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FFVII_REMAKE
09/27/17 9:34:38 PM
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You come home early from work. You hear some sounds in the master bedroom. You open the door and see your gf/wife fucking another guy or multiple guys. She tells you "wait! I can explain! Please!!!"

Do you let her explain?
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Fam_Fam
09/27/17 9:35:01 PM
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depends on his race
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prince_leo
09/27/17 9:36:08 PM
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probably not in the moment, but I'd be curious enough to know at a point where we were removed from the situation
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Keith_Valentine
09/27/17 9:36:23 PM
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Explanation is, she wants to fuck someone else. Mystery solved. Men think the same shit, women just do it more often because it's easier for them to be sexually competitive .
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Awesome
09/27/17 9:36:37 PM
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the only way id let it go is if the men had guns or there was a bomb in the room after they broke into the house.
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DifferentialEquation
09/27/17 9:37:42 PM
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Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her.
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eggcorn
09/27/17 9:39:07 PM
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Sure it would give me time to think about where to hide the bodies

just kidding mods
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EnragedSlith
09/27/17 9:41:59 PM
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DifferentialEquation posted...
Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her.

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Fam_Fam
09/28/17 6:35:58 AM
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Keith_Valentine posted...
Explanation is, she wants to fuck someone else. Mystery solved. Men think the same shit, women just do it more often because it's easier for them to be sexually competitive .


i love how you snuck in a "women cheat more"
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FF_Redux
09/28/17 6:36:57 AM
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Why would I have to? It would clearly be my fault anyway, I'd apologize for her for not being there for her.
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Sada_Pop
09/28/17 6:47:10 AM
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After a cool down,of course.
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ClockworkHare
09/28/17 6:49:40 AM
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Would you let your gf/wife explain why she cheated?

Why not?

Listening to her explanation doesn't mean forgiveness.
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omega cookie
09/28/17 6:57:54 AM
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No.

Being completely honest, I know myself. Her and whatever amount of guys are in there will be lucky if they get to leave that room alive. Either I die, or all of them do.
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KogaSteelfang
09/28/17 7:02:02 AM
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prince_leo posted...
probably not in the moment, but I'd be curious enough to know at a point where we were removed from the situation

This.
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Chicken
09/28/17 7:07:04 AM
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She cheated because she was a slut. No need to explain.
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Robin_Dude
09/28/17 7:27:50 AM
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Honestly? Fuck no.

I pride myself on being trustworthy, if nothing else. If she goes and betrays my trust, that's it.
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Sada_Pop
09/28/17 8:08:39 AM
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omega cookie posted...
No.

Being completely honest, I know myself. Her and whatever amount of guys are in there will be lucky if they get to leave that room alive. Either I die, or all of them do.


Jesus. This is morbid tbqh. You'd be throwing your life away for a woman. No woman is worth a lifetime in prison.
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Lorenzo_2003
09/28/17 8:19:29 AM
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No, probably not. I might be curious of the reason, but I believe the reality is any explanation she gives would be just an attempt to deflect blame or rationalize the betrayal.
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omega cookie
09/28/17 8:27:11 AM
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Sada_Pop posted...
omega cookie posted...
No.

Being completely honest, I know myself. Her and whatever amount of guys are in there will be lucky if they get to leave that room alive. Either I die, or all of them do.


Jesus. This is morbid tbqh. You'd be throwing your life away for a woman. No woman is worth a lifetime in prison.

Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.
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NINExATExSEVEN
09/28/17 8:28:12 AM
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Am i weird because i never really gave a crap about this? I've been cheated on 2 times in the past and both times i didn't act like my life was crushed. Idk why people act like that it's just sex.

But both times i did stop treating the girlfriend's as well because of it.
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omega cookie
09/28/17 8:37:49 AM
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NINExATExSEVEN posted...
Am i weird because i never really gave a crap about this? I've been cheated on 2 times in the past and both times i didn't act like my life was crushed. Idk why people act like that it's just sex.

But both times i did stop treating the girlfriend's as well because of it.

Eh, even though the topic said gf/wife, I went with wife. If it were a girlfriend who I caught cheating on me, I'd be pissed but I'd just end it and move on.

Wife though? That is different. To me, that's just a betrayal on an entirely different level. Being married, to me at least, means kids. Once you have kids, you stop fucking around. I'm biased though, my parents are fucked up. My father hates my mother, but couldn't leave because I was born, so he treated me like shit and started cheating with dudes, took the wrong beef injection and now he has AIDS.

So... Uh... My experiences and reactions to these kinds of things are skewed...
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The Admiral
09/28/17 8:40:28 AM
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In that moment, no. I'd be on my way into the other room to get a baseball bat.
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Gamer99z
09/28/17 8:41:19 AM
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Not in the moment but I'm sure we'd talk about it at a later time but unless that explanation is "he raped me" or something along those lines, it wouldn't make any difference anyways. If you cheat the relationship is over.
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FrenchCrunch
09/28/17 8:42:24 AM
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omega cookie posted...
Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.

cringe
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OpShaft
09/28/17 8:42:59 AM
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EnragedSlith posted...
DifferentialEquation posted...
Sure, I'd let her explain. It wouldn't change my decision to break up with her or divorce her.

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NINExATExSEVEN
09/28/17 8:44:00 AM
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The Admiral posted...
In that moment, no. I'd be on my way into the other room to get a baseball bat.


@The_Admiral

Really man? You would assault them with a bat?

How do you know that the guy knew that your GF had a bf? He could've thought she was single.
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Anarchy_Juiblex
09/28/17 8:45:00 AM
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No because there's no woman on the planet that would take responsibility for being a whore and would put it on the guy she cheated on.
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The Admiral
09/28/17 8:45:23 AM
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NINExATExSEVEN posted...
How do you know that the guy knew that your GF had a bf? He could've thought she was single.


He's fucking her in my home. He doesn't get any such benefit of the doubt.
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RockRapDubstep
09/28/17 8:45:28 AM
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The Admiral posted...
In that moment, no. I'd be on my way into the other room to get a baseball bat.

I've never understood this unless the other person is like your friend or something like that. If it's someone you don't know they might not even know she was with someone, and even if they did it's not like it has any bearing on you, she's the only one who's wronged you. Unless you're meaning you'd get it to use on her, which is even more fucked up.
Cheating is a piece of human garbage thing to do, but that doesn't mean you should assault anyone.
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omega cookie
09/28/17 8:45:32 AM
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FrenchCrunch posted...
omega cookie posted...
Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.

cringe

Yes, it's real 'cringe' to know yourself well enough to anticipate how you'd react to a possible situation. Can't imagine how that would be helpful.
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FrenchCrunch
09/28/17 11:04:17 AM
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omega cookie posted...
FrenchCrunch posted...
omega cookie posted...
Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.

cringe

Yes, it's real 'cringe' to know yourself well enough to anticipate how you'd react to a possible situation. Can't imagine how that would be helpful.

how long have you posted here because ive only just noticed two days ago how cringey you are
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omega cookie
09/28/17 1:46:46 PM
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FrenchCrunch posted...
omega cookie posted...
FrenchCrunch posted...
omega cookie posted...
Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.

cringe

Yes, it's real 'cringe' to know yourself well enough to anticipate how you'd react to a possible situation. Can't imagine how that would be helpful.

how long have you posted here because ive only just noticed two days ago how cringey you are

A lot longer than you.
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thanosibe
09/28/17 1:50:54 PM
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We'll be married 18 years in 7 days. I'd like to think I would give her a chance to explain herself. But it would be a big effort to. I would forgive and forget most anything other mistake she could make without much thought. But infidelity would be a hard for me.
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Xelltrix
09/28/17 1:55:25 PM
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Nope, relationship over.
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DoubleOSnake
09/28/17 2:08:37 PM
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y
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Laserion
09/28/17 2:16:22 PM
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Cheater
"Wait! I can explain! Please!!!"


Do you let her explain?

My wife and I always wonder this when watching TV and someone says that.
We agree that the other person should just sit calmly and say "OK. Explain it to me." just to see what possible explanation the cheater could come up with. I mean, what could they possibly say?
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NeoShadowhen
09/28/17 2:16:26 PM
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Oh, I'd definitely want to hear what they had to say.

Frankly, a "wait I can explain!" would probably throw me off, because I can't conceive of how it could be explained.

If she was being attacked, she would cry for help or something, so that's out. If it was due to years of resentment and bitterness or some petty way to get back at me, still, that wouldn't be the line they lead with.

So what could the explanation possibly be? I'd actually be really interested to know.
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Kanaya413
09/28/17 2:17:08 PM
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I'd still break up but I would love an explanation
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ThyCorndog
09/28/17 2:18:47 PM
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It's a prank bro
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Vindris_SNH
09/28/17 2:18:54 PM
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"No need to explain honey. Just let me join in."
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K181
09/28/17 2:19:42 PM
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Sure, I'd let them explain. Ammo for the divorce and custody proceedings.
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MorbidFaithless
09/28/17 2:20:33 PM
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omega cookie posted...
Sada_Pop posted...
omega cookie posted...
No.

Being completely honest, I know myself. Her and whatever amount of guys are in there will be lucky if they get to leave that room alive. Either I die, or all of them do.


Jesus. This is morbid tbqh. You'd be throwing your life away for a woman. No woman is worth a lifetime in prison.

Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.

Have you told your fiance you're prone to violent rages and murder attempts?
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omega cookie
09/28/17 2:22:10 PM
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MorbidFaithless posted...
omega cookie posted...
Sada_Pop posted...
omega cookie posted...
No.

Being completely honest, I know myself. Her and whatever amount of guys are in there will be lucky if they get to leave that room alive. Either I die, or all of them do.


Jesus. This is morbid tbqh. You'd be throwing your life away for a woman. No woman is worth a lifetime in prison.

Oh, I understand that. I just know how I handle anger of that magnitude. There's no thinking, no discussion, I just resort to pure, unbridled rage.

Last time I was that angry I tried, and failed, to kill someone. Meh, I don't have to worry about it though. My fiance and I have been through so much together, we'd never cheat on each other.

Have you told your fiance you're prone to violent rages and murder attempts?

She's the reason I didn't kill that guy. I'd imagine she knows.
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TheJBD
09/28/17 2:23:38 PM
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Yes. After I return from a week-long bender.
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Coolppl Owns
09/28/17 2:23:39 PM
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it'd already be over at that point

I leave and never say another word to her again
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Offworlder1
09/28/17 2:29:35 PM
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I'd let her explain as I decide on if I deal with them or let the courts handle it, but either way it is over.
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Paragon21XX
09/28/17 2:29:45 PM
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I'm with Admiral, but I wouldn't attack my soon-to-be ex-wife. I'd essentially go ham on the guy's face such that he'd make (Wolfenstein: The New Order spoilers) the horribly disfigured Frau Engel look as beautiful as a supermodel in comparison. She can keep her new lover all to herself after that.
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