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frozenshock
09/05/17 9:47:12 PM
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Basically, her older sister was very nearsighted and was prescribed glasses as a kid.

Well, it turns out both the girls were very nearsighted.

But when she started saying that she didn't see well, her parents screamed at her and accused her of wanting glasses just because her older sister had them.

So she had to go through school without being able to see on the blackboard.

Apparently, it took years before the parents realized that it was real that she needed glasses. They were just completely stuck to the idea that she just wanted glasses because she thought they were cool and because her sister had them.

Seriously, parents...
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thronedfire2
09/05/17 9:48:33 PM
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Lol what fucking kid would want glasses for no reason
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Zeeak4444
09/05/17 9:49:13 PM
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That's shitty but idk if it was outright malicious.

Depends how the girl acted when talking about them I suppose. Could be she didn't convey it right.

No one noticed I was completely blind in one eye until I was 7 and then it was too late to do anything.
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cjsdowg
09/05/17 9:49:23 PM
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What the shit is wrong with these people. They didn't take her to an eye doctor.
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frozenshock
09/05/17 9:50:40 PM
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Zeeak4444 posted...
That's shitty but idk if it was outright malicious.

Depends how the girl acted when talking about them I suppose. Could be she didn't convey it right.

No one noticed I was completely blind in one eye until I was 7 and then it was too late to do anything.


From what I understand, the problem is that it came very soon after her older sister got glasses. So I guess it just sounded like "I want some too!"
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Kisai
09/05/17 9:50:52 PM
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thronedfire2 posted...
Lol what fucking kid would want glasses for no reason

In America, no one, but in Japan, you can buy fake glasses just because it's a look they like.
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Johnny_Nutcase
09/05/17 9:51:49 PM
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Sounds like her parent's aren't working out so well for her. What she needs to do is pack up all their shit and leave it in the driveway so they can pick it up at their earliest convenience and move on down the road.
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cjsdowg
09/05/17 9:51:53 PM
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Kisai posted...

In America, no one, but in Japan, you can buy fake glasses just because it's a look they like.


They have that in America as well and I hate it. As someone who got picked on for my glasses, it sucks that people wear them for fun. No one would wear a cast just because it look cool.
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__aCEr__
09/05/17 9:52:28 PM
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I would have figured a teacher would have stepped in at some point to tell the dipshit parents that the girl couldn't see.
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FightingGames
09/05/17 9:53:21 PM
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thronedfire2 posted...
Lol what fucking kid would want glasses for no reason

glasses are a fashion accessory in east asia, especially in korea
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Zeeak4444
09/05/17 9:55:35 PM
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frozenshock posted...
Zeeak4444 posted...
That's shitty but idk if it was outright malicious.

Depends how the girl acted when talking about them I suppose. Could be she didn't convey it right.

No one noticed I was completely blind in one eye until I was 7 and then it was too late to do anything.


From what I understand, the problem is that it came very soon after her older sister got glasses. So I guess it just sounded like "I want some too!"


That was my first thought as well. That sucks though especially if she wasn't able to articulate it better than "I need/want them too" which could easily be mistaken for "I want some too" like you said.

Sucks though, I feel for her.
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Zeeak4444
09/05/17 9:57:13 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
Kisai posted...

In America, no one, but in Japan, you can buy fake glasses just because it's a look they like.


They have that in America as well and I hate it. As someone who got picked on for my glasses, it sucks that people wear them for fun. No one would wear a cast just because it look cool.


You'd be so surprised about the cast.

People would do it to garner sympathy/signs alone.

I saw the same things in my experience though. Fake lens or desire to get glasses wasn't outside the norm.
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DifferentialEquation
09/05/17 9:58:08 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
Kisai posted...

In America, no one, but in Japan, you can buy fake glasses just because it's a look they like.


They have that in America as well and I hate it. As someone who got picked on for my glasses, it sucks that people wear them for fun. No one would wear a cast just because it look cool.


Things change. There was a time when you would get made fun of for wearing old or second hand clothes, then hipsters made it trendy for a while and now no one seems to care either way.
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Crazyman93
09/05/17 10:02:28 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
What the shit is wrong with these people. They didn't take her to an eye doctor.

I'm more concerned that her teachers didn't notice she couldn't see the board in this particular case.
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frozenshock
09/05/17 10:04:00 PM
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Crazyman93 posted...
cjsdowg posted...
What the shit is wrong with these people. They didn't take her to an eye doctor.

I'm more concerned that her teachers didn't notice she couldn't see the board in this particular case.


They might have, I don't really remember the details all that well it's been a long while since I heard the story

Also from what I hear she was super shy and introverted when she was a kid and only became sociable in her 20s, so maybe no one at school noticed that she didn't see well because of her personality, idk
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Crazyman93
09/05/17 10:06:04 PM
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frozenshock posted...
Crazyman93 posted...
cjsdowg posted...
What the shit is wrong with these people. They didn't take her to an eye doctor.

I'm more concerned that her teachers didn't notice she couldn't see the board in this particular case.


They might have, I don't really remember the details all that well it's been a long while since I heard the story

Also from what I hear she was super shy and introverted when she was a kid and only became sociable in her 20s, so maybe no one at school noticed that she didn't see well because of her personality, idk

idk, all I know is, it was either my kindergarten teacher or a school eye test that made it official that I needed glasses. Like, I sat close to the TV and computer screen, but show me one "typical family" shot that involved TV that didn't have the kids on their stomachs in front of it.
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Zeeak4444
09/05/17 10:09:45 PM
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frozenshock posted...
Crazyman93 posted...
cjsdowg posted...
What the shit is wrong with these people. They didn't take her to an eye doctor.

I'm more concerned that her teachers didn't notice she couldn't see the board in this particular case.


They might have, I don't really remember the details all that well it's been a long while since I heard the story

Also from what I hear she was super shy and introverted when she was a kid and only became sociable in her 20s, so maybe no one at school noticed that she didn't see well because of her personality, idk


That. The staff might have been incompetent too. Or just too many kids to notice without her speaking up about it.

It was my third school vision test where I was found out. The first two nurses didn't notice that I was moving the stick away from my good eye so I could read them off, apparently.

I was told the third one told me to put the stick back over my eye and I responded that if I did that I couldn't see. The nurse told my mom after confirming and my mom didn't believe her at first (due to all the previous tests saying nothing). Took me to an optometrists the next day who officially confirmed.

Teachers and staff shouldn't be blamed as much as the system itself. It's just an unfortunate situation (hopefully).
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electricbugs2
09/05/17 10:12:34 PM
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My ex only needed glasses for reading, but wore really big expensive hipster glasses as more of a fashion accessory than anything.

Glasses for younger people often have quirky designs as well so I feel like she might have gone gaga over a particular pair and that made her parents think she wanted them just because.

Tests definitely should have been done though, damn.
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GiftedACIII
09/06/17 2:59:16 AM
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Why not get contacts then?
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CarlGrimes
09/06/17 3:03:21 AM
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thronedfire2 posted...
Lol what fucking kid would want glasses for no reason

Hipsters.
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Sativa_Rose
09/06/17 3:16:52 AM
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Some parents are so dumb. It makes me angry.
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LittleRoyal
09/06/17 3:19:12 AM
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I didn't need glasses until my adulthood but my parents were like "umm are you sure? You know it's a big style change..." idk they didn't want me wearing them, it felt like.
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