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02/28/18 8:37:28 PM
#51:


Funkydog posted...
MrDrMan posted...
If it had been years ago then I get you but we had been together. There's a code to the game.

There's so many women out here that IMO to go after someone's ex is just kinda disrespectful. That's just how I feel. I have like maybe 4 or 5 really good friends so that's only a handful of girls then everyone is else fair game. I don't see how that's unreasonable and I would never do it.

The heart wants who the heart wants. Just gotta accept that and not block off someone just because you fucked once.


It ain't the heart driving someone to grope a woman without consent/
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Dustin1280
02/28/18 8:38:26 PM
#52:


Get the fuck over it...

It doesn't sound like she cares about what happened. You are making a huge deal out of something that even your "girlfriend" doesn't seem to give a crap about.
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02/28/18 8:39:17 PM
#53:


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College graduates but this is all some high school level shit.


I agree shit is silly but I also didn't grope anyone. It takes a very patient man to just completely let that go.
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Dustin1280
02/28/18 8:40:09 PM
#54:


No it doesn't, it just takes someone who doesn't have the maturity of a high schooler...
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REMercsChamp
02/28/18 8:40:29 PM
#55:


MrDrMan posted...
REMercsChamp posted...
MrDrMan posted...
E32005 posted...
no. you just said you are 'off and on'

no reason for him to think shes not fair game.


1. We were 'on' at the time.

2. Even if we were completely done that's not ok. You don't make a move on your friend's exes. That is common sense. If you're going to then you have to at least discuss it with the friend.

3. Groping anyone without consent is WRONG and ILLEGAL.

>Hangs out with guys you'd find on Jerry Springer
>Shocked at illegal activities


My friends are all college graduates. You're just wrong man.

This doesn't mean anything. Some of those guys on Springer had PhDs. Springer himself was a politician.
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Cal12
02/28/18 8:40:45 PM
#56:


My first thought is that your girl has some explaining to do. Sounds like they boned during one of your off times and he thought she was still fair game.

Either way you said he isnt really a friend so bro code doesnt apply here if she was off if thats what happened.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 8:41:05 PM
#57:


Dustin1280 posted...
Get the fuck over it...

It doesn't sound like she cares about what happened. You are making a huge deal out of something that even your "girlfriend" doesn't seem to give a crap about.


Nah. If I was making a huge deal I would have said something to him or just whooped his ass right now.

This is just a venting topic. If you don't like it don't respond.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 8:42:38 PM
#58:


REMercsChamp posted...
MrDrMan posted...
REMercsChamp posted...
MrDrMan posted...
E32005 posted...
no. you just said you are 'off and on'

no reason for him to think shes not fair game.


1. We were 'on' at the time.

2. Even if we were completely done that's not ok. You don't make a move on your friend's exes. That is common sense. If you're going to then you have to at least discuss it with the friend.

3. Groping anyone without consent is WRONG and ILLEGAL.

>Hangs out with guys you'd find on Jerry Springer
>Shocked at illegal activities


My friends are all college graduates. You're just wrong man.

This doesn't mean anything. Some of those guys on Springer had PhDs. Springer himself was a politician.


Springer is making all the money he's exempt. A small minority of people on Springer have PhD's. Literally everyone in my close friend group has at least a bachelor's.
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EnragedSlith
02/28/18 8:43:12 PM
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Society doesnt support ass beatings, so Id cut both of them out of your life to avoid further consequences
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Ryo_the_Inferno
02/28/18 8:48:22 PM
#60:


MrDrMan posted...
Dustin1280 posted...
my girl and I have been on and off but that's not ok.


1. Were you "on" or "off" when this happened.

2. Did she attempt to stop it?


1. We were on but got into an argument that night after this had happened about something different.

2. It was already done. Dude came up behind and basically grabbed everything from behind. She told him she was with me and he basically shrugged it off but he knows that's my girl.

They've probably slept together before when you were "off", and he thought it was cool to go for it. He backed off when told.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 8:52:52 PM
#62:


Ryo_the_Inferno posted...
MrDrMan posted...
Dustin1280 posted...
my girl and I have been on and off but that's not ok.


1. Were you "on" or "off" when this happened.

2. Did she attempt to stop it?


1. We were on but got into an argument that night after this had happened about something different.

2. It was already done. Dude came up behind and basically grabbed everything from behind. She told him she was with me and he basically shrugged it off but he knows that's my girl.

They've probably slept together before when you were "off", and he thought it was cool to go for it. He backed off when told.


Highly doubt it. She's not the type. Dude is just a horny bastard.

It's whatever. I had my venting moment. Like someone already suggested I think the best option is just to let go of both of them. How to get out of this relationship is the next hurdle...
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 8:54:20 PM
#63:


Conflict posted...
I was with you until you mentioned that you were no longer with this girl. It's pretty much irrelevant now. Like it's fair to mention to him that you wouldn't fuck with him because he did that in the first place but don't confront him aggressively.


On and off doesn't mean you aren't with the girl man. Plenty of people break up and get back together.

You guys gotta date more. You've never had a chick you've broken up with and gotten back together?
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EscapeFromHell
02/28/18 8:56:06 PM
#64:


Sorry to be the one to say it, TC, but this relationship is done. She didn't care that some dude groped her while she was with you and you don't know how to handle your relationship when someone steps in and disrespects it.

It doesn't really matter how you found out, the point you should be focusing on is that 2 years have been wasted. If you stay with her, who knows how many more you'll waste before she outright cheats or you find out she already has been.

If, on the other hand you secretly like the idea of her being with other people but you simply do not like this guy, then maybe you can turn this into something fun. But, no matter what you choose to do, this relationship is done.

It sucks, but you should start thinking about moving on.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 8:58:46 PM
#65:


EscapeFromHell posted...
Sorry to be the one to say it, TC, but this relationship is done. She didn't care that some dude groped her while she was with you and you don't know how to handle your relationship when someone steps in and disrespects it.

It doesn't really matter how you found out, the point you should be focusing on is that 2 years have been wasted. If you stay with her, who knows how many more you'll waste before she outright cheats or you find out she already has been.

If, on the other hand you secretly like the idea of her being with other people but you simply do not like this guy, then maybe you can turn this into something fun. But, no matter what you choose to do, this relationship is done.

It sucks, but you should start thinking about moving on.


I am 100% sure she wouldn't and hasn't cheated on me. Every time we took a break I initiated but that alone confirms that yes I should just move on.

I just don't know how. I'd never been in a serious relationship before this and I just don't know. If I break up with her she will blow up my phone in a way you guys have never seen begging me not to. She also has a son I've met and been around. Just a sticky situation. I'm gonna have to just man up and do it.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 9:00:57 PM
#67:


Conflict posted...
MrDrMan posted...
Conflict posted...
I was with you until you mentioned that you were no longer with this girl. It's pretty much irrelevant now. Like it's fair to mention to him that you wouldn't fuck with him because he did that in the first place but don't confront him aggressively.


On and off doesn't mean you aren't with the girl man. Plenty of people break up and get back together.

You guys gotta date more. You've never had a chick you've broken up with and gotten back together?


Most people don't


I don't believe that at all. I think the majority of CE has little to no experience with women. Even if it was a fling you cut off and got back together I don't know anyone who hasn't messed with an old flame at some point.
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Axiom
02/28/18 9:04:54 PM
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Messing around with a girl doesn't mean you're together with her even if it's an ex. On and off just means you break up and get back together a lot which is unhealthy and most people avoid such situations
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Roxborough4Ever
02/28/18 9:05:15 PM
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dude your girl withheld the info because she liked it and he is her backup dude. you are just getting played dude
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 9:07:35 PM
#70:


Axiom posted...
Messing around with a girl doesn't mean you're together with her even if it's an ex. On and off just means you break up and get back together a lot which is unhealthy and most people avoid such situations

Roxborough4Ever posted...
dude your girl withheld the info because she liked it and he is her backup dude. you are just getting played dude


This chick has never once broken up with me. Every time it was me. If I were you guys I'd think the same thing but you're 100% wrong.

The main reason I'm attracted to her is she's never been that type. She doesn't fuck around like that but think what you want.
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gatorsPENSbucs
02/28/18 9:09:53 PM
#71:


MrDrMan posted...
We were all beyond trashed and my girl and I have been on and off

Welp
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 9:11:20 PM
#72:


gatorsPENSbucs posted...
MrDrMan posted...
We were all beyond trashed and my girl and I have been on and off

Welp


Lmao this killed me.

I know you guys don't believe me but I've been with plenty of girls. She's not that type whatsoever. I wouldn't worry about her cheating if she had a gun to her head.
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3khc
02/28/18 9:13:12 PM
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Sick his dock. That will show him how serious you are.
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The_Freecs
02/28/18 9:15:24 PM
#75:


Just ask youre girlfriend why she took so long to tel you about this and ask him about why he did it.

Id you have any doubts after that, just let them both go.
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The-19th-Sparta
02/28/18 9:20:35 PM
#76:


TC, there's not much to say since you won't go into more details about how this went down. Don't want to sound like the delusional positive guy, but there's also the possibility she reacted the way she did because he was indeed blackout drunk and chose to play it calm so he can slowly backoff without getting hostile.

I've been around many blackouts in my life as I used to be a party animal myself. I find most stay cool and normal when wasted, then there's those who let their animal instincts take over, that includes doing shit they shouldn't be doing and getting incredibly violent when confronted. If she was just reacting calmly to slow him down and push him away, I wouldn't be surprised.

Maybe he's a cool guy when blacked out and you didn't point it out, maybe she in fact didn't care that she was groped, maybe she did fool around with him/other people before, maybe she's the type who gets different when drunk, but there's also the chance it was just a case of one person calming down a wasted person to back off from the situation rather than reacting extremely and possibly causing a bad scene.

You mentioned she knows you enough to know that you would react strongly so there's many factors in why she chose to mention it now and through texts. She is indeed the one who texted you this right? If she did, that usually means she's doesn't have much more to hide if she willingly brought that up.

There's too many things in these posts without true clarity and i'm not going to ask for them. Just talk to your girl, get the information you need, and make a decision that you feel is right.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 9:24:56 PM
#77:


Conflict posted...
You think CE has little to no experience with women because they don't do "on and off" relationships. Okay


Not because you dont do them but you seem to be surprised that a thing.

People break up and get back together all the time. Ask your parents if they ever have. Bet youd be surprised.
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MrDrMan
02/28/18 9:29:41 PM
#78:


The-19th-Sparta posted...
TC, there's not much to say since you won't go into more details about how this went down. Don't want to sound like the delusional positive guy, but there's also the possibility she reacted the way she did because he was indeed blackout drunk and chose to play it calm so he can slowly backoff without getting hostile.

I've been around many blackouts in my life as I used to be a party animal myself. I find most stay cool and normal when wasted, then there's those who let their animal instincts take over, that includes doing shit they shouldn't be doing and getting incredibly violent when confronted. If she was just reacting calmly to slow him down and push him away, I wouldn't be surprised.

Maybe he's a cool guy when blacked out and you didn't point it out, maybe she in fact didn't care that she was groped, maybe she did fool around with him/other people before, maybe she's the type who gets different when drunk, but there's also the chance it was just a case of one person calming down a wasted person to back off from the situation rather than reacting extremely and possibly causing a bad scene.

You mentioned she knows you enough to know that you would react strongly so there's many factors in why she chose to mention it now and through texts. She is indeed the one who texted you this right? If she did, that usually means she's doesn't have much more to hide if she willingly brought that up.

There's too many things in these posts without true clarity and i'm not going to ask for them. Just talk to your girl, get the information you need, and make a decision that you feel is right.


I appreciate that man. Thats what Im not taking these guys saying she cheated seriously.

She could have easily never said anything. Its more she didnt want me to freak out. My girl isnt the type to cheat but that doesnt mean everything is perfect.

I genuinely think its time to move on but its so damn hard.
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Ryo_the_Inferno
03/01/18 12:58:43 AM
#79:


MrDrMan posted...
Axiom posted...
Messing around with a girl doesn't mean you're together with her even if it's an ex. On and off just means you break up and get back together a lot which is unhealthy and most people avoid such situations

Roxborough4Ever posted...
dude your girl withheld the info because she liked it and he is her backup dude. you are just getting played dude


This chick has never once broken up with me. Every time it was me. If I were you guys I'd think the same thing but you're 100% wrong.

The main reason I'm attracted to her is she's never been that type. She doesn't fuck around like that but think what you want.

I don't know why you think that you being the one to initiate the break up means she wouldn't sleep with someone else. Also, just because she wouldn't cheat on you, doesn't mean she wouldn't sleep with someone after you BROKE UP with her. You can't cheat on a relationship that ended.
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ChainedRedone
03/01/18 1:05:22 AM
#80:


@R0ttedHorror posted...
Give him what he deserves, dump your so called girlfriend, then move on man. Its a loss. Im very sorry. But really. This is no bueno for the soul.


Why the fuck would he dump her?

Are you the kind of chump that would dump a girl if she got raped?
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KillCommunism
03/01/18 1:05:38 AM
#81:


your girl is cheating on you dude....

MrDrMan posted...
Lmao this killed me.

I know you guys don't believe me but I've been with plenty of girls. She's not that type whatsoever. I wouldn't worry about her cheating if she had a gun to her head.


Oh yeah, she's definitely cheating on you
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Lorenzo_2003
03/01/18 1:09:09 AM
#82:


MrDrMan posted...
I want to let it go but the dude still tries to act like we're cool. He doesn't know that I know. I don't know if he even remembers doing that though honestly.

I'm just heated. I let a lot of shit slide but don't touch my girl man.


That guy sexually assaulted your girlfriend, she didnt freak out about it, and now youre on CE acting confused and considering joining a sports team with him?

You should encourage your girlfriend to fuck that guy. Its kind of obvious he will at least know what to do with her and you wont have to be stressed about it anymore.
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03/01/18 1:11:44 AM
#83:


How close of a friend is he to you?

If he's not then tell him you can't be cool because of it

If he's is tell him your upset it shouldn't happen again and apologize
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gafemaqs
03/01/18 9:13:52 AM
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Ditch the girl get with the guy
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MrDrMan
03/01/18 2:52:27 PM
#86:


Conflict posted...
MrDrMan posted...
Conflict posted...
You think CE has little to no experience with women because they don't do "on and off" relationships. Okay


Not because you dont do them but you seem to be surprised that a thing.

People break up and get back together all the time. Ask your parents if they ever have. Bet youd be surprised.


I'm not surprised that it's a thing, I'm amused by you getting mad over it and feeling the need to aggressively confront the guy when she's no longer your girlfriend


She was my girlfriend at the time and still is currently. What are you not getting? The on and off was just to say Ive been with this chick 2-3 years but with some breaks in between. That doesnt mean she wasnt my girlfriend.

The lack of comprehension.
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03/01/18 3:05:18 PM
#87:


Tell him that if he doesnt sincerely apologize that youll suck him off
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