D: Spanking as punishment for kids

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Trayvon 10/19/17 3:16:50 AM #1:	Do you approve of spanking as punishment? confirm deny View Results were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable? <cite>Trayvon posted [p:888712322] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote> Do you approve of spanking as punishment? confirm deny View Results were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
do_ob_tpkillr 10/19/17 3:17:41 AM #2:	I'd cane him if necessary. <cite>do_ob_tpkillr posted [p:888712345] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>I'd cane him if necessary.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 10/19/17 3:18:17 AM #3:	Spanking is the second laziest form of parenting after only not parenting at all and letting your kids do whatever they want without repercussion. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:888712359] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Spanking is the second laziest form of parenting after only not parenting at all and letting your kids do whatever they want without repercussion.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Genocet_10-325 10/19/17 3:18:37 AM #4:	Trayvon posted... were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable? Yes and worse, fuck no. --- Formerly known as The_Great_Geno <cite>Genocet_10-325 posted [p:888712362] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Trayvon posted...</cite> <quote>were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable?</quote> Yes and worse, fuck no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YourDrunkFather 10/19/17 3:20:54 AM #5:	Someone's looking to start an argument --- One bourbon,one scotch,one beer <cite>YourDrunkFather posted [p:888712418] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Someone's looking to start an argument</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 10/19/17 3:28:30 AM #6:	YourDrunkFather posted... Someone's looking to start an argument A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:888712570] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote> Someone's looking to start an argument</quote> A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
shnangyboos 10/19/17 3:31:13 AM #7:	Goddamn, tone it down. --- How's my posting? Call http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/182361-human-resource-machine for any comments or concerns. <cite>shnangyboos posted [p:888712642] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Goddamn, tone it down.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Inferno Dive Dragoon 10/19/17 3:50:27 AM #8:	Do you approve of spanking as punishment? were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable? Yes. Yep. As if I give a fuck what other people think, especially the ones who were never spanked themselves, as there's an incredibly high chance they ended up as shitty people due to a lack of discipline growing up. Wouldn't be shocked to find out their own kids are absolute terrors too for the same reason, assuming they have any of course, because surprise-surprise it's always the people who don't have kids (or have never been around any at all) that always condemn spanking and think alternate methods actually work. --- Les aristocrates a la lanterne! Les aristocrates on les pendra! <cite>Inferno Dive Dragoon posted [p:888713057] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><quote>Do you approve of spanking as punishment? were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable?</quote> Yes. Yep. As if I give a fuck what other people think, especially the ones who were never spanked themselves, as there's an incredibly high chance they ended up as shitty people due to a lack of discipline growing up. Wouldn't be shocked to find out their own kids are absolute terrors too for the same reason, assuming they have any of course, because surprise-surprise it's always the people who don't have kids (or have never been around any at all) that always condemn spanking and think alternate methods actually work.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ColdOne666 10/19/17 4:25:06 AM #9:	Gamer99z posted... YourDrunkFather posted... Someone's looking to start an argument A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you. Found the SJW snowflake. --- FFX is the best game of all time. The only good Nintendo franchises are Pokemon and Fire Emblem. Comics are for kids. https://i.imgur.com/LJ3WSyB.gif <cite>ColdOne666 posted [p:888713801] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote><cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote> Someone's looking to start an argument</quote> A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you.</quote> Found the SJW snowflake.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gguirao 10/19/17 4:25:24 AM #10:	Confirm. I've had it done to me and don't blame my parents for it. --- Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence. <cite>gguirao posted [p:888713814] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Confirm. I've had it done to me and don't blame my parents for it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
im not 13 10/19/17 4:26:18 AM #11:	C I don't want to but if I have to I will --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m510t9eNw71r2yd8o.jpg <cite>im not 13 posted [p:888713832] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>C I don't want to but if I have to I will</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JosefuJustice11 10/19/17 5:01:16 AM #12:	Gamer99z posted... YourDrunkFather posted... Someone's looking to start an argument A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you. This is not a justification for everyone who spanks their kids, but maybe when your kid won't listen to reason or any other form of punishment and continue to do whatever they want, whenever they want, because they couldn't give any flying fucks about it or what anyone else thinks or tells them to do they see no other option? Honestly, the verbal abuse I received from my father was way worse on me psychologically then any spanking I ever received (including with a belt) as a child. --- I felt like I was watching a dream I'd never wake up from...hmp. Before I knew it, the dream was all over. <cite>JosefuJustice11 posted [p:888714581] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote><cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote> Someone's looking to start an argument</quote> A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you.</quote> This is not a justification for everyone who spanks their kids, but maybe when your kid won't listen to reason or any other form of punishment and continue to do whatever they want, whenever they want, because they couldn't give any flying fucks about it or what anyone else thinks or tells them to do they see no other option? Honestly, the verbal abuse I received from my father was way worse on me psychologically then any spanking I ever received (including with a belt) as a child.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 10/19/17 1:55:17 PM #13:	ColdOne666 posted... Gamer99z posted... YourDrunkFather posted... Someone's looking to start an argument A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you. Found the SJW snowflake. No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, so fuck off with your bullshit identity politics. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:888736104] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote> Someone's looking to start an argument </quote> A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you.</quote> Found the SJW snowflake.</quote> No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, so fuck off with your bullshit identity politics.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ColdOne666 10/19/17 10:06:58 PM #14:	Gamer99z posted... ColdOne666 posted... Gamer99z posted... YourDrunkFather posted... Someone's looking to start an argument A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you. Found the SJW snowflake. No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, so fuck off with your bullshit identity politics. Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid. --- FFX is the best game of all time. The only good Nintendo franchises are Pokemon and Fire Emblem. Comics are for kids. https://i.imgur.com/LJ3WSyB.gif <cite>ColdOne666 posted [p:888766040] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote> Someone's looking to start an argument </quote> A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you.</quote> Found the SJW snowflake.</quote> No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, so fuck off with your bullshit identity politics.</quote> Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
APM 10/19/17 10:07:43 PM #15:	do_ob_tpkillr posted... I'd cane him if necessary. <cite>APM posted [p:888766080] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>do_ob_tpkillr posted...</cite> <quote>I'd cane him if necessary.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Comfy_Pillow 10/19/17 10:10:48 PM #16:	It's not awful but it's really lazy. It's like smacking your computer when it doesn't work right. Sure it might fix the issue you're having this instant but if you treated it better initially or actually fixed the issues then you wouldn't have to smack it. <cite>Comfy_Pillow posted [p:888766275] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>It's not awful but it's really lazy. It's like smacking your computer when it doesn't work right. Sure it might fix the issue you're having this instant but if you treated it better initially or actually fixed the issues then you wouldn't have to smack it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 10/19/17 10:13:58 PM #17:	ColdOne666 posted... Gamer99z posted... ColdOne666 posted... Gamer99z posted... YourDrunkFather posted... Someone's looking to start an argument A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you. Found the SJW snowflake. No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, so fuck off with your bullshit identity politics. Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid. spanking is abuse though --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:888766454] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>YourDrunkFather posted...</cite> <quote> Someone's looking to start an argument </quote> A redundant argument because the answer to anyone who isn't ignorant is clear. Child psychology experts and the multiple studies showing correlation with being hit as a child to increased rates of depression and such have come to the near unanimous agreement that hitting your kids is bad. The only thing people in favor of it can say are things like "I was spanked as a child and I turned out fine!" and "The facts you're saying are invalid because you don't have kids so you just don't get it." The fact of the matter is it's just simply lazy parenting and people who won't actually take responsibility and do their job as a parent. If they're old enough to be reasoned with and punished in more effective ways then you should be doing that, if they're too young for that then why the fuck are you hitting them for something they can't even understand? Spanking and hitting is for people who are lazy and just want to hit their kid, say don't do whatever you just did again, and be done with it. It's mind boggling that people will accept you hitting a child of all things, yet if you did that same thing to an adult, you'd likely have assault charges pressed on you.</quote> Found the SJW snowflake.</quote> No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, so fuck off with your bullshit identity politics.</quote> Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid.</quote> spanking is abuse though</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
omega cookie 10/19/17 10:21:10 PM #18:	Gamer99z posted... No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, Oh, get the fuck over it. I was abused as a kid. Cigarettes put out on my back, broken bones, once even got pushed out of a moving car. For you to even speak of spanking in the same fucking conversation as "golly gee, my dad is throwing beer bottles at me because I was coughing too loud, due to him kicking me in the chest because I was in his way" is an insult to those of us who were actually abused. --- FFRK: BRKB - Eiko - Guardian Mog FFBE: 885,063,087 - Orlandeau - 931 ATK <cite>omega cookie posted [p:888766818] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote>No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child,</quote> Oh, get the fuck over it. I was abused as a kid. Cigarettes put out on my back, broken bones, once even got pushed out of a moving car. For you to even speak of spanking in the same fucking conversation as "golly gee, my dad is throwing beer bottles at me because I was coughing too loud, due to him kicking me in the chest because I was in his way" is an insult to those of us who were actually abused.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 10/19/17 10:26:56 PM #19:	ColdOne666 posted... Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid. I know everyone else didn't, and I never said peoples experiences weren't valid. The flaw with the "I was spanked and turned out fine" argument isn't that I'm saying you're wrong and you actually didn't turn out fine, the problem is that you're not a mind reading psychic that knows how your kid will respond to it. Multiple studies and the unanimous agreement of experts come to the conclusion that you're risking negative psychological impact on your child significantly more from hitting them than with other more effective forms of punishment. You don't know where someone I going to end up from that until they're older and either they're fine or they're not fine. Parents jump through so many hoops to ensure their child's safety and well being yet when it comes down to something like this idiots will go "ehh fuck the risks, they'll probably be fine" because then they'd actually have to deal with their kids like a normal person and that's just too much work... Or sometimes it's not wanting to do more work but just straight up ignorance and the "my parents hit me so I should hit mine too!" thought process. Which also keep in mind that spanking kids is linked with them not only growing up and repeating that behavior on their kids, but also with higher raters of domestic abuse and other forms of intimate partner abuse because to the surprise of nobody with common sense, raising kids through their developmental years on the logic of "I'm hitting you because I love you" can have really fucked up results. The fact is that you're notably increasing your child's risk of a variety of types of issues by spanking them over more effective forms of parenting and you'll never know which side of the statistics your kid ends up on until it's too late. If you want to stay ignorant to that basic facts then fine, but it doesn't change the facts. Don't unironically cry "snowflakes" while intentionally choosing to deny basic facts that don't agree with you, it comes off pathetic. Again, just, stop your bullshit identity politics. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:888767179] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote>Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid.</quote> I know everyone else didn't, and I never said peoples experiences weren't valid. The flaw with the "I was spanked and turned out fine" argument isn't that I'm saying you're wrong and you actually didn't turn out fine, the problem is that you're not a mind reading psychic that knows how your kid will respond to it. Multiple studies and the unanimous agreement of experts come to the conclusion that you're risking negative psychological impact on your child significantly more from hitting them than with other more effective forms of punishment. You don't know where someone I going to end up from that until they're older and either they're fine or they're not fine. Parents jump through so many hoops to ensure their child's safety and well being yet when it comes down to something like this idiots will go "ehh fuck the risks, they'll probably be fine" because then they'd actually have to deal with their kids like a normal person and that's just too much work... Or sometimes it's not wanting to do more work but just straight up ignorance and the "my parents hit me so I should hit mine too!" thought process. Which also keep in mind that spanking kids is linked with them not only growing up and repeating that behavior on their kids, but also with higher raters of domestic abuse and other forms of intimate partner abuse because to the surprise of nobody with common sense, raising kids through their developmental years on the logic of "I'm hitting you because I love you" can have really fucked up results. The fact is that you're notably increasing your child's risk of a variety of types of issues by spanking them over more effective forms of parenting and you'll never know which side of the statistics your kid ends up on until it's too late. If you want to stay ignorant to that basic facts then fine, but it doesn't change the facts. Don't unironically cry "snowflakes" while intentionally choosing to deny basic facts that don't agree with you, it comes off pathetic. Again, just, stop your bullshit identity politics.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Soviet_Poland 10/19/17 10:27:48 PM #20:	Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy. --- "He has two neurons held together by a spirochete." <cite>Soviet_Poland posted [p:888767219] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Forlorn_Ass 10/19/17 10:29:19 PM #21:	"you're not doing something right so I'm going to hit you" --- Her cheeks wobble around like water balloons on a trampoline. <cite>Forlorn_Ass posted [p:888767292] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>"you're not doing something right so I'm going to hit you"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 10/19/17 10:30:52 PM #22:	omega cookie posted... Gamer99z posted... No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, Oh, get the fuck over it. I was abused as a kid. Cigarettes put out on my back, broken bones, once even got pushed out of a moving car. For you to even speak of spanking in the same fucking conversation as "golly gee, my dad is throwing beer bottles at me because I was coughing too loud, due to him kicking me in the chest because I was in his way" is an insult to those of us who were actually abused. I'm not going to get into a contest of saying "oh yeah? Your piece of shit family did that? Well mine did this!" I never said spanking is as bad as straight up assault, but guess what? That doesn't make spanking okay either. I could tell you things that happened to me and tell you things that happened to you aren't a big deal, then someone could say the same to me, then someone else to them, and so on until the end of time. Just because there's always something worse doesn't make the lesser versions of things okay either. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:888767371] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>omega cookie posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote> No, you found the person with both literal and proverbial scars from being abused as a child, </quote> Oh, get the fuck over it. I was abused as a kid. Cigarettes put out on my back, broken bones, once even got pushed out of a moving car. For you to even speak of spanking in the same fucking conversation as "golly gee, my dad is throwing beer bottles at me because I was coughing too loud, due to him kicking me in the chest because I was in his way" is an insult to those of us who were actually abused.</quote> I'm not going to get into a contest of saying "oh yeah? Your piece of shit family did that? Well mine did this!" I never said spanking is as bad as straight up assault, but guess what? That doesn't make spanking okay either. I could tell you things that happened to me and tell you things that happened to you aren't a big deal, then someone could say the same to me, then someone else to them, and so on until the end of time. Just because there's always something worse doesn't make the lesser versions of things okay either.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SArm_v2_0 10/19/17 10:31:46 PM #23:	Soviet_Poland posted... Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy. This. Because although I turned out fine, I could've turned out a hell of a lot better. <cite>SArm_v2_0 posted [p:888767438] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Soviet_Poland posted...</cite> <quote>Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy.</quote> This. Because although I turned out fine, I could've turned out a hell of a lot better.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slip-N-Slide 10/19/17 10:41:55 PM #24:	There's really nothing left to say after Gamer and Soviet, their two posts are pretty much enough for a /topic --- Get wet. http://i.imgtc.com/2q3z3TmhFO.jpg <cite>Slip-N-Slide posted [p:888768034] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>There's really nothing left to say after Gamer and Soviet, their two posts are pretty much enough for a /topic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 10/19/17 11:05:53 PM #25:	SArm_v2_0 posted... Soviet_Poland posted... Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy. This. Because although I turned out fine, I could've turned out a hell of a lot better. tbh if someone thinks it's ok to hit children then they didn't turn out "fine" --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:888769295] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>SArm_v2_0 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Soviet_Poland posted...</cite> <quote>Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy.</quote> This. Because although I turned out fine, I could've turned out a hell of a lot better.</quote> tbh if someone thinks it's ok to hit children then they didn't turn out "fine"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rika_Furude 10/19/17 11:25:50 PM #26:	If all other reasonable options have failed, spanking becomes nescessary --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3 <cite>Rika_Furude posted [p:888770332] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>If all other reasonable options have failed, spanking becomes nescessary</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 10/21/17 11:33:18 AM #27:	averagejoel posted... SArm_v2_0 posted... Soviet_Poland posted... Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy. This. Because although I turned out fine, I could've turned out a hell of a lot better. tbh if someone thinks it's ok to hit children then they didn't turn out "fine" This is also a pretty good point. Considering you're very likely to repeat that cycle of behavior or think it's okay because it happened to you, it does take at at least some level of issues for you to convince yourself that it's okay to hit a child. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:888851357] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>averagejoel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SArm_v2_0 posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Soviet_Poland posted...</cite> <quote> Even though I was spanked/got the belt as a kid and "turned out fine" I'm not going to ignore the data behind it being a terrible parenting strategy. </quote> This. Because although I turned out fine, I could've turned out a hell of a lot better.</quote> tbh if someone thinks it's ok to hit children then they didn't turn out "fine"</quote> This is also a pretty good point. Considering you're very likely to repeat that cycle of behavior or think it's okay because it happened to you, it does take at at least some level of issues for you to convince yourself that it's okay to hit a child.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funkydog 10/21/17 11:35:11 AM #28:	Do it to an adult. Face jail time. Do it to a child. A okay. Because not like a child needs you to help them realise how to act and relies on you. --- http://i.imgur.com/BGbZK.gif <cite>Funkydog posted [p:888851431] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Do it to an adult. Face jail time. Do it to a child. A okay. Because not like a child needs you to help them realise how to act and relies on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 10/21/17 11:37:35 AM #29:	No. It has no place. And It's really fucked up that people seem to only advocate it for when children are still at an age of being completely defenseless and barely comprehending right from wrong. "Hitting people is wrong. Unless they're your child and 5 years old and misbehaving." --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:888851530] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>No. It has no place. And It's really fucked up that people seem to only advocate it for when children are still at an age of being completely defenseless and barely comprehending right from wrong. "Hitting people is wrong. Unless they're your child and 5 years old and misbehaving."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DifferentialEquation 10/21/17 11:41:15 AM #30:	Forlorn_Ass posted... "you're not doing something right so I'm going to hit you" Is it really any worse than "you're not doing something right so I'm going to take away your video games" or "you're not doing something right so you can't see your fiends for a week"? --- "If the day does not require an AK, it is good." The Great Warrior Poet, Ice Cube <cite>DifferentialEquation posted [p:888851669] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Forlorn_Ass posted...</cite> <quote>"you're not doing something right so I'm going to hit you"</quote> Is it really any worse than "you're not doing something right so I'm going to take away your video games" or "you're not doing something right so you can't see your fiends for a week"?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
weapon_d00d816 10/21/17 11:42:17 AM #31:	Inferno Dive Dragoon posted... Do you approve of spanking as punishment? were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable? Yes. Yep. As if I give a fuck what other people think, especially the ones who were never spanked themselves, as there's an incredibly high chance they ended up as shitty people due to a lack of discipline growing up. Wouldn't be shocked to find out their own kids are absolute terrors too for the same reason, assuming they have any of course, because surprise-surprise it's always the people who don't have kids (or have never been around any at all) that always condemn spanking and think alternate methods actually work. Here's a thought: Maybe discipline isn't always the number #1 value you should strive to instill in your kids. --- SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG <cite>weapon_d00d816 posted [p:888851701] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...</cite> <quote><quote>Do you approve of spanking as punishment? were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable?</quote> Yes. Yep. As if I give a fuck what other people think, especially the ones who were never spanked themselves, as there's an incredibly high chance they ended up as shitty people due to a lack of discipline growing up. Wouldn't be shocked to find out their own kids are absolute terrors too for the same reason, assuming they have any of course, because surprise-surprise it's always the people who don't have kids (or have never been around any at all) that always condemn spanking and think alternate methods actually work.</quote> Here's a thought: Maybe discipline isn't always the number #1 value you should strive to instill in your kids.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 10/21/17 11:43:18 AM #32:	DifferentialEquation posted... Forlorn_Ass posted... "you're not doing something right so I'm going to hit you" Is it really any worse than "you're not doing something right so I'm going to take away your video games" or "you're not doing something right so you can't see your fiends for a week"? Yes, because you aren't committing physical violence on a small child for misbehaving in those scenarios. And experts agree that is worse. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:888851748] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>DifferentialEquation posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Forlorn_Ass posted...</cite> <quote>"you're not doing something right so I'm going to hit you"</quote> Is it really any worse than "you're not doing something right so I'm going to take away your video games" or "you're not doing something right so you can't see your fiends for a week"?</quote> Yes, because you aren't committing physical violence on a small child for misbehaving in those scenarios. And experts agree that is worse.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EternalDivide 10/21/17 11:46:48 AM #33:	Massive C. Child psychology blah blah horse shit. We were all spanked when we acted up. So were my parents and aunts. So were my grandparents. We all turned out just fine. Those who don't are nothing but sissy whiners to begin with that needed more spanking if anything. Hell we got pulled by the hair and had homemade super spicy chili rubbed in our mouths when we talked back. And no this wasn't over every little thing. This was when we were being turds and deserved it. And guess what? We all learned to cut the shit out that was getting us punished or at least become more sneaky about it to get away with things. You don't reason with a child. A child is a brat sometimes and incapable of understanding reason. And I would rather risk "negative psychological impact" on my kid than risk them turning out a worthless crybaby. --- FFVII Remake: A disaster in the making. I'll laugh at whatever I find funny whether you like it or not. <cite>EternalDivide posted [p:888851904] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Massive C. Child psychology blah blah horse shit. We were all spanked when we acted up. So were my parents and aunts. So were my grandparents. We all turned out just fine. Those who don't are nothing but sissy whiners to begin with that needed more spanking if anything. Hell we got pulled by the hair and had homemade super spicy chili rubbed in our mouths when we talked back. And no this wasn't over every little thing. This was when we were being turds and deserved it. And guess what? We all learned to cut the shit out that was getting us punished or at least become more sneaky about it to get away with things. You don't reason with a child. A child is a brat sometimes and incapable of understanding reason. And I would rather risk "negative psychological impact" on my kid than risk them turning out a worthless crybaby.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 10/21/17 11:47:35 AM #34:	Inferno Dive Dragoon posted... Do you approve of spanking as punishment? were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable? Yes. Yep. As if I give a fuck what other people think, especially the ones who were never spanked themselves, as there's an incredibly high chance they ended up as shitty people due to a lack of discipline growing up. Wouldn't be shocked to find out their own kids are absolute terrors too for the same reason, assuming they have any of course, because surprise-surprise it's always the people who don't have kids (or have never been around any at all) that always condemn spanking and think alternate methods actually work. I know it's anecdotal but my kids behave and I have never had to lay a finger on them. Granted I actually treat my kids like people and I also insure there are consequences for their actions. Take for example, if we are out in public and they decide they want to misbehave, they have one chance to turn that behaviour around or else we go home. Guess what? I have lost out on things that I have wanted to take me kids to because they weren't behaving. It sucks for me because I enjoy watching them have fun, but it sucks worse for them because they are the ones that actually lose out on the fun. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:888851935] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Inferno Dive Dragoon posted...</cite> <quote><quote>Do you approve of spanking as punishment? were you spanked as a kid? would you spank yours if it was still socially acceptable?</quote> Yes. Yep. As if I give a fuck what other people think, especially the ones who were never spanked themselves, as there's an incredibly high chance they ended up as shitty people due to a lack of discipline growing up. Wouldn't be shocked to find out their own kids are absolute terrors too for the same reason, assuming they have any of course, because surprise-surprise it's always the people who don't have kids (or have never been around any at all) that always condemn spanking and think alternate methods actually work.</quote> I know it's anecdotal but my kids behave and I have never had to lay a finger on them. Granted I actually treat my kids like people and I also insure there are consequences for their actions. Take for example, if we are out in public and they decide they want to misbehave, they have one chance to turn that behaviour around or else we go home. Guess what? I have lost out on things that I have wanted to take me kids to because they weren't behaving. It sucks for me because I enjoy watching them have fun, but it sucks worse for them because they are the ones that actually lose out on the fun.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IfGodCouldDie 10/21/17 11:49:04 AM #36:	EternalDivide posted... or at least become more sneaky about it to get away with things. And that's the kind of behaviour you are trying to encourage? --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:888851993] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>or at least become more sneaky about it to get away with things.</quote> And that's the kind of behaviour you are trying to encourage?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 10/21/17 11:49:42 AM #37:	It has always puzzled me how people get peeved at the idea of being told to not hit their kids. I hear from defenders that they son't like doing it and only do it in extreme circumstances, so why be so defensive about it when society and experts tell you that you can stop doing it because it isn't helping? Are we really such creatures of habit that even being told to stop doing things that we already don't like doing makes us defensive? --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:888852022] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>It has always puzzled me how people get peeved at the idea of being told to not hit their kids. I hear from defenders that they son't like doing it and only do it in extreme circumstances, so why be so defensive about it when society and experts tell you that you can stop doing it because it isn't helping? Are we really such creatures of habit that even being told to stop doing things that we already don't like doing makes us defensive?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IfGodCouldDie 10/21/17 11:50:21 AM #39:	EternalDivide posted... You don't reason with a child. A child is a brat sometimes and incapable of understanding reason. And I would rather risk "negative psychological impact" on my kid than risk them turning out a worthless crybaby. You obviously don't have any experience with children if you think this. Children are absolutely capable of reason as early as 2 years old, if not earlier. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:888852041] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>You don't reason with a child. A child is a brat sometimes and incapable of understanding reason. And I would rather risk "negative psychological impact" on my kid than risk them turning out a worthless crybaby.</quote> You obviously don't have any experience with children if you think this. Children are absolutely capable of reason as early as 2 years old, if not earlier.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TeHaMbUrGlAr 10/21/17 11:50:24 AM #40:	Gamer99z posted... ColdOne666 posted... Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid. I know everyone else didn't, and I never said peoples experiences weren't valid. The flaw with the "I was spanked and turned out fine" argument isn't that I'm saying you're wrong and you actually didn't turn out fine, the problem is that you're not a mind reading psychic that knows how your kid will respond to it. Multiple studies and the unanimous agreement of experts come to the conclusion that you're risking negative psychological impact on your child significantly more from hitting them than with other more effective forms of punishment. You don't know where someone I going to end up from that until they're older and either they're fine or they're not fine. Parents jump through so many hoops to ensure their child's safety and well being yet when it comes down to something like this idiots will go "ehh fuck the risks, they'll probably be fine" because then they'd actually have to deal with their kids like a normal person and that's just too much work... Or sometimes it's not wanting to do more work but just straight up ignorance and the "my parents hit me so I should hit mine too!" thought process. Which also keep in mind that spanking kids is linked with them not only growing up and repeating that behavior on their kids, but also with higher raters of domestic abuse and other forms of intimate partner abuse because to the surprise of nobody with common sense, raising kids through their developmental years on the logic of "I'm hitting you because I love you" can have really fucked up results. The fact is that you're notably increasing your child's risk of a variety of types of issues by spanking them over more effective forms of parenting and you'll never know which side of the statistics your kid ends up on until it's too late. If you want to stay ignorant to that basic facts then fine, but it doesn't change the facts. Don't unironically cry "snowflakes" while intentionally choosing to deny basic facts that don't agree with you, it comes off pathetic. Again, just, stop your bullshit identity politics. While I agree with you that spanking is probably not the best option, I wonder how studies were conducted to determine if spanking is harmful. I'm assuming psychologist just had to use real world data gathering rather than conduct tests since testing would be unethical. In that case, I could see a correlation with bad parents (ones who don't just spank, but also use neglect and verbal abuse) utilizing spanking more often than good ones, hence the increase in a child developing behaviour problems and depression when older. I think that's why you see a lot of people who were spanked as a kid but say they turned out fine. To ignore them would be ignoring the data the child psychologist I'm sure have gathered (though "turning out fine" is very subjective to begin with). Perhaps spanking was used as a last resort when all types of others punishment/conditioning has failed. <cite>TeHaMbUrGlAr posted [p:888852046] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Gamer99z posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote>Just because you got abused doesnt mean everyone else did. Of course your a unique snowflake and the whole world revolves around you so nobidy else's experience is valid.</quote> I know everyone else didn't, and I never said peoples experiences weren't valid. The flaw with the "I was spanked and turned out fine" argument isn't that I'm saying you're wrong and you actually didn't turn out fine, the problem is that you're not a mind reading psychic that knows how your kid will respond to it. Multiple studies and the unanimous agreement of experts come to the conclusion that you're risking negative psychological impact on your child significantly more from hitting them than with other more effective forms of punishment. You don't know where someone I going to end up from that until they're older and either they're fine or they're not fine. Parents jump through so many hoops to ensure their child's safety and well being yet when it comes down to something like this idiots will go "ehh fuck the risks, they'll probably be fine" because then they'd actually have to deal with their kids like a normal person and that's just too much work... Or sometimes it's not wanting to do more work but just straight up ignorance and the "my parents hit me so I should hit mine too!" thought process. Which also keep in mind that spanking kids is linked with them not only growing up and repeating that behavior on their kids, but also with higher raters of domestic abuse and other forms of intimate partner abuse because to the surprise of nobody with common sense, raising kids through their developmental years on the logic of "I'm hitting you because I love you" can have really fucked up results. The fact is that you're notably increasing your child's risk of a variety of types of issues by spanking them over more effective forms of parenting and you'll never know which side of the statistics your kid ends up on until it's too late. If you want to stay ignorant to that basic facts then fine, but it doesn't change the facts. Don't unironically cry "snowflakes" while intentionally choosing to deny basic facts that don't agree with you, it comes off pathetic. Again, just, stop your bullshit identity politics.</quote> While I agree with you that spanking is probably not the best option, I wonder how studies were conducted to determine if spanking is harmful. I'm assuming psychologist just had to use real world data gathering rather than conduct tests since testing would be unethical. In that case, I could see a correlation with bad parents (ones who don't just spank, but also use neglect and verbal abuse) utilizing spanking more often than good ones, hence the increase in a child developing behaviour problems and depression when older. I think that's why you see a lot of people who were spanked as a kid but say they turned out fine. To ignore them would be ignoring the data the child psychologist I'm sure have gathered (though "turning out fine" is very subjective to begin with). Perhaps spanking was used as a last resort when all types of others punishment/conditioning has failed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Yaridovich 10/21/17 11:51:17 AM #41:	I cannot and will never understand justifying hitting a child. You're hitting a child. The argument of "I got hit so I'll hit" is stupid as fuck. Just because something bad happened to you doesn't make it right. If you hit a child for any reason you're a bad person, end of story. --- Talk about backseat fishing http://i.imgur.com/VqWjuCs.png <cite>Yaridovich posted [p:888852076] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>I cannot and will never understand justifying hitting a child. You're hitting a child. The argument of "I got hit so I'll hit" is stupid as fuck. Just because something bad happened to you doesn't make it right. If you hit a child for any reason you're a bad person, end of story.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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hockeybub89 10/21/17 11:53:17 AM #44:	EternalDivide posted... We all turned out just fine. Compared to what? Your other lives? The data suggests you could have likely turned out better without it. --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png http://www.last.fm/user/hockeybub89/ <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:888852167] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>We all turned out just fine. </quote> Compared to what? Your other lives? The data suggests you could have likely turned out better without it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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weapon_d00d816 10/21/17 11:55:53 AM #46:	"I got hit and I turned out fine" Well you turned into an abusive parent so no, you didn't turn out fine. --- SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG <cite>weapon_d00d816 posted [p:888852304] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>"I got hit and I turned out fine" Well you turned into an abusive parent so no, you didn't turn out fine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EternalDivide 10/21/17 11:55:54 AM #47:	Looking at all the people arguing against spanking here. I'm positive you're all worthless crybabies. I weep for the future. --- FFVII Remake: A disaster in the making. I'll laugh at whatever I find funny whether you like it or not. <cite>EternalDivide posted [p:888852305] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote>Looking at all the people arguing against spanking here. I'm positive you're all worthless crybabies. I weep for the future.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 10/21/17 11:56:29 AM #48:	Asherlee10 posted... IfGodCouldDie posted... EternalDivide posted... You don't reason with a child. A child is a brat sometimes and incapable of understanding reason. And I would rather risk "negative psychological impact" on my kid than risk them turning out a worthless crybaby. You obviously don't have any experience with children if you think this. Children are absolutely capable of reason as early as 2 years old, if not earlier. Going further, kids do not become worthless crybabies because they were not spanked. That is such an ignorant position. Well ya that too. Lol --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:888852323] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>Asherlee10 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>IfGodCouldDie posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>You don't reason with a child. A child is a brat sometimes and incapable of understanding reason. And I would rather risk "negative psychological impact" on my kid than risk them turning out a worthless crybaby.</quote> You obviously don't have any experience with children if you think this. Children are absolutely capable of reason as early as 2 years old, if not earlier.</quote> Going further, kids do not become worthless crybabies because they were not spanked. That is such an ignorant position.</quote> Well ya that too. Lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
marc55 10/21/17 11:56:59 AM #49:	M_Live posted... D, I say this every time this topic comes up, hitting your kids doesn't teach them shit. I was hit when I was a kid and it didn't teach me shit except anger. I have a child and I'd never hit him. hitting isnt the same as spanking --- There is no sound, no voice, no cry in all the world that can be heard... until someone listens. <cite>marc55 posted [p:888852346] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>M_Live posted...</cite> <quote>D, I say this every time this topic comes up, hitting your kids doesn't teach them shit. I was hit when I was a kid and it didn't teach me shit except anger. I have a child and I'd never hit him.</quote> hitting isnt the same as spanking</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 10/21/17 11:57:14 AM #50:	EternalDivide posted... I am very clearly trolling and doing a bad job at it to boot. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:888852361] in C/D: Spank... [t:75895281]...</cite> <quote><cite>EternalDivide posted...</cite> <quote>I am very clearly trolling and doing a bad job at it to boot.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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