Poll of the Day > Jealous guys shouldn't date bi girls

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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 2:16:14 PM
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My friend is bi and in general guys think its cool (they assume it means she will be willing to share/that all her friend will want to do three ways)

But her boyfriends also tend to act really weird around me and some of her other friends

We went on a date today (me and my friend, to Panda Express) and hes been complaining ever since, even though he was busy all morning.

And Im straight so obviously not competition or whatever.

Id get why it can be nervous if shes dating with boys but even other bi girls who shes already been friends (platonically) with, its just too much to randomly ask her not to see us.

Ps why is the site slow for me
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shadowsword87
02/06/18 2:21:20 PM
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LittleRoyal posted...
Ps why is the site slow for me


There was the merger of GameFAQs and GameSpot.
For... reasons.
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Sw1ft_Blad3
02/06/18 2:46:30 PM
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This whole Bi girls are into three ways is ridiculous, just because they find women and men attractive doesn't mean that they will have sex with everyone.

I've known people who have said that they won't be in a relationship with bisexual women because they can't trust them to not cheat on them. If that's the case then why can't you trust straight women to not cheating on you with other men? But then it's perfectly fine for them to have one night stands with bisexual women.

And to be honest if her boyfriend is the jealous type that tries to control who she can and can't hang out with, then she should dump him. There isn't any excuse for trying to control what another person does.

My girlfriend is Bisexual and I don't care what friends she hangs out with, at the end of the day I trust her to not cheat on me, and the fact she's attracted to women as well as men has no effect on the issue.
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Moonjay
02/06/18 2:58:25 PM
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The idea that bi people can't be trusted around either gender is old and so toxic. Sexuality and loyalty are two different things. Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

I'm attracted to both men and women, and yet I've never been intimate in any way with anyone but my husband, ever.
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 3:01:27 PM
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Moonjay posted...
The idea that bi people can't be trusted around either gender is old and so toxic. Sexuality and loyalty are two different things. Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

I'm attracted to both men and women, and yet I've never been intimate in any way with anyone but my husband, ever.


I know.

Uuugh I wish I just waited its so cute to me when people say stuff like that but I wasted it for stupid reasons.
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Moonjay
02/06/18 3:04:33 PM
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LittleRoyal posted...
Uuugh I wish I just waited its so cute to me when people say stuff like that but I wasted it for stupid reasons.


Aww, well, that's more normal anyway.
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 3:05:50 PM
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Moonjay posted...
LittleRoyal posted...
Uuugh I wish I just waited its so cute to me when people say stuff like that but I wasted it for stupid reasons.


Aww, well, that's more normal anyway.


It shouldn't have happened like that, really. Thanks though hah
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Muscles
02/06/18 3:16:58 PM
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Jealous guys shouldn't date anyone, I lost a lot of friends due to jealous boyfriends
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Foppe
02/06/18 3:34:22 PM
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Jealous people are the worst.
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Sw1ft_Blad3
02/06/18 3:37:27 PM
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Muscles posted...
Jealous guys shouldn't date anyone, I lost a lot of friends due to jealous boyfriends


Well just in general jealous people shouldn't be with anyone, my ex was the jealous controlling type and she said tried to say that I wasn't allowed to hang out with my at the time best friend who was female.

She would get angry if I arranged to hanging out with my friend and accuse me of trying to cheat on her, even though I even told her when I was going to hang out with that friend.
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Muffinz0rz
02/06/18 4:03:04 PM
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Muscles posted...
Jealous guys shouldn't date anyone

Foppe posted...
Jealous people are the worst.

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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:04:36 PM
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A little bit of jealousy is hard to avoid, but paranoid and overly controlling jealousy is definitely butt.
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Kyuubi4269
02/06/18 4:06:49 PM
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Moonjay posted...
Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

It changes the volume of "qualified participants".
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:07:41 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Moonjay posted...
Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

It changes the volume of "qualified participants".


Having a larger pool changes nothing.
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Kyuubi4269
02/06/18 4:10:18 PM
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Moonjay posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Moonjay posted...
Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

It changes the volume of "qualified participants".


Having a larger pool changes nothing.

Yeah, no.

If a person can't be trusted around people they find unusually attractive, the chance of them meeting this type is double when they don't rule out half the people on instinct.
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:11:08 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Moonjay posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Moonjay posted...
Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

It changes the volume of "qualified participants".


Having a larger pool changes nothing.

Yeah, no.

If a person can't be trusted around people they find unusually attractive, the chance of them meeting this type is double when they don't rule out half the people on instinct.


Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot.
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Muffinz0rz
02/06/18 4:13:23 PM
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Moonjay posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Moonjay posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Moonjay posted...
Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot. Having a larger pool changes nothing.

It changes the volume of "qualified participants".


Having a larger pool changes nothing.

Yeah, no.

If a person can't be trusted around people they find unusually attractive, the chance of them meeting this type is double when they don't rule out half the people on instinct.


Either a person can be trusted around people they find attractive or they cannot.

And when the number of people they find attractive doubles, then there is more risk.
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:14:49 PM
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There is not more risk. If someone is going to cheat, they need a single person they find attractive. If they are not going to cheat, they could find literally every person on earth sexually attractive and it wouldn't matter.
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Muffinz0rz
02/06/18 4:18:20 PM
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Moonjay posted...
There is not more risk. If someone is going to cheat, they need a single person they find attractive. If they are not going to cheat, they could find literally every person on earth sexually attractive and it wouldn't matter.

Let's say your girlfriend is bi

There is not a single man on earth she finds attractive enough to cheat on you with.

However, let's say there is a woman out there that she finds attractive enough to cheat on you with.

If she wasn't bi, she wouldn't bat an eye at said super-hot woman.
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 4:19:45 PM
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Moonjay posted...
There is not more risk. If someone is going to cheat, they need a single person they find attractive. If they are not going to cheat, they could find literally every person on earth sexually attractive and it wouldn't matter.

True. Unless you force them to stay away from attractive people, it wont matter if theres 10 or 100, because they only need one.

It just changed hiw many restrictions the jealous SO needs to place on people.

Idk. I know girls who have cheated and guys who have cheated (on me because of me not wanting sex)
But she isnt one of them. Shes a loyal sweetheart~
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:20:08 PM
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If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.
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dioxxys
02/06/18 4:21:32 PM
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>Im a jealous guy
>I've dated bi girls
>It worked out fine
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 4:22:33 PM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
Moonjay posted...
There is not more risk. If someone is going to cheat, they need a single person they find attractive. If they are not going to cheat, they could find literally every person on earth sexually attractive and it wouldn't matter.

Let's say your girlfriend is bi

There is not a single man on earth she finds attractive enough to cheat on you with.

However, let's say there is a woman out there that she finds attractive enough to cheat on you with.

If she wasn't bi, she wouldn't bat an eye at said super-hot woman.


Maybe you just think differently about this stuff.

Me and most girls (or all Ive talked to about it)
Dont have some scale of well if they are an 8, its worth cheating or whatever. It happens because of their personality and moments they create-for girls who cheat
(I dont even have sex, so I obviously dont cheat and most girls I know dont but I do know some who do)

(There is one girl who cheats any time
She feels her bf is being too controlling, still not based on how hot the other guy is)

Guys I think cheat based on how often theyre having sex, or how hot the other girl is
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Muffinz0rz
02/06/18 4:22:44 PM
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Moonjay posted...
If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.

If she wasn't attracted to both sexes, it wouldn't be an issue.
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 4:22:46 PM
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dioxxys posted...
>Im a jealous guy
>I've dated bi girls
>It worked out fine

Doesnt sound like it.
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RCtheWSBC
02/06/18 4:24:19 PM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
Moonjay posted...
If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.

If she wasn't attracted to both sexes, it wouldn't be an issue.

Your attraction to both sexes doesn't increase your propensity to cheat.
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dioxxys
02/06/18 4:25:07 PM
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LittleRoyal posted...
dioxxys posted...
>Im a jealous guy
>I've dated bi girls
>It worked out fine

Doesnt sound like it.

Well my jealousy wasn't the cause of us splitting, I just dont my girlfriend messing around with other guys, I think that's pretty normal?
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:26:32 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Moonjay posted...
If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.

If she wasn't attracted to both sexes, it wouldn't be an issue.

Your attraction to both sexes doesn't increase your propensity to cheat.


Yeah I can only repeat that I'm bisexual and have been with one single person my entire life.

And yes, I find women attractive far more often than I find men attractive because women are pretty and most men are boring. It changes nothing.
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Muffinz0rz
02/06/18 4:27:20 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Moonjay posted...
If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.

If she wasn't attracted to both sexes, it wouldn't be an issue.

Your attraction to both sexes doesn't increase your propensity to cheat.

I know

But again

If there is not a dude hot enough worth cheating over, but there is a woman hot enough worth cheating over, then being bi is the X-factor
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 4:30:45 PM
#31:


Muffinz0rz posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Moonjay posted...
If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.

If she wasn't attracted to both sexes, it wouldn't be an issue.

Your attraction to both sexes doesn't increase your propensity to cheat.

I know

But again

If there is not a dude hot enough worth cheating over, but there is a woman hot enough worth cheating over, then being bi is the X-factor


But physical attraction isnt the only or the main thing in those relationships.
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Kyuubi4269
02/06/18 4:37:24 PM
#32:


LittleRoyal posted...
Me and most girls (or all Ive talked to about it)
Dont have some scale of well if they are an 8, its worth cheating or whatever. It happens because of their personality and moments they create-for girls who cheat

And how good at that do they have to be to create a moment to cheat, from one to ten?
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:38:52 PM
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Seriously people who cheat frequently cheat with people who are some combination of ugly, unpleasant, and stupid. It's not a matter of the correct number of looks or personality.
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Muffinz0rz
02/06/18 4:51:36 PM
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LittleRoyal posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...
Moonjay posted...
If she wasn't a cheater, it wouldn't be an issue.

If she wasn't attracted to both sexes, it wouldn't be an issue.

Your attraction to both sexes doesn't increase your propensity to cheat.

I know

But again

If there is not a dude hot enough worth cheating over, but there is a woman hot enough worth cheating over, then being bi is the X-factor


But physical attraction isnt the only or the main thing in those relationships.

Physical attraction isn't the main factor that would cause someone to cheat?
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Moonjay
02/06/18 4:54:32 PM
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It's really not. Like I said, people cheat with uggos all the time. It's more about how horny, irresponsible, selfish, and untrustworthy the cheater is. And opportunity.
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dioxxys
02/06/18 5:16:41 PM
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I mean different women are like different flavors of ice cream, you cant expect me to eat just one right?
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LinkPizza
02/06/18 5:25:05 PM
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Muscles posted...
Jealous guys shouldn't date anyone, I lost a lot of friends due to jealous boyfriends

I've had friend dump their jealous exes because the exes were wondering why I was around a lot. I would tell them, "These are my friends I spent lots of years with. I'm not going to stop because you're jealous..."
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LittleRoyal
02/06/18 5:35:26 PM
#38:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
LittleRoyal posted...
Me and most girls (or all Ive talked to about it)
Dont have some scale of well if they are an 8, its worth cheating or whatever. It happens because of their personality and moments they create-for girls who cheat

And how good at that do they have to be to create a moment to cheat, from one to ten?

Lol it isnt like that I think

Idk Im not sexually active aside from a few gross thing
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