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goldenBoi45
12/13/17 10:26:23 PM
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It's like Kramer said on Seinfeld. I wake up in the morning, she's there. I come home from work, she's there. I go to bed, I go to eat dinner, she's fucking there! It really is starting to annoy me tbh.

She's cool, she's a teacher so she's able to hold intelligent convos, and she has a nice heart. But I have been really thinking about going back to Miami and saying screw this. It's not just the space thing, I honestly want to fuck other girls and am already kinda tired of having sex with her. I always seem to get like this. It's like I can't commit to one girl.

I haven't been able to tell her these things yet because she really likes me and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I feel like even if I tried to make things work here in D.C. , I need my own place. I'm just not that make a home type of guy, I'm still in my 20's.

Anyways, have any of you guys had a similar issue with a chick? And how did you deal with it? Did you just bail or try to work it out?
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C_Pain
12/13/17 10:27:23 PM
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I can't really relate. I like all the girls I pursue relationships with. Sounds like you don't.
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Awesome
12/13/17 10:28:00 PM
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sounds like you dont love her, just break up with her and get it over with
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Ubermensch
12/13/17 10:28:38 PM
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Crush her
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Behaviorism
12/13/17 10:30:18 PM
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goldenBoi45 posted...
It's like Kramer said on Seinfeld. I wake up in the morning, she's there. I come home from work, she's there. I go to bed, I go to eat dinner, she's fucking there! It really is starting to annoy me tbh.

She's cool, she's a teacher so she's able to hold intelligent convos, and she has a nice heart. But I have been really thinking about going back to Miami and saying screw this. It's not just the space thing, I honestly want to fuck other girls and am already kinda tired of having sex with her. I always seem to get like this. It's like I can't commit to one girl.

I haven't been able to tell her these things yet because she really likes me and I don't want to hurt her feelings. I feel like even if I tried to make things work here in D.C. , I need my own place. I'm just not that make a home type of guy, I'm still in my 20's.

Anyways, have any of you guys had a similar issue with a chick? And how did you deal with it? Did you just bail or try to work it out?


Was with you until this. Now,
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Zeeak4444
12/13/17 10:31:20 PM
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Eh I have before but it wasn't so much her as much as I just wasn't ready to settle down.

Had the same thing happen to me later when I did wanna settle down lol.

Nothing wrong with that. Don't bail, that implies just being a dick and peacing out. Be respectful, do the break up right (whatever that means for you two if you know what I mean), and then walk away guilt free and with a solid growing experience under the belt for the future.
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goldenBoi45
12/13/17 10:35:50 PM
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Zeeak4444 posted...
Eh I have before but it wasn't so much her as much as I just wasn't ready to settle down.

Had the same thing happen to me later when I did wanna settle down lol.

Nothing wrong with that. Don't bail, that implies just being a dick and peacing out. Be respectful, do the break up right (whatever that means for you two if you know what I mean), and then walk away guilt free and with a solid growing experience under the belt for the future.


Nice answer. Thanks, man. I think I'm just gonna wait until after Christmas and have a conversation with her about it. I really wish this whole relationship thing was doing for me but yeah, I think I'm just not ready to settle down.
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Zeeak4444
12/13/17 10:40:35 PM
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goldenBoi45 posted...
Zeeak4444 posted...
Eh I have before but it wasn't so much her as much as I just wasn't ready to settle down.

Had the same thing happen to me later when I did wanna settle down lol.

Nothing wrong with that. Don't bail, that implies just being a dick and peacing out. Be respectful, do the break up right (whatever that means for you two if you know what I mean), and then walk away guilt free and with a solid growing experience under the belt for the future.


Nice answer. Thanks, man. I think I'm just gonna wait until after Christmas and have a conversation with her about it. I really wish this whole relationship thing was doing for me but yeah, I think I'm just not ready to settle down.


Anytime brother.

It's not an easy choice to make when you're considering the long haul lol. Good luck with it all though, wish you both the best mate!
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goldenBoi45
12/13/17 10:43:24 PM
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C_Pain posted...
I can't really relate. I like all the girls I pursue relationships with. Sounds like you don't.


I always like them at first.
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KillerKhan420
12/13/17 10:45:49 PM
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Yeah I've had that before, sucks being bored but you gotta spice it up a little. Just try and split on good terms.
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MixedRaceBaby
12/13/17 10:46:19 PM
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i live with my girlfriend

goldenBoi45 posted...
I wake up in the morning, she's there. I come home from work, she's there. I go to bed, I go to eat dinner, she's fucking there!

and i love her every second of her being there <3
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goldenBoi45
12/13/17 10:47:11 PM
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MixedRaceBaby posted...
i live with my girlfriend

goldenBoi45 posted...
I wake up in the morning, she's there. I come home from work, she's there. I go to bed, I go to eat dinner, she's fucking there!

and i love her every second of her being there <3


Well good for you, Flanders.
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TheCyborgNinja
12/13/17 10:48:00 PM
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Youre over her and its not fair for her if you keep the charade going.
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MixedRaceBaby
12/13/17 10:48:29 PM
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goldenBoi45 posted...
Well good for you, Flanders.

lmao
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marthsheretoo
12/13/17 10:49:19 PM
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You could just be non-monogamous by nature.
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goldenBoi45
12/13/17 10:52:19 PM
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TheCyborgNinja posted...
Youre over her and its not fair for her if you keep the charade going.


Yeah, I'm trying to avoid drawing this out and eventually cheating. But to break up with her right before Christmas, and while I still live here? Idk man. Although starting her 2018 off with a breakup is kinda lame too. Shit, and Valentine's day is coming up.

What a shit time to be in a bad relationship :/
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goldenBoi45
12/13/17 10:54:03 PM
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marthsheretoo posted...
You could just be non-monogamous by nature.


I'm starting to think that. Even my ex who I was crazy in love with I cheated on a couple times. It's weird, I just can't see myself with only one chick forever. Scares me a bit
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