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sonichu 02/15/18 3:50:22 PM #1:	Usually guys are told oh she was just a bitch get over it find someone else suck it up Without playing the victim, I have been abused in a relationship and everyone acts like I should just bounce up. I mean Im not depressed in my day to day life but you dont just forget you were emotionally abused. Thats why it is called emotional abuse. It sits with you. I was first emotionally abused almost a decade ago and it still sits in my head. Since that incident I literally dont trust anyone and what makes me still think like this is that many years later I tried knocking my walls down and ended up with a gold digging psychopath in my life who treated me like horseshit but because I was forcing myself to knock my walls down I endured so much emotional abuse and on one occasion was hit which she then turned into emotional blackmail because it was MY fault now that her arm was sore from hitting me so I now better buy her what she requested or else... Lets face facts, if I was a woman being abused most would support and understand why I dont date or trust, anymore. But because Im a man, Im told to quit being a wuss and to get over it. BlogFAQs. Make fun of me below. <cite>sonichu posted [p:896148945] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Usually guys are told oh she was just a bitch get over it find someone else suck it up Without playing the victim, I have been abused in a relationship and everyone acts like I should just bounce up. I mean Im not depressed in my day to day life but you dont just forget you were emotionally abused. Thats why it is called emotional abuse. It sits with you. I was first emotionally abused almost a decade ago and it still sits in my head. Since that incident I literally dont trust anyone and what makes me still think like this is that many years later I tried knocking my walls down and ended up with a gold digging psychopath in my life who treated me like horseshit but because I was forcing myself to knock my walls down I endured so much emotional abuse and on one occasion was hit which she then turned into emotional blackmail because it was MY fault now that her arm was sore from hitting me so I now better buy her what she requested or else... Lets face facts, if I was a woman being abused most would support and understand why I dont date or trust, anymore. But because Im a man, Im told to quit being a wuss and to get over it. BlogFAQs. Make fun of me below.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DK9292 02/15/18 3:51:23 PM #2:	Because this world is a piece of shit. --- "If the heroes run and hide, who'll stay and fight?" ~Saitama <cite>DK9292 posted [p:896149005] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Because this world is a piece of shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sonichu 02/15/18 4:05:53 PM #3:	DK9292 posted... Because this world is a piece of shit. True. Ive had family outright shoot me down or laugh in my face because my past experiences make me not want to date literally ever again. Literally EVERY family gathering they ask me if Im dating and I just say no then I get the ramble about how I need to get over it and to quit being a wuss. <cite>sonichu posted [p:896149898] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote><cite>DK9292 posted...</cite> <quote>Because this world is a piece of shit.</quote> True. Ive had family outright shoot me down or laugh in my face because my past experiences make me not want to date literally ever again. Literally EVERY family gathering they ask me if Im dating and I just say no then I get the ramble about how I need to get over it and to quit being a wuss.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCurseX2 02/15/18 4:06:52 PM #4:	Any criticism made against women makes you a sexist hater, ofc. --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. <cite>TheCurseX2 posted [p:896149959] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Any criticism made against women makes you a sexist hater, ofc.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 02/15/18 4:08:42 PM #5:	Because men don't give a shit about issues that affect men unless those issues can be used to deflect attention away from women. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:896150076] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Because men don't give a shit about issues that affect men unless those issues can be used to deflect attention away from women.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sonichu 02/15/18 4:15:33 PM #6:	TheCurseX2 posted... Any criticism made against women makes you a sexist hater, ofc. Oh of course. When I finally got the courage to tell my ex to go fuck herself, that was just me being a sexist manpig. Didnt matter that I was so emotionally distraught in the aftermath and mad at myself for letting it happen that I self harmed for the first time in my life in my mid 20s...nope...I was just a sexist man child for not giving that strong independent whale the world she deserves. <cite>sonichu posted [p:896150495] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCurseX2 posted...</cite> <quote>Any criticism made against women makes you a sexist hater, ofc.</quote> Oh of course. When I finally got the courage to tell my ex to go fuck herself, that was just me being a sexist manpig. Didnt matter that I was so emotionally distraught in the aftermath and mad at myself for letting it happen that I self harmed for the first time in my life in my mid 20s...nope...I was just a sexist man child for not giving that strong independent whale the world she deserves.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Uncle Choad 02/15/18 4:15:51 PM #7:	Wow, the patriarchy is trying to defend itself again. Typical misogynist. --- Oden ska fa sin hamnd. Jag ska doda er alla, sen ska jag dricka mjod med honom. <cite>Uncle Choad posted [p:896150511] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Wow, the patriarchy is trying to defend itself again. Typical misogynist.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCurseX2 02/15/18 4:17:18 PM #8:	sonichu posted... TheCurseX2 posted... Any criticism made against women makes you a sexist hater, ofc. Oh of course. When I finally got the courage to tell my ex to go fuck herself, that was just me being a sexist manpig. Didnt matter that I was so emotionally distraught in the aftermath and mad at myself for letting it happen that I self harmed for the first time in my life in my mid 20s...nope...I was just a sexist man child for not giving that strong independent whale the world she deserves. That's right, now you're ready to live as a heterosexual in 2018. Good luck out there in the Wasteland. --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. <cite>TheCurseX2 posted [p:896150599] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote><cite>sonichu posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCurseX2 posted...</cite> <quote>Any criticism made against women makes you a sexist hater, ofc.</quote> Oh of course. When I finally got the courage to tell my ex to go fuck herself, that was just me being a sexist manpig. Didnt matter that I was so emotionally distraught in the aftermath and mad at myself for letting it happen that I self harmed for the first time in my life in my mid 20s...nope...I was just a sexist man child for not giving that strong independent whale the world she deserves.</quote> That's right, now you're ready to live as a heterosexual in 2018. Good luck out there in the Wasteland.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 02/15/18 4:21:34 PM #9:	Same reason people take child abuse more seriously than either. Men are typically larger and stronger than women. Adults are typically larger and stronger than children. That doesn't make abuse okay regardless of the demographics, but it's easy to see why it's a larger concern overall. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:896150848] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Same reason people take child abuse more seriously than either. Men are typically larger and stronger than women. Adults are typically larger and stronger than children. That doesn't make abuse okay regardless of the demographics, but it's easy to see why it's a larger concern overall.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 02/15/18 4:24:38 PM #10:	But honestly, after reading your post...............I'm going to assume you're no longer with this woman. it's been years, man the fuck up and move on with your life. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:896151029] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>But honestly, after reading your post...............I'm going to assume you're no longer with this woman. it's been years, man the fuck up and move on with your life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkjedilink 02/15/18 4:27:53 PM #11:	Literally sexism. --- 'It's okay that those gangbangers stole all my personal belongings and cash at gunpoint, cuz they're building a rec center!' - OneTimeBen <cite>darkjedilink posted [p:896151221] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>Literally sexism.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Teddytalks 02/15/18 4:31:12 PM #12:	What I find is to, you simply need to let them know what you aren't going to tolerate. It isn't fair, but it is a double standard that is not going away any time soon. Sometimes, you have to let girls know you aren't going to tolerate their shit, force if necessary. You have to make sure you're ok at the end of the day, for your mental health and physical health. <cite>Teddytalks posted [p:896151405] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>What I find is to, you simply need to let them know what you aren't going to tolerate. It isn't fair, but it is a double standard that is not going away any time soon. Sometimes, you have to let girls know you aren't going to tolerate their shit, force if necessary. You have to make sure you're ok at the end of the day, for your mental health and physical health.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sonichu 02/15/18 4:49:35 PM #13:	Solid Snake07 posted... But honestly, after reading your post...............I'm going to assume you're no longer with this woman. it's been years, man the fuck up and move on with your life. Ive moved on in terms of every other aspect of my life but you dont just forget you were abused. This isnt the same as a break up but you still like that person. That sucks but you move on. This is emotional trauma. Take a person who had a traumatic experience with a dog and is now scared of dogs, a person who had a bad fall as a kid and is now terrified of heights etc. same thing. I was emotionally abused and now no matter what I do it sits with me so I cant date anymore. Its terrifying. Also doesnt help that the one time I tried dating since then she ended up being a stalker leaving me missed calls and messages all fucking day long. <cite>sonichu posted [p:896152561] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>But honestly, after reading your post...............I'm going to assume you're no longer with this woman. it's been years, man the fuck up and move on with your life.</quote> Ive moved on in terms of every other aspect of my life but you dont just forget you were abused. This isnt the same as a break up but you still like that person. That sucks but you move on. This is emotional trauma. Take a person who had a traumatic experience with a dog and is now scared of dogs, a person who had a bad fall as a kid and is now terrified of heights etc. same thing. I was emotionally abused and now no matter what I do it sits with me so I cant date anymore. Its terrifying. Also doesnt help that the one time I tried dating since then she ended up being a stalker leaving me missed calls and messages all fucking day long.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 02/15/18 4:53:52 PM #14:	one reason is that men are much less likely to talk about it or admit that they have a problem. do you see a mental health professional, TC? most women in your situation would. --- He would make his mark, if not on this tree, then on that wall; if not with teeth and claws, then with penknife and razor. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:896152802] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote>one reason is that men are much less likely to talk about it or admit that they have a problem. do you see a mental health professional, TC? most women in your situation would.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InYourWalls1 02/15/18 5:04:45 PM #15:	A_Good_Boy posted... Because men don't give a shit about[...]men This might be part of the reason https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/"Women_are_wonderful"_effect https://rutgerssocialcognitionlab.weebly.com/uploads/1/3/9/7/13979590/rudmangoodwin2004jpsp.pdf --- The fully enlightened earth radiates disaster triumphant <cite>InYourWalls1 posted [p:896153457] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote><cite>A_Good_Boy posted...</cite> <quote>Because men don't give a shit about[...]men</quote> This might be part of the reason https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/"Women_are_wonderful"_effect https://rutgerssocialcognitionlab.weebly.com/uploads/1/3/9/7/13979590/rudmangoodwin2004jpsp.pdf</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 02/15/18 5:17:35 PM #16:	InYourWalls1 posted... A_Good_Boy posted... Because men don't give a shit about[...]men This might be part of the reason https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/"Women_are_wonderful"_effect https://rutgerssocialcognitionlab.weebly.com/uploads/1/3/9/7/13979590/rudmangoodwin2004jpsp.pdf interesting --- He would make his mark, if not on this tree, then on that wall; if not with teeth and claws, then with penknife and razor. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:896154214] in How come n... [t:76322657]...</cite> <quote><cite>InYourWalls1 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>A_Good_Boy posted...</cite> <quote>Because men don't give a shit about[...]men</quote> This might be part of the reason https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/"Women_are_wonderful"_effect https://rutgerssocialcognitionlab.weebly.com/uploads/1/3/9/7/13979590/rudmangoodwin2004jpsp.pdf</quote> interesting</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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