that family could be considered 'friends' and fit the role.
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UnfairRepresent
03/22/18 2:22:16 PM
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Funkydog posted...
I tell her very funny, yes your mother has no make up on this morning but it doesn't mean I'm now some hideous man troll :(

What's that supposed to mean?
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UnfairRepresent
03/23/18 2:29:55 PM
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Dash_Harber posted...


I'm not sure why you quoted me.

You seemed to imply family as best man was an oddity
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Nomadic View
03/23/18 2:31:28 PM
#43:


Of course!

My daughter is only 4 right now, but Im assuming you mean when shes an adult.
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sopfed
03/23/18 2:33:16 PM
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Sure, why not. Hell, I'd be honored.

Also, I was a bridesmaid for a friend a few weeks ago. We settled on "Bridesman of Honor" for my official role. Pretty cool.
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ImTheMacheteGuy
03/23/18 4:26:01 PM
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Nomadic View posted...
Of course!

My daughter is only 4 right now, but I?m assuming you mean when she?s an adult.


What state do you live in? >_>
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UnfairRepresent
03/23/18 4:27:46 PM
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sopfed posted...


Also, I was a bridesmaid for a friend a few weeks ago. We settled on "Bridesman of Honor" for my official role. Pretty cool.

Funny you mention that
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Dash_Harber
03/24/18 1:48:56 AM
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UnfairRepresent posted...
Dash_Harber posted...


I'm not sure why you quoted me.

You seemed to imply family as best man was an oddity


I've actually been arguing the exact opposite most of the topic, pretty blatantly, actually;

Dash_Harber posted...
Based on? You even said it was the man who was your closest friend. What if you are her closest friend?
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UnfairRepresent
03/25/18 1:54:34 PM
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Ok?
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