Poll of the Day > This girl I went out with is being frustrating.

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Went out four weeks ago on Saturday. She asked me out.

At the end she asked me out again saying shes free the day after. I decline but say Im good for the weekend after.

Weekend after she calls to reschedule for later at night, making lame excuse to come over to my place. Im fine, but when shes ready I say its too late (because I have work thr next day) and we should reschedule for Friday.

Friday she wants to come over to my house at 11 PM and stay the night. Im fine, she declines around 1030 because a friend is in the ICU all of a sudden.

Next day she seems apprehensive on coming over to my house, so we have a very awesome date around town with very good making out and her inviting me to her place the weekend after.

So Friday night came and I invited her out, she agreed to go but sort of just didnt follow through. So the time came to go to her place and she said she was busy with college homework, she asks me if Im fine with Thursday and I am.

And its Tuesday and she opened my snap, saved it, and never replied.

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Im chalking this up to: theres probably another guy she likes more. And I shouldve taken her up in hanging out more when she wanted to a while ago.

My response is: mild regret about my decisions while lining up a coffee date for this Friday.

Nobody cares. You clearly can get any girl you want since they're all asking you out. Go for someone else and stop bothering us.
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FrozenBananas posted...

Nobody cares. You clearly can get any girl you want since they're all asking you out. Go for someone else and stop bothering us.

Wow, you get asked out once and these incels just rage.

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college age girls dude. never get hung up on them and you'll be fine. you can feel the most intense love for a girl and she could feel it back. but in your early 20s your mind can change, and so can hers. take what you can get while you get it and never get hung up on what you don't have/can't change.

easier said than done of course. But the gist of what I'd say is have fun dates, if she bails, whatever. Take her for a ride that's what life is for.
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You only communicate via Snapchat?
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Yeah, it's totally another guy and not how many times you sluffed her off before.
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You turned down a (several) booty call and now you're salt she doesn't want to Snapchat you?

You fucked this one up homie
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So she wanted booty calls and you turned her down? Am I reading this correctly?
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But yeah, she definitely has a (or several, hoes these days man) different guy she is more interested in and is just using you to boost her confidence when he isn't giving her attention.

Chalk this one up to hoedom and use what you've learned on the next one.
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Damn I can only dream of meeting someone who genuinely finds me attractive
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joemodda posted...

Damn I can only dream of meeting someone who genuinely finds me attractive

If you're a 3 go for a 3. If you're a 5 go for a 5. Also be happy with yourself or make changes. If you're not happy spending time with yourself no one else will either.