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SoundNetwork 10/17/17 11:57:52 PM #1: |
Didn't mention my name but I know it's me
I was young and stupid and I pressured her into sex but I don't think it was considered rape I am happily married now with a two year old. I'm not same person i was before. Would it be the right thing to do to talk with her and give her some closure? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KILBOTz 10/17/17 11:59:14 PM #2: |
with teh current climate I wouldn't broach the subject.
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BlackHorse6969 10/18/17 12:02:22 AM #4: |
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Drasilor 10/18/17 12:03:42 AM #5: |
"I am happily married now with a two year old. "
That can be read multiple ways. --- #mypresidentistrump ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 10/18/17 12:11:27 AM #6: |
Y'know it sounds feel good and new agey, but I think you need to clear it up.
Whether you see it as assault or not, she clearly does. Have you reflected on it and felt uncomfortable about it since it happened or was today like the first time it's come up for you since? Tbh for me personally whether pressuring is rape or not, it's still incredibly scummy and shitty. So on that level I think you owe it to her to at least apologize and explain yourself to her. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 http://i.imgur.com/mPvcy.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Black462 10/18/17 12:14:11 AM #8: |
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K181 10/18/17 12:14:55 AM #9: |
If she thinks you're a rapist or molester, stay the fuck away.
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CatFAQS 10/18/17 12:15:21 AM #10: |
Drasilor posted...
"I am happily married now with a two year old. " XD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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masticatingman 10/18/17 12:15:29 AM #11: |
Don't talk to her about it.
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Callixtus 10/18/17 12:18:07 AM #12: |
K181 posted...
If she thinks you're a rapist or molester, stay the fuck away. This TC. If you didn't break any laws, just forget it. This girl will probably use the opportunity to go off on you since she's #empowered now. --- It will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. | I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but the sword. -Jesus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gamer99z 10/18/17 12:18:25 AM #13: |
fenderbender321 posted...
There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - Neon Octopus ... Copied to Clipboard!
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K181 10/18/17 12:19:57 AM #14: |
Gamer99z posted...
fenderbender321 posted...There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. Oh.... *slowly leaves topic* --- The poster formerly known as Kakarot181: July 2, 2002 - March 14, 2012. Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dash_Harber 10/18/17 12:21:19 AM #15: |
SoundNetwork posted...
Would it be the right thing to do to talk with her and give her some closure? No. She already took back her power. It would be more impactful if you took the male equivalent "Iapologize" or whatever it was that was trending awhile ago. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bishop9800 10/18/17 12:22:51 AM #16: |
Gamer99z posted...
fenderbender321 posted...There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. WHAT THE FUCK? --- I don't have to insult you. I have proven that you are a hypocrite and a fool. That's not insulting you, that's exposing you. PSN-Bishop9800 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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C_Pain 10/18/17 12:24:35 AM #17: |
lol screencapping a post get a life
Also, how do you know its about you tc --- How quaint. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GiftedACIII 10/18/17 12:25:46 AM #18: |
Bishop9800 posted...
Gamer99z posted...fenderbender321 posted...There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. I mean, if you remember the kind of topics TC has made in the past you wouldn't be that surprised about this either. --- </topic> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Axiom 10/18/17 12:26:23 AM #19: |
GiftedACIII posted...
Bishop9800 posted...Gamer99z posted...fenderbender321 posted...There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. Lmao I have him tagged as stalks young bus girls ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Drasilor 10/18/17 12:27:01 AM #20: |
C_Pain posted...
lol screencapping a post get a life --- #mypresidentistrump ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eat More Beef 10/18/17 12:30:19 AM #21: |
You should send her a DM. Be like, "I'm sorry if what we did was harrasment/assault. I didn't see it at the time but it's not something that i'd wish anyone to deal with....."
You gotta own up to that shit, at least so the victim freels better. Don't let most CEman jade you into think that these chicks are looking for a quick payday. If you legit didn't rape her, then your apology will go a long way towards helping her while recover and it coats you essentially nothing. --- I wrote a horror short story collection. You can check it out, and other free short stories at http://www.aarondeck.com ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EnragedSlith 10/18/17 12:33:15 AM #22: |
I don't think leveling with her is a bad idea so long as you don't say something stupid in the process
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Waluigi7 10/18/17 12:36:26 AM #23: |
You guys realize Fenderbender only posts this stuff to get attention
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Psyloshsr 10/18/17 12:43:44 AM #24: |
don't talk to her in any way. even a remote admission of any guilt can be used against you if she decides to pursue a civil suit. it sounds shitty but if you've legitimately changed there's no sense if potentially opening yourself up to that.
--- Sometimes you have to make a stand for your principles if you want to believe in who and what you are.-John Lobon ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GiftedACIII 10/18/17 12:46:29 AM #25: |
Axiom posted...
GiftedACIII posted...Bishop9800 posted...Gamer99z posted...fenderbender321 posted...There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. That's it. --- </topic> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Frolex 10/18/17 12:51:02 AM #26: |
TC is cyborgsword, right? safe to say he isn't married to anything except his obligation to troll
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HanzoMain 10/18/17 12:54:59 PM #27: |
EnragedSlith posted...
I don't think leveling with her is a bad idea so long as you don't say something stupid in the process ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funkydog 10/18/17 1:00:48 PM #29: |
JustMyOpinion posted...
While pressuring someone into sex is a douchey move, how is that assault? You still had consent, right? Can you really give actual consent when coerced? For anything, mind. Not just sex. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SGT_Conti 10/18/17 1:14:03 PM #30: |
Bishop9800 posted...
Gamer99z posted...fenderbender321 posted...There is nothing wrong with agressively negotiated sex, as long as you aren't physically forcing yourself on her. He's an ancap which really explains all you need to know --- "I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkphoenix181 10/18/17 1:16:47 PM #32: |
@SoundNetwork
how did you pressure her? that is kinda important if you: have sex or you are fired then you aren't any different than harvey weinstein --- sigless user is me or am I? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vegy 10/18/17 1:19:03 PM #33: |
Better to stay away, don't ruin your life over dis
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