Current Events > Do you think I have a chance with this coworker?

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We've worked together since October, she has a bf but she used to hook up with another coworker, we're playful and teasing with each other (I wouldn't say it's sexual though, though sometimes a lil romantic in nature). She usually likes sticking by me and stuff, but sometimes she doesn't. I started pushing away a little and she got a little more flirty. She's come over my house but that was when 2 other coworkers were also there.
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Yes. But given she has at least two guys she's hooking up with that you KNOW about, I would advise looking elsewhere.
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r4X0r posted...

Yes. But given she has at least two guys she's hooking up with that you KNOW about, I would advise looking elsewhere.

I mean just on the basis of hooking up, not dating, unless that's what you meant too.
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She used to hook up with another coworker? Yeah I'd say you have a pretty good chance. Must suck for her bf her banging all his coworkers lol.
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So I guess, my real hesitations on this are a couple of things. One, she seems to have developed feelings for that first coworker but is denial about it. Two, she doesn't seem to want to hang out 1 on 1, the time I asked her, she's like "get coworker and coworker and stuff and see when they're free". I called her out on it, like, "wtf, I shouldn't have to do that, you're not worth THAT much".

Idk if she wants to take it to the next level or is waiting for me to. Today, we closed the building together, just us 2, but we just both went home.
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If shes been flirty at all I'd go for it. Even if it doesn't work out you don't really lose anything.

She always wants other coworkers around? Fuck that shit, cut your losses. Either ask her straight up if she wants to fuck or move upwards and onwards.
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Johnny_Nutcase posted...

She always wants other coworkers around? Fuck that shit, cut your losses. Either ask her straight up if she wants to fuck or move upwards and onwards.

She initiated a hangout once, she wanted to smoke, but I didn't have the right accessories and another coworker did. I'm not sure if she intended that just us two hang out but it ended up being a group hangout or what. She also did it on a day where that coworker she hooked up with came back (he used to be regular but now only comes for an hour on Mondays). And that guy came over. She asked if she got credit for initiating a hangout, I said only 50% because he was there.
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alt4445 posted...

Johnny_Nutcase posted...

She always wants other coworkers around? Fuck that shit, cut your losses. Either ask her straight up if she wants to fuck or move upwards and onwards.

She initiated a hangout once, she wanted to smoke, but I didn't have the right accessories and another coworker did. I'm not sure if she intended that just us two hang out but it ended up being a group hangout or what. She also did it on a day where that coworker she hooked up with came back (he used to be regular but now only comes for an hour on Mondays). And that guy came over. She asked if she got credit for initiating a hangout, I said only 50% because he was there.

I almost threw up reading that. Get her in bed or get the fuck outta there. No more 3rd wheels in this bullshit shit show.
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AssultTank posted...

Never sleep around at work. It's an HR complaint waiting to happen.

Once again you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. I sleep with HR all the time.
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Johnny_Nutcase posted...

AssultTank posted...

Never sleep around at work. It's an HR complaint waiting to happen.

Once again you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. I sleep with HR all the time.

And HR has been complaining about it, we all have to hear about how u can't get the job done

Johnny_Nutcase posted...

almost threw up reading that. Get her in bed or get the fuck outta there. No more 3rd wheels in this bullshit shit show.

lol, but do you think there's a chance?

Johnny_Nutcase posted...

Once again you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. I sleep with HR all the time.

lol
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Honestly? No, but you gotta get to the bottom of it instead of being jerked around like that. You might get lucky, unless she has herpes, which sounds like she very well could.
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alt4445 posted...

lol, but do you think there's a chance?

'Yes there's a chance you knob. You should have fucked her the time you guys smoked. The hell? You invited another coworker because he had stuff? Lol come on
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alt4445 posted...

We've worked together since October, she has a bf but she used to hook up with another coworker, we're playful and teasing with each other (I wouldn't say it's sexual though, though sometimes a lil romantic in nature).

"Omg she loves me! We're just coworkers and never did any real socializing outside of work, but this is clearly romance!"
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ChainedRedone posted...

You should have fucked her the time you guys smoked. The hell? You invited another coworker because he had stuff? Lol come on

She was like, I have stuff, do you have a thing to smoke out of, I'm like, nah but maybe coworker does?

There's a chance I might've messed that one up. But basically the whole reason she wanted to initiate the hangout was because I told her that she's difficult to hang out with so I wont care about her until she starts. She asked if that counted, I told her that I'm still not convinced yet. So she still knows that, even if her intention was to hook up, I'm still open to it.
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NonDairyMiltank posted...

alt4445 posted...

We've worked together since October, she has a bf but she used to hook up with another coworker, we're playful and teasing with each other (I wouldn't say it's sexual though, though sometimes a lil romantic in nature).

"Omg she loves me! We're just coworkers and never did any real socializing outside of work, but this is clearly romance!"

rofl

I basically posted because I can't tell if she's just playing me or if it's normal that she's being this hard. I've hung out with her a couple of times now outside of work. Just not really 1 on 1
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alt4445 posted...

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u git tha succ?

alt4445 posted...

ChainedRedone posted...

You should have fucked her the time you guys smoked. The hell? You invited another coworker because he had stuff? Lol come on

She was like, I have stuff, do you have a thing to smoke out of, I'm like, nah but maybe coworker does?

There's a chance I might've messed that one up. But basically the whole reason she wanted to initiate the hangout was because I told her that she's difficult to hang out with so I wont care about her until she starts. She asked if that counted, I told her that I'm still not convinced yet. So she still knows that, even if her intention was to hook up, I'm still open to it.

bruh just buy a blunt wrap next time lmao don't invite some other guy because he has a pipe
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