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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 5:09:40 PM
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I feel like I don't belong here. Or at raves. Or anywhere. I'm depressed as fuck and I feel like even my own friends secretly don't like me because of it.
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gnome from nome
02/24/18 5:10:22 PM
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so business as usual
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 5:21:46 PM
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Maybe I should close my GameFAQs account, stop going to raves, and isolate myself in my room.
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DeanAuryn
02/24/18 5:22:37 PM
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Dont you have a girlfriend?
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 5:26:06 PM
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DeanAuryn posted...
Dont you have a girlfriend?

I had a girl I was talking to and seeing. Things seemed to be going really well. Now everything feels like it's fallen apart.
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young_flip
02/24/18 5:27:48 PM
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do you exercise? try to get some blood flowing. its a proven mood enhancer.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 5:28:11 PM
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young_flip posted...
do you exercise? try to get some blood flowing. its a proven mood enhancer.

Yes, I exercise.
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young_flip
02/24/18 5:29:19 PM
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oh I didn't read that last post. this is over some girl. nm then
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 5:30:38 PM
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@Offworlder1
We called it, lol
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DeanAuryn
02/24/18 5:30:48 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
DeanAuryn posted...
Dont you have a girlfriend?

I had a girl I was talking to and seeing. Things seemed to be going really well. Now everything feels like it's fallen apart.


Are you still talking?
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 5:35:21 PM
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DeanAuryn posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
DeanAuryn posted...
Dont you have a girlfriend?

I had a girl I was talking to and seeing. Things seemed to be going really well. Now everything feels like it's fallen apart.


Are you still talking?

She usually messages me first on Snapchat every day. Today, she didn't. And she hasn't replied to me. I have a really bad feeling about this.
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DeanAuryn
02/24/18 5:35:43 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
DeanAuryn posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
DeanAuryn posted...
Dont you have a girlfriend?

I had a girl I was talking to and seeing. Things seemed to be going really well. Now everything feels like it's fallen apart.


Are you still talking?

She usually messages me on Snapchat first every day. Today, she didn't. And she hasn't replied to me. I have a really bad feeling about this.


I hope it works out for you.
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Offworlder1
02/24/18 5:37:18 PM
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Indeed we did, and now he is worse off and it was only a short term thing, imagine his reaction to being dumped in a long term relationship.

Getting a girlfriend does NOT cure depression, see medical help topic creator.

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DeanAuryn
02/24/18 5:50:47 PM
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Offworlder1 posted...
Indeed we did, and now he is worse off and it was only a short term thing, imagine his reaction to being dumped in a long term relationship.

Getting a girlfriend does NOT cure depression, see medical help topic creator.

@SomeonesAlt


Wait, what? You and TC were talking to each other?
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 5:54:38 PM
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DeanAuryn posted...
Wait, what? You and TC were talking to each other?

Quick lowdown

TC used to make a whole bunch of incel topics complaining about chads getting girls and that he was only depressed because he was single

Offworlder1 and I told him relationships don't cure depression

TC later hooks up with some raver chick and makes a topic saying his depression was cured

Again, we tell him that relationships aren't a cure and it'll hurt when they break up

And here we are
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DeanAuryn
02/24/18 5:59:43 PM
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I see, lol.
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Offworlder1
02/24/18 6:16:07 PM
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I kinda feel the guy is in denial about how bad his depression actually is and it is only worse now because he fooled himself into believing the rave girl was his cure all.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:17:15 PM
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Offworlder1 posted...
I kinda feel the guy is in denial about how bad his depression actually is and it is only worse now because he fooled himself into believing the rave girl was his cure all.

Maybe I'm just pure trash, and if I wasn't, she would still like me.
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DeanAuryn
02/24/18 6:17:40 PM
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Offworlder1 posted...
I kinda feel the guy is in denial about how bad his depression actually is and it is only worse now because he fooled himself into believing the rave girl was his cure all.


Hes made an assisted suicide for the depressed topic.
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Xenozoa425
02/24/18 6:23:41 PM
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I said this in Tadamoto's topic but it applies here as well, so I'll repeat it.

I view relationships not as a method to obtain happiness, but as a way to share your own happiness with a special person, and that happiness will evolve slowly into love and trust over time.

So if you're not happy with yourself the way you are, why do you think a relationship will magically make everything go away? Because you're getting laid regularly? Your feelings will only end up sinking back into the hole you made once the dust settles. If you can learn to love yourself and be happy with yourself, then the pain of not being in a relationship anymore will not affect you as sharply.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:25:15 PM
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Xenozoa425 posted...
I said this in Tadamoto's topic but it applies here as well, so I'll repeat it.

I view relationships not as a method to obtain happiness, but as a way to share your own happiness with a special person, and that happiness will evolve slowly into love and trust over time.

So if you're not happy with yourself the way you are, why do you think a relationship will magically make everything go away? Because you're getting laid regularly? Your feelings will only end up sinking back into the hole you made once the dust settles. If you can learn to love yourself and be happy with yourself, then the pain of not being in a relationship anymore will not affect you as sharply.

It's not my fault I'm depressed. Should depressed people just not be allowed to have relationships?
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12amMadman
02/24/18 6:25:40 PM
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You meantioned raves. Are you sure you're just not on a come down
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CanuckCowboy
02/24/18 6:26:26 PM
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Join a cult. It's the obvious solution.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:29:53 PM
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12amMadman posted...
You meantioned raves. Are you sure you're just not on a come down

There's more to it than that. Things are most-likely over between me and bae.
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CanuckCowboy
02/24/18 6:31:11 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
12amMadman posted...
You meantioned raves. Are you sure you're just not on a come down

There's more to it than that. Things are most-likely over between me and bae.


If you're literally basing this off of half a day without a response you seriously need to chill.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:33:57 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
12amMadman posted...
You meantioned raves. Are you sure you're just not on a come down

There's more to it than that. Things are most-likely over between me and bae.


If you're literally basing this off of half a day without a response you seriously need to chill.

There's more to it than that. Her ex was there and she said she had anxiety and didn't want me to kiss her or touch her. Then she went to hang out with other guys who are supposedly friends.
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Xenozoa425
02/24/18 6:34:58 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
It's not my fault I'm depressed. Should depressed people just not be allowed to have relationships?

It's not about fault or blame, it's about picking yourself up and having the strength and resolve to keep moving forward and make the most of your situation. Maybe you'll find a better woman in the future. You won't know if you continue to dwell on and keep your head turned around, looking back at things that happened in the past. Keep looking straight into the future.
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ShotgunSilencer
02/24/18 6:35:42 PM
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Did something happen to make you think shes done with you? Besides not messaging you first. Or are you just being dramatic and torturing yourself over nothing??

Edit: just saw your post about what happened. Dont sweat it yet. Exes make things weird. Keep at it.
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 6:36:17 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
CanuckCowboy posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
12amMadman posted...
You meantioned raves. Are you sure you're just not on a come down

There's more to it than that. Things are most-likely over between me and bae.


If you're literally basing this off of half a day without a response you seriously need to chill.

There's more to it than that. Her ex was there and she said she had anxiety and didn't want me to kiss her or touch her. Then she went to hang out with other guys who are supposedly friends.

Might have to change your signature. Also, you sound like a stage 6 clinger. Might want to work on that.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:36:37 PM
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ShotgunSilencer posted...
Did something happen to make you think shes done with you? Besides not messaging you first. Or are you just being dramatic and torturing yourself over nothing??

She acted distant at the rave.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:37:42 PM
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SomeonesAlt posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
CanuckCowboy posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
12amMadman posted...
You meantioned raves. Are you sure you're just not on a come down

There's more to it than that. Things are most-likely over between me and bae.


If you're literally basing this off of half a day without a response you seriously need to chill.

There's more to it than that. Her ex was there and she said she had anxiety and didn't want me to kiss her or touch her. Then she went to hang out with other guys who are supposedly friends.

Might have to change your signature. Also, you sound like a stage 6 clinger. Might want to work on that.

How's this? And what is a "stage 6 clinger"? Is there an actual scale of some sort?
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Banjo2553
02/24/18 6:39:39 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
It's not my fault I'm depressed. Should depressed people just not be allowed to have relationships?

We're saying try to find a way to overcome your depression. I realize it's hard and isn't as easy as "get over it", but you need to try to be proactive in overcoming this. You can do it, I believe in you.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:40:16 PM
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Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?
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ShotgunSilencer
02/24/18 6:41:40 PM
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I wouldnt sweat it yet. Mixing exes and new people makes things complicated.
Just chill. Keep talking and flirting or whatever yall do. Ride it out and see what happens
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Banjo2553
02/24/18 6:42:21 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

I would, tbh. It's normal to feel that way, even towards a regular friend.
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 6:42:41 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

Most people would just move on after realizing it was over. Might not be over though.

What was your last exchange of texts? Last 5 messages or so
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Offworlder1
02/24/18 6:43:01 PM
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Your over reacting is the issue, yoy have not even known this chick that long and this has seriously upset you. Most dudes would just shrug and find someone else giving it very little thought.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:43:18 PM
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SomeonesAlt posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

Most people would just move on.

What was your last exchange of texts? Last 5 messages or so

It doesn't matter.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:43:55 PM
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Offworlder1 posted...
Your over reacting is the issue, yoy have not even known this chick that long and this has seriously upset you. Most dudes would just shrug and find someone else giving it very little thought.

Well, I'm not a player. I can't just find someone else. It's not that easy for me.
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GiftedACIII
02/24/18 6:44:28 PM
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And TC was so confident he cured his depression too
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 6:44:31 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
SomeonesAlt posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

Most people would just move on.

What was your last exchange of texts? Last 5 messages or so

It doesn't matter.

You're asking for help, I'm offering to sum up the situation for you based on your recent exchanges
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:45:32 PM
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SomeonesAlt posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
SomeonesAlt posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

Most people would just move on.

What was your last exchange of texts? Last 5 messages or so

It doesn't matter.

You're asking for help, I'm offering to sum up the situation for you based on your recent exchanges

You're assuming our recent exchanges even have any relevance. Maybe she found another guy she likes better. Maybe she secretly still likes her ex. If I can't figure it out, you certainly can't.
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Xenozoa425
02/24/18 6:47:39 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

You definitely are overreacting. Me and my girlfriend had a fight a couple weeks ago, we stopped talking for a couple days. I tend to overthink things and imagine bad scenarios. My friend told me that everything's gonna be alright, just say your piece and when she calms down, she'll come back to you because she knows I love her, and vice versa.

Obviously my situation doesn't exactly fit yours, but the first step is to just stop overthinking and move on. Don't dwell on it. If she isn't the right girl for you, no big deal, move on and wait for the next one. If she cares about you, she'll come back. Either way, you need to calm tf down and be patient.
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Zodd3224
02/24/18 6:52:21 PM
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This is such a strange account
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 6:53:47 PM
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Well you can at least acknowledge now that relationships aren't the cure to your depression. That's growth.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:54:35 PM
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Zodd3224 posted...
This is such a strange account

Maybe I'm a strange guy. Or maybe any guy who is 29 and has no wife, and can't get a girlfriend would be depressed as fuck.
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Pepys Monster
02/24/18 6:55:26 PM
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SomeonesAlt posted...
Well you can at least acknowledge now that relationships aren't the cure to your depression. That's growth.

No, I was happy when I thought she liked me.
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SomeonesAlt
02/24/18 6:56:53 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
SomeonesAlt posted...
Well you can at least acknowledge now that relationships aren't the cure to your depression. That's growth.

No, I was happy when I thought she liked me.

But you clearly have underlying feelings of depression, they were just masked in what's known as the honeymoon phase
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DezDroppedFreak
02/24/18 6:57:09 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Am I actually overreacting or would anybody be sad if a girl they've been talking to turned cold all of a sudden?

Overreacting imo
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Turbam
02/24/18 6:58:40 PM
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Welcome to the club
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