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josifrees 12/30/17 12:55:22 AM #51:	Damn who is the stud who bagged two cegals --- Quit Crying <cite>josifrees posted [p:893104790] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Damn who is the stud who bagged two cegals</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 12:58:28 AM #52:	eggcorn posted... yikes sounds like a great relationship Honestly, it still is. I know a lot of people will disagree with that, I expect it. I don't see the situation as an open and shut case. The history of the people involved, the unnatural relationship it was, his personality and motivations, and again, how he and we have dealt with it after. It wasn't a decision I made lightly or quickly, and changes have been made. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893104916] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>eggcorn posted...</cite> <quote>yikes sounds like a great relationship</quote> Honestly, it still is. I know a lot of people will disagree with that, I expect it. I don't see the situation as an open and shut case. The history of the people involved, the unnatural relationship it was, his personality and motivations, and again, how he and we have dealt with it after. It wasn't a decision I made lightly or quickly, and changes have been made.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ImNotAnIdiot 12/30/17 1:00:23 AM #53:	josifrees posted... Damn who is the stud who bagged two cegals I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure Unquestionable already knew Sable from off gamefaqs. And then he just met TC from gamefaqs --- http://i.imgur.com/Q9XJftg.jpg <cite>ImNotAnIdiot posted [p:893104979] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>josifrees posted...</cite> <quote>Damn who is the stud who bagged two cegals</quote> I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure Unquestionable already knew Sable from off gamefaqs. And then he just met TC from gamefaqs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta 12/30/17 1:02:54 AM #54:	Have you allowed unquestionable to console sable during her sad situation? --- http://i.imgur.com/tvKkIcw.jpg http://i.imgur.com/Kywn3Qc.gifv http://i.imgur.com/Cybsdf1.gifv http://h-7.abload.de/img/messi02-rm-ucl3ngb.gif <cite>ssj3vegeta posted [p:893105062] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Have you allowed unquestionable to console sable during her sad situation?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DocDelicious 12/30/17 1:09:47 AM #55:	Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's literally instinctual. --- o7 Let strength be granted so the world might be mended. <cite>DocDelicious posted [p:893105325] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's literally instinctual.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 1:18:14 AM #56:	ImNotAnIdiot posted... josifrees posted... Damn who is the stud who bagged two cegals I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure Unquestionable already knew Sable from off gamefaqs. And then he just met TC from gamefaqs Correct. ssj3vegeta posted... Have you allowed unquestionable to console sable during her sad situation? That's a loaded word, vegy, "allowed" lol. He can do whatever he wishes to about anything. I support the both of us having independent thought. We've discussed it. We came to the same conclusion on the matter. DocDelicious posted... Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's literally instinctual. I said that a year ago. I always saw it in black and white terms. Though truthfully, a lot of cheating is black and white. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893105619] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>ImNotAnIdiot posted...</cite> <quote><cite>josifrees posted...</cite> <quote>Damn who is the stud who bagged two cegals</quote> I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure Unquestionable already knew Sable from off gamefaqs. And then he just met TC from gamefaqs</quote> Correct. <cite>ssj3vegeta posted...</cite> <quote>Have you allowed unquestionable to console sable during her sad situation?</quote> That's a loaded word, vegy, "allowed" lol. He can do whatever he wishes to about anything. I support the both of us having independent thought. We've discussed it. We came to the same conclusion on the matter. <cite>DocDelicious posted...</cite> <quote>Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's literally instinctual.</quote> I said that a year ago. I always saw it in black and white terms. Though truthfully, a lot of cheating is black and white.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta 12/30/17 1:22:33 AM #57:	Leanaunfurled posted... That's a loaded word, vegy, "allowed" lol. He can do whatever he wishes to about anything. I support the both of us having independent thought. We've discussed it. We came to the same conclusion on the matter. Don't be afraid to disallow some stuff in you guys relationship... --- http://i.imgur.com/tvKkIcw.jpg http://i.imgur.com/Kywn3Qc.gifv http://i.imgur.com/Cybsdf1.gifv http://h-7.abload.de/img/messi02-rm-ucl3ngb.gif <cite>ssj3vegeta posted [p:893105777] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>That's a loaded word, vegy, "allowed" lol. He can do whatever he wishes to about anything. I support the both of us having independent thought. We've discussed it. We came to the same conclusion on the matter.</quote> Don't be afraid to disallow some stuff in you guys relationship...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 1:38:47 AM #58:	ssj3vegeta posted... Leanaunfurled posted... That's a loaded word, vegy, "allowed" lol. He can do whatever he wishes to about anything. I support the both of us having independent thought. We've discussed it. We came to the same conclusion on the matter. Don't be afraid to disallow some stuff in you guys relationship... Don't take that to mean I'm a floormat. The difference is in the execution. I prefer communication, I prefer (high impact) actions to be thought out, and I do sincerely want him to feel he can make a decision without feeling like his arm is being twisted or manipulated. But if it ever came down to it, I'd do what's best for myself and leave. In the scenario you asked about, vegy, we're on the same page. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893106316] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>ssj3vegeta posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>That's a loaded word, vegy, "allowed" lol. He can do whatever he wishes to about anything. I support the both of us having independent thought. We've discussed it. We came to the same conclusion on the matter.</quote> Don't be afraid to disallow some stuff in you guys relationship...</quote> Don't take that to mean I'm a floormat. The difference is in the execution. I prefer communication, I prefer (high impact) actions to be thought out, and I do sincerely want him to feel he can make a decision without feeling like his arm is being twisted or manipulated. But if it ever came down to it, I'd do what's best for myself and leave. In the scenario you asked about, vegy, we're on the same page.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlackHorse6969 12/30/17 1:41:43 AM #59:	can you please let harpie be a part of this relationship. she needs it. --- http://i.imgur.com/dMnyy10.jpg <cite>BlackHorse6969 posted [p:893106407] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>can you please let harpie be a part of this relationship. she needs it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 1:54:15 AM #60:	BlackHorse6969 posted... can you please let harpie be a part of this relationship. she needs it. wat She's a bit..or..WAY..too young for us lol. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893106798] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>BlackHorse6969 posted...</cite> <quote>can you please let harpie be a part of this relationship. she needs it.</quote> wat She's a bit..or..WAY..too young for us lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
josifrees 12/30/17 1:54:42 AM #61:	CErem --- Quit Crying <cite>josifrees posted [p:893106807] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>CErem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MegaTech 12/30/17 1:56:41 AM #62:	Nice. Pretty cool you could meet someone on here and have a close connection with. Ive been living with a CEman since May and it's been dope. It's like you already know the person before you've even met them. --- There's gloom and fear in my heart when a culture fades; I drip a tear for the art and I adulterate. https://i.imgur.com/c8xCRi7.png - CoolbeansAvi <cite>MegaTech posted [p:893106872] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Nice. Pretty cool you could meet someone on here and have a close connection with. Ive been living with a CEman since May and it's been dope. It's like you already know the person before you've even met them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 2:11:12 AM #63:	MegaTech posted... Nice. Pretty cool you could meet someone on here and have a close connection with. Ive been living with a CEman since May and it's been dope. It's like you already know the person before you've even met them. Guess it depends on who lol. I talked to someone who used to share a place with a former mod. Didn't talk about him a lot but didn't sound ideal, heh. I'm glad you two are getting along really well. For me and him it's like that as well when we're together. It still feels like there's an endless amount of things to talk about. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893107337] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>MegaTech posted...</cite> <quote>Nice. Pretty cool you could meet someone on here and have a close connection with. Ive been living with a CEman since May and it's been dope. It's like you already know the person before you've even met them.</quote> Guess it depends on who lol. I talked to someone who used to share a place with a former mod. Didn't talk about him a lot but didn't sound ideal, heh. I'm glad you two are getting along really well. For me and him it's like that as well when we're together. It still feels like there's an endless amount of things to talk about.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
--Zero- 12/30/17 2:53:36 AM #64:	Damn youre the only cegal known to be a cuck. You sound like you're in denial about it all too. I remember the blow up and he rarely posts on this board anymore. Sable still does now and then. --- SIGNATURE <cite>--Zero- posted [p:893108577] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Damn youre the only cegal known to be a cuck. You sound like you're in denial about it all too. I remember the blow up and he rarely posts on this board anymore. Sable still does now and then.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
snowman9267 12/30/17 3:08:39 AM #65:	TC's writing style sounds like 1 part human resource worker and 1 part /r/relationships. TC either has no self esteem or the dude must lay pipe like a champ. --- plays the Grismal flute <cite>snowman9267 posted [p:893108981] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>TC's writing style sounds like 1 part human resource worker and 1 part /r/relationships. TC either has no self esteem or the dude must lay pipe like a champ.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 3:18:48 AM #66:	--Zero- posted... Damn youre the only cegal known to be a cuck. You sound like you're in denial about it all too. I remember the blow up and he rarely posts on this board anymore. Sable still does now and then. Denial about what? I'm very aware of everything that has happened. Being aware of it is why I stayed. And he's always practically been a lurker. Boring imo but oh well. snowman9267 posted... TC's writing style sounds like 1 part human resource worker and 1 part /r/relationships. TC either has no self esteem or the dude must lay pipe like a champ. I understand little of what you just said or why. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893109255] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>--Zero- posted...</cite> <quote>Damn youre the only cegal known to be a cuck. You sound like you're in denial about it all too. I remember the blow up and he rarely posts on this board anymore. Sable still does now and then.</quote> Denial about what? I'm very aware of everything that has happened. Being aware of it is why I stayed. And he's always practically been a lurker. Boring imo but oh well. <cite>snowman9267 posted...</cite> <quote>TC's writing style sounds like 1 part human resource worker and 1 part /r/relationships. TC either has no self esteem or the dude must lay pipe like a champ.</quote> I understand little of what you just said or why.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unquestionable 12/30/17 7:29:39 AM #67:	--Zero- posted... I remember the blow up and he rarely posts on this board anymore. Never posted all that much in the first place, mostly in gaming related topics since everything else tends to devolve into everyone being a dick to each other. Anyway hard to believe it's only been a year. Obviously we've had our issues but that we can talk about them and make our relationship stronger means a lot. I've being doing all I can to make up for the shitty things I've done but more than anything I feel closer and happier with her. We actually have a future to look forward to and have tons of fun getting there. And if anything she's actually helped me recognize the cooler posters on CE instead of my usual recognition of only the scum bags. --- Immanentize the eschaton <cite>Unquestionable posted [p:893113839] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>--Zero- posted...</cite> <quote>I remember the blow up and he rarely posts on this board anymore.</quote> Never posted all that much in the first place, mostly in gaming related topics since everything else tends to devolve into everyone being a dick to each other. Anyway hard to believe it's only been a year. Obviously we've had our issues but that we can talk about them and make our relationship stronger means a lot. I've being doing all I can to make up for the shitty things I've done but more than anything I feel closer and happier with her. We actually have a future to look forward to and have tons of fun getting there. And if anything she's actually helped me recognize the cooler posters on CE instead of my usual recognition of only the scum bags.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MoreRpgs 12/30/17 7:30:55 AM #68:	VoightKent posted... cringe <cite>MoreRpgs posted [p:893113863] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>VoightKent posted...</cite> <quote>cringe</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Akagami_Shanks 12/30/17 7:38:55 AM #69:	another CE relationship here welp, lets see how long this one lasts --- http://i.imgur.com/MFTpPuq.jpg <cite>Akagami_Shanks posted [p:893113999] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>another CE relationship here welp, lets see how long this one lasts</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta_ 12/30/17 7:41:26 AM #70:	How far apart do you guys live --- http://i.imgur.com/P88EYmN.gif http://i.imgur.com/qxu2L01.jpg http://i.imgur.com/1kMCL.jpg http://i.imgur.com/mvXIh0Q.jpg <cite>ssj3vegeta_ posted [p:893114046] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>How far apart do you guys live</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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juicebox4 12/30/17 9:39:37 AM #72:	VoightKent posted... cringe --- GABBA GABBA HEY Outta the sky, into the dirt <cite>juicebox4 posted [p:893116799] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>VoightKent posted...</cite> <quote>cringe</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NinjaBreakfast 12/30/17 9:42:42 AM #73:	Whole topic is like a lifetime movie or some shit --- http://i.imgur.com/nGZeEqw.png Do you really think you can beat me? <cite>NinjaBreakfast posted [p:893116881] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Whole topic is like a lifetime movie or some shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
prettyprincess 12/30/17 9:44:27 AM #74:	how real was this cheating situation? --- And in an infinite regress, tell me, why is the pain of birth lighter borne than the pain of death? <cite>prettyprincess posted [p:893116934] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>how real was this cheating situation?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 12/30/17 9:45:22 AM #75:	taking back a cheater is a questionable decision on your part but best of luck with that also he cheated on you with sablewolfangel.... her???? smfh you definitely should dump his ass --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:893116962] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>taking back a cheater is a questionable decision on your part but best of luck with that also he cheated on you with sablewolfangel.... her???? smfh you definitely should dump his ass</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Akagami_Shanks 12/30/17 9:51:06 AM #76:	Coolppl Owns posted... taking back a cheater is a questionable decision on your part but best of luck with that also he cheated on you with sablewolfangel.... her???? smfh you definitely should dump his ass to my understanding, sable and unquestionable were banging beforehand, they had a falling out, leana and unquestionable got together, and then sable and him knocked boots one more time --- http://i.imgur.com/MFTpPuq.jpg <cite>Akagami_Shanks posted [p:893117131] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote>taking back a cheater is a questionable decision on your part but best of luck with that also he cheated on you with sablewolfangel.... her???? smfh you definitely should dump his ass</quote> to my understanding, sable and unquestionable were banging beforehand, they had a falling out, leana and unquestionable got together, and then sable and him knocked boots one more time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 10:03:43 AM #77:	ssj3vegeta_ posted... How far apart do you guys live About 9 hours, I believe. MO vs PA. NinjaBreakfast posted... Whole topic is like a lifetime movie or some shit But no one's been murdered or gone missing. :o Yet! prettyprincess posted... how real was this cheating situation? Whatcha mean real? Like I thought it happened, no proof, but I'm sticking to my guns? I found proof, he admitted to it. If you mean physical, it was multiple sexts and bj. Coolppl Owns posted... taking back a cheater is a questionable decision on your part but best of luck with that also he cheated on you with sablewolfangel.... her???? smfh you definitely should dump his ass I won't disagree with you at all that it's questionable. And yeah, like Akagami said, they dated ages ago. Haven't for years, though it was still a friends with benefits situation. Overall wasn't a healthy situation/relationship (not because it was fwb). --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893117440] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>ssj3vegeta_ posted...</cite> <quote>How far apart do you guys live</quote> About 9 hours, I believe. MO vs PA. <cite>NinjaBreakfast posted...</cite> <quote>Whole topic is like a lifetime movie or some shit</quote> But no one's been murdered or gone missing. :o Yet! <cite>prettyprincess posted...</cite> <quote>how real was this cheating situation?</quote> Whatcha mean real? Like I thought it happened, no proof, but I'm sticking to my guns? I found proof, he admitted to it. If you mean physical, it was multiple sexts and bj. <cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote>taking back a cheater is a questionable decision on your part but best of luck with that also he cheated on you with sablewolfangel.... her???? smfh you definitely should dump his ass</quote> I won't disagree with you at all that it's questionable. And yeah, like Akagami said, they dated ages ago. Haven't for years, though it was still a friends with benefits situation. Overall wasn't a healthy situation/relationship (not because it was fwb).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
prettyprincess 12/30/17 10:08:07 AM #78:	Leanaunfurled posted... Whatcha mean real? idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction --- And in an infinite regress, tell me, why is the pain of birth lighter borne than the pain of death? <cite>prettyprincess posted [p:893117553] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Whatcha mean real?</quote> idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 10:29:40 AM #79:	prettyprincess posted... Leanaunfurled posted... Whatcha mean real? idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction Oh yeah, makes sense. Bj occurred two months into it, late February, and the sexting was a few sporadic times, the last one being in August, before I visited and saw it. (Yes, I snooped, no, I'm not sorry.) Contact ended after that. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893118245] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>prettyprincess posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Whatcha mean real?</quote> idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction</quote> Oh yeah, makes sense. Bj occurred two months into it, late February, and the sexting was a few sporadic times, the last one being in August, before I visited and saw it. (Yes, I snooped, no, I'm not sorry.) Contact ended after that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coolppl Owns 12/30/17 10:30:21 AM #80:	Leanaunfurled posted... prettyprincess posted... Leanaunfurled posted... Whatcha mean real? idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction Oh yeah, makes sense. Bj occurred two months into it, late February, and the sexting was a few sporadic times, the last one being in August, before I visited and saw it. (Yes, I snooped, no, I'm not sorry.) Contact ended after that. all of that, and you're still with him? But why...? --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:893118268] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote><cite>prettyprincess posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Whatcha mean real?</quote> idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction</quote> Oh yeah, makes sense. Bj occurred two months into it, late February, and the sexting was a few sporadic times, the last one being in August, before I visited and saw it. (Yes, I snooped, no, I'm not sorry.) Contact ended after that.</quote> all of that, and you're still with him? But why...?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ssj3vegeta_ 12/30/17 10:34:28 AM #81:	You think they'd have kept it up if you didn't catch it? And 9 hours apart...damn leana, i don't know how you can give him that much trust --- http://i.imgur.com/P88EYmN.gif http://i.imgur.com/qxu2L01.jpg http://i.imgur.com/1kMCL.jpg http://i.imgur.com/mvXIh0Q.jpg <cite>ssj3vegeta_ posted [p:893118396] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>You think they'd have kept it up if you didn't catch it? And 9 hours apart...damn leana, i don't know how you can give him that much trust</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Coolppl Owns 12/30/17 10:47:31 AM #83:	JustMyOpinion posted... Coolppl Owns posted... Leanaunfurled posted... prettyprincess posted... Leanaunfurled posted... Whatcha mean real? idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction Oh yeah, makes sense. Bj occurred two months into it, late February, and the sexting was a few sporadic times, the last one being in August, before I visited and saw it. (Yes, I snooped, no, I'm not sorry.) Contact ended after that. all of that, and you're still with him? But why...? Some people really, really don't want to be alone. In my opinion, if you're only sorry when you got caught, then you're not really sorry. oh I agree --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= <cite>Coolppl Owns posted [p:893118832] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote><cite>prettyprincess posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Whatcha mean real?</quote> idk the history and extent of the relationships at the time just curious of the degree of infraction</quote> Oh yeah, makes sense. Bj occurred two months into it, late February, and the sexting was a few sporadic times, the last one being in August, before I visited and saw it. (Yes, I snooped, no, I'm not sorry.) Contact ended after that.</quote> all of that, and you're still with him? But why...?</quote> Some people really, really don't want to be alone. In my opinion, if you're only sorry when you got caught, then you're not really sorry.</quote> oh I agree</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 11:17:41 AM #84:	ssj3vegeta_ posted... You think they'd have kept it up if you didn't catch it? And 9 hours apart...damn leana, i don't know how you can give him that much trust Yes. :s And there's much less trust now, naturally. It's being worked on. There are changes now and I feel reasonably secure. JustMyOpinion posted... Some people really, really don't want to be alone. In my opinion, if you're only sorry when you got caught, then you're not really sorry. Really doesn't apply to me. I know people like that, though. Coolppl Owns posted... all of that, and you're still with him? But why...? Because of the people, Unquestionable and Sable, and the type of relationship they had. I don't like beating around the bush (a lot of people know how open I am about my own life and feelings on here) but to explain properly, that's going into his personal life, not my own. Their relationship wasn't normal. It wasn't healthy. And it's over. That's the most detail I can give, and I am sorry about that, I know it doesn't answer much. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893119922] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>ssj3vegeta_ posted...</cite> <quote>You think they'd have kept it up if you didn't catch it? And 9 hours apart...damn leana, i don't know how you can give him that much trust</quote> Yes. :s And there's much less trust now, naturally. It's being worked on. There are changes now and I feel reasonably secure. <cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>Some people really, really don't want to be alone. In my opinion, if you're only sorry when you got caught, then you're not really sorry. </quote> Really doesn't apply to me. I know people like that, though. <cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote>all of that, and you're still with him? But why...? </quote> Because of the people, Unquestionable and Sable, and the type of relationship they had. I don't like beating around the bush (a lot of people know how open I am about my own life and feelings on here) but to explain properly, that's going into his personal life, not my own. Their relationship wasn't normal. It wasn't healthy. And it's over. That's the most detail I can give, and I am sorry about that, I know it doesn't answer much.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 12/30/17 11:19:34 AM #85:	It's her decision if she's gonna stay with the guy. It's not like he slept with her when they were dating ffs Men have a wandering eye, it's just the friggin truth. I wouldn't pass judgement until actual cheating has occurred. --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:893119980] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>It's her decision if she's gonna stay with the guy. It's not like he slept with her when they were dating ffs Men have a wandering eye, it's just the friggin truth. I wouldn't pass judgement until actual cheating has occurred.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 12/30/17 11:21:50 AM #86:	Whoa I take that back. He got oral sex?! LMFAO. That is cheating honey --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:893120050] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Whoa I take that back. He got oral sex?! LMFAO. That is cheating honey</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funkydog 12/30/17 11:22:13 AM #87:	I mean, if you can honestly forgive him for the shit you were clearly very upset over, then hopefully issues don't rise again I suppose? --- http://i.imgur.com/BGbZK.gif <cite>Funkydog posted [p:893120067] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>I mean, if you can honestly forgive him for the shit you were clearly very upset over, then hopefully issues don't rise again I suppose?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
V-E-G-Y- 12/30/17 11:31:53 AM #88:	Leanaunfurled posted... Yes. :s And there's much less trust now, naturally. It's being worked on. There are changes now and I feel reasonably secure. You won't ever 100% know for sure he's telling the truth, what are those changes? I'm trying to understand how you feel secure while being 9 hours away, he can easily bypass anything you two have set up imo --- http://i.imgur.com/L6MQGtI.gif http://i.imgur.com/HAj1Ocp.gif http://i.imgur.com/Op6gMTg.gif http://i.imgur.com/hNkY6mv.gif <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted [p:893120482] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Yes. :s And there's much less trust now, naturally. It's being worked on. There are changes now and I feel reasonably secure.</quote> You won't ever 100% know for sure he's telling the truth, what are those changes? I'm trying to understand how you feel secure while being 9 hours away, he can easily bypass anything you two have set up imo</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
prettyprincess 12/30/17 11:34:46 AM #89:	JustMyOpinion posted... In my opinion you should do this more, like when movies say their title --- And in an infinite regress, tell me, why is the pain of birth lighter borne than the pain of death? <cite>prettyprincess posted [p:893120614] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>In my opinion</quote> you should do this more, like when movies say their title</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 12/30/17 11:43:14 AM #90:	How old are the two of you? <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:893120965] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>How old are the two of you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 12/30/17 12:06:29 PM #91:	Caution999 posted... Whoa I take that back. He got oral sex?! LMFAO. That is cheating honey Who are you talking to? I never said it wasn't. o_O Even if it was just sexting, that's cheating. Funkydog posted... I mean, if you can honestly forgive him for the shit you were clearly very upset over, then hopefully issues don't rise again I suppose? Yeah, pretty much how it goes lol. We'll see what the future holds. V-E-G-Y- posted... You won't ever 100% know for sure he's telling the truth, what are those changes? I'm trying to understand how you feel secure while being 9 hours away, he can easily bypass anything you two have set up imo Everything you said is true. I don't feel completely secure, just reasonably secure. I'm the type of person now that is always aware of the simple fact that no relationship ever has 100% trust (like you said), and I'll never feel 100% secure. Not just with him, but with anyone. It would be a lot better once I move though. Our relationship has been one in which we're pretty much in contact at every waking hour. I know it sounds exhausting to some of you, it works for us. --- Currently Playing: Xenoblade Chronicles 2, Horizon: Zero Dawn https://i.imgur.com/jycEJAt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/iOC77WJ.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:893122016] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Caution999 posted...</cite> <quote>Whoa I take that back. He got oral sex?! LMFAO. That is cheating honey</quote> Who are you talking to? I never said it wasn't. o_O Even if it was just sexting, that's cheating. <cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote>I mean, if you can honestly forgive him for the shit you were clearly very upset over, then hopefully issues don't rise again I suppose?</quote> Yeah, pretty much how it goes lol. We'll see what the future holds. <cite>V-E-G-Y- posted...</cite> <quote>You won't ever 100% know for sure he's telling the truth, what are those changes? I'm trying to understand how you feel secure while being 9 hours away, he can easily bypass anything you two have set up imo </quote> Everything you said is true. I don't feel completely secure, just reasonably secure. I'm the type of person now that is always aware of the simple fact that no relationship ever has 100% trust (like you said), and I'll never feel 100% secure. Not just with him, but with anyone. It would be a lot better once I move though. Our relationship has been one in which we're pretty much in contact at every waking hour. I know it sounds exhausting to some of you, it works for us.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hairy-man 12/30/17 12:08:50 PM #92:	Be careful about moving. The cheating unfortunately is hard to stop for a lot of people. If that bothers you, I would re think what youre doing. A relationship that is long distance as well as unfaithful could potentially lead to disaster. I wish you the very best and I hope that this makes you both happy. But just keep everything in mind --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah <cite>Hairy-man posted [p:893122107] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Be careful about moving. The cheating unfortunately is hard to stop for a lot of people. If that bothers you, I would re think what youre doing. A relationship that is long distance as well as unfaithful could potentially lead to disaster. I wish you the very best and I hope that this makes you both happy. But just keep everything in mind</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 12/30/17 12:10:33 PM #93:	Leanaunfurled posted... Perascamin posted... Bunch of jealous ceman itt Congratulations, Leanna (: Thanks! Here's to many more. JustMyOpinion posted... Congrats. Hopefully he won't sext anyone again in 2018. Now that we agreed on anime body pillows he agreed not to Lmfao. So hard. --- "I got a rollatruc, look." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:893122182] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Perascamin posted...</cite> <quote>Bunch of jealous ceman itt Congratulations, Leanna (:</quote> Thanks! Here's to many more. <cite>JustMyOpinion posted...</cite> <quote>Congrats. Hopefully he won't sext anyone again in 2018.</quote> Now that we agreed on anime body pillows he agreed not to</quote> Lmfao. So hard.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 12/30/17 12:12:56 PM #94:	Well I wish you guys the best, and I don't wanna seem like an all Knowing snob, but if this doesn't work out, you might wanna consider restricting your dating to the area you're living in. Long distance shit doesn't work for this very reason, imo. When either party wants physical attention, and cannot get it, they will be tempted to find someone local. You will never win that battle. Honestly I'm shocked you'd still want him after oral sex. It's hard for me, personally, to comprehend that- it'd be a deal breaker for me. But it's your life and it's possible things can still work. --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:893122298] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>Well I wish you guys the best, and I don't wanna seem like an all Knowing snob, but if this doesn't work out, you might wanna consider restricting your dating to the area you're living in. Long distance shit doesn't work for this very reason, imo. When either party wants physical attention, and cannot get it, they will be tempted to find someone local. You will never win that battle. Honestly I'm shocked you'd still want him after oral sex. It's hard for me, personally, to comprehend that- it'd be a deal breaker for me. But it's your life and it's possible things can still work.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hairy-man 12/30/17 12:14:09 PM #95:	Caution999 posted... Well I wish you guys the best, and I don't wanna seem like an all Knowing snob, but if this doesn't work out, you might wanna consider restricting your dating to the area you're living in. Long distance shit doesn't work for this very reason, imo. When either party wants physical attention, and cannot get it, they will be tempted to find someone local. You will never win that battle Unfortunately this is true a lot of the times. I had a long distance relationship for a year, but it got all fucked up because she couldnt keep her hands off of the dudes where she lived --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah <cite>Hairy-man posted [p:893122363] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Caution999 posted...</cite> <quote>Well I wish you guys the best, and I don't wanna seem like an all Knowing snob, but if this doesn't work out, you might wanna consider restricting your dating to the area you're living in. Long distance shit doesn't work for this very reason, imo. When either party wants physical attention, and cannot get it, they will be tempted to find someone local. You will never win that battle</quote> Unfortunately this is true a lot of the times. I had a long distance relationship for a year, but it got all fucked up because she couldnt keep her hands off of the dudes where she lived</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ImCallingYouOut 12/30/17 12:14:50 PM #96:	lmfao leana is a toxic poster --- I'm sick of trolls and garbage posters <cite>ImCallingYouOut posted [p:893122388] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>lmfao leana is a toxic poster</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArchiePeck 12/30/17 12:17:11 PM #97:	Hairy-man posted... Caution999 posted... Well I wish you guys the best, and I don't wanna seem like an all Knowing snob, but if this doesn't work out, you might wanna consider restricting your dating to the area you're living in. Long distance shit doesn't work for this very reason, imo. When either party wants physical attention, and cannot get it, they will be tempted to find someone local. You will never win that battle Unfortunately this is true a lot of the times. I had a long distance relationship for a year, but it got all fucked up because she couldnt keep her hands off of the dudes where she lived People have sexual needs. <cite>ArchiePeck posted [p:893122514] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote><cite>Hairy-man posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Caution999 posted...</cite> <quote>Well I wish you guys the best, and I don't wanna seem like an all Knowing snob, but if this doesn't work out, you might wanna consider restricting your dating to the area you're living in. Long distance shit doesn't work for this very reason, imo. When either party wants physical attention, and cannot get it, they will be tempted to find someone local. You will never win that battle</quote> Unfortunately this is true a lot of the times. I had a long distance relationship for a year, but it got all fucked up because she couldnt keep her hands off of the dudes where she lived</quote> People have sexual needs.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 12/30/17 12:18:08 PM #98:	I am of the firm belief that romantic relationships must be located close. That's just my opinion. Obviously there have been people that have successfully pulled this off, but I do think you're playing against the odds. Probability is against you - doesn't mean you can't win on the slot machine, either. --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:893122556] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>I am of the firm belief that romantic relationships must be located close. That's just my opinion. Obviously there have been people that have successfully pulled this off, but I do think you're playing against the odds. Probability is against you - doesn't mean you can't win on the slot machine, either.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hairy-man 12/30/17 12:23:18 PM #99:	If I can be completely honest, and Im ashamed to admit, I also had thoughts of cheating. Its amazing what the hormones can do when you are sort of starved sexually. I never did it, but the thoughts were definitely there. Unfortunately its just a human thing though. Some people go through with it, and some dont. --- Your friendly, neighborhood Hairyman Not changing sig until REmake2 is released! Hah <cite>Hairy-man posted [p:893122822] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>If I can be completely honest, and Im ashamed to admit, I also had thoughts of cheating. Its amazing what the hormones can do when you are sort of starved sexually. I never did it, but the thoughts were definitely there. Unfortunately its just a human thing though. Some people go through with it, and some dont.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Akagami_Shanks 12/30/17 12:27:11 PM #100:	just let them be. Why y'all keep trying to remind her about this like you have some kind of new perspective that she hasn't heard before. --- http://i.imgur.com/MFTpPuq.jpg <cite>Akagami_Shanks posted [p:893123006] in My CEman a... [t:76149265]...</cite> <quote>just let them be. Why y'all keep trying to remind her about this like you have some kind of new perspective that she hasn't heard before.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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