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This is going to be series of anti porn/ pro love essays. I didn't plan the layout beforehand or anything like that , just going to share some random thoughts. I see many young guys and they have questions about sex, dating, handling women or girls.. and maybe their dad hasnt given them some of the tips they needed, or he didnt know either. Well, you hit the fuckin jackpot, because i know more than the average bear and i am willing to share it with you for free.

I am older than some of you, 32 years, and ive seen a lot and paid attention . while i am a nerd somewhat, as many of us are, i have also been lucky to enjoy satisfying sexual relationships. despite what you see on TV, you can absolutely be into nerdy shit and still get beautiful women to like you, and have good sex.

"fuck you Keith, no one wants to hear your bragging, or see you flex your little e dong"

well good, that's not the fuckin point. in reality my experience came from a shitload of mental and emotional pain, rejection, and experimentation. so lucky for some of you, i already put in the work and got burned so you can reap the benefits of my wisdom. or whatever. If you aren't interested in this content, fine, im not putting a gun to your head. but sooner or later it will resonate with someone and that's all the matters. ::ahem::

Porn may seem harmless, but it is actually one of the most powerful, mentally corruptive forces in modern society. why? well, it is a universal thing, like food. there are things that almost every living being wants or needs to survive. you need food, water, and shelter. as a human and a social animal, you will also want a relationship with another human being at some point in your life. You will want to have sex. Many people think about sex all the time. Humans are just talking animals, really. When you break down what everyone wants to a simple level, things can get a lot easier.

Porn is bullshit. The industry thrives off of keeping you from NOT having sex. Think about it... does porn want you to be out there, making love to women and being active? or do they have more of a vested, MONETARY interest in keeping you in front of your computer, masturbating? If you are out and dating women, having fun, you don't need porn nearly as much. Porn can also damage a rl relationship, by taking away your attention, filling your head with unrealistic expectations, harming a partners confidence or self esteem, and more.

You really think porn is your friend? ha! porn doesn't give a fuck about your social life or your relationship with your lover, or loved ones. Porn wants to keep you ADDICTED, just like a substance abuser. And also like a substance abuser , as you get more and more into porn, you will begin to need a stronger stimulus to get that same rush that you used to get. Before you know it, people are smearing shit on themselves and having sex with animals. That's the way this goes. Not with everyone, but ive noticed the same problems more and more. when i feel like it, i will update this topic day to day and slowly change some perceptions till people realize how serious it can get.

Now does this happen to everyone? Hell no. Is there a huge medium ground where people balance porn and a healthy sex life? Absolutely, im sure there are tons of couples who use porn to augment their sex life and that's just rooty tooty. But those are not the people i am going to be referring to in my next entry. TO BE CONTINUED ....

Theres Nothing Wrong With Love
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Haha you spent all that time typing that and I didn't even read it

TheGoldenEel posted...

Theres Nothing Wrong With Love

God is love. Understand love and you'll understand life.

I_Stay_Noided posted...

Haha you spent all that time typing that and I didn't even read it

1. Yea you did
2. Your loss if you didn't anyways

Good points Keith
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Just skimming over the OP, this is less 'defense of love' and more denouncing porn, methinks.
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I_Stay_Noided posted...

Haha you spent all that time typing that and I didn't even read it