Poll of the Day > My crush just got back together with her ex, and I'm so conflicted.

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JTekashiro
11/19/17 3:01:13 PM
#51:


OmegaTomHank posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
SmokeMassTree posted...
Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.

Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.


the hell? lol

He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.

It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.


Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.

Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.

There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.

My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.

Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality


Is your counter argument actually "well, I didn't bang this 12-year-old until we were 22"?

That is a horrible example.
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TheCyborgNinja
11/19/17 3:06:51 PM
#52:


OmegaTomHank posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
SmokeMassTree posted...
Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.

Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.


the hell? lol

He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.

It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.


Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.

Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.

There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.

My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.

Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality

My argument is bad? Fuck your dumber one. You're clearly not in the same situation as this guy. And I'm not talking "lifetimes apart" shit like "we met as kids then fucked 10 years later." Well, no shit, time apart is a huge factor in changing things. Being around the person all the time (like with the case being discussed) is not the same at all.

And no shit about "no sex on the first date," hence why I used the word metaphorical while partially agreeing with him. My point was people will take somebody into consideration as a sexual partner or not immediately... Fuck, my brain hurts just reading how poorly you misinterpreted then countered what I said. Not to mention that your life experience clearly isn't remotely relatable to TC's
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mastermix3000
11/19/17 3:40:18 PM
#53:


I am totally lost because of all that nest quoting,

Guy is absolutely right. If you don't have sex within the first month (or have not referenced it at all) move on. No you don't have to bang on the first date
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Revelation34
11/19/17 6:56:57 PM
#54:


OmegaTomHank posted...
My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.


I love how this part of the post was ignored since nobody could counter it.
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OmegaTomHank
11/19/17 7:54:46 PM
#55:


JTekashiro posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
SmokeMassTree posted...
Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.

Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.


the hell? lol

He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.

It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.


Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.

Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.

There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.

My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.

Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality


Is your counter argument actually "well, I didn't bang this 12-year-old until we were 22"?

That is a horrible example.


THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL.

Can you read? Meaning from the ages of like 11-13 we were actually enemies, then 14-18 close friends. Then estranged then at 22 met again at a job.

And yes its very plausible we could have had sex between the ages of 15 or so to graduation considering me not being assertive eventually led to her getting knocked up by her boyfriend in like grade 11...
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OmegaTomHank
11/19/17 8:00:20 PM
#56:


Revelation34 posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.


I love how this part of the post was ignored since nobody could counter it.


Its literally poll of the day where half the userbase is virgins and the other had a few uggo girlfriends and think they are fuckkng Casanova.

That is one of the most asinine things Ive ever read here.

Half the married people I know werent even together a month after meeting let alone having sex.

Millennials are fucking weird. A sad combination of being hypersexualized and sex deprived
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NightShift
11/19/17 8:01:34 PM
#57:


stop contact, lawyer up, and hit the gym.
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OmegaTomHank
11/19/17 8:14:39 PM
#58:


TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
SmokeMassTree posted...
Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.

Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.


the hell? lol

He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.

It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.


Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.

Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.

There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.

My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.

Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality

My argument is bad? Fuck your dumber one. You're clearly not in the same situation as this guy. And I'm not talking "lifetimes apart" shit like "we met as kids then fucked 10 years later." Well, no shit, time apart is a huge factor in changing things. Being around the person all the time (like with the case being discussed) is not the same at all.

And no shit about "no sex on the first date," hence why I used the word metaphorical while partially agreeing with him. My point was people will take somebody into consideration as a sexual partner or not immediately... Fuck, my brain hurts just reading how poorly you misinterpreted then countered what I said. Not to mention that your life experience clearly isn't remotely relatable to TC's


Really? Because my last ONS was a coworker I was around for months.
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Syntheticon
11/19/17 9:27:21 PM
#59:


IceDragon77 posted...
Should I just cut ties?

This. Move on. If she wanted you, she'd be with you-find yourself someone else if you aren't going to make a real move and prompt her to make a choice.
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SmokeMassTree
11/19/17 9:31:55 PM
#60:


JTekashiro posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
SmokeMassTree posted...
Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.

Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.


the hell? lol

He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.

It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.


Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.

Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.

There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.

My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.

Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality


Is your counter argument actually "well, I didn't bang this 12-year-old until we were 22"?

That is a horrible example.


Yeah this guy is just bad with bitches and fell into some pussy a couple times so he thinks he knows what's going on.

You'll get it eventually pal
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ClarkDuke
11/20/17 2:57:54 AM
#61:


wwinterj25 posted...
ClarkDuke posted...
You claimed you had sex with a girl for gas money, but never climaxed, ok?


Don't we all do this?

Friends that do sexual favors for money or trouble climaxing part?
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OmegaTomHank
11/20/17 7:02:40 AM
#62:


SmokeMassTree posted...
JTekashiro posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
TheCyborgNinja posted...
OmegaTomHank posted...
SmokeMassTree posted...
Yeah man you're not gonna fuck her. If you don't fuck a girl within a month of meeting her it's never going to happen.

Decide if you want her as a friend and only a friend. If not stop talking to her for your own sake.


the hell? lol

He's not totally wrong...... Aside from some devoutly religious virgins-until-marriage who actually stick to their guns, this is certainly plausible, even if only metaphorically in many cases. Women will either consider you a sexual option or they won't. If something happens to occur later, consider it good luck. The problem is that human nature creates its own set of roadblocks via "who you like, but who likes you back". I don't believe in BS like "the friendzone" resulting from a botched encounter. Those people weren't getting laid anyway. With sexual attraction will come additional chances, as long as you're not an absolutely horrible person to be around.

I've been on both ends of the spectrum... From a hopeless loser desperate for anyone to date me to five girls fighting for my affection at the same time (while putting up with my moody, sometimes-oblivious ass). It sucks when your crush doesn't like you, a lot, but most people will crush on somebody who crushes back eventually. It's a numbers game. As many romantic failures as I've endured, it only made things easier. You're either the guy willing to lose the friendship and possibly get something serious out of it or the one longing for more but not really trying to get it. Being rejected feels awkward, but at least you can hold your head up high knowing that you tried.

It sounds like she's just not into you, but you're clearly unsatisfied with the present arrangement anyway.


Are you joking me dude? Lmfao.

Ive literally met chicks at age 12 onto high school and then got with them 10 years later on an off chance.

There are tons of people, believe it or not who dont even have sex on the first date *gasp*. They wait as long as a month or two or sometimes even 6 while actively dating.

My most recent was completely platonic until a random one night stand 6 months after meeting her.

Your argument is completely bizarre and not founded in reality


Is your counter argument actually "well, I didn't bang this 12-year-old until we were 22"?

That is a horrible example.


Yeah this guy is just bad with bitches and fell into some pussy a couple times so he thinks he knows what's going on.

You'll get it eventually pal


Easy to do when you arent a loser stoner
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OmegaTomHank
11/20/17 7:13:30 AM
#63:


Also who the fuck still refers to women as bitches in 2017 other than hood trash and wannabe poseur suburban white boys?

Maybe if you werent a scrubby misogonist you could develop relationships over time.
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yutterh
11/20/17 7:16:56 AM
#64:


Just give yourself space and her space. Just be honest with her and tell her you need space and why. no long lover letter why just the honest truth of feeling heartbroken. That shit is heavy and will test friendships for sure. If you can't get over this then you can't really be friends even if she breaks up with him and dates someone else.that feeling of jealousy will always be there.
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