Poll of the Day > Why does "expressing sexuality" even matter?

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Lombax02
03/08/18 3:23:14 AM
#1:


Like one thing that bothers me is people obsessing over their sexuality. Like why do they feel the need to talk about it. It is in games, anime other hobbies. Like people feel the need to tell what their sexuality is. Like can't they get a better hobby that is something else over sexuality. I just feel personally molested everytime some people talk about it. In the same way some youtubers online post it but i can just walk away.

I mean i can from this too, but it just is so much everywhere on the internet.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 3:24:14 AM
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One suggestion, family, friends. People that matter. Aren't those values that may have a more good values to it? Why does your sexuality preferance matter so much that you have to talk about it. It just is so obnoxious.
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TheCyborgNinja
03/08/18 3:27:38 AM
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Some people lack substance and they think this behaviour offsets that.
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03/08/18 4:10:58 AM
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They're after attention, nothing more. It's the same deal with the people that are trying to expand LGBT to include another dozen letters so they can fit in their obscure gender preference/sexuality they made up to try and make everyone recognize just how "unique" and "special" they are, while in the same breath insisting that they shouldn't be treated any different than straight folks.
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chaosbowser
03/08/18 6:30:10 AM
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Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.
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_AdjI_
03/08/18 7:02:39 AM
#6:


chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.


That, plus a bit extra as a means of pushing back against being stifled. Pride parades may seem pretty silly to people who've grown up in a more tolerant world, but for a guy who would risk criminal prosecution if he were seen holding his boyfriend's hand in public, the fact that a celebration like that is allowed to exist is a source of profound joy and relief.
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b_hamnite
03/08/18 7:48:08 AM
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Because the media tells them it matters. If everyone ignored the media, this world would be a lot better off.
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AllstarSniper32
03/08/18 9:51:17 AM
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If you don't understand why,

chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.

Pretty much just read this post.

But then again, you're a new user so you're most likely just trolling anyways.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 9:53:15 AM
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chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.

Who said i like that too though?. I kinda find it weird aswell why people do that.
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Noop_Noop
03/08/18 9:57:02 AM
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chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.


It's pretty fucking insufferable when anyone does it. I don't tend to spend a whole lot of time with guys who go off every time they see a pretty woman and start ogling them like a piece of meat.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 9:58:37 AM
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Noop_Noop posted...
chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.


It's pretty fucking insufferable when anyone does it. I don't tend to spend a whole lot of time with guys who go off every time they see a pretty woman and start ogling them like a piece of meat.

Yeah what this guy said. I am neautral. I dont care its obnoxious in all circles. I am straight, i am bi, i am queer. Like its really just obsessive dumb hobby
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Nichtcrawler X
03/08/18 9:59:14 AM
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chaosbowser posted...
Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality.


Just as annoying.
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MICHALECOLE
03/08/18 9:59:52 AM
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Why does anything matter
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wwinterj25
03/08/18 10:24:05 AM
#14:


Lombax02 posted...
Like one thing that bothers me is people obsessing over their sexuality.


Unless I'm hitting on someone I can't say I care what peoples sexuality is.

Lombax02 posted...
Like people feel the need to tell what their sexuality is.


Unless directly asked I feel no need to say what my sexuality is. I let my actions and comments speak for themselves. Although granted at this point it would be easy to assume I'm asexual as I really don't care about getting someone into bed.
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radorn
03/08/18 11:15:29 AM
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Discretion and good taste are largely lost qualities in contemporary predominant culture.
There's always been indiscretion in society, but nowadays it's not PC to punch them in the face for being rude perverts. In fact, today it's the complete opposite. You will get a lot of backlash and could even end up physically harrased if you even dare to politely suggest to them that they please keep their sex stuff to themselves.
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SteamedHams
03/08/18 12:08:01 PM
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Wow, I'm surprised such an incoherent topic could do such an easy job of outing the homophobes
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Lombax02
03/08/18 12:17:09 PM
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SteamedHams posted...
Wow, I'm surprised such an incoherent topic could do such an easy job of outing the homophobes

Not against LGBT as a movement. But sure, whatever.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 12:18:22 PM
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I mean if it means to be against people who absolutely have to talk about their sexuality as a hobby. Then sure, i am a homophobe. I mean its not like it matters what you call me. Its just obnoxious.
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 12:26:50 PM
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If you take things like telling someone you type, or saying someone is hot, or why you like or don't like a certain person in to "expressing your sexuality", then a huge majority of the world does that.
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SteamedHams
03/08/18 12:29:12 PM
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You're totally mis-characterizing how much people do this, though. You're just spewing a bunch of random bullshit to obscure other reasons you're uncomfortable with it. Also, you aren't the only person in the topic I was calling a homophobe
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Lombax02
03/08/18 12:29:47 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
If you take things like telling someone you type, or saying someone is hot, or why you like or don't like a certain person in to "expressing your sexuality", then a huge majority of the world does that.

no i mean the whole what type of sex you prefer. That annoys me. Whoever you are attracted to i dont mind. Its just obnoxious to me.
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SteamedHams
03/08/18 12:30:48 PM
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Like you can say "Actually I don't have anything against gay people" but that's a meaningless assertion when faced with other things you've said; it's just a version of "I'm not racist, I have a black friend"
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Lombax02
03/08/18 12:31:55 PM
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Alright, give one example why i hate it.

"I like bi stuff... also i like food porn, diaper porn"

Enough info for you?
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 12:32:38 PM
#24:


Lombax02 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
If you take things like telling someone you type, or saying someone is hot, or why you like or don't like a certain person in to "expressing your sexuality", then a huge majority of the world does that.

no i mean the whole what type of sex you prefer. That annoys me. Whoever you are attracted to i dont mind. Its just obnoxious to me.

Oh. That probably really simple. If a guy says they like a girl, or girl says they like a guy, no one would ask any question because it's considered normal. Yet, if a girl mentions liking a girl, or a guy mentions liking a guy, it could end up shocking everyone. And usually, depending on who's around, they might ask if they're lesbian or gay. I think that's more of the answer.

Or if they know people who keep trying to set them up on dates with the wrong sex...
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Lombax02
03/08/18 12:35:25 PM
#25:


LinkPizza posted...
Lombax02 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
If you take things like telling someone you type, or saying someone is hot, or why you like or don't like a certain person in to "expressing your sexuality", then a huge majority of the world does that.

no i mean the whole what type of sex you prefer. That annoys me. Whoever you are attracted to i dont mind. Its just obnoxious to me.

Oh. That probably really simple. If a guy says they like a girl, or girl says they like a guy, no one would ask any question because it's considered normal. Yet, if a girl mentions liking a girl, or a guy mentions liking a guy, it could end up shocking everyone. And usually, depending on who's around, they might ask if they're lesbian or gay. I think that's more of the answer.

Or if they know people who keep trying to set them up on dates with the wrong sex...


I mean in context to internet culture. If you wanna hook up in real life i dont care. Its the idea that they feel the need to go sites where people play video games or other hobbies like anime and talk about that out of the blue nonsense.
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_AdjI_
03/08/18 12:36:12 PM
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There are definitely some people - regardless of orientation - who are obnoxiously expressive of their sexuality. Think of the stereotypical frat bro for a straight example.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 12:38:33 PM
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_AdjI_ posted...
There are definitely some people - regardless of orientation - who are obnoxiously expressive of their sexuality. Think of the stereotypical frat bro for a straight example.

Never seen those online in comment sections. But if i did i would agree
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SKARDAVNELNATE
03/08/18 12:43:43 PM
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My guess is that in an animistic way it is how one attracts a mate. This tends to be an inappropriate thing to do in most settings.
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 12:45:11 PM
#29:


Lombax02 posted...
_AdjI_ posted...
There are definitely some people - regardless of orientation - who are obnoxiously expressive of their sexuality. Think of the stereotypical frat bro for a straight example.

Never seen those online in comment sections. But if i did i would agree

That just means you haven't seen it. It's not like it doesn't exist...

Lombax02 posted...
I mean in context to internet culture. If you wanna hook up in real life i dont care. Its the idea that they feel the need to go sites where people play video games or other hobbies like anime and talk about that out of the blue nonsense.

If you talking about this board, then I also feel like you aren't paying attention to anything. We talking about a lot of random shit here. So, I have no idea what the big deal is...
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dioxxys
03/08/18 12:51:31 PM
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SteamedHams posted...
Wow, I'm surprised such an incoherent topic could do such an easy job of outing the homophobes

Troll comment, dont reply to such skullduggery.

Nichtcrawler X posted...
chaosbowser posted...
Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality.


Just as annoying.

Only difference is no ones pushing for that in media. Its usually just groups of guys amongst themselves at highschool/college who were already on the subject and are "bird watching."
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 12:58:48 PM
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I think it also depends on what you consider expressing. For example, my friends and i are talking about people we think are hot. We are all close, so we know who likes what sex or whatever. But if another person joins us for whatever reason, as soon as a guy mentions a hot guy or girl mentions a hot girl, they ask, "Oh, you gay/lesbian?" That person would probably reply, "yeah." They we continue our discussion. In that case, sexuality was expressed or talked about. Sometimes, the other person will ask more question about it, too. That just one example, though...
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:02:21 PM
#32:


LinkPizza posted...
I think it also depends on what you consider expressing. For example, my friends and i are talking about people we think are hot. We are all close, so we know who likes what sex or whatever. But if another person joins us for whatever reason, as soon as a guy mentions a hot guy or girl mentions a hot girl, they ask, "Oh, you gay/lesbian?" That person would probably reply, "yeah." They we continue our discussion. In that case, sexuality was expressed or talked about. Sometimes, the other person will ask more question about it, too. That just one example, though...

Yeah well thats real life not internet. Internet gets into lots of messed up stuff, first you talk about this then you talk about gay poop porn or just pissing on someone.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:03:09 PM
#33:


Even so i dont care, real life is different. I dont want to hear what people's sexuality is like online in terms of hobbies i like. Its pretty obnoxious. I dont go to them they come to me
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 1:06:24 PM
#34:


Lombax02 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
I think it also depends on what you consider expressing. For example, my friends and i are talking about people we think are hot. We are all close, so we know who likes what sex or whatever. But if another person joins us for whatever reason, as soon as a guy mentions a hot guy or girl mentions a hot girl, they ask, "Oh, you gay/lesbian?" That person would probably reply, "yeah." They we continue our discussion. In that case, sexuality was expressed or talked about. Sometimes, the other person will ask more question about it, too. That just one example, though...

Yeah well thats real life not internet. Internet gets into lots of messed up stuff, first you talk about this then you talk about gay poop porn or just pissing on someone.

On the internet, people can be a little more free to talk about things. Things you would never tell someone on real life. Because you feel safer. No one has to know who you are. And you might find someone who can talk about the same thing you like.

Also, you sound really homophobic right now. Or like gay people are the only ones with weird porn. Just to let you know, both straight and gay porn also has weird fetishes. Not just one or the other. And both straight & LGBT people talk about these things...
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 1:07:03 PM
#35:


Lombax02 posted...
Even so i dont care, real life is different. I dont want to hear what people's sexuality is like online in terms of hobbies i like. Its pretty obnoxious. I dont go to them they come to me

This is the internet. If that's going to bother you, you may just have to leave...
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:10:46 PM
#36:


LinkPizza posted...
Lombax02 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
I think it also depends on what you consider expressing. For example, my friends and i are talking about people we think are hot. We are all close, so we know who likes what sex or whatever. But if another person joins us for whatever reason, as soon as a guy mentions a hot guy or girl mentions a hot girl, they ask, "Oh, you gay/lesbian?" That person would probably reply, "yeah." They we continue our discussion. In that case, sexuality was expressed or talked about. Sometimes, the other person will ask more question about it, too. That just one example, though...

Yeah well thats real life not internet. Internet gets into lots of messed up stuff, first you talk about this then you talk about gay poop porn or just pissing on someone.

On the internet, people can be a little more free to talk about things. Things you would never tell someone on real life. Because you feel safer. No one has to know who you are. And you might find someone who can talk about the same thing you like.

Also, you sound really homophobic right now. Or like gay people are the only ones with weird porn. Just to let you know, both straight and gay porn also has weird fetishes. Not just one or the other. And both straight & LGBT people talk about these things...

Well people can express and get disgusted by it. Call it homophobic you want. Want to hear something else homophobic? Furries, i dont like to hug people it is creepy unless it is for goodbyes, welcomes or family reasons. Wanna know what is weird? Spending dozens of dollars on a costume or obsessing over it and hugging random people, you can use all that money on vacation and a video game. Its an expensive weird hobby
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:11:59 PM
#37:


LinkPizza posted...
Lombax02 posted...
Even so i dont care, real life is different. I dont want to hear what people's sexuality is like online in terms of hobbies i like. Its pretty obnoxious. I dont go to them they come to me

This is the internet. If that's going to bother you, you may just have to leave...

No i just ignore it, i mean i get molested sometimes by youtubers but its easy to ignore. This sexuality however is a problem when going to forums, it is impossible to escape
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:12:47 PM
#38:


Also, you sound really homophobic right now. Or like gay people are the only ones with weird porn. Just to let you know, both straight and gay porn also has weird fetishes. Not just one or the other. And both straight & LGBT people talk about these things...

Correction, weird people do. You are the one being homophobic now : P
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 1:17:03 PM
#39:


Well, maybe weird to you. Everyone has different hobbies. I like playing video games. But I know plenty of people see that as a waste. I know people who love to work on their cars, and again, some people see that as a waste. I'm not saying I have an interest in most of those things, but I know that people would rather spend their money on things they like.

As for the reason I said you sound homophobic, that's because it sounds like you're saying only LGBT people talk about their sexuality or they are the only ones with weird porn. That's not true. Especially on the internet. It just feel like you haven't been to enough messages boards or something...
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 1:18:27 PM
#40:


Lombax02 posted...
Also, you sound really homophobic right now. Or like gay people are the only ones with weird porn. Just to let you know, both straight and gay porn also has weird fetishes. Not just one or the other. And both straight & LGBT people talk about these things...

Correction, weird people do. You are the one being homophobic now : P

Haha. This is a dumb post. I would call you names, but the mods would get mad.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:25:37 PM
#41:


LinkPizza posted...

As for the reason I said you sound homophobic, that's because it sounds like you're saying only LGBT people talk about their sexuality or they are the only ones with weird porn. That's not true. Especially on the internet. It just feel like you haven't been to enough messages boards or something...

You are the one saying it. Dont care, whoever you are give up that hobby its obnoxious thats what i am saying
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LinkPizza
03/08/18 1:28:44 PM
#42:


Lombax02 posted...
LinkPizza posted...

As for the reason I said you sound homophobic, that's because it sounds like you're saying only LGBT people talk about their sexuality or they are the only ones with weird porn. That's not true. Especially on the internet. It just feel like you haven't been to enough messages boards or something...

You are the one saying it. Dont care, whoever you are give up that hobby its obnoxious thats what i am saying

Or just ignore the comments that bother you. If that's too much, leave the internet... People are going to talk about what they want to talk about. It's as simple as that...
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:34:24 PM
#43:


LinkPizza posted...
Lombax02 posted...
LinkPizza posted...

As for the reason I said you sound homophobic, that's because it sounds like you're saying only LGBT people talk about their sexuality or they are the only ones with weird porn. That's not true. Especially on the internet. It just feel like you haven't been to enough messages boards or something...

You are the one saying it. Dont care, whoever you are give up that hobby its obnoxious thats what i am saying

Or just ignore the comments that bother you. If that's too much, leave the internet... People are going to talk about what they want to talk about. It's as simple as that...

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dioxxys
03/08/18 1:34:27 PM
#44:


I was on board when you were saying people tend to express their sexuality too much outside of contextual reasons but telling people to give up their hobbies is dumb.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:42:59 PM
#45:


dioxxys posted...
I was on board when you were saying people tend to express their sexuality too much outside of contextual reasons but telling people to give up their hobbies is dumb.

Well if you really like the hobby i guess. But it mixes with stuff i like, video games and anime. Like they have to bring it there is something i dont get.
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digressive
03/08/18 1:52:08 PM
#46:


chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.


This. And it, of course, applies to physical actions as well.

When a straight couple walks down the street holding hands, nobody says anything. The minute a couple that isn't straight walks down the street holding hands, people start screaming about them shoving their sexuality down their throats.

Same goes with hugging, kissing, and any other expression of love or sexuality.

Look at the media. Depictions of straight sex are "fine" but depictions of sex that is anything other that straight is "not."

If anything, straight people are the ones shoving their sexuality down other people's throats.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:59:01 PM
#47:


digressive posted...
chaosbowser posted...
Its a common behavior among all people. People just notice it among LGBT people more because its different. Guys who constantly go on about how hot girls are or who theyd love to bang or what their type is are also expressing their sexuality. LGBT just want that kind of expression to be more common and not hush hush.


This. And it, of course, applies to physical actions as well.

When a straight couple walks down the street holding hands, nobody says anything. The minute a couple that isn't straight walks down the street holding hands, people start screaming about them shoving their sexuality down their throats.

Same goes with hugging, kissing, and any other expression of love or sexuality.

Look at the media. Depictions of straight sex are "fine" but depictions of sex that is anything other that straight is "not."

If anything, straight people are the ones shoving their sexuality down other people's throats.

More like the culture of outrage on fox news in USA.
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Lombax02
03/08/18 1:59:33 PM
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Or if you live in another country where its illegal.
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Lombax02
03/09/18 2:36:02 AM
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Ok, i found one today. One example here is the comment. Thankfully a guy also saw it nonsensical.

1st comment: I'm an open bisexual and still this is dead fucking on in my head 24/7
2nd comment: why does it matter?

Got lots of likes both 1st and 2nd. See this is what i mean?

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Yellow
03/09/18 2:50:27 AM
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Naturally, people who've been in the closet are going to flip-flop and be proud of it to flip off Conservative culture. It's probably a mental gratification thing.

Otherwise, it's nothing special to be proud of. If sexuality wasn't a big deal in our culture, then they wouldn't make a big deal on the other side. Sexuality is a big deal to Conservatives.
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