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Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:06:44 PM #1:	I don't post much, so here it goes. We've been together for almost two years, (in two weeks it would have been two years), she was acting distant and different. Last Sunday she got upset. Said she was unhappy with her self and the way her life was going, told me she wants to be alone now and focus on herself. This came out of nowhere so of course I was pretty devastated and confused. She then said let's talk about it in a couple days, we need time to think. Fast forward a couple days later, she texted me saying she wanted to talk in a couple days which I agreed to. Come Saturday, she TEXTS me saying that she hopes we can become friends someday again. Basically breaking up with me over text. I mean, two years and we couldn't have this conversation face to face? Anyways, today, I asked her if we could talk face to face to clear the air a bit. We've never had a problem with each other, so I figured we could have a proper closure if this is truly what we are doing. She started saying we broke up in person last week (which is bullshit) and that she doesn't own me any conversation, being an ass for no reason. I called her out on some shit like her smoking a lot of weed lately using it as a self medicated antidepressant. I know that was a dick thing to say. She got a new job a couple months ago which I feel really changed who she was. She started hanging out with some of her workmates and I feel that they influenced her. She was smoking a lot of weed with them and before her new job, she was almost never smoking weed. I'm a bit upset, I felt it coming, what do I do now? Drink the night away? I've been watching CDNThe3rd on Twitch, he's funny as hell. Blogfaqs, it felt good to type though. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891301101] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>I don't post much, so here it goes. We've been together for almost two years, (in two weeks it would have been two years), she was acting distant and different. Last Sunday she got upset. Said she was unhappy with her self and the way her life was going, told me she wants to be alone now and focus on herself. This came out of nowhere so of course I was pretty devastated and confused. She then said let's talk about it in a couple days, we need time to think. Fast forward a couple days later, she texted me saying she wanted to talk in a couple days which I agreed to. Come Saturday, she TEXTS me saying that she hopes we can become friends someday again. Basically breaking up with me over text. I mean, two years and we couldn't have this conversation face to face? Anyways, today, I asked her if we could talk face to face to clear the air a bit. We've never had a problem with each other, so I figured we could have a proper closure if this is truly what we are doing. She started saying we broke up in person last week (which is bullshit) and that she doesn't own me any conversation, being an ass for no reason. I called her out on some shit like her smoking a lot of weed lately using it as a self medicated antidepressant. I know that was a dick thing to say. She got a new job a couple months ago which I feel really changed who she was. She started hanging out with some of her workmates and I feel that they influenced her. She was smoking a lot of weed with them and before her new job, she was almost never smoking weed. I'm a bit upset, I felt it coming, what do I do now? Drink the night away? I've been watching CDNThe3rd on Twitch, he's funny as hell. Blogfaqs, it felt good to type though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mystery_Mission 11/29/17 9:07:29 PM #2:	you got cucked <cite>Mystery_Mission posted [p:891301151] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>you got cucked</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Callixtus 11/29/17 9:10:02 PM #3:	Mystery_Mission posted... you got cucked I unironically think this might be the case. She may have cheated with one of these new friends and feels like shit. She might be afraid to look you in the eye. --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. \| I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus <cite>Callixtus posted [p:891301285] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystery_Mission posted...</cite> <quote>you got cucked</quote> I unironically think this might be the case. She may have cheated with one of these new friends and feels like shit. She might be afraid to look you in the eye.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KawiKa 11/29/17 9:12:22 PM #5:	She cheated on you or wants someone else. --- o7 <cite>KawiKa posted [p:891301417] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>She cheated on you or wants someone else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:13:12 PM #6:	Callixtus posted... Mystery_Mission posted... you got cucked I unironically think this might be the case. She may have cheated with one of these new friends and feels like shit. She might be afraid to look you in the eye. It's funny because I would of rather her say that (if it was the case) then say she needs to find herself, but I don't think it's true. During our two years, she was just one of those girls that hardly put out because she felt uncomfortable with herself. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891301473] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Callixtus posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mystery_Mission posted...</cite> <quote>you got cucked</quote> I unironically think this might be the case. She may have cheated with one of these new friends and feels like shit. She might be afraid to look you in the eye.</quote> It's funny because I would of rather her say that (if it was the case) then say she needs to find herself, but I don't think it's true. During our two years, she was just one of those girls that hardly put out because she felt uncomfortable with herself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 11/29/17 9:14:12 PM #7:	KawiKa posted... She cheated on you or wants someone else. This. --- PSN: bulletproofvita <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:891301531] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>KawiKa posted...</cite> <quote>She cheated on you or wants someone else.</quote> This.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smashingpmkns 11/29/17 9:14:32 PM #8:	Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3 <cite>Smashingpmkns posted [p:891301548] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Callixtus 11/29/17 9:16:49 PM #9:	Smashingpmkns posted... Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on. This is probably right. If she's not going to give you a reason after two years of dating, then there's not much you can do at this point. It sucks that someone would do that to you for no apparent reason. --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. \| I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus <cite>Callixtus posted [p:891301676] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Smashingpmkns posted...</cite> <quote>Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on.</quote> This is probably right. If she's not going to give you a reason after two years of dating, then there's not much you can do at this point. It sucks that someone would do that to you for no apparent reason.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:17:27 PM #10:	bulletproofvita posted... KawiKa posted... She cheated on you or wants someone else. This. Read post 6, I'll be honest, I don't think she's the type of person to do that. Smashingpmkns posted... Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on. No, you're right. I already did remove her off all social media. I only have her number still because I want my stuff back, which I kindly asked for. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891301713] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>bulletproofvita posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KawiKa posted...</cite> <quote>She cheated on you or wants someone else.</quote> This.</quote> Read post 6, I'll be honest, I don't think she's the type of person to do that. <cite>Smashingpmkns posted...</cite> <quote>Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on.</quote> No, you're right. I already did remove her off all social media. I only have her number still because I want my stuff back, which I kindly asked for.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bulletproofvita 11/29/17 9:17:32 PM #11:	Callixtus posted... Smashingpmkns posted... Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on. This is probably right. If she's not going to give you a reason after two years of dating, then there's not much you can do at this point. It sucks that someone would do that to you for no apparent reason. Nope. All the signs would've been there. --- PSN: bulletproofvita <cite>bulletproofvita posted [p:891301724] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Callixtus posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Smashingpmkns posted...</cite> <quote>Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on.</quote> This is probably right. If she's not going to give you a reason after two years of dating, then there's not much you can do at this point. It sucks that someone would do that to you for no apparent reason.</quote> Nope. All the signs would've been there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EternalDivide 11/29/17 9:17:52 PM #12:	This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days. --- FFVII Remake: A disaster in the making. I'll laugh at whatever I find funny whether you like it or not. <cite>EternalDivide posted [p:891301746] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:19:09 PM #13:	Callixtus posted... Smashingpmkns posted... Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on. This is probably right. If she's not going to give you a reason after two years of dating, then there's not much you can do at this point. It sucks that someone would do that to you for no apparent reason. Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891301817] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Callixtus posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Smashingpmkns posted...</cite> <quote>Best thing to do is move on from it dude. Don't think about what her motives are or if there's anything you can do to change this situation with her. She seems done. Let it be done. She won't even give you the time of day, move the fuck on and be single for a minute. You do not want to go down the rabbit hole of thinking she was influenced into this decision or that she cheated on you, etc. It will only make you angry and sad. Don't look at her shit, delete her number, Move on.</quote> This is probably right. If she's not going to give you a reason after two years of dating, then there's not much you can do at this point. It sucks that someone would do that to you for no apparent reason.</quote> Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 11/29/17 9:20:30 PM #14:	2 years is a long time but what can you do, she's being a bitch and it's obviously over. Expecting a certain level of closure is reasonable after years in a relationship, but clearly this is how she decided to handle it. Are the workmates that she smoked with guys? And like somebody else said, it'd make sense if she cheated - she probably feels guilty and doesn't want to talk about it in person. She'd rather forget that it happened. Having to fess up to cheating or face a situation in which she's the guilty/'bad' one is nigh impossible for a lot of younger chicks. You basically need video evidence to get a girl to admit that she cheated on you. --- I am I - you are you. These are irrefutable truths. Possibly. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:891301908] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>2 years is a long time but what can you do, she's being a bitch and it's obviously over. Expecting a certain level of closure is reasonable after years in a relationship, but clearly this is how she decided to handle it. Are the workmates that she smoked with guys? And like somebody else said, it'd make sense if she cheated - she probably feels guilty and doesn't want to talk about it in person. She'd rather forget that it happened. Having to fess up to cheating or face a situation in which she's the guilty/'bad' one is nigh impossible for a lot of younger chicks. You basically need video evidence to get a girl to admit that she cheated on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 11/29/17 9:20:36 PM #15:	Can people not catastrophize tcs situation, please? Hes doing that himself already. Whatever straw broke the camels back, this has been building for a while. Maybe its as simple as her not feeling like shes ready to settle down. Youll beat yourself up trying to analyze it because it isnt something you could probably understand. Shes acting like a bitch because she feels guilty and Im guessing you arent as calm and collected as you are here. Try not to look into that much. And, with no other information than whats been posted here, she sounds selfish and immature, which means youll be free to find someone that isnt and be able to look back on this one day and sigh in relief --- You gotta fly like an eagle and not.b... be like a turkey <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:891301913] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Can people not catastrophize tcs situation, please? Hes doing that himself already. Whatever straw broke the camels back, this has been building for a while. Maybe its as simple as her not feeling like shes ready to settle down. Youll beat yourself up trying to analyze it because it isnt something you could probably understand. Shes acting like a bitch because she feels guilty and Im guessing you arent as calm and collected as you are here. Try not to look into that much. And, with no other information than whats been posted here, she sounds selfish and immature, which means youll be free to find someone that isnt and be able to look back on this one day and sigh in relief</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DezCaughtIt 11/29/17 9:21:49 PM #16:	Damn dude. That's such a cowardly way on her part to go about it --- *The user formally known as freakofnature30* ROCK FLAAAAG AND EAAAAAAAAAGLLLLLLLE <cite>DezCaughtIt posted [p:891301972] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Damn dude. That's such a cowardly way on her part to go about it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
glitteringfairy 11/29/17 9:23:38 PM #17:	EternalDivide posted... This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days. This was going well until you said a "couple glasses of wine". Like what kinda lame ass attempt at self destructive drinking is that. That's some rookie baby boomer level shit --- "How come you can believe in God but not Bigfoot?" V-E-G-Y http://i.imgur.com/AqR3aeX.jpg http://i.imgur.com/vvuUXpp.jpg <cite>glitteringfairy posted [p:891302089] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days.</quote> This was going well until you said a "couple glasses of wine". Like what kinda lame ass attempt at self destructive drinking is that. That's some rookie baby boomer level shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Roxborough4Ever 11/29/17 9:23:40 PM #18:	sry dawg --- You feast on red herring because it is your birthright. <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted [p:891302091] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>sry dawg</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YourDrunkFather 11/29/17 9:25:45 PM #19:	Ya, she cheated on you or wants someone else. She's been avoiding you for a reason. 99% of the time a girl ditches a relationship outta the blue it's because they found some one else --- One bourbon,one scotch,one beer <cite>YourDrunkFather posted [p:891302208] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Ya, she cheated on you or wants someone else. She's been avoiding you for a reason. 99% of the time a girl ditches a relationship outta the blue it's because they found some one else</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:28:31 PM #20:	EternalDivide posted... This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days. I hardly get drunk, but my cousin and I are getting lit Friday night. That should be fun. masticatingman posted... 2 years is a long time but what can you do, she's being a bitch and it's obviously over. Expecting a certain level of closure is reasonable after years in a relationship, but clearly this is how she decided to handle it. Are the workmates that she smoked with guys? And like somebody else said, it'd make sense if she cheated - she probably feels guilty and doesn't want to talk about it in person. She'd rather forget that it happened. Having to fess up to cheating or face a situation in which she's the guilty/'bad' one is nigh impossible for a lot of younger chicks. You basically need video evidence to get a girl to admit that she cheated on you. As far as i know, there's one guy, the one who mostly supplies the weed, and three girls. It's mostly the girls she smokes with. (Again, as far as I know). EnragedSlith posted... Can people not catastrophize tcs situation, please? Hes doing that himself already. Whatever straw broke the camels back, this has been building for a while. Maybe its as simple as her not feeling like shes ready to settle down. Youll beat yourself up trying to analyze it because it isnt something you could probably understand. Shes acting like a bitch because she feels guilty and Im guessing you arent as calm and collected as you are here. Try not to look into that much. And, with no other information than whats been posted here, she sounds selfish and immature, which means youll be free to find someone that isnt and be able to look back on this one day and sigh in relief There was some emotion from me, I can admit, but I was stunned. This is just how the breakup went down. I know that I have my own faults in the relationship like getting irritated sometimes at the small things but I try to adapt. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891302355] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days.</quote> I hardly get drunk, but my cousin and I are getting lit Friday night. That should be fun. <cite>masticatingman posted...</cite> <quote>2 years is a long time but what can you do, she's being a bitch and it's obviously over. Expecting a certain level of closure is reasonable after years in a relationship, but clearly this is how she decided to handle it. Are the workmates that she smoked with guys? And like somebody else said, it'd make sense if she cheated - she probably feels guilty and doesn't want to talk about it in person. She'd rather forget that it happened. Having to fess up to cheating or face a situation in which she's the guilty/'bad' one is nigh impossible for a lot of younger chicks. You basically need video evidence to get a girl to admit that she cheated on you.</quote> As far as i know, there's one guy, the one who mostly supplies the weed, and three girls. It's mostly the girls she smokes with. (Again, as far as I know). <cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>Can people not catastrophize tcs situation, please? Hes doing that himself already. Whatever straw broke the camels back, this has been building for a while. Maybe its as simple as her not feeling like shes ready to settle down. Youll beat yourself up trying to analyze it because it isnt something you could probably understand. Shes acting like a bitch because she feels guilty and Im guessing you arent as calm and collected as you are here. Try not to look into that much. And, with no other information than whats been posted here, she sounds selfish and immature, which means youll be free to find someone that isnt and be able to look back on this one day and sigh in relief</quote> There was some emotion from me, I can admit, but I was stunned. This is just how the breakup went down. I know that I have my own faults in the relationship like getting irritated sometimes at the small things but I try to adapt.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leight_Weight 11/29/17 9:32:27 PM #21:	I'm really sorry to hear that man. Breakups hurt. It does kind of sound like she cheated on you or already had someone in mind. To be totally honest if she couldn't even muster the decency to break it off with you face to face, and she was also planning on cheating, then fuck her, you're much much better off. Time will make it all better. Good luck to you. --- "Every man dies, but not every man truly lives." <cite>Leight_Weight posted [p:891302564] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>I'm really sorry to hear that man. Breakups hurt. It does kind of sound like she cheated on you or already had someone in mind. To be totally honest if she couldn't even muster the decency to break it off with you face to face, and she was also planning on cheating, then fuck her, you're much much better off. Time will make it all better. Good luck to you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KronoCloud 11/29/17 9:32:52 PM #22:	Heres the simple reason she broke up with you: she wasnt happy being with you. I dont know why that makes her a bitch. Life is short, why waste it? You never know, she may end up regretting it down the line but I certainly wouldnt count on it. --- Musical output: soundcloud.com/jayphilly dotwav.blogspot.com <cite>KronoCloud posted [p:891302598] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Heres the simple reason she broke up with you: she wasnt happy being with you. I dont know why that makes her a bitch. Life is short, why waste it? You never know, she may end up regretting it down the line but I certainly wouldnt count on it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:33:39 PM #23:	DezCaughtIt posted... Damn dude. That's such a cowardly way on her part to go about it Roxborough4Ever posted... sry dawg Nah guys, it's okay, I sort of felt it coming because of how different she was being. glitteringfairy posted... EternalDivide posted... This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days. This was going well until you said a "couple glasses of wine". Like what kinda lame ass attempt at self destructive drinking is that. That's some rookie baby boomer level shit Funny enough, I drank three tall glasses of red wine in a span of 20 minutes. I had such a huge headache afterwards. YourDrunkFather posted... Ya, she cheated on you or wants someone else. She's been avoiding you for a reason. 99% of the time a girl ditches a relationship outta the blue it's because they found some one else I know the problems that she had, she's one of those sweetheart girlfriends but again, who knows, I don't want to know at this point. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891302643] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>DezCaughtIt posted...</cite> <quote>Damn dude. That's such a cowardly way on her part to go about it</quote> <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted...</cite> <quote>sry dawg</quote> Nah guys, it's okay, I sort of felt it coming because of how different she was being. <cite>glitteringfairy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>This is why I don't trust people and I advise no one to. Been there years ago. People will eventually stab you in the back. No good comes from relationships. Put on some stupid comedy. Have a couple of glasses of wine. Unless you're an emotional drunk then don't do that part. Burn some pictures of her. Delete everything related to her. Cuss into the night. Rinse and repeat for a few days.</quote> This was going well until you said a "couple glasses of wine". Like what kinda lame ass attempt at self destructive drinking is that. That's some rookie baby boomer level shit</quote> Funny enough, I drank three tall glasses of red wine in a span of 20 minutes. I had such a huge headache afterwards. <cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote>Ya, she cheated on you or wants someone else. She's been avoiding you for a reason. 99% of the time a girl ditches a relationship outta the blue it's because they found some one else</quote> I know the problems that she had, she's one of those sweetheart girlfriends but again, who knows, I don't want to know at this point.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:38:13 PM #24:	Leight_Weight posted... I'm really sorry to hear that man. Breakups hurt. It does kind of sound like she cheated on you or already had someone in mind. To be totally honest if she couldn't even muster the decency to break it off with you face to face, and she was also planning on cheating, then fuck her, you're much much better off. Time will make it all better. Good luck to you. Yeah, I plan on focusing on myself now and what I can do to improve as a person before seeking a new relationship. KronoCloud posted... Heres the simple reason she broke up with you: she wasnt happy being with you. I dont know why that makes her a bitch. Life is short, why waste it? You never know, she may end up regretting it down the line but I certainly wouldnt count on it. Oh I completely understand, I definitely wasn't calling her a bitch. If I felt like I was unhappy with whomever I was dating then I would break it off too. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891302892] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leight_Weight posted...</cite> <quote>I'm really sorry to hear that man. Breakups hurt. It does kind of sound like she cheated on you or already had someone in mind. To be totally honest if she couldn't even muster the decency to break it off with you face to face, and she was also planning on cheating, then fuck her, you're much much better off. Time will make it all better. Good luck to you.</quote> Yeah, I plan on focusing on myself now and what I can do to improve as a person before seeking a new relationship. <cite>KronoCloud posted...</cite> <quote>Heres the simple reason she broke up with you: she wasnt happy being with you. I dont know why that makes her a bitch. Life is short, why waste it? You never know, she may end up regretting it down the line but I certainly wouldnt count on it.</quote> Oh I completely understand, I definitely wasn't calling her a bitch. If I felt like I was unhappy with whomever I was dating then I would break it off too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EternalDivide 11/29/17 9:40:02 PM #25:	It's not self destructive just because. Drinking a little helps relax you. Just don't abuse it or grow to depend on it. And yeah, a couple of glasses. I went through 2 bottles alone on Thanksgiving. And I don't mean that as bragging. Just that literally a couple of glasses is nothing. You wont get drunk off that just get relaxed. --- FFVII Remake: A disaster in the making. I'll laugh at whatever I find funny whether you like it or not. <cite>EternalDivide posted [p:891302999] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>It's not self destructive just because. Drinking a little helps relax you. Just don't abuse it or grow to depend on it. And yeah, a couple of glasses. I went through 2 bottles alone on Thanksgiving. And I don't mean that as bragging. Just that literally a couple of glasses is nothing. You wont get drunk off that just get relaxed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCurseX2 11/29/17 9:41:23 PM #26:	Vladimirr posted... Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it. That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot." --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. <cite>TheCurseX2 posted [p:891303089] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Vladimirr posted...</cite> <quote>Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it.</quote> That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:43:04 PM #27:	It buzzed me because I hardly drink haha, <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891303169] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>It buzzed me because I hardly drink haha,</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 9:44:18 PM #28:	TheCurseX2 posted... Vladimirr posted... Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it. That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot." Is it? She hardly wanted to fuck during the two years. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891303245] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCurseX2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vladimirr posted...</cite> <quote>Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it.</quote> That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot."</quote> Is it? She hardly wanted to fuck during the two years.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anarchy_Juiblex 11/29/17 9:47:40 PM #29:	Use the money you save not being with her joining a gym and bettering your life. Seriously work on yourself, get a hobby, get in better shape, dress better, and fucking forget the ho. --- "Tolerance of intolerance is cowardice." ~ Ayaan Hirsi Ali <cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted [p:891303416] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Use the money you save not being with her joining a gym and bettering your life. Seriously work on yourself, get a hobby, get in better shape, dress better, and fucking forget the ho.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 11/29/17 9:48:57 PM #30:	Just because your girl left you doesnt mean shes already picked out a new dick or wants to sling her pussy wherever she can. I hope you arent listening to some of these knuckleheads. Whatever is characteristic for her is about what you should expect. Not that you should dwell on it. --- You gotta fly like an eagle and not.b... be like a turkey <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:891303485] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Just because your girl left you doesnt mean shes already picked out a new dick or wants to sling her pussy wherever she can. I hope you arent listening to some of these knuckleheads. Whatever is characteristic for her is about what you should expect. Not that you should dwell on it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EnragedSlith 11/29/17 9:50:35 PM #31:	Vladimirr posted... TheCurseX2 posted... Vladimirr posted... Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it. That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot." Is it? She hardly wanted to fuck during the two years. In that case, go fuck someone who makes you feel wanted. I realize that not all relationships are built on sex, but its good for you --- You gotta fly like an eagle and not.b... be like a turkey <cite>EnragedSlith posted [p:891303564] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Vladimirr posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCurseX2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vladimirr posted...</cite> <quote>Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it.</quote> That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot."</quote> Is it? She hardly wanted to fuck during the two years.</quote> In that case, go fuck someone who makes you feel wanted. I realize that not all relationships are built on sex, but its good for you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 10:00:42 PM #32:	Anarchy_Juiblex posted... Use the money you save not being with her joining a gym and bettering your life. Seriously work on yourself, get a hobby, get in better shape, dress better, and fucking forget the ho. I definitely plan on to better myself. EnragedSlith posted... Just because your girl left you doesnt mean shes already picked out a new dick or wants to sling her pussy wherever she can. I hope you arent listening to some of these knuckleheads. Whatever is characteristic for her is about what you should expect. Not that you should dwell on it. EnragedSlith posted... In that case, go fuck someone who makes you feel wanted. I realize that not all relationships are built on sex, but its good for you Nah, I know cuck is just a meme and people love to throw it around as much as possible haha. I don't normally fuck around, so I will probably wait on that. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891304123] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted...</cite> <quote>Use the money you save not being with her joining a gym and bettering your life. Seriously work on yourself, get a hobby, get in better shape, dress better, and fucking forget the ho.</quote> I definitely plan on to better myself. <cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>Just because your girl left you doesnt mean shes already picked out a new dick or wants to sling her pussy wherever she can. I hope you arent listening to some of these knuckleheads. Whatever is characteristic for her is about what you should expect. Not that you should dwell on it.</quote> <cite>EnragedSlith posted...</cite> <quote>In that case, go fuck someone who makes you feel wanted. I realize that not all relationships are built on sex, but its good for you</quote> Nah, I know cuck is just a meme and people love to throw it around as much as possible haha. I don't normally fuck around, so I will probably wait on that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vladimirr 11/29/17 10:18:13 PM #34:	leverageblargh posted... Vladimirr posted... TheCurseX2 posted... Vladimirr posted... Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it. That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot." Is it? She hardly wanted to fuck during the two years. That was then. This is now. And the people she'll be fucking won't be you. That is of course, assuming you go with the CEman idea of what she meant. Getting high a lot probably just made her think about life and think about everything she wanted to do, whether that involves fucking other people or not. KronoCloud posted... Heres the simple reason she broke up with you: she wasnt happy being with you. I dont know why that makes her a bitch. People aren't calling her a bitch because she broke up with TC. They're calling her a bitch because of she handled the breakup. When you've spent two years of your life with someone, atleast have the balls to not break up over text and pretend that you didn't and talk about what you owe and don't owe. That said TC, it could have been much worse. Move on with your life. Think of it a waste of two years, think of it as a learning experience, think of it as just a bunch of shit that happened, think whatever you want. But don't waste your time wallowing in it. If I wrote this on Saturday then it would probably look quite differently being the state I was in. I'm over it now, I know that I can't change the way she thinks. Like I said in a previous post, I removed her off all social media, I only still have her number because she has some of my stuff. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891305080] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>leverageblargh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vladimirr posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheCurseX2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Vladimirr posted...</cite> <quote>Well her reason was that she was unhappy with herself and wanted to live life as a young adult and find who she was. It's only shocking because it happened out of no where and she didn't want to talk about it.</quote> That's woman slang for, "I want to fuck a lot."</quote> Is it? She hardly wanted to fuck during the two years.</quote> That was then. This is now. And the people she'll be fucking won't be you. That is of course, assuming you go with the CEman idea of what she meant. Getting high a lot probably just made her think about life and think about everything she wanted to do, whether that involves fucking other people or not. <cite>KronoCloud posted...</cite> <quote>Heres the simple reason she broke up with you: she wasnt happy being with you. I dont know why that makes her a bitch. </quote> People aren't calling her a bitch because she broke up with TC. They're calling her a bitch because of she handled the breakup. When you've spent two years of your life with someone, atleast have the balls to not break up over text and pretend that you didn't and talk about what you owe and don't owe. That said TC, it could have been much worse. Move on with your life. Think of it a waste of two years, think of it as a learning experience, think of it as just a bunch of shit that happened, think whatever you want. But don't waste your time wallowing in it.</quote> If I wrote this on Saturday then it would probably look quite differently being the state I was in. I'm over it now, I know that I can't change the way she thinks. Like I said in a previous post, I removed her off all social media, I only still have her number because she has some of my stuff.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dragonblade01 11/29/17 10:33:59 PM #35:	Call her a bitch and delete her shit. --- PSN: kazukifafner <cite>Dragonblade01 posted [p:891306005] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>Call her a bitch and delete her shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/29/17 10:35:24 PM #36:	lol <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891306095] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KlRBEH 11/29/17 10:59:24 PM #37:	If you've been with that person for that long and they don't even have enough courage to break up with you in person then honestly fuck them They either have their priorities fucked up, they're immature af, or you don't mean as much to them as you thought you did. Either way cut off contact with her off clean and simple tbh --- http://i.imgur.com/fUaBI.jpg I NEEDUH MONSTA TA CLOBBA DAT DERE KIRBEH <cite>KlRBEH posted [p:891307365] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>If you've been with that person for that long and they don't even have enough courage to break up with you in person then honestly fuck them They either have their priorities fucked up, they're immature af, or you don't mean as much to them as you thought you did. Either way cut off contact with her off clean and simple tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nundulan 11/30/17 6:27:36 PM #38:	My long term gf left me 2 months ago. Shit sucks man, but you gotta get out there and find some sluts. --- Take Your Time <cite>Nundulan posted [p:891355682] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>My long term gf left me 2 months ago. Shit sucks man, but you gotta get out there and find some sluts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yemmy 11/30/17 6:36:26 PM #39:	fuck it man. it is better being single if you know how to whore around, I guess smoking enough dope makes you think about things that way too these bitches ain't loyal man, and there's really nothing you can do about it though. bust nuts on as many of them as possible. and if they are fuckin 2 or 3 guys at the same time they gonna be more loyal to the dude with the biggest dick. --- p226 <cite>yemmy posted [p:891356232] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>fuck it man. it is better being single if you know how to whore around, I guess smoking enough dope makes you think about things that way too these bitches ain't loyal man, and there's really nothing you can do about it though. bust nuts on as many of them as possible. and if they are fuckin 2 or 3 guys at the same time they gonna be more loyal to the dude with the biggest dick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VandorLee 11/30/17 6:41:28 PM #40:	2 years and this? She sounds really bad. Seriously stop wasting time. I did something similar with soeone for 3 years. She was cheating and after we were over apparently she was even arrested for a bunch of shit. It was a waste of time with a bad person. Id move on. --- "God didn't create humans, no, it's humans who created God." Dr. Londes, Cowboy Bebop: "Brain Scratch" (#1.23) (1999) <cite>VandorLee posted [p:891356541] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>2 years and this? She sounds really bad. Seriously stop wasting time. I did something similar with soeone for 3 years. She was cheating and after we were over apparently she was even arrested for a bunch of shit. It was a waste of time with a bad person. Id move on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/30/17 9:24:23 PM #41:	For sure guys, I feel so much better about everything. It felt good to type this out and get it off my chest. Thanks bros. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891365795] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>For sure guys, I feel so much better about everything. It felt good to type this out and get it off my chest. Thanks bros.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eggcorn 11/30/17 9:28:58 PM #42:	I'm sorry Vladimirr <cite>eggcorn posted [p:891366043] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry Vladimirr</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MutantJohn 11/30/17 9:35:09 PM #43:	I like how weed gets brought up twice in the OP. Don't throw Mary Jane under the bus here, man. But it does show a strong change in normal behavior. Which means yeah, probably just rollin' with a new crowd. Unfortunately, sometimes people don't turn out the way you had hoped. Just a part of life. --- "Oh, my mother; oh, my friends, ask the angels, will I ever see heaven again?" - Laura Marling <cite>MutantJohn posted [p:891366409] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote>I like how weed gets brought up twice in the OP. Don't throw Mary Jane under the bus here, man. But it does show a strong change in normal behavior. Which means yeah, probably just rollin' with a new crowd. Unfortunately, sometimes people don't turn out the way you had hoped. Just a part of life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vladimirr 11/30/17 9:59:39 PM #45:	eggcorn posted... I'm sorry Vladimirr It's okay man. MutantJohn posted... I like how weed gets brought up twice in the OP. Don't throw Mary Jane under the bus here, man. But it does show a strong change in normal behavior. Which means yeah, probably just rollin' with a new crowd. Unfortunately, sometimes people don't turn out the way you had hoped. Just a part of life. She smoked weed maybe a handful of times in her life before I met her she said. Like I said, she was smoking it a hell of a lot more since starting her new job. I'm not ripping on the weed, just that she changed a whole lot since starting a new job. It all eventually adds up. <cite>Vladimirr posted [p:891367758] in Girlfriend... [t:76045127]...</cite> <quote><cite>eggcorn posted...</cite> <quote>I'm sorry Vladimirr</quote> It's okay man. <cite>MutantJohn posted...</cite> <quote>I like how weed gets brought up twice in the OP. Don't throw Mary Jane under the bus here, man. But it does show a strong change in normal behavior. Which means yeah, probably just rollin' with a new crowd. Unfortunately, sometimes people don't turn out the way you had hoped. Just a part of life.</quote> She smoked weed maybe a handful of times in her life before I met her she said. Like I said, she was smoking it a hell of a lot more since starting her new job. I'm not ripping on the weed, just that she changed a whole lot since starting a new job. It all eventually adds up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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