Current Events > GUYS!!! Guess. Who. Texted. Me. =) (Advice Needed)

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So I was down on myself last night. The girl I had matched with on Tinder unmatched me a few hours after I took one users advice and sent her that "How YOU doin'?" gif as an opener. So I was just sitting around and then my phone goes off.

It was Joyce, the beautiful girl that I went on my first two dates ever with. She said she was really sorry for not texting me back the past few days but her grandma was really sick. I'm so happy right now that it wasn't something I did! I asked her if she still wanted to go on a third date and she said she definitely did!

SOOOOOOOOOOO, CE, here we are again where I ask you...what's an ideal setting for a third date?
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I was about to say Vin Diesel.

Ya'know, since your name is PaulWalker.

Ok Ok, I'll leave.
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what have you done for the first two?
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shes sucking another guy off as we speak

move on bro

Good luck.
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Do you live in any sort of big city or is one within driving distance?
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Whatever you do, don't drive!

I kid, I kid.

Anyway, what have you done for your first two dates? I would suggest a good activity like bowling or miniputt. They're stupid but fun activities that allow a lot of space for conversation.
Also, get a couple of bottles of wine before the date (one white and red) and casually mention that you have some at your house, leaving the possibility open for her to go back home with you.
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BlazinBlue88 posted...

Do you live in any sort of big city or is one within driving distance?

Ignoring all of the people making insensitive jokes, I live in NJ. So there is a bunch of stuff around in smaller towns unless we want to make a drive to a bigger city.

Weezy_Tha_Don posted...

what have you done for the first two?

We got coffee for the first. Went bowling and had pizza the second.
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CE,

TC has been trolling us for a while. Quit responding to this guy.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

CE,

TC has been trolling us for a while. Quit responding to this guy.

I'm not sure what I've done that has made you think I'm trolling, but whatever it is I'd love to be able to clarify.
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DirkDiggles posted...

I was about to say Vin Diesel

I came in ready to say this as well, actually...
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Boy, youre excited. Dont show this girl your hand yet, bro.
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I thought the purpose of Tinder is to hit and quit?

So a little out of the box idea, what's your opinion(or hers) on art? See if there's an art museum near you. They tend to be free(or very cheap) and it gives you two time to get to know each other. If you find yourself running out of things to talk about, you can discuss the painting along the wall.

That's what my wife and I did on one of our first dates. She loves art and I was very whatever about it. Now I've grown a bigger appreciation for it because of her.

I mean just google "things to do in *insert your area*". You'll find plenty.
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BlazinBlue88 posted...

So a little out of the box idea, what's your opinion(or hers) on art? See if there's an art museum near you. They tend to be free(or very cheap) and it gives you two time to get to know each other. If you find yourself running out of things to talk about, you can discuss the painting along the wall.

That's what my wife and I did on one of our first dates. She loves art and I was very whatever about it. Now I've grown a bigger appreciation for it because of her.

I mean just google "things to do in *insert your area*". You'll find plenty.

Local art exhibits are typically shit in my experience.
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I ended up finding a go kart place, could go to the movies, or a trampoline bounce room.

Are any of these decent third dates?
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PaulWalker posted...

I ended up finding a go kart place, could go to the movies, or a trampoline bounce room.

Are any of these decent third dates?

Don't do movies, at all

If you do the go kart or trampoline thing, make sure to go to a restaurant after that way you have a decent place to have a conversation.
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Bounce room.

Skip the movie idea. It's trash for so early on in the relationship. You want to get to know each other, not sit in a dark room and not talk to each other.
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Twin3Turbo posted...

PaulWalker posted...

I ended up finding a go kart place, could go to the movies, or a trampoline bounce room.

Are any of these decent third dates?

Don't do movies, at all

If you do the go kart or trampoline thing, make sure to go to a restaurant after that way you have a decent place to have a conversation.

I'd do go karts (Pole Position Raceway in Jersey by any chance?).

You can show her how fast and furious you can drive...
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Deadpool_18 posted...

Local art exhibits are typically shit in my experience.

That's why I said an actual art museum. Not those turd local exhibits. I live in Richmond so I'm near the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts. Place is massive.
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Yea, movies are a relationship date. Something you do because you just want a night out.
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yanksmtm posted...

Twin3Turbo posted...

PaulWalker posted...

I ended up finding a go kart place, could go to the movies, or a trampoline bounce room.

Are any of these decent third dates?

Don't do movies, at all

If you do the go kart or trampoline thing, make sure to go to a restaurant after that way you have a decent place to have a conversation.

I'd do go karts (Pole Position Raceway in Jersey by any chance?).

You can show her how fast and furious you can drive...

This is what I'm going to go with. We'll get some dinner and race a bit. Should I propose this date to her with a little bit of the "I'm going to beat you so bad" flirtyness like I did with bowling?
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You can tell her that you personally know the guy who runs GameFAQs. I'll vouch for you. She's all yours after that.
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SBAllen posted...

You can tell her that you personally know the guy who runs GameFAQs. I'll vouch for you. She's all yours after that.

Damn son you're so in now
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She was fucking chadwick. "My grandma is sick" c'mon man, you ever fall off the face of the earth when your gramma gets sick? Of course not because you aren't her damn hospice attendant

SBAllen posted...

You can tell her that you personally know the guy who runs GameFAQs. I'll vouch for you. She's all yours after that.

Wow, sir, it's an honor to have you post in my topic of all places. I'll be honest, I haven't told her I'm a big gamer yet. Do you guys think it's a good idea if I tell her what SBAllen told me? Would she be impressed?
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PaulWalker posted...

Do you guys think it's a good idea if I tell her what SBAllen told me? Would she be impressed?

It's responses like this that make this seem like a troll topic. You really can't be this dense. >_>
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PaulWalker posted...

This is what I'm going to go with. We'll get some dinner and race a bit. Should I propose this date to her with a little bit of the "I'm going to beat you so bad" flirtyness like I did with bowling?

Eh, honestly I wouldn't. Sounds a bit try hard at this point IMO. If she did it first then I wouldn't mind a bit of banter back and forth but at this point, nah.

PaulWalker posted...

Wow, sir, it's an honor to have you post in my topic of all places. I'll be honest, I haven't told her I'm a big gamer yet. Do you guys think it's a good idea if I tell her what SBAllen told me? Would she be impressed?

.....no. The vast majority of girls don't give two craps about gaming and bringing it up is more than likely not an interesting subject. I avoid talk of video games nearly 100% of the time. Only time I can think of when I've talked about it was once when the conversation got on the subject of childhoods and we both reminisced about playing Super Nintendo games a kids. And I'm pretty sure she brought it up first. Basically it's not a subject I would ever talk about unless she talked about it first.
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ShadowElite86 posted...

PaulWalker posted...

Do you guys think it's a good idea if I tell her what SBAllen told me? Would she be impressed?

It's responses like this that make this seem like a troll topic. You really can't be this dense. >_>

I'm honestly terrible with women. I'm not sure what I would gain from "trolling." I'm not throwing out far fetched scenarios? What would the end game even be? Look at my topics, please, I'm just asking for advice. I really like this girl and I'm scared of messing it up.
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Go karting? Trampoline bounce room? How old are you again, son?

I'm glad you two are talking but would suggest something a bit more grown up to do. Try to see if there any paint bars in your area. She'll love it. Trust me.
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Super Saiyan 3 Goku posted...

Go karting? Trampoline bounce room? How old are you again, son?

I'm glad you two are talking but would suggest something a bit more grown up to do. Try to see if there any paint bars in your area. She'll love it. Trust me.

We're both in our mid-20s. Paint bars? Like Bob Ross style teaching and drinks? That sounds fun. I might give her an option of what she wants to do.
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I don't think you are trolling and SBAllen posting in your topic is cool although I just recently found out who he was so she might not know either.

Maybe down the road you can introduce her to gaming. Right now you'll have to decide what to do so she will know what to wear.

Just keep being a sweet guy and you'll do fine.
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SBAllen posted...

You can tell her that you personally know the guy who runs GameFAQs. I'll vouch for you. She's all yours after that.

God damn

Hang out at one of your places, make dinner together and watch a shitty Netflix movie for you to make fun of
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leverageblargh posted...

rofl

Solid series of joke topics, you're really on to an effective gimmick here but tone it down a bit with posts like the one about Allen, otherwise people will catch on way too easily

I'm getting pretty tired of people accusing me of making joke topics but not giving any reason as to why they feel that way. On top of that, I don't get how these topics would even be seen as funny, even in a distorted sense? I'm literally just asking for advice. I'm not making a mockery of anyone. Give me a reason why you feel that way or go to hell.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

CE,

TC has been trolling us for a while. Quit responding to this guy.

Whatever. I'll get my advice elsewhere from now on. Thanks for being so welcoming.
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PaulWalker posted...

Whatever. I'll get my advice elsewhere from now on. Thanks for being so welcoming.

Just ignore them, they're trying to get a reaction out of you. I get a "that happened" or "you know tc is actually a guy right" in almost every topic I post

Stay for the mahority of people that actually want to help you, and ignore the few that don't
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Third date isn't a bad time to go out and see a movie. I'm not a fan of movies for date 1 and maybe date 2, but I think it's fine for 3 and onward.

It also gives you a chance to gauge her interest in what she likes and if it's similar to your tastes. Like if she wants to go see something like Thor or Justice League, then you've probably got a good one, but if she suggests going to check out The Emoji Movie, then you know it's safe to "fair next" her.
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Harpie posted...

PaulWalker posted...

Whatever. I'll get my advice elsewhere from now on. Thanks for being so welcoming.

Just ignore them, they're trying to get a reaction out of you. I get a "that happened" or "you know tc is actually a guy right" in almost every topic I post

Stay for the mahority of people that actually want to help you, and ignore the few that don't

I really was thinking about just leaving, but you make a really great point. Thank you for saying what you said. =)

Muffinz0rz posted...

Third date isn't a bad time to go out and see a movie. I'm not a fan of movies for date 1 and maybe date 2, but I think it's fine for 3 and onward.

It also gives you a chance to gauge her interest in what she likes and if it's similar to your tastes. Like if she wants to go see something like Thor or Justice League, then you've probably got a good one, but if she suggests going to check out The Emoji Movie, then you know it's safe to "fair next" her.

This is a good point. I actually just texted her asking if she wants to do go karting or painting, but movies doesn't sound bad for a (hopefully) 4th date.
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I know you aren't a troll. She probably won't know who SBAllen is though...I just recently found out myself. Pretty impressive that he posted in your topic!

You're a sweet kid and it sounds like she is as well. Just figure out what you want to do so you can both dress appropriately.
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SBAllen posted...

You can tell her that you personally know the guy who runs GameFAQs. I'll vouch for you. She's all yours after that.

Why is it when you are in my topic, it is to be a JERK to me?!?



Also, hope it works out well TC. Do you know any of her interests yet?!?
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movies are a horrible date idea if she isn't already your gf. I never understood how people enjoy this.

the other 2 activies wins for sure. go karts if she is competitive its fun, and for added kicks , bump her and take the warning you will get from the staff. just don't run her into a wall/bank
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PiOverlord posted...

SBAllen posted...

You can tell her that you personally know the guy who runs GameFAQs. I'll vouch for you. She's all yours after that.

Why is it when you are in my topic, it is to be a JERK to me?!?



Also, hope it works out well TC. Do you know any of her interests yet?!?

Well, I know she's into religion. She mentioned that she likes music but I'm going to try to find out what type next time. She likes taking care of her family's cat and is also into arts and crafts, Pinterest type stuff.
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