Current Events > Have any of you ever dated someone terrible at dirty talk/being flirty?

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My current girlfriend is terrible at it like 50% of the time and I don't really know how to bring it up in a way that doesn't come off wrong. Like today when we were about to get off work she text me asking if I was going to come over after work, she started getting a little flirty and was being hot at first and then it came to a screeching halt when she told me my dick was "outstanding" and it just kinda made me laugh and killed the mood. Should I just ignore it and not bring it up or should I bring it to her attention?
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that sucks but your funeral if you bring it up lol
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at least you get dirty talk. my current gf is too bashful to even try.
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Not dated, but a random hookup once said some very weird and creepy stuff that I dunno if I want to recite, killed the mood instantly.
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ArtVandelay posted...

that sucks but your funeral if you bring it up lol

Yeah that's what I was afraid of, I don't know how to bring it up in a way that doesn't cause problems.

Back_Stabbath posted...

at least you get dirty talk. my current gf is too bashful to even try.

I've never been with a girl who won't at least do some playful dirty talk here and there. The idea of that is pretty weird to me honestly.

FF_Redux posted...

Not dated, but a random hookup once said some very weird and creepy stuff that I dunno if I want to recite, killed the mood instantly.

Probably not as bad as whatever he said but I've had a couple people who were just into things I weren't. One was way too submissive for me and wanted me to treat her like shit, and the other was way too dominant for me and wanted to treat me like shit. They both said some things that were pretty sketchy (for me at least) and killed my mood right away.
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I'm... pretty fucking bad at being flirty honestly. even in my first language

in July I went on a date with a girl who only spoke French - I'm fluent for the most part, but I can't flirt at all
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