Current Events > am i justified in being angry at my former group of friends?

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_BlueMonk 08/07/17 3:59:11 PM #1:	about 2 years ago i had a big group of friends. we all cared about each other and looked out for each other. it was like a family. then me and my one of my friends got into a fight and things became tense between us. all my supposed friends flocked to them to support them and talk things out with them. but no one came to me to see how i was or talk to me. no one. not one. so i got upset with them too, and they just shut me out. what the fuck happened. they say they got my back and love and support me, but when something goes wrong, they abandoned me. --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884351389] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>about 2 years ago i had a big group of friends. we all cared about each other and looked out for each other. it was like a family. then me and my one of my friends got into a fight and things became tense between us. all my supposed friends flocked to them to support them and talk things out with them. but no one came to me to see how i was or talk to me. no one. not one. so i got upset with them too, and they just shut me out. what the fuck happened. they say they got my back and love and support me, but when something goes wrong, they abandoned me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Webmaster4531 08/07/17 4:00:26 PM #2:	Going to need more details. --- Ad Hominem. <cite>Webmaster4531 posted [p:884351452] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>Going to need more details.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kanaya413 08/07/17 4:00:44 PM #3:	This kinda happened to me too, its fair you're angry --- Official Secretary of Kyogre's Cascade!!! FC: 5086-1980-2580 IGN: Vivi TSV 4077 Silent Chexmix: "Toxapex is Trump's wall in pixel form." <cite>Kanaya413 posted [p:884351476] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>This kinda happened to me too, its fair you're angry</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlCalavicci 08/07/17 4:03:24 PM #4:	we need the specific context of the fight --- http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20111123223446/simpsons/images/9/99/K.png I didn't even give you my coat! <cite>AlCalavicci posted [p:884351606] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>we need the specific context of the fight</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_BlueMonk 08/07/17 4:04:58 PM #6:	Webmaster4531 posted... Going to need more details. uh well. i was frustrated at my friend for the way she was treating me. i tend to keep things in but when she noticed i was being passive aggressive with her, she demanded to talk to me. the talk did not go well. we both got really angry and upset at each other, with one of our friends attempting to mediate. i stopped talking to her because i was mad. thats when the contact with the rest of the group stopped. no one tried to call me or text me to see how i was. no one tried to fix things again. but they all still hung out with her and talked to her. when i realized they had all flocked to her, i got mad at them. --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884351696] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Webmaster4531 posted...</cite> <quote>Going to need more details.</quote> uh well. i was frustrated at my friend for the way she was treating me. i tend to keep things in but when she noticed i was being passive aggressive with her, she demanded to talk to me. the talk did not go well. we both got really angry and upset at each other, with one of our friends attempting to mediate. i stopped talking to her because i was mad. thats when the contact with the rest of the group stopped. no one tried to call me or text me to see how i was. no one tried to fix things again. but they all still hung out with her and talked to her. when i realized they had all flocked to her, i got mad at them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_BlueMonk 08/07/17 4:05:59 PM #7:	Zurkon posted... Depending on the details of the fight, and what the other friend said to them, who knows. Did they hear your side of the story or just his? i dont know. i suspect it was one sided so thats why they flocked to her and ignored me. but seeing as i was one of their close friends, dont you think they should have tried to talk to me? --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884351738] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>Depending on the details of the fight, and what the other friend said to them, who knows. Did they hear your side of the story or just his? </quote> i dont know. i suspect it was one sided so thats why they flocked to her and ignored me. but seeing as i was one of their close friends, dont you think they should have tried to talk to me?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Webmaster4531 08/07/17 4:08:56 PM #8:	She's female. --- Ad Hominem. <cite>Webmaster4531 posted [p:884351897] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>She's female.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_BlueMonk 08/07/17 4:14:12 PM #10:	Zurkon posted... Well of course. Have you tried to reach out to them and make peace? i was too angry at them for not trying to do so back then. but im just wondering why they didn't, when they so clearly reached out to my other friend. --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884352178] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>Well of course. Have you tried to reach out to them and make peace? </quote> i was too angry at them for not trying to do so back then. but im just wondering why they didn't, when they so clearly reached out to my other friend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 08/07/17 4:16:23 PM #11:	_BlueMonk posted... Zurkon posted... Well of course. Have you tried to reach out to them and make peace? i was too angry at them for not trying to do so back then. but im just wondering why they didn't, when they so clearly reached out to my other friend. Maybe they thought that you were so far in the wrong that they didn't want to be your friend anymore? --- https://imgflip.com/gif/di4a4 <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:884352286] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>_BlueMonk posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>Well of course. Have you tried to reach out to them and make peace? </quote> i was too angry at them for not trying to do so back then. but im just wondering why they didn't, when they so clearly reached out to my other friend.</quote> Maybe they thought that you were so far in the wrong that they didn't want to be your friend anymore?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_BlueMonk 08/07/17 4:16:59 PM #12:	Twin3Turbo posted... Maybe they thought that you were so far in the wrong that they didn't want to be your friend anymore? yeah. well damn, i guess all that love and support was bullshit then huh? --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884352323] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe they thought that you were so far in the wrong that they didn't want to be your friend anymore?</quote> yeah. well damn, i guess all that love and support was bullshit then huh?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 08/07/17 4:17:45 PM #13:	_BlueMonk posted... Twin3Turbo posted... Maybe they thought that you were so far in the wrong that they didn't want to be your friend anymore? yeah. well damn, i guess all that love and support was bullshit then huh? Well, depends on how far in the wrong you were perceived to have been I guess? --- https://imgflip.com/gif/di4a4 <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:884352358] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>_BlueMonk posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe they thought that you were so far in the wrong that they didn't want to be your friend anymore?</quote> yeah. well damn, i guess all that love and support was bullshit then huh?</quote> Well, depends on how far in the wrong you were perceived to have been I guess?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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stoltenberg11 08/07/17 4:21:17 PM #16:	Webmaster4531 posted... She's female. This is probably at least some of it. People tend to sympathize more easily with females, and males are supposed to be hard and emotionless and not care as much about social problems like these. You also shouldn't have been passive aggressive. That can annoy people pretty easily when they catch on. Better to just say stuff like it is. It's also a distinct possibility that they always just liked her more than you. --- You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate <cite>stoltenberg11 posted [p:884352549] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Webmaster4531 posted...</cite> <quote>She's female.</quote> This is probably at least some of it. People tend to sympathize more easily with females, and males are supposed to be hard and emotionless and not care as much about social problems like these. You also shouldn't have been passive aggressive. That can annoy people pretty easily when they catch on. Better to just say stuff like it is. It's also a distinct possibility that they always just liked her more than you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
stoltenberg11 08/07/17 4:23:31 PM #17:	Zurkon posted... If this is something that's really bugging you then reach out to them. I have no idea how to open the conversation but it's worth trying at the very least. It may go well it may not, but at least you'll know you if the friendships can be saved or not and possibly get some answers. Yeah you can try this too. Just ask one of them "why did you all go support her after our fight but no one came to support me?" If you ask the question with honest intentions and don't come off as confrontational they might tell you something about yourself that you never knew, and if it's something bad then you know what it is and can work to change it. --- You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate <cite>stoltenberg11 posted [p:884352676] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>If this is something that's really bugging you then reach out to them. I have no idea how to open the conversation but it's worth trying at the very least. It may go well it may not, but at least you'll know you if the friendships can be saved or not and possibly get some answers.</quote> Yeah you can try this too. Just ask one of them "why did you all go support her after our fight but no one came to support me?" If you ask the question with honest intentions and don't come off as confrontational they might tell you something about yourself that you never knew, and if it's something bad then you know what it is and can work to change it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Feline_Heart 08/07/17 4:24:15 PM #18:	You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you --- Stay woke. <cite>Feline_Heart posted [p:884352715] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_BlueMonk 08/07/17 4:29:16 PM #20:	Zurkon posted... If this is something that's really bugging you then reach out to them. I have no idea how to open the conversation but it's worth trying at the very least. It may go well it may not, but at least you'll know you if the friendships can be saved or not and possibly get some answers. its not really bugging me... i jjust always imagine running into them somewhere and trying to imagine what'd id say to them. i dunno. --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884352975] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>If this is something that's really bugging you then reach out to them. I have no idea how to open the conversation but it's worth trying at the very least. It may go well it may not, but at least you'll know you if the friendships can be saved or not and possibly get some answers.</quote> its not really bugging me... i jjust always imagine running into them somewhere and trying to imagine what'd id say to them. i dunno.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 08/07/17 4:36:15 PM #21:	>never reaches out to his friends >gets upset when his friends don't reach out to him What likely happened is that they reached out to her first, heard her story which painted you in the wrong, and then perceived that you walked away from them. So, yeah, reach out to one of them and get the scoop. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:884353388] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>>never reaches out to his friends >gets upset when his friends don't reach out to him What likely happened is that they reached out to her first, heard her story which painted you in the wrong, and then perceived that you walked away from them. So, yeah, reach out to one of them and get the scoop.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Twin3Turbo 08/07/17 4:38:02 PM #22:	_BlueMonk posted... Zurkon posted... If this is something that's really bugging you then reach out to them. I have no idea how to open the conversation but it's worth trying at the very least. It may go well it may not, but at least you'll know you if the friendships can be saved or not and possibly get some answers. its not really bugging me... i jjust always imagine running into them somewhere and trying to imagine what'd id say to them. i dunno. Why don't you just reach out to some of them? --- https://imgflip.com/gif/di4a4 <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:884353487] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>_BlueMonk posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zurkon posted...</cite> <quote>If this is something that's really bugging you then reach out to them. I have no idea how to open the conversation but it's worth trying at the very least. It may go well it may not, but at least you'll know you if the friendships can be saved or not and possibly get some answers.</quote> its not really bugging me... i jjust always imagine running into them somewhere and trying to imagine what'd id say to them. i dunno.</quote> Why don't you just reach out to some of them?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TommyG663513 08/07/17 4:42:32 PM #23:	This sounds like one of those things that would be somewhat solved if you just reached out to them --- just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156 <cite>TommyG663513 posted [p:884353770] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote>This sounds like one of those things that would be somewhat solved if you just reached out to them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
muchdran 08/07/17 4:49:50 PM #24:	Feline_Heart posted... You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you <cite>muchdran posted [p:884354192] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>Feline_Heart posted...</cite> <quote>You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SomeLikeItHoth 08/07/17 4:53:47 PM #25:	muchdran posted... Feline_Heart posted... You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you --- Official Pikachu of the Pokemon Switch board. https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/211388-pokemon-for-nintendo-switch/75467484 <cite>SomeLikeItHoth posted [p:884354432] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>muchdran posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Feline_Heart posted...</cite> <quote>You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_BlueMonk 08/07/17 4:59:37 PM #26:	SomeLikeItHoth posted... muchdran posted... Feline_Heart posted... You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you https://img.4plebs.org/boards/pol/image/1488/24/1488242680604.png --- One in a Million, TWICE! Dahyun is BEST. <cite>_BlueMonk posted [p:884354812] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeLikeItHoth posted...</cite> <quote><cite>muchdran posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Feline_Heart posted...</cite> <quote>You sound whiny, so I understand why they abandoned you</quote></quote></quote> https://img.4plebs.org/boards/pol/image/1488/24/1488242680604.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
stoltenberg11 08/07/17 5:10:06 PM #27:	philsov posted... What likely happened is that they reached out to her first, heard her story which painted you in the wrong, and then perceived that you walked away from them. Which isn't really fair to tc and is what he is talking about. Also ignore the people calling you whiny lol --- You're such a boring characterless entity. Try getting laid once in a while and maybe you'll have friends and find out what a "joke" is. - derrate <cite>stoltenberg11 posted [p:884355427] in am i justi... [t:75647226]...</cite> <quote><cite>philsov posted...</cite> <quote>What likely happened is that they reached out to her first, heard her story which painted you in the wrong, and then perceived that you walked away from them.</quote> Which isn't really fair to tc and is what he is talking about. Also ignore the people calling you whiny lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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