Poll of the Day > I've noticed a girl at work seems to be looking at me quite a lot.

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So, there is this new girl at my work. She began maybe two months ago? Honestly, the days go by so fast nowadays I'm not even sure how long she's been here.
But anyways, on the breaks, I've noticed she tend to look in my direction.
As soon as she sees me noticing her(or I just happen to look in her direction) she quickly looks away.
I've noticed this for a couple of weeks now.

I'm not really sure what her intentions are or if it's just some other reason.
And I already have a gf though so I'm not really interested in her.

I don't really give a fuck though, but I guess I just find it kinda funny that a girl might have a crush on me or something.

I dunno, should I stare back at her and see how she reacts?
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let her approach you. if you ask her out or hit in her, in 30 years you will be accused of harassment.
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LeetCheet posted...

I dunno, should I stare back at her and see how she reacts?

Nope. With the rampant sexual assaults and harassments being reported, I wouldn't stare back - in fact, she may be baiting you to visually rape her so she can report you. Tread carefully.
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MICHALECOLE posted...

i gotta agree, @LeetCheet. you really deserve to give someone, anyone, the d, ok?

either that, or bring tess merkel back into the picture, ok?
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NightShift posted...

let her approach you. if you ask her out or hit in her, in 30 years you will be accused of harassment.

We haven't even spoken with eachother yet and I don't really care enough to try to get to know her with my own effort.
If she really want to talk with me, then she's gotta work for it.

Renraku_San posted...

Nope. With the rampant sexual assaults and harassments being reported, I wouldn't stare back - in fact, she may be baiting you to visually rape her so she can report you. Tread carefully.

Ah, good thinking.

ZiggiStardust posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

i gotta agree, LeetCheet. you really deserve to give someone, anyone, the d, ok?

either that, or bring tess merkel back into the picture, ok?

Sadly, Tess Merkel is currently being occupied by being married to a hunky dude.

She's still beautiful though. Oh and I guess this new girl is pretty cute as well.
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LeetCheet posted...

I dunno, should I stare back at her and see how she reacts?

lmao

this is a real question
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Pics
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Hate to destroy your fantasy, but you're probably just imagining things. If she really was interested, she probably wouldn't just be "staring" at you.

It was over before it started m8
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Is she hotter or is your asian waifu girlfriend hotter?
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RCtheWSBC posted...

lmao

this is a real question

Nah I wasn't serious about that. It was just a joke. And I'm also really bad at eye-contact.

SmokeMassTree posted...

Pics

I don't have pics obv

joemodda posted...

Hate to destroy your fantasy, but you're probably just imagining things. If she really was interested, she probably wouldn't just be "staring" at you.

It was over before it started m8

Oh Darn a girl I'm not even interested in is not interested in me : P

Smarkil posted...

Is she hotter or is your asian waifu girlfriend hotter?

You mean Tess? She's not Asian, but no, Nothing is hotter than Tess XD
Does anyone even say 'XD' anymore? It feels really outdated.
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Maybe just smile or nod. Nothing wrong with being polite.
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Peel the flesh from her bones

The girl in my basement always looks at me when I'm down there but that's probably because I glued her eyes open, it doesn't mean anything.

She's gonna murder you
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LeetCheet posted...

Sadly, Tess Merkel is currently being occupied by being married to a hunky dude.

Looked her up. She's like my moms age fam.
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FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

LeetCheet posted...

Sadly, Tess Merkel is currently being occupied by being married to a hunky dude.

Looked her up. She's like my moms age fam.

Your mom better watch out, yum

LeetCheet posted...

You mean Tess? She's not Asian, but no, Nothing is hotter than Tess XD
Does anyone even say 'XD' anymore? It feels really outdated.

no, i'm talking about that one woman you were together with. maybe shes not asian but i thought she was asian for some reason
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ZiggiStardust posted...

MICHALECOLE posted...

i gotta agree, LeetCheet. you really deserve to give someone, anyone, the d, ok?

either that, or bring tess merkel back into the picture, ok?

Sadly, Tess Merkel is currently being occupied by being married to a hunky dude.

She's still beautiful though. Oh and I guess this new girl is pretty cute as well.

*looks her up* Blonde old White lady who also looks the age she is in a bad way? Pfft. Disappointed!
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Blightzkrieg posted...

FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

LeetCheet posted...

Sadly, Tess Merkel is currently being occupied by being married to a hunky dude.

Looked her up. She's like my moms age fam.

Your mom better watch out, yum

I'mma let ya know if my rents ever break up.
Smarkil posted...

no, i'm talking about that one woman you were together with. maybe shes not asian but i thought she was asian for some reason

Naw. P sure it's a white chick w scoliosis.
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Don't you work in a place that only hires mentally disabled people?

And isn't your gf from there as well and you've never even had sex with her
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LeetCheet posted...

And I already have a gf though so I'm not really interested in her.

Problem solved, do nothing different

I dunno, should I stare back at her and see how she reacts?

NO! ABORT! ABORT! Do nothing different, carry on with your life. If you happen to break up with your gf, STILL DON'T DO ANYTHING. Don't date a coworker unless she makes the first move and even then, think twice.
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mipond posted...

Maybe just smile or nod. Nothing wrong with being polite.

FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

Looked her up. She's like my moms age fam.

MILFs : 3

xOmniCloudx posted...

*looks her up* Blonde old White lady who also looks the age she is in a bad way? Pfft. Disappointed!

That's what most people think of her lol
She has been working out in recent years and to be honest, she did look better when she had slightly more meat on her bones than how she looks now.

She's also in my sig.

FrndNhbrHdCEman posted...

Smarkil posted...

no, i'm talking about that one woman you were together with. maybe shes not asian but i thought she was asian for some reason

Naw. P sure it's a white chick w scoliosis.

Yeah my gf is white and suffers from MS(Multiple Sclerosis).
I did meet an Asian girl that I became friends with a couple of years ago though, so I think that's where the confusion comes from.

FrozenBananas posted...

Don't you work in a place that only hires mentally disabled people?

And isn't your gf from there as well and you've never even had sex with her

Not mentally disabled but physically disabled or if someone has a certain disease that hinders their everyday life, those people we do hire.
I'm here because I have Aspergers Syndrome.

And yes I met my gf here as well and she was the one came on to me.
She also has HPV in her southern region.

This new girl though? I dunno what her problem is but I do know that she only works 4 hours per day, so it gotta be something.
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Syntheticon posted...

Problem solved, do nothing different

That's essentially what I'm currently doing. I'm not planning to go out of my way just to talk with this girl.

NO! ABORT! ABORT! Do nothing different, carry on with your life. If you happen to break up with your gf, STILL DON'T DO ANYTHING. Don't date a coworker unless she makes the first move and even then, think twice.

I work at the same place as my gf(we don't usually work together though which is good) and she was the one who made the first move.
But yeah, it can sometimes be a pain in the ass whenever I am forced to work with her so I know what you're saying.
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LeetCheet posted...

We haven't even spoken with eachother yet and I don't really care enough to try to get to know her with my own effort.
If she really want to talk with me, then she's gotta work for it.

Oh. If that's how you feel then ignore her until she talks to you if she ever does. Personally I'd probably at least say hello if our paths ever crossed. I mean I see nothing wrong with treating her like I would any other person.
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LeetCheet posted...

She also has HPV in her southern region.

Meh, to be fair almost everyone has HPV these days. I hope you aren't seeing that as a big negative.
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wwinterj25 posted...

Oh. If that's how you feel then ignore her until she talks to you if she ever does. Personally I'd probably at least say hello if our paths ever crossed. I mean I see nothing wrong with treating her like I would any other person.

Well if we cross paths then I would of course say hello to her like any decent human being.
I don't want to be a douche.

Melon_Master posted...

Meh, to be fair almost everyone has HPV these days. I hope you aren't seeing that as a big negative.

I've thought of using a condom(which is what I would do anyway even if I didn't know she had that).
The biggest problem is that she really don't like her body. Especially that lower area of hers.
But these thoughts are kinda common with girls though, aren't they?
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LeetCheet posted...

Melon_Master posted...

Meh, to be fair almost everyone has HPV these days. I hope you aren't seeing that as a big negative.

I've thought of using a condom(which is what I would do anyway even if I didn't know she had that).
The biggest problem is that she really don't like her body. Especially that lower area of hers.
But these thoughts are kinda common with girls though, aren't they?

I wouldn't necessarily say it's common.. but just about everyone tends to be self-conscious during their first sexual encounter with a new partner to some degree.
It's best you make the move and let her know there's nothing for her to be concerned over. A lot of the time the concern comes from a sense there's no signs of attraction/interest from the other person.
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Believe me, I've tried telling her it's nothing to worry about but she's kinda stubborn
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LeetCheet posted...

Believe me, I've tried telling her it's nothing to worry about but she's kinda stubborn

Try giving more compliments and being more romantic.
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Just stare deep in her soul
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I give her compliments all the time. She either tell me it's not true or she brings up her mother and how she tells her how fat she is.
My gf is definitely not fat and I have no idea how her mother could possibly even think that.
Also, what kind of fucked up mother even says shit like this to their daughter and especially if it's so obviously not even slightly true?

Although, being romantic isn't my strong side...
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LeetCheet posted...

I give her compliments all the time. She either tell me it's not true or she brings up her mother and how she tells her how fat she is.
My gf is definitely not fat and I have no idea how her mother could possibly even think that.
Also, what kind of fucked up mother even says shit like this to their daughter and especially if it's so obviously not even slightly true?

Although, being romantic isn't my strong side...

Maybe make the compliments more spontaneous and try to work on your sincerity.
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