Current Events > Nearly 30 and never had a longterm relationship.

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I would like to see myself married in the future but honestly dating just doesn't appeal to me. For lack of better words, I'm asexual. What should I do CE? How can I meet a girl and upon meeting her, how can I keep a relationship going with my lack of experience? And yes I'm a virgin. I'm waiting til marriage. But like a said, I'm asexual so sex isn't my highest priority.

Buy a blow up doll and talk to it.
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I know a lot of ppl like this

Human race gonna be gone at this rate
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Isaac1987 posted...

I'm asexual.

No you're not. We both know what you really like. Yes, I know.
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E32005 posted...

I know a lot of ppl like this

Human race gonna be gone at this rate

Maybe it's for the best.
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foreveraIone posted...

Isaac1987 posted...

I'm asexual.

No you're not. We both know what you really like. Yes, I know.

Still holds true that I find the idea of sex highly unappealing.

Go outside and meet people. Join classes or clubs you think you might enjoy. Even if you go only once, just use them as an opportunity to meet people with similar interests.
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Well why do you want to be in a relationship? I'd ask myself that first. From the OP it doesn't really sound like it's something you actually want, so much as something you're somewhat curious of.

There's no way to really 'test' whether or not you want a long-term relationship because they only way to know for sure is to actually commit to one, and then it's too late to try and turn things cool again if you find it's not what you want.

What interests you about the possibility of a long term relationship? Are there other ways to enjoy those emotional and social benefits that don't come with all that baggage?

No matter how you answer to the above, the choice you make should be the one that best supports you and your well-being.
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"But, I'm a nice guy! Why won't girls be with me because I am so nice!?"
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Find someone at church (whether youre a believer or not). I couldnt imagine being with a man with such a low sex drive but you might find some super religious woman who is also waiting for marriage. You always hear about how some women stop giving it up after the ring is on their finger, thats the kind of woman you should look for.