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epik_fail1
10/09/17 4:11:39 PM
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I know a gay couple who is getting married and one of them hit on me on Grindr. He told me that he showed only his pictures if I promised not to tell his boyfriend. I accepted, so...his soon to be husband(who isn't attractive at all) try to cheat him on grindr.

What would you do if the same happened with a woman and a husband?

Would you tell it?

Would you have sex?

Would you just ignore the situation?
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Dustin1280
10/09/17 4:13:45 PM
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I would let the person who almost got cheated on know about the situation, and send proof if necessary while expecting the relationship from those two people (with you) to be ruined.

It's a terrible spot to be in and ignorance would have been better, but now that you know you really should let the other guy know...
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Mal_Fet
10/09/17 4:15:23 PM
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I would accept and then send screencaps of the messages to her husband.

After sleeping with her, of course.
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epik_fail1
10/09/17 4:26:01 PM
#4:


Mal_Fet posted...
I would accept and then send screencaps of the messages to her husband.

After sleeping with her, of course.


The guy is ugly, but he is not fat though.
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philsov
10/09/17 6:01:19 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
his soon to be husband(who isn't attractive at all) try to cheat him on grindr.


Um. What?

Couple A and B are getting married.
Guy A shows you his pics and tells you not to tell B.
So Guy B cheated on A?

A strange situation if you typed that out correctly. Either they're perfect for each other or it's going to fall apart soon anyways. No need for me to get involved, especially if it's some randos.

Still, I'd like to think I'm too morally upright to do anything with Guy A even if I didn't know Guy B. If I knew Guy B then there's a decent chance I'd be a narc.
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epik_fail1
10/09/17 6:03:50 PM
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philsov posted...
epik_fail1 posted...
his soon to be husband(who isn't attractive at all) try to cheat him on grindr.


Um. What?

Couple A and B are getting married.
Guy A shows you his pics and tells you not to tell B.
So Guy B cheated on A?

A strange situation if you typed that out correctly. Either they're perfect for each other or it's going to fall apart soon anyways. No need for me to get involved, especially if it's some randos.

Still, I'd like to think I'm too morally upright to do anything with Guy A even if I didn't know Guy B. If I knew Guy B then there's a decent chance I'd be a narc.


Guys "A" cheated on guy "B"

tbh he really really isn't attractive, so it would probably destroy my confidence if I was stuck in that.
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SageHarpuia
10/09/17 6:07:06 PM
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Send anonymous screenshots to the husband and send a hobo to meet her at the hotel
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epik_fail1
10/09/17 6:12:11 PM
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SageHarpuia posted...
Send anonymous screenshots to the husband and send a hobo to meet her at the hotel


Don't tempt my inner troll.... I could do that.
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stoltenberg11
10/09/17 6:13:12 PM
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I would do whatever benefits me the most
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epik_fail1
10/09/17 6:13:55 PM
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stoltenberg11 posted...
I would do whatever benefits me the most


So...you would ask money for his silence?
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Simon_Petrikov
10/09/17 6:17:36 PM
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Unless B is your close friend, ignore the situation.
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dotsdfe
10/09/17 6:31:33 PM
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I would talk to the cheater and explain that you don't feel comfortable potentially ruining their relationship, and say that he shouldn't be dishonest with his SO.

Part of me wants to say that you should just expose him, since the cheater could just find someone else to cheat with, but I feel like there's a chance that things could be fixed if you talk him out of cheating.

That's probably a bit naive of me overall, though.
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