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The Admiral 02/15/18 3:48:28 PM #1:	https://techcrunch.com/2018/02/14/tinder-to-adopt-bumbles-ladies-first-feature-in-a-future-update Tinder will make a change to its dating app in an upcoming update that will allow women to message first, according to a report from MarketWatch this morning, which TechCrunch has also confirmed. The new option will allow women to choose when to start a conversation, but it will not be the default setting as it is in Bumble. Instead, women will be able to decide whether or not they want to enable it, we understand. Currently, Tinder allows either men or women to make the first move after a mutual match has been made. This double-opt in design has made Tinder one of the most successful dating apps on the market to date, with now over 3 million paid subscribers in total, accounting for 30 percent of parent company Matchs revenue in 2017. While Tinder doesnt detail its registered or active user base, its app has been downloaded over 100 million times. However, Bumble has eaten into Tinders territory with its quickly growing dating app that claims over 26 million users. Tinder has also tried to acquire that company in the past. Given that Tinder is now going to roll out a very Bumble-like feature, I guess we know how those talks wrapped up. The new option to let women start conversations is not yet live in Tinders app, but will rather be included in a future update. It will also be tested ahead of a public launch as most of Tinders features today are we hear. This won't be mandatory like it is with Bumble, but creepy messages is one of the biggest female user complaints on Tinder, so it's safe to say many of the more attractive women will be using it. Life will be a getting a little bit harder if you're not a desirable guy pretty soon. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:896148819] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>https://techcrunch.com/2018/02/14/tinder-to-adopt-bumbles-ladies-first-feature-in-a-future-update <quote>Tinder will make a change to its dating app in an upcoming update that will allow women to message first, according to a report from MarketWatch this morning, which TechCrunch has also confirmed. The new option will allow women to choose when to start a conversation, but it will not be the default setting as it is in Bumble. Instead, women will be able to decide whether or not they want to enable it, we understand. Currently, Tinder allows either men or women to make the first move after a mutual match has been made. This double-opt in design has made Tinder one of the most successful dating apps on the market to date, with now over 3 million paid subscribers in total, accounting for 30 percent of parent company Matchs revenue in 2017. While Tinder doesnt detail its registered or active user base, its app has been downloaded over 100 million times. However, Bumble has eaten into Tinders territory with its quickly growing dating app that claims over 26 million users. Tinder has also tried to acquire that company in the past. Given that Tinder is now going to roll out a very Bumble-like feature, I guess we know how those talks wrapped up. The new option to let women start conversations is not yet live in Tinders app, but will rather be included in a future update. It will also be tested ahead of a public launch as most of Tinders features today are we hear.</quote> This won't be mandatory like it is with Bumble, but creepy messages is one of the biggest female user complaints on Tinder, so it's safe to say many of the more attractive women will be using it. Life will be a getting a little bit harder if you're not a desirable guy pretty soon.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
REMercsChamp 02/15/18 3:48:58 PM #2:	Fuckers --- https://i.imgur.com/lwkIVOb.png <cite>REMercsChamp posted [p:896148850] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Fuckers</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
s0nicfan 02/15/18 3:49:41 PM #3:	Meh... Tinder was always about people trying to hook up for sex. A feature that adds another layer of shallowness to something that was always shallow isn't a big loss for anyone. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz <cite>s0nicfan posted [p:896148898] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Meh... Tinder was always about people trying to hook up for sex. A feature that adds another layer of shallowness to something that was always shallow isn't a big loss for anyone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MacadamianNut3 02/15/18 3:50:09 PM #4:	Sounds good --- Roll Tide & Go Irish <cite>MacadamianNut3 posted [p:896148926] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Sounds good</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Romulox28 02/15/18 3:50:14 PM #5:	looks like it's time for Admiral to get his tuchis back on JDate --- http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif <cite>Romulox28 posted [p:896148934] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>looks like it's time for Admiral to get his tuchis back on JDate</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster 02/15/18 3:50:26 PM #6:	sulks --- Loading... <cite>Pepys Monster posted [p:896148950] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>sulks</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 02/15/18 3:51:19 PM #8:	s0nicfan posted... Tinder was always about people trying to hook up for sex. Tinder really hasn't been that way since 2014 or so. The first few years of Tinder were the Wild West of app dating and were amazing like that, but Tinder has evolved into just a regular dating platform now that's occasionally used for hook ups. Romulox28 posted... looks like it's time for Admiral to get his tuchis back on JDate JDate is pretty much dead. JSwipe is the Tinder-equivalent, which is awesome (if you live in NYC, anyway). --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:896149000] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>s0nicfan posted...</cite> <quote>Tinder was always about people trying to hook up for sex.</quote> Tinder really hasn't been that way since 2014 or so. The first few years of Tinder were the Wild West of app dating and were amazing like that, but Tinder has evolved into just a regular dating platform now that's occasionally used for hook ups. <cite>Romulox28 posted...</cite> <quote>looks like it's time for Admiral to get his tuchis back on JDate</quote> JDate is pretty much dead. JSwipe is the Tinder-equivalent, which is awesome (if you live in NYC, anyway).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Galcian 02/15/18 3:51:29 PM #9:	Sexist favoritism --- https://linuxmint.com/ <cite>Galcian posted [p:896149011] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Sexist favoritism</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 02/15/18 3:52:41 PM #10:	Tinder ...the get laid in 24hrs app --- [Your sig sucks] Waaaaah <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:896149086] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Tinder ...the get laid in 24hrs app</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheVipaGTS 02/15/18 3:53:48 PM #11:	lol a lot of people are gonna be mad about this... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then? --- Dallas Cowboys: 1 - 1 <cite>TheVipaGTS posted [p:896149169] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>lol a lot of people are gonna be mad about this... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sayoria 02/15/18 3:54:06 PM #12:	Going to be a lot of female accounts listed as "lesbian" made to reach out to women. --- Japanese Crack: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x5pzggr <cite>Sayoria posted [p:896149187] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Going to be a lot of female accounts listed as "lesbian" made to reach out to women.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 02/15/18 3:57:26 PM #13:	TheVipaGTS posted... lol a lot of people are gonna be mad about this... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then? Prolly just swipe right on everyone and then wait for the matches to pour in and then thats when you go thru the profile. --- [Your sig sucks] Waaaaah <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:896149389] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheVipaGTS posted...</cite> <quote>lol a lot of people are gonna be mad about this... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then?</quote> Prolly just swipe right on everyone and then wait for the matches to pour in and then thats when you go thru the profile.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGrindery 02/15/18 3:59:01 PM #14:	That's when you go into public and initiate conversation with a woman. Your town/city has some. I promise. <cite>TheGrindery posted [p:896149494] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>That's when you go into public and initiate conversation with a woman. Your town/city has some. I promise.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 02/15/18 3:59:15 PM #15:	Sayoria posted... Going to be a lot of female accounts listed as "lesbian" made to reach out to women. Women won't even see those unless they they list "female" as the gender they're seeking, though. Most women don't. TheVipaGTS posted... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then? It'll be optional at first for Tinder, but it will work like it does with Bumble. Most women swipe fairly casually and only message after seeing what their matches are and reading profiles. Guys are much more likely to just spam out messages to every match and try to get laid. This will reduce that behavior. Fortunately, if you're a desirable guy who already has luck on Bumble, you'll be the cream of the crop on Tinder. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:896149510] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sayoria posted...</cite> <quote>Going to be a lot of female accounts listed as "lesbian" made to reach out to women.</quote> Women won't even see those unless they they list "female" as the gender they're seeking, though. Most women don't. <cite>TheVipaGTS posted...</cite> <quote>but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then?</quote> It'll be optional at first for Tinder, but it will work like it does with Bumble. Most women swipe fairly casually and only message after seeing what their matches are and reading profiles. Guys are much more likely to just spam out messages to every match and try to get laid. This will reduce that behavior. Fortunately, if you're a desirable guy who already has luck on Bumble, you'll be the cream of the crop on Tinder.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
s0nicfan 02/15/18 3:59:31 PM #16:	TheVipaGTS posted... lol a lot of people are gonna be mad about this... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then? If I had to guess, Tinder has the analytics of their userbase and they were probably losing a lot of women to bumble. Given that a dating service lives and dies by how large their woman userbase is, they probably thought that the added power would be an attractive feature. Having total control not only over who you swipe, but who among them you even choose to engage with, even if it's redundant, is attractive as a feature. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz <cite>s0nicfan posted [p:896149524] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheVipaGTS posted...</cite> <quote>lol a lot of people are gonna be mad about this... but my question is...this will be a feature that women can turn on...you can only message people who you match with...meaning the woman found you attractive too....so if they want to message first why is this feature necessary then?</quote> If I had to guess, Tinder has the analytics of their userbase and they were probably losing a lot of women to bumble. Given that a dating service lives and dies by how large their woman userbase is, they probably thought that the added power would be an attractive feature. Having total control not only over who you swipe, but who among them you even choose to engage with, even if it's redundant, is attractive as a feature.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gafemaqs 02/15/18 4:00:03 PM #17:	Finally <cite>gafemaqs posted [p:896149557] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Finally</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Admiral 02/15/18 4:02:21 PM #19:	s0nicfan posted... Tinder has the analytics of their userbase and they were probably losing a lot of women to bumble. They have been, and they've even tried to acquire Bumble to stop the loss (Bumble has had no interest in selling to them). I personally think Bumble is also a much better app in terms of UI and experience, whereas Tinder feels like some crappy pay-to-win mobile game. I don't blame people for bailing. The only decent thing about Tinder is the size of its user base. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:896149700] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>s0nicfan posted...</cite> <quote>Tinder has the analytics of their userbase and they were probably losing a lot of women to bumble.</quote> They have been, and they've even tried to acquire Bumble to stop the loss (Bumble has had no interest in selling to them). I personally think Bumble is also a much better app in terms of UI and experience, whereas Tinder feels like some crappy pay-to-win mobile game. I don't blame people for bailing. The only decent thing about Tinder is the size of its user base.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCurseX2 02/15/18 4:03:15 PM #20:	I wish these apps had better names. Call it something like, "AMAZON PRIME." --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. <cite>TheCurseX2 posted [p:896149754] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>I wish these apps had better names. Call it something like, "AMAZON PRIME."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fishy 02/15/18 4:03:48 PM #21:	Why not just use Bumble? --- ~Dr. FishyStick\| Welcome Back. http://i.imgur.com/z50xS2H.jpg <cite>Fishy posted [p:896149788] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Why not just use Bumble?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 02/15/18 4:06:16 PM #22:	Are women currently not allowed to message first? Or is this supposed to be a setting that they can turn on and off if they so choose? --- https://i.imgur.com/PHWbltB.gifv <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:896149923] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Are women currently not allowed to message first? Or is this supposed to be a setting that they can turn on and off if they so choose?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HippopotamusRex 02/15/18 4:06:39 PM #23:	So I'm not understanding how this is going to stop creepy messages. They already opted in with the matching. This is a third, unnecessary opt in. How is getting said creepy message as a reply to the initial message any different? Sounds like solving an imaginary problem. --- The Retro Hippo of the Retro Achievements http://retroachievements.org/User/HippopotamusRex <cite>HippopotamusRex posted [p:896149945] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>So I'm not understanding how this is going to stop creepy messages. They already opted in with the matching. This is a third, unnecessary opt in. How is getting said creepy message as a reply to the initial message any different? Sounds like solving an imaginary problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCurseX2 02/15/18 4:07:57 PM #24:	Girl: "Hey how you doing?" Guy: "Can I lick your armpits?" b u m b l e --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. <cite>TheCurseX2 posted [p:896150028] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Girl: "Hey how you doing?" Guy: "Can I lick your armpits?" b u m b l e</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlphaCuck 02/15/18 4:09:53 PM #25:	TheCurseX2 posted... Girl: "Hey how you doing?" Guy: "Can I lick your armpits?" b u m b l e Armpits are pretty nice bro <cite>AlphaCuck posted [p:896150139] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCurseX2 posted...</cite> <quote>Girl: "Hey how you doing?" Guy: "Can I lick your armpits?" b u m b l e</quote> Armpits are pretty nice bro</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 02/15/18 4:10:04 PM #26:	Twin3Turbo posted... Are women currently not allowed to message first? Right now, if two people match, either person can message first. This setting makes it so the women must message first, then a normal conversation can start. That was the gimmick that launched Bumble. HippopotamusRex posted... They already opted in with the matching. This is a third, unnecessary opt in. How is getting said creepy message as a reply to the initial message any differen People don't put a lot of thought into initial swipes, and often just mindlessly swipe right based on the first pic until they match. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:896150150] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote>Are women currently not allowed to message first?</quote> Right now, if two people match, either person can message first. This setting makes it so the women must message first, then a normal conversation can start. That was the gimmick that launched Bumble. <cite>HippopotamusRex posted...</cite> <quote>They already opted in with the matching. This is a third, unnecessary opt in. How is getting said creepy message as a reply to the initial message any differen</quote> People don't put a lot of thought into initial swipes, and often just mindlessly swipe right based on the first pic until they match.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 02/15/18 4:14:59 PM #27:	Tbh I think its stupid that all these apps are trending towards the same basic interfaces but on the other hand changes that encourage women to put in more initiative generally seem to benefit me so --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:896150457] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Tbh I think its stupid that all these apps are trending towards the same basic interfaces but on the other hand changes that encourage women to put in more initiative generally seem to benefit me so </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KazumaKiryu 02/15/18 4:17:24 PM #28:	So if there are no women in the equation, nobody can message first? Fucking bigot company --- Just your bad luck... to run into me. <cite>KazumaKiryu posted [p:896150607] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>So if there are no women in the equation, nobody can message first? Fucking bigot company</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InYourWalls1 02/15/18 4:27:27 PM #29:	The Admiral posted... They have been, and they've even tried to acquire Bumble to stop the loss (Bumble has had no interest in selling to them). I personally think Bumble is also a much better app in terms of UI and experience, whereas Tinder feels like some crappy pay-to-win mobile game. I don't blame people for bailing. The only decent thing about Tinder is the size of its user base. Interesting, I wouldn't have thought bumble gained that kind of traction. But agreed, it is a better app, less frills. I found the selection better on bumble as well, but maybe that's just me and not to do with the design --- The fully enlightened earth radiates disaster triumphant <cite>InYourWalls1 posted [p:896151198] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote>They have been, and they've even tried to acquire Bumble to stop the loss (Bumble has had no interest in selling to them). I personally think Bumble is also a much better app in terms of UI and experience, whereas Tinder feels like some crappy pay-to-win mobile game. I don't blame people for bailing. The only decent thing about Tinder is the size of its user base.</quote> Interesting, I wouldn't have thought bumble gained that kind of traction. But agreed, it is a better app, less frills. I found the selection better on bumble as well, but maybe that's just me and not to do with the design</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FightingGames 02/15/18 4:28:35 PM #30:	isn't this a good thing for men? It will save them from needing to come up with an initiative --- https://my.mixtape.moe/whapui.webm <cite>FightingGames posted [p:896151258] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>isn't this a good thing for men? It will save them from needing to come up with an initiative</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 02/15/18 4:29:32 PM #31:	The Admiral posted... People don't put a lot of thought into initial swipes, and often just mindlessly swipe right based on the first pic until they match. So guys who always swipe right will just... continue to swipe right. Only now they're gated by not only matching with females but also for the females to make the first move. In the case of matching up with multiple dudes in a spree, the female will now choose who to engage. Cuts back on the creepy openers for sure, but in terms of gaming strategy, not much has changed. (Unattractive) Incels who needed to be the first to engage are left out in the crossfire. But, if they're also the creeps then c'est la vie. KazumaKiryu posted... So if there are no women in the equation, nobody can message first? Fucking bigot company There are gay guys that've connected via Bumble. In a same gender scenario the rules are different. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:896151306] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote>People don't put a lot of thought into initial swipes, and often just mindlessly swipe right based on the first pic until they match.</quote> So guys who always swipe right will just... continue to swipe right. Only now they're gated by not only matching with females but also for the females to make the first move. In the case of matching up with multiple dudes in a spree, the female will now choose who to engage. Cuts back on the creepy openers for sure, but in terms of gaming strategy, not much has changed. (Unattractive) Incels who needed to be the first to engage are left out in the crossfire. But, if they're also the creeps then c'est la vie. <cite>KazumaKiryu posted...</cite> <quote>So if there are no women in the equation, nobody can message first? Fucking bigot company</quote> There are gay guys that've connected via Bumble. In a same gender scenario the rules are different.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KazumaKiryu 02/15/18 4:32:10 PM #32:	Oh good. So the rules are different for them. Got it. --- Just your bad luck... to run into me. <cite>KazumaKiryu posted [p:896151464] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Oh good. So the rules are different for them. Got it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ROBANN_88 02/15/18 4:33:08 PM #33:	that already exists, with Bumble --- http://i.imgur.com/cUNC8DI.jpg <cite>ROBANN_88 posted [p:896151520] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>that already exists, with Bumble</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darmik 02/15/18 4:34:17 PM #35:	Don't think it makes much difference for the incels considering they're incels --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:896151601] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Don't think it makes much difference for the incels considering they're incels</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chill02 02/15/18 4:52:37 PM #36:	fair --- Ave, true to Caesar. <cite>chill02 posted [p:896152734] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>fair</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/15/18 4:57:51 PM #37:	@Tadamoto38 --- There will always be exceptions. <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:896153035] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>@Tadamoto38</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OctilIery 02/15/18 5:00:47 PM #38:	Sounds fine to me if it's optional. <cite>OctilIery posted [p:896153225] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Sounds fine to me if it's optional.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
spudger 02/15/18 5:02:10 PM #39:	REMercsChamp posted... Fuckers xD --- -Only dead fish swim with the current http://error1355.com/ce/spudger.html <cite>spudger posted [p:896153305] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote>Fuckers</quote> xD</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 02/15/18 8:07:01 PM #40:	Godnorgosh posted... The Admiral posted... Life will be a getting a little bit harder if you're not a desirable guy pretty soon. In a way it might, but in another way, not so much. If women have to message first, then when you do match and she actually messages you first, that actually makes it significantly easier to gauge interest imo. I totally agree. For the guys who get messages, this concept is great. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:896163363] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>Godnorgosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote>Life will be a getting a little bit harder if you're not a desirable guy pretty soon.</quote> In a way it might, but in another way, not so much. If women have to message first, then when you do match and she actually messages you first, that actually makes it significantly easier to gauge interest imo.</quote> I totally agree. For the guys who get messages, this concept is great.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 02/15/18 8:10:30 PM #41:	philsov posted... So guys who always swipe right will just... continue to swipe right. Only now they're gated by not only matching with females but also for the females to make the first move. In the case of matching up with multiple dudes in a spree, the female will now choose who to engage. Cuts back on the creepy openers for sure, but in terms of gaming strategy, not much has changed. (Unattractive) Incels who needed to be the first to engage are left out in the crossfire. But, if they're also the creeps then c'est la vie. To be honest, I don't see how this will change anything. A guy can message first, but there's no guarantee there would of ever got a reply in the first place. At least if the girl messages first the guy has a pretty good chance of it leading somewhere. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:896163564] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>philsov posted...</cite> <quote>So guys who always swipe right will just... continue to swipe right. Only now they're gated by not only matching with females but also for the females to make the first move. In the case of matching up with multiple dudes in a spree, the female will now choose who to engage. Cuts back on the creepy openers for sure, but in terms of gaming strategy, not much has changed. (Unattractive) Incels who needed to be the first to engage are left out in the crossfire. But, if they're also the creeps then c'est la vie.</quote> To be honest, I don't see how this will change anything. A guy can message first, but there's no guarantee there would of ever got a reply in the first place. At least if the girl messages first the guy has a pretty good chance of it leading somewhere.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
REMercsChamp 02/15/18 10:19:24 PM #42:	The Admiral posted... Godnorgosh posted... The Admiral posted... Life will be a getting a little bit harder if you're not a desirable guy pretty soon. In a way it might, but in another way, not so much. If women have to message first, then when you do match and she actually messages you first, that actually makes it significantly easier to gauge interest imo. I totally agree. For the guys who get messages, this concept is great. Guys like Mack Daddy Admiral over here --- https://i.imgur.com/lwkIVOb.png <cite>REMercsChamp posted [p:896170259] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Godnorgosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote>Life will be a getting a little bit harder if you're not a desirable guy pretty soon.</quote> In a way it might, but in another way, not so much. If women have to message first, then when you do match and she actually messages you first, that actually makes it significantly easier to gauge interest imo.</quote> I totally agree. For the guys who get messages, this concept is great.</quote> Guys like Mack Daddy Admiral over here</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dirtycommunist 02/15/18 10:22:39 PM #43:	I do see how this can help women, I don't see how this hurts men (for all the whiners out there). --- ***not actually a communist, only dirty on occasion <cite>dirtycommunist posted [p:896170445] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>I do see how this can help women, I don't see how this hurts men (for all the whiners out there).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
REMercsChamp 02/15/18 10:26:35 PM #44:	dirtycommunist posted... I do see how this can help women, I don't see how this hurts men (for all the whiners out there). It's because it goes against our biological nature damn it. Men are supposed to be the alphas who go and take the initiative to obtain a female mate. This is just part of the continued 21st century emasculation of males. --- https://i.imgur.com/lwkIVOb.png <cite>REMercsChamp posted [p:896170671] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote><cite>dirtycommunist posted...</cite> <quote>I do see how this can help women, I don't see how this hurts men (for all the whiners out there).</quote> It's because it goes against our biological nature damn it. Men are supposed to be the alphas who go and take the initiative to obtain a female mate. This is just part of the continued 21st century emasculation of males.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Annihilated 02/15/18 10:27:12 PM #45:	So basically no one will talk to each other and women will have no reason to use the app, since not messaging is their favorite thing to do. <cite>Annihilated posted [p:896170702] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>So basically no one will talk to each other and women will have no reason to use the app, since not messaging is their favorite thing to do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorVader 02/15/18 10:28:09 PM #46:	I stopped messaging chicks a while ago. I get matches and I let them make the first move. It's why I love Bumble. --- It all just disappears, doesn't it? Everything you are, gone in a moment, like breath on a mirror. - The Doctor <cite>DoctorVader posted [p:896170758] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>I stopped messaging chicks a while ago. I get matches and I let them make the first move. It's why I love Bumble.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
prince_leo 02/15/18 10:29:04 PM #47:	I have a hot jewish paralegal friend who works in nyc wonder if she banged admiral --- https://imgur.com/uHUvpSH http://error1355.com/ce/prince_leo.html <cite>prince_leo posted [p:896170811] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>I have a hot jewish paralegal friend who works in nyc wonder if she banged admiral</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Swagnificent119 02/15/18 10:29:38 PM #48:	Honestly, I'd prefer this cause it saves me the hassle. --- https://imgur.com/VQfjsWf <cite>Swagnificent119 posted [p:896170845] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Honestly, I'd prefer this cause it saves me the hassle.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomadic View 02/15/18 10:32:52 PM #49:	Just identify as a woman that identifies as a man. --- {}\\{}(o){}\\//{}//=\\{})){}(< \\//{}{{-{}//\\{} {}xxxxxxxx{};;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;> <cite>Nomadic View posted [p:896171012] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Just identify as a woman that identifies as a man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
metralo 02/15/18 10:34:03 PM #50:	Good. Bumble is highly successful and preferred because of this feature. This will only improve tinder. --- https://pbs.twimg.com/profile_images/1298321979/image.jpg <cite>metralo posted [p:896171078] in Tinder pla... [t:76322648]...</cite> <quote>Good. Bumble is highly successful and preferred because of this feature. This will only improve tinder.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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