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TheGoldenEel 02/22/18 2:28:58 PM #1: |
do we still need one of these? here it is
I have had a girlfriend for approximately a week now*. she's coming on a weekend trip with my family in a couple weeks share your stories and experiences with the dating world CE --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 02/22/18 2:50:17 PM #2: |
you're taking your girlfriend of a week on a weekend trip with your family?
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TheGoldenEel 02/22/18 3:03:04 PM #4: |
Muffinz0rz posted...
you're taking your girlfriend of a week on a weekend trip with your family? Shoot the reason theres the asterisk is I was gonna explain it Weve been friends for years, started booking up around July last year, started acknowledging we were dating because like Sept/Oct, had a talk about being exclusive the end of October, then the end of December she broke things off saying basically she wasnt ready to be in a relationship-relationship yet after her shitty ex left her abruptly from a five-yr thing. But she still wanted to hang out all the time and last week she asked me to take her back and that she was ready for that sort of investment So shes not really a new girlfriend but kind of is --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 02/22/18 3:04:01 PM #5: |
Conflict posted...
I want to ask this girl out over text but she mentioned having the flu and laryngitis. Should I just wait until she gets better? I want to be direct and I don't want to wait too long but I also don't want to do it at the wrong time either yes, wait until she gets better don't text her every day or anything like that; in my experience, even a simple "how are you feeling?" can be misconstrued as a "hurry up and feel better so i can bang you" question, rather than a legit question about her health and well-being. I'd say check in about a week later; the flu can last a long time TheGoldenEel posted... Muffinz0rz posted...you're taking your girlfriend of a week on a weekend trip with your family? oh okay that makes sense --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim team: https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/22/18 3:04:11 PM #6: |
Conflict posted...
I'm about to ask a really dumb question How do you know her? Id say if youre talking mention that youd like to go out but you know shes sick? Im no Casanova but Id say hope you feel better soon so we can go out for [whatever] --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 02/22/18 3:07:05 PM #7: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...you're taking your girlfriend of a week on a weekend trip with your family? I'm glad you got things worked out with her. Congrats. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Silver Bearings 02/22/18 3:23:43 PM #8: |
Still talking to the flake girl. Spent all day Monday with her. Haven't seen her since!
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Silver Bearings 02/22/18 3:42:34 PM #10: |
I feel like since this is a new topic, maybe it's time to tell the story about the flake girl.
So my friend and I met this girl about 2 years ago and he asked her out. Every time we were together as a group, she would always hang around me and ignore him. They only went on two dates alone. But he was my friend, so I ignored her. Finally, her roommate pulled me aside and yelled at me for not asking this girl out since she liked me and not my friend. So after another couple of weeks or so, I finally asked her out and we went on our first date. Spent a lot of time together after that, but she's flaky as hell. So I told her to leave me alone, that I needed something more stable. Two months later, she's trying to get back with me and the cycle happens again. One month on, two months off. I finally got mad enough that I blocked her number, etc., but I ended up caving three months later when she showed up crying at my door with a note saying how she loved me, but isn't ready to commit to a serious relationship because "she knows we'd end up getting married." Been hanging out with her flaky-self for about one month now. I've decided to just enjoy it when she shows up (totally worth it) while looking for someone else. We always end up coming back together, but I'm starting to tire of it after two years. TL; DR: Background of the saga of me seeing a flaky girl for 2 years. --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/22/18 4:22:45 PM #11: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
Still a little cautious but she def feels more like she wants this to be real relationship now than two friends casually hooking up Conflict posted... I met her at a club at school. We (as a group) went out to eat and for bowling last week. I offered to give her my number and she texted me. I hit her up and few days later and she mentioned that when I asked her how she was doing Idk if its been a couple days maybe ask her how shes doing and if shed like to go out his weekend? But be prepared for her to say no shes still sick. Personally I think its better to maintain a little contact and not just text her two weeks later out of the blue Silver Bearings posted... TL; DR: Background of the saga of me seeing a flaky girl for 2 years. Tbh thats what Id do. No reason to close the door on it if its not causing you too much pain, but definitely look elsewhere meanwhile Kind of what I did with my girl and then she saw me dating and realized she didnt want me to be with anyone but her --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 02/22/18 4:40:00 PM #12: |
I think I'm gonna tell her I love her
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TheGoldenEel 02/22/18 6:16:57 PM #13: |
emblem boy posted...
I think I'm gonna tell her I love her Do you? --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArchangelBaruch 02/22/18 6:29:02 PM #14: |
Dayum, I just got friendzoned hard.
For the second date this girl who shares most of my hobbies invited me to her apartment. We played some games, saw Totoro and then some Adventure Time. There was no contact, but the good feeling was clearly there. When leaving we agreed on doing something on Saturday. I get back home (she lives 40 min away) and when saying goodnight she says she isn't feeling it but that she would love to stay friends (which I also do, she's a cool girl). Game, set and match. --- Vocaloid topic: http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/2000121-/74835387 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 02/22/18 6:30:45 PM #15: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
emblem boy posted...I think I'm gonna tell her I love her I think so? --- Posted with GameRaven 3.4 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/23/18 10:12:00 AM #16: |
emblem boy posted...
TheGoldenEel posted...emblem boy posted...I think I'm gonna tell her I love her Dont think about it so much. Just go with what feels right imo --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArchangelBaruch 02/24/18 7:01:35 PM #17: |
I just sent a gift to future me by messaging 20 OKC girls.
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Blue_Popo 02/25/18 1:28:13 AM #18: |
This week in the world of dating
Earlier in the week I banged this one girl who doesn't want a relationship. I'm not that interested in having sex with her anymore but she beats porn at least I went on a date yesterday with a girl from bumble. We actually matched in October and the conversation died a few times but we finally met. It went well, she was better looking in person and we talked until the bar closed. She was Indian (I am as well) and we had a solid connection. Nothing intense happened after but she texted me right after and we have been talking since. She is ultra successful, older than me by 5 years. She got divorced last year too Today I went on a date from coffee meets bagel. In the same career as me and the conversation was too heavy on that. Also she had a manly face -_-. I guess the date was fun but I had no real romantic interest in her. Also I have been having a rather troublesome issues with these apps. they just refuse to recognize my facebook. OKCupid and coffee meets bagel. I have tried everything. Deleting fb, deleting the apps, deleting them from facebook's settings. Nothing works anymore. Anyone ever encounter this issue? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/25/18 12:25:12 PM #19: |
Idk @Blue_Popo it seems like youre prioritizing quantity over quality and are gonna get burned out on the whole thing
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Blue_Popo 02/25/18 12:45:59 PM #20: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
Idk @Blue_Popo it seems like youre prioritizing quantity over quality and are gonna get burned out on the whole thing I went on 2 and one was from 4 months ago so I have already gotten burned out ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/25/18 1:26:39 PM #23: |
jeffhardyb0yz posted...
TheGoldenEel posted...Muffinz0rz posted...you're taking your girlfriend of a week on a weekend trip with your family? I guess you never know for sure do you? Shes been one of my best friends for a while and its hard to explain but it just feels different now. I knew the ex situation was a problem the first time around but this time she definitely feels like shes equally in the relationship I also think I reached a place where I know what I want out of a relationship and I know if Im not getting that I can walk away too Time will tell I guess --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 02/25/18 5:30:05 PM #24: |
Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own.
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Blue_Popo 02/25/18 8:41:06 PM #25: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. Well what's holding you back? What kind of pics are you using? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 02/25/18 8:55:45 PM #26: |
Blue_Popo posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. None right now, I closed all my accounts a long time ago. What's holding me back though, there's like a million reasons, a major one is social anxiety and no social skills. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blue_Popo 02/26/18 4:33:20 AM #27: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
Blue_Popo posted...KogaSteelfang posted...Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. I'm not going to sit here and say I am an expert at advice, but one thing I do truly believe is those can be changed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/26/18 11:31:17 AM #28: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. It just takes practice. Try different things and see what works, and dont let yourself get discouraged too much when things dont work (easier said than done). Just get yourself out there Also these topics have been pity parties for many of us so dont feel bad about venting --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 02/26/18 2:58:02 PM #29: |
Blue_Popo posted...
KogaSteelfang posted...Blue_Popo posted...KogaSteelfang posted...Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. Well, I'm gonna try I guess. I mean, if I want a change I have to. TheGoldenEel posted... KogaSteelfang posted...Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. So what dating sites are good? I'm not sure I wanna go the tinder route, idk, maybe bumble? That ones seems interesting. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blue_Popo 02/26/18 4:28:22 PM #30: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
Blue_Popo posted...KogaSteelfang posted...Blue_Popo posted...KogaSteelfang posted...Ok guys, I usually only lurk these topics because seeing you guys talk about how often you have sex really disheartens me, and I'm afraid if I post I'll end up just entering pity party mode. If I promise not to do that, will you guys help me? I REALLY want to start having a dating/sex life. I don't want to keep being jealous of you guys, I want to be able to share stories of my own. Just get all of them Tinder, bumble, okcupid, coffee meets bagel and I guess pof (though this one is pretty crappy) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 02/26/18 6:36:53 PM #31: |
Dang, bumble won't work on my iPad mini. :/
That was the one I was interested in most. Guess I'll look into that coffee meets bagel one next. Tinder and okcupid sucked for my area last time I tried. Crap, that ones the same. It looked interesting too. Guess I'm gonna have to just go back to okcupid again. I've heard it sucks now though. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/26/18 6:45:52 PM #32: |
OkCupid was always by far the best for me. Probably got like 90% of online dates from there. But I guess it depends on your area
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Blue_Popo 02/27/18 3:43:52 AM #33: |
I'd say tinder is best, bumble second, okcupid third, coffee meets bagel 4th, pof distant 5th
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TheGoldenEel 02/27/18 12:18:58 PM #34: |
For me OkCupid was by far the best, then bumble, then tinder easily the worst
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KogaSteelfang 02/27/18 1:06:21 PM #35: |
Best for what? Finding dates? Getting laid? Just meeting people?
Honestly, neither seemed very good when I tried them before. My area seems to be lacking in people to date. I'd take 20 minutes and actually run out of people to view on them. >_> I mean, I'm willing to give anyone a shot unless they're completely repulsive in some way, but man, the pickings were extremely thin to say the least. The few people on there who looked like normal people either turned out to be bots or never responded. --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/27/18 1:10:19 PM #36: |
Just getting dates/meeting people
I was never trying to get laid --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 02/27/18 1:49:41 PM #37: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
Just getting dates/meeting people Seems like many of you don't need to try. >_>' --- Switch FC: SW-3227-7104-3140 Mario Kart 8, Splatoon 2. Add me if you want. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/27/18 2:00:14 PM #38: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
TheGoldenEel posted...Just getting dates/meeting people Well fwiw the only people Ive hooked up with in the past three years were my current girlfriend and previous girlfriend with like a year dry spell in between --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romulox28 02/27/18 2:02:08 PM #39: |
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TheGoldenEel 02/27/18 2:15:45 PM #40: |
Speaking of my last girlfriend I was just browsing through old fb messages for the purposes of my last post and saw that messenger the only place I still have any connection to her (she blocked me on Facebook otherwise, and I deleted her number and message history)
Is it weird to wonder how shes doing? No interest in getting back with her of coursewe just werent rightbut I did like her as a person and miss her sometimes. Probably best to just keep that in the past I guess --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGoldenEel 02/28/18 11:43:36 PM #41: |
bump
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Blue_Popo 03/01/18 1:32:11 AM #42: |
Went on a date
She was not as good as her pics but still good. ...man we ended up ****ing in my car outside the bar we went to. Been a long time since I fucked a girl day one. Feels strange actually. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArchangelBaruch 03/01/18 6:11:39 PM #43: |
So up until now I spoke/went out with girls a couple years younger than me. Today I got a message from a 22-year old girl (I'm 28).
Feels...somewhat not right? --- Vocaloid topic: http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/2000121-/74835387 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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C_Pain 03/01/18 6:12:03 PM #44: |
I've been with my gf I met through OKC for 3 months now. Feels good man.
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WizardofHoth 03/01/18 6:15:49 PM #45: |
Online dating just isn't safe anymore these days.
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TheGoldenEel 03/01/18 6:18:58 PM #46: |
ArchangelBaruch posted...
So up until now I spoke/went out with girls a couple years younger than me. Today I got a message from a 22-year old girl (I'm 28). Eh I think its okay. Im just about to turn 28 and I recently went on a date with a 22 year old. Definitely an age where they might be too young, but its worth giving it a shot. The girl I met was really cool, career motivated, etc. --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MTRodaba2468 03/01/18 6:36:04 PM #47: |
ArchangelBaruch posted...
So up until now I spoke/went out with girls a couple years younger than me. Today I got a message from a 22-year old girl (I'm 28). I've hooked up with someone whom was 15 years younger than me, and someone whom was 14 years older than me (and yes, everyone was of legal age). If you have chemistry with that person, and everyone is of consenting age, don't let it be a hangup. --- "You need a hobby. I suggest sticking forks in your eyes."-DJosef http://www.facebook.com/mtrunplugged ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Silver Bearings 03/02/18 4:19:17 PM #48: |
TheGoldenEel posted...
Silver Bearings posted...TL; DR: Background of the saga of me seeing a flaky girl for 2 years. Update: Told her to buzz off until she's ready for an adult relationship. We'll see how long that lasts... --- Silver Bearings 2020: Clear Vision for America ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blue_Popo 03/03/18 4:17:32 AM #49: |
So my fuck buddy started dating a guy :/
Her and I had agreed we would see each other but we had to be clear when one of us found someone. O well ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Galcian 03/03/18 4:31:17 AM #50: |
tempted to use pof tbh
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