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solosnake
01/05/18 3:01:55 PM
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80/80

Is this a common fantasy?
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Kaname_Madoka
01/05/18 3:02:51 PM
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yes and straight people often fantasize about doing the opposite
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HylianFox
01/05/18 3:04:02 PM
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Kaname_Madoka posted...
yes and straight people often fantasize about doing the opposite

mostly Christians
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masticatingman
01/05/18 3:07:04 PM
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The fantasy of attaining the unattainable and having great sex has always kinda been popular in a lot of forms, from straight to gay and back, with either men or women. And a lot of it is colored with an imperfect understanding of the spectrum of sexuality blah blah blah.
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Lost_All_Senses
01/05/18 3:08:39 PM
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Kaname_Madoka posted...
yes and straight people often fantasize about doing the opposite


I've never really had a fantasy about turning a lesbian straight tbh....wait...maybe Michelle Rodriguez...is she bi?
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Kaname_Madoka
01/05/18 3:09:39 PM
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HylianFox posted...
Kaname_Madoka posted...
yes and straight people often fantasize about doing the opposite

mostly Christians

lmao
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hollow_shrine
01/05/18 3:27:11 PM
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solosnake posted...
80/80

Is this a common fantasy?

Not really; it's more complex than that. We've stopped assuming anyone is 'straight.' 'Straight' dudes have been having sex with other men since well before western society got it in it's head that exclusive heterosexuality was the way to be. So it's not that we're trying to turn you gay. It's that we know this '100% hetero'' BS is an normative affectation performed for other 'straight' dudes and that if most dudes want sex enough and suspect they can get it without negative consequences, they don't care if their sexual partner is a man. Exhibit A, Craigslist. I don't have sex with people who can't be honest with themselves about their sexual desires, because who needs that kind of drama in their lives? It's hard enough to manage my own thought and feelings. I think the larger issue though comes from labels and the importance we assign to them that leaves so much of these men wrapping themselves up in knots

Also gay men are a cult of masculinity. Anyone who can perform the attractively masculine aspects of 'straight acting' has a certain amount of sexual capital. There's an obvious logic to this: 'men who like men logically like more masculine presenting men.' On the other side It's often not a good thing; there's quite a bit of toxicity that falls out around these attitudes. There's also quite a bit of self-loathing, body image issues, steroid abuse, etc.

I personally try to be aware of these biases and avoid putting these kinds of representations of men on too much of a pedestal, in part because I don't want to fall in the negative thought patterns of those of us who do, and also because the internet has made these 'perfect men' so available at lot of the novelty has kind of worn off. It's not as alluring as I found it when I was first coming out.
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specialkid8
01/05/18 3:30:02 PM
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It's my gay friends biggest fetish.
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nevershine
01/05/18 3:31:11 PM
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Well, this escalated into a CE topic rather quickly
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HydroCannabinol
01/05/18 3:34:45 PM
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Personally I will cram as many cocks as I can fit down my throat and Ive always been a straight male.
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thanosibe
01/05/18 3:38:51 PM
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nevershine posted...
Well, this escalated into a CE topic rather quickly
CE where nothing is gay, but somehow gay people exist.
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IslamMD
01/05/18 3:41:34 PM
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nevershine posted...
Well, this escalated into a CE topic rather quickly


This that essay was the turning point.
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iron jojo
01/05/18 3:48:20 PM
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fenderbender321 posted...
Kaname_Madoka posted...
yes and straight people often fantasize about doing the opposite


It's why I pretend to be gay around women.

How's that working
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Slip-N-Slide
01/05/18 3:49:16 PM
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iron jojo posted...
fenderbender321 posted...
Kaname_Madoka posted...
yes and straight people often fantasize about doing the opposite


It's why I pretend to be gay around women.

How's that working

Lol
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Kamala_Harris
01/05/18 6:49:59 PM
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You know I kinda agree with the essay posted earlier I don't consider myself gay or bi but I did have a few gay experiences in college (guys giving me bjs) and I honestly enjoyed them.

I don't really seek out gay men because I'm not as attracted to them and I would never want a long term relationship with a man, just sex. And sex with women comes pretty easily for me so why bother.
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Keith_Valentine
01/05/18 6:54:07 PM
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Lots of guys these days are secretly Super gay. I hope it becomes more normalized, less competition and more pussy for me. Keep making me look good, boys!

Now realstically I'm in a ltr , whatever , but that's how I think. As more men want to be gay, the female expectation lowers for all of us that are pure hetero. Ha ha, slammin. This applies to men that women will actually fuck, but also means hot women may be more willing to fuck many types of men because male scarcity.
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AvlButtslam
01/05/18 9:51:47 PM
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I try like every day with my roommate @MegaTech
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