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umax555 12/13/17 4:15:21 AM #1:	For those of you who didn't see my topic last week, tl;dr a girl started messaging me on Tinder and asked to grab drinks. I did some detective work to find her Facebook, and she had a lot of recent pics with a guy (including her profile pic, and she was in his too). Dude lives in a different state according to his FB. Anyway, I went out for drinks with her tonight. We talked for a few hours and seemed to connect pretty well, moreso than I expected. And she looked better in person than in her pics. I didn't mention anything about her Facebook pics or whether she has a boyfriend. So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend? <cite>umax555 posted [p:892126517] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>For those of you who didn't see my topic last week, tl;dr a girl started messaging me on Tinder and asked to grab drinks. I did some detective work to find her Facebook, and she had a lot of recent pics with a guy (including her profile pic, and she was in his too). Dude lives in a different state according to his FB. Anyway, I went out for drinks with her tonight. We talked for a few hours and seemed to connect pretty well, moreso than I expected. And she looked better in person than in her pics. I didn't mention anything about her Facebook pics or whether she has a boyfriend. So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 12/13/17 4:22:17 AM #2:	Just went on a date with a girl who I think has a boyfriend. Many guys do whether they realize it or not rofl. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gif <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:892126635] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><quote>Just went on a date with a girl who I think has a boyfriend.</quote> Many guys do whether they realize it or not rofl.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 12/13/17 4:35:45 AM #3:	ClockworkHare posted... Just went on a date with a girl who I think has a boyfriend. Many guys do whether they realize it or not rofl. Yeah, I was gonna say "so you mean that you went on a date. Whoopty shit." --- If you're not looking for any honest discussion, agreement, meeting halfway or middle ground, don't bother arguing with me. Selfish narcissists need not apply. <cite>Kineth posted [p:892126897] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>ClockworkHare posted...</cite> <quote><quote>Just went on a date with a girl who I think has a boyfriend.</quote> Many guys do whether they realize it or not rofl.</quote> Yeah, I was gonna say "so you mean that you went on a date. Whoopty shit."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MuayThai85 12/13/17 4:45:24 AM #4:	umax555 posted... So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend? If you don't know the dude, then she's fair game and it doesn't make you a shitty person. Now, if she was happily married and you're trying to seduce her or her boyfriend was one of your boys, then that would make you a shitty person. --- How can one person post so much stupid s? <cite>MuayThai85 posted [p:892127058] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>umax555 posted...</cite> <quote>So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s**ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend?</quote> If you don't know the dude, then she's fair game and it doesn't make you a shitty person. Now, if she was happily married and you're trying to seduce her or her boyfriend was one of your boys, then that would make you a shitty person.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Awesome 12/13/17 4:52:39 AM #5:	MuayThai85 posted... umax555 posted... So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend? If you don't know the dude, then she's fair game and it doesn't make you a shitty person. Now, if she was happily married and you're trying to seduce her or her boyfriend was one of your boys, then that would make you a shitty person. no if you know a girl is in a relationship and they want a monogamous one and you help her cheat on the boyfriend it makes you a crappy person. --- http://i.imgur.com/gWCYPlD.jpg http://i.imgur.com/Ls3OgWR.jpg <cite>Awesome posted [p:892127223] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>MuayThai85 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>umax555 posted...</cite> <quote>So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend?</quote> If you don't know the dude, then she's fair game and it doesn't make you a shitty person. Now, if she was happily married and you're trying to seduce her or her boyfriend was one of your boys, then that would make you a shitty person.</quote> no if you know a girl is in a relationship and they want a monogamous one and you help her cheat on the boyfriend it makes you a crappy person.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCyborgNinja 12/13/17 4:54:18 AM #6:	Its not on you to do a background check... but if she is willing to cheat for you, she will probably cheat on you. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888 <cite>TheCyborgNinja posted [p:892127269] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Its not on you to do a background check... but if she is willing to cheat for you, she will probably cheat on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NonDairyMiltank 12/13/17 4:56:50 AM #7:	do you even know exactly who the guy is in her photos? or do you just get off being paranoid? --- le Moo <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted [p:892127335] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>do you even know exactly who the guy is in her photos? or do you just get off being paranoid?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thelovefist 12/13/17 5:29:29 AM #8:	Asking her if she is seeing anyone else is a normal question to ask --- N/A <cite>thelovefist posted [p:892128121] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Asking her if she is seeing anyone else is a normal question to ask</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
umax555 12/13/17 11:53:52 AM #9:	TheCyborgNinja posted... Its not on you to do a background check... but if she is willing to cheat for you, she will probably cheat on you. Eh, I'm not really going for a long term relationship anyway because I'm moving across the country next year. So I'm not too worried about that. NonDairyMiltank posted... do you even know exactly who the guy is in her photos? or do you just get off being paranoid? No, I don't know him. But if you saw the photos you'd see why I think that. They're kinda "couply" pics. <cite>umax555 posted [p:892141128] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCyborgNinja posted...</cite> <quote>Its not on you to do a background check... but if she is willing to cheat for you, she will probably cheat on you.</quote> Eh, I'm not really going for a long term relationship anyway because I'm moving across the country next year. So I'm not too worried about that. <cite>NonDairyMiltank posted...</cite> <quote>do you even know exactly who the guy is in her photos? or do you just get off being paranoid?</quote> No, I don't know him. But if you saw the photos you'd see why I think that. They're kinda "couply" pics.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 12/13/17 11:57:10 AM #10:	It is definitely possible that they broke up and she just hasn't updated her FB yet. People leave that shit up for a while. umax555 posted... Eh, I'm not really going for a long term relationship anyway because I'm moving across the country next year. So I'm not too worried about that. Yeah you're fine --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad: ELIMINATED. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:892141304] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>It is definitely possible that they broke up and she just hasn't updated her FB yet. People leave that shit up for a while. <cite>umax555 posted...</cite> <quote>Eh, I'm not really going for a long term relationship anyway because I'm moving across the country next year. So I'm not too worried about that. </quote> Yeah you're fine</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
r4X0r 12/13/17 12:05:37 PM #11:	There's only two relationship statuses that matter- engaged, and married. If there's no ring on it, it's fair game. --- Professionals are predictable- it's the amateurs who are dangerous. <cite>r4X0r posted [p:892141790] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>There's only two relationship statuses that matter- engaged, and married. If there's no ring on it, it's fair game.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 12/13/17 1:57:10 PM #12:	r4X0r posted... There's only two relationship statuses that matter- engaged, and married. If there's no ring on it, it's fair game. --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad: ELIMINATED. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:892148188] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>r4X0r posted...</cite> <quote>There's only two relationship statuses that matter- engaged, and married. If there's no ring on it, it's fair game.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Touch 12/13/17 1:58:58 PM #13:	Just cuz theres a goalie doesn't mean you can't score --- https://i.imgur.com/Sy3Fd8J.jpg <cite>Touch posted [p:892148289] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Just cuz theres a goalie doesn't mean you can't score</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheBiggerWiggle 12/13/17 2:17:07 PM #14:	Dude, she's on Tinder. Even if she is in a relationship, she plans to cheat on the guy. If you turn her down she'll just cheat with someone else. You even said you're not looking for anything serious. Go have some fun. --- I have trouble concentrating because I have 80HD. <cite>TheBiggerWiggle posted [p:892149381] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Dude, she's on Tinder. Even if she is in a relationship, she plans to cheat on the guy. If you turn her down she'll just cheat with someone else. You even said you're not looking for anything serious. Go have some fun.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sylverlolol 12/13/17 2:19:03 PM #15:	Yeah just ask if she's seeing anyone else. Its normal for girls and guys to see multiple people at the same time. --- This is my signature. There are many like it, but this one is mine. <cite>sylverlolol posted [p:892149526] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Yeah just ask if she's seeing anyone else. Its normal for girls and guys to see multiple people at the same time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
parkman32 12/13/17 2:22:11 PM #16:	How old are the most recent pics? It could be a recent break up. <cite>parkman32 posted [p:892149722] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>How old are the most recent pics? It could be a recent break up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Forever_Black 12/13/17 2:23:23 PM #17:	Awesome posted... MuayThai85 posted... umax555 posted... So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend? If you don't know the dude, then she's fair game and it doesn't make you a shitty person. Now, if she was happily married and you're trying to seduce her or her boyfriend was one of your boys, then that would make you a shitty person. no if you know a girl is in a relationship and they want a monogamous one and you help her cheat on the boyfriend it makes you a crappy person. No it doesnt. The only crappy person in that scenario is the cheater. --- Ooouuu <cite>Forever_Black posted [p:892149811] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>Awesome posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MuayThai85 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>umax555 posted...</cite> <quote>So now I'm in a weird situation, would I be a s*ty person for trying to take this further knowing that she likely has a boyfriend?</quote> If you don't know the dude, then she's fair game and it doesn't make you a shitty person. Now, if she was happily married and you're trying to seduce her or her boyfriend was one of your boys, then that would make you a shitty person.</quote> no if you know a girl is in a relationship and they want a monogamous one and you help her cheat on the boyfriend it makes you a crappy person.</quote> No it doesnt. The only crappy person in that scenario is the cheater.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 12/13/17 2:27:21 PM #18:	That's a really personal decision - some people wouldn't care (obviously from some responses) and some people would definitely feel some type of way about it. Sounds like you're bothered by it by posting on here. --- I am I - you are you. These are irrefutable truths. Possibly. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:892150042] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>That's a really personal decision - some people wouldn't care (obviously from some responses) and some people would definitely feel some type of way about it. Sounds like you're bothered by it by posting on here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 12/13/17 2:28:25 PM #19:	I wouldn't worry about it from a moral perspective, if that's your concern. The only issue might be if you're looking for something serious and think this might be wasting your time. You can always bring up the topic of past relationships and see what she says. I've asked girls, point blank, "when was your last serious relationship," and never gotten pushback. It usually makes for an interesting conversation. You just have set up the question properly and make sure it's asked at the right moment. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:892150106] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>I wouldn't worry about it from a moral perspective, if that's your concern. The only issue might be if you're looking for something serious and think this might be wasting your time. You can always bring up the topic of past relationships and see what she says. I've asked girls, point blank, "when was your last serious relationship," and never gotten pushback. It usually makes for an interesting conversation. You just have set up the question properly and make sure it's asked at the right moment.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iron jojo 12/13/17 2:30:35 PM #20:	Either way she's not a keeper unless you're just looking for a casual fuck buddy. --- vickfan-chucky they hated Jesus homie chuckyhacks-who teh hell is "jesus homie" <cite>iron jojo posted [p:892150227] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Either way she's not a keeper unless you're just looking for a casual fuck buddy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 12/13/17 2:33:33 PM #21:	TC mentioned he's moving in a year or so and not looking for anything serious --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad: ELIMINATED. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:892150432] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>TC mentioned he's moving in a year or so and not looking for anything serious</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
umax555 12/13/17 7:12:22 PM #22:	Mystery solved guys. After doing some further Facebook stalking...turns out the guy died not that long ago :( <cite>umax555 posted [p:892167069] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote>Mystery solved guys. After doing some further Facebook stalking...turns out the guy died not that long ago :(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 12/14/17 10:53:27 AM #23:	umax555 posted... Mystery solved guys. After doing some further Facebook stalking...turns out the guy died not that long ago :( damn that's fucked up --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad: ELIMINATED. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:892200928] in Just went ... [t:76093841]...</cite> <quote><cite>umax555 posted...</cite> <quote>Mystery solved guys. After doing some further Facebook stalking...turns out the guy died not that long ago :(</quote> damn that's fucked up</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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