Board 8 > telling your family something you know will upset them

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bng_mmmk 07/13/17 8:21:12 PM #1:	There are some classic examples of this, but I'm deliberately leaving it open ended. What's been the most difficult thing about you or your life that you've told your family? How long did you consider it before going through with it? How did they react? Do you have any advice for someone with your same situation? --- turbopuns <cite>bng_mmmk posted [p:882868147] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>There are some classic examples of this, but I'm deliberately leaving it open ended. What's been the most difficult thing about you or your life that you've told your family? How long did you consider it before going through with it? How did they react? Do you have any advice for someone with your same situation?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MysticBrohan 07/13/17 8:33:07 PM #2:	that i dont believe in god never gonna tell them because theyd disown me <cite>MysticBrohan posted [p:882868765] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>that i dont believe in god never gonna tell them because theyd disown me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bng_mmmk 07/13/17 8:38:14 PM #3:	MysticBrohan posted... that i dont believe in god never gonna tell them because theyd disown me Are you sure? Like has that already happened to someone else in your family? --- turbopuns <cite>bng_mmmk posted [p:882869027] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>MysticBrohan posted...</cite> <quote>that i dont believe in god never gonna tell them because theyd disown me</quote> Are you sure? Like has that already happened to someone else in your family?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
INCEPTlON 07/13/17 8:41:59 PM #5:	Better one actually would be me telling them I wanted to move to Colorado. They took offense that I didn't want to be close to them and that I wanted to move 2000 miles away. --- 124 Gurus were better than me in BGE 2015 contest! But the best of all was DpObliVion! Congrats! <cite>INCEPTlON posted [p:882869252] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>Better one actually would be me telling them I wanted to move to Colorado. They took offense that I didn't want to be close to them and that I wanted to move 2000 miles away.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 07/13/17 8:50:03 PM #6:	I don't believe in santa --- Ulti was right <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:882869705] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>I don't believe in santa</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bng_mmmk 07/13/17 8:51:36 PM #7:	INCEPTlON posted... Better one actually would be me telling them I wanted to move to Colorado. They took offense that I didn't want to be close to them and that I wanted to move 2000 miles away. Have you moved to Colorado yet? --- turbopuns <cite>bng_mmmk posted [p:882869778] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>INCEPTlON posted...</cite> <quote>Better one actually would be me telling them I wanted to move to Colorado. They took offense that I didn't want to be close to them and that I wanted to move 2000 miles away.</quote> Have you moved to Colorado yet?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MysticBrohan 07/13/17 8:52:22 PM #8:	while i dont literally know for sure, i know my parents well enough to guess their reactions. theyre very old school, with religion being the #1 most important thing in their lives, and they consider atheists complete scum <cite>MysticBrohan posted [p:882869824] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>while i dont literally know for sure, i know my parents well enough to guess their reactions. theyre very old school, with religion being the #1 most important thing in their lives, and they consider atheists complete scum</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bane_Of_Despair 07/13/17 8:52:42 PM #9:	That I'm not a furry like they raised me to be but no they keep putting me in that suit day in and day out --- Lord have mercy on my soul, I've had a good run but I can't run anymore. Just put me down BKSheikah got me good in Guru <cite>Bane_Of_Despair posted [p:882869840] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>That I'm not a furry like they raised me to be but no they keep putting me in that suit day in and day out</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bng_mmmk 07/13/17 8:54:08 PM #10:	MysticBrohan posted... while i dont literally know for sure, i know my parents well enough to guess their reactions. theyre very old school, with religion being the #1 most important thing in their lives, and they consider atheists complete scum So do you go to church with them and all that? --- turbopuns <cite>bng_mmmk posted [p:882869907] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>MysticBrohan posted...</cite> <quote>while i dont literally know for sure, i know my parents well enough to guess their reactions. theyre very old school, with religion being the #1 most important thing in their lives, and they consider atheists complete scum</quote> So do you go to church with them and all that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MysticBrohan 07/13/17 8:55:08 PM #11:	yeah a lot of the time. say grace and shit before dinner, etc. really just living a lie <cite>MysticBrohan posted [p:882869953] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>yeah a lot of the time. say grace and shit before dinner, etc. really just living a lie</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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woodman 07/13/17 8:58:23 PM #13:	I keep telling them that I'm 12 but they just get annoyed. --- NFUN nice <cite>woodman posted [p:882870141] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>I keep telling them that I'm 12 but they just get annoyed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
whoa 07/13/17 8:59:44 PM #14:	1. only Got 35 FUcking follows , each one a Troll , not Hot chicks 2. NEver having a Shitting kid , devoting My time to ANime babes , 3. dont Love them <cite>whoa posted [p:882870224] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote>1. only Got 35 FUcking follows , each one a Troll , not Hot chicks 2. NEver having a Shitting kid , devoting My time to ANime babes , 3. dont Love them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bng_mmmk 07/13/17 9:00:02 PM #15:	NioraptH posted... bng_mmmk posted... There are some classic examples of this, but I'm deliberately leaving it open ended. What's been the most difficult thing about you or your life that you've told your family? How long did you consider it before going through with it? How did they react? Do you have any advice for someone with your same situation? Telling them I no longer want to live and that I'm depressed and that I need help. Many years. They just told me to man up and deal with it... but also looked for repercussions of getting diagnosed for mental sickness in Malaysia. The results weren't pretty. Honestly? I don't know. Have you sought help? --- turbopuns <cite>bng_mmmk posted [p:882870241] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>NioraptH posted...</cite> <quote><cite>bng_mmmk posted...</cite> <quote>There are some classic examples of this, but I'm deliberately leaving it open ended. What's been the most difficult thing about you or your life that you've told your family? How long did you consider it before going through with it? How did they react? Do you have any advice for someone with your same situation?</quote> Telling them I no longer want to live and that I'm depressed and that I need help. Many years. They just told me to man up and deal with it... but also looked for repercussions of getting diagnosed for mental sickness in Malaysia. The results weren't pretty. Honestly? I don't know.</quote> Have you sought help?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bng_mmmk 07/13/17 9:01:44 PM #16:	whoa posted... 1. only Got 35 FUcking follows , each one a Troll , not Hot chicks 2. NEver having a Shitting kid , devoting My time to ANime babes , 3. dont Love them Thank you. --- turbopuns <cite>bng_mmmk posted [p:882870332] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>whoa posted...</cite> <quote>1. only Got 35 FUcking follows , each one a Troll , not Hot chicks 2. NEver having a Shitting kid , devoting My time to ANime babes , 3. dont Love them</quote> Thank you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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INCEPTlON 07/13/17 9:02:58 PM #18:	bng_mmmk posted... INCEPTlON posted... Better one actually would be me telling them I wanted to move to Colorado. They took offense that I didn't want to be close to them and that I wanted to move 2000 miles away. Have you moved to Colorado yet? Yup! We didn't speak for the first 4 months but they came around and reached out to me and our relationship is the healthiest it has ever been. --- 124 Gurus were better than me in BGE 2015 contest! But the best of all was DpObliVion! Congrats! <cite>INCEPTlON posted [p:882870386] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>bng_mmmk posted...</cite> <quote><cite>INCEPTlON posted...</cite> <quote>Better one actually would be me telling them I wanted to move to Colorado. They took offense that I didn't want to be close to them and that I wanted to move 2000 miles away.</quote> Have you moved to Colorado yet?</quote> Yup! We didn't speak for the first 4 months but they came around and reached out to me and our relationship is the healthiest it has ever been.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wanglicious 07/13/17 9:09:08 PM #19:	bng_mmmk posted... What's been the most difficult thing about you or your life that you've told your family? How long did you consider it before going through with it? How did they react? Do you have any advice for someone with your same situation? mom's death. varied on the family member. one knew the same night. others still don't know. others know but i haven't told, it just spread. varied. those who knew her condition well weren't surprised. those who didn't were surprised. advice? know that the aftermath doesn't come off very human and costs money so if you've time to prep it's very, very valuable. you've got paperwork, people to pay, and gotta make arrangements quick. depending on family situation and how many people are involved your speed of the important aspects (inheritance, rent, what to do with the body) should go as fast as 1 week to 2 months. --- "Maybe it's a tentacle, molesting the planet itself. - Aschen Brodel. <cite>Wanglicious posted [p:882870693] in telling yo... [t:75562568]...</cite> <quote><cite>bng_mmmk posted...</cite> <quote> What's been the most difficult thing about you or your life that you've told your family? How long did you consider it before going through with it? How did they react? Do you have any advice for someone with your same situation?</quote> mom's death. varied on the family member. one knew the same night. others still don't know. others know but i haven't told, it just spread. varied. those who knew her condition well weren't surprised. those who didn't were surprised. advice? know that the aftermath doesn't come off very human and costs money so if you've time to prep it's very, very valuable. you've got paperwork, people to pay, and gotta make arrangements quick. depending on family situation and how many people are involved your speed of the important aspects (inheritance, rent, what to do with the body) should go as fast as 1 week to 2 months.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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