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3khc 07/03/17 6:24:54 PM #1: |
Like is he a piece of shit for the rest of his life? Is the family horrible for turning a blind eye? Are they horrible for raising someone that would do this in the first place? Why would they allow this person to come around anymore?
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ThePrinceFish 07/03/17 6:25:55 PM #2: |
Response varies depending on how old each party is. Need more information.
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frozenshock 07/03/17 6:26:21 PM #3: |
Force the kid to marry his cousin?
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Mernardi 07/03/17 6:26:57 PM #4: |
He should be tried and sentenced to jail/juvie.
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Danger_Close 07/03/17 6:28:31 PM #5: |
3khc posted...
Like is he a piece of shit for the rest of his life? yes 3khc posted... Is the family horrible for turning a blind eye? yes 3khc posted... Are they horrible for raising someone that would do this in the first place? maybe, but some people are just born awful 3khc posted... Why would they allow this person to come around anymore? no idea --- A Lodestar's a Lodestar, but the Care Package could be anything! It could even be a Lodestar! You know how much we've wanted one of those! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Volkswagen_Bros 07/03/17 6:28:56 PM #6: |
Depends on how old this kid is. If they're old enough to morally understand that what they did was wrong, then yes, they're a piece of shit and should suffer for it.
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Paragon21XX 07/03/17 6:29:29 PM #7: |
Send the kid to military school or juvvie, then send him to live with relatives that his cousins won't ever visit.
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3khc 07/03/17 6:31:12 PM #8: |
ThePrinceFish posted...
Response varies depending on how old each party is. Need more information. I believe the rapist was around 14yo. Give or take a few years. Victim would be ~6 or 7. TBQH, I didn't really ask details. frozenshock posted... Force the kid to marry his cousin? .... Why? Mernardi posted... He should be tried and sentenced to jail/juvie. Thing is, it was never revealed until they were both adults. Victim had a sudden breakdown. I guess repressed memories or denial. Idk. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mernardi 07/03/17 6:32:40 PM #9: |
Well sounds like the parents fucked up. They should have had the kid pay for his crime.
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ThePrinceFish 07/03/17 6:33:50 PM #10: |
3khc posted...
I believe the rapist was around 14yo. Give or take a few years. Victim would be ~6 or 7. TBQH, I didn't really ask details. Family shouldn't have turned a blind eye then. Very sick and hopefully he ended up getting himself help as he grew up. --- Dielman on Rivers: "I've tried to get him to say s--- or f--- and all he'll ever do is say, 'Golly gee, I can't do that." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VaniIIa Coke 07/03/17 6:33:57 PM #11: |
There's no way things should be done, no rules, just situations and people handling them to the best of their current ability
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3khc 07/03/17 6:39:53 PM #12: |
Volkswagen_Bros posted...
Depends on how old this kid is. If they're old enough to morally understand that what they did was wrong, then yes, they're a piece of shit and should suffer for it. What gets me is that he still comes around the family functions. Now being the outsider, perhaps I just haven't seen their family administer punishment. But o feel like I'm the only one who is angry at the rapist. And in turn, it makes me angry at their family in general. And that's when I began to ask myself why do they seem so chill with it? I mean I know he is still family and I know he was a kid, but ugh. Still want to beat the shit out of him. I understand now why convicts beat up molestors. Paragon21XX posted... Send the kid to military school or juvvie, then send him to live with relatives that his cousins won't ever visit. If anyone would take him. Would you trust a rapist in your home? Even if he were family? Mernardi posted... Well sounds like the parents fucked up. They should have had the kid pay for his crime. I wonder if his parents even spoke to him about it when this revelation came up. If they did, they didn't do a good job of punishing him. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 07/03/17 6:41:25 PM #13: |
ThePrinceFish posted...
3khc posted...I believe the rapist was around 14yo. Give or take a few years. Victim would be ~6 or 7. TBQH, I didn't really ask details. Well, like I said, these events didn't come to light until they were both adults. VaniIIa Coke posted... There's no way things should be done, no rules, just situations and people handling them to the best of their current ability True. I can barely fathom how this situation is even possible. Much less how I'd handle it if it were my family. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Anteaterking 07/03/17 6:43:37 PM #15: |
3khc posted...
I wonder if his parents even spoke to him about it when this revelation came up. If they did, they didn't do a good job of punishing him. ??? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 07/03/17 6:46:31 PM #16: |
leverageblargh posted...
If all these family members know and are not only doing anything about it but still on good terms with the guy, they're garbage people too and the victim needs to realize that and focus on getting out from under these toxic people. See idk if they had a fam meeting or something, but yeah they seem on good terms. Out least on the outside. Even the victim also seems to want to forgive. I'm like... Why? I mean... I guess I know why. She wants the family to be happy. Maybe she also believes he just made a mistake. But I was there for that nervous breakdown. There is no way this is NOT still affecting her. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 07/03/17 6:47:38 PM #17: |
Anteaterking posted...
3khc posted...I wonder if his parents even spoke to him about it when this revelation came up. If they did, they didn't do a good job of punishing him. I wonder if his parents told him about how his little cousin came out with rape accusations. If they did, it does not look like it affected him at all. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tezlok 07/03/17 6:50:40 PM #18: |
reminds me of a Friends fanfic I saw once. Ross rapes Monica, and then all the friends and their family take Ross's side for some reason and blame Monica and she gets all mad and depressed
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TheCurseX2 07/03/17 6:51:21 PM #19: |
Kick the absolute shit out of him. Make his adult teeth come in early.
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3khc 07/03/17 6:53:24 PM #20: |
Tezlok posted...
reminds me of a Friends fanfic I saw once. Ross rapes Monica, and then all the friends and their family take Ross's side for some reason and blame Monica and she gets all mad and depressed Stahp TheCurseX2 posted... Kick the absolute shit out of him. Make his adult teeth come in early. Is it my place to do so? I'm sure his family would back him up still anyway. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 07/03/17 6:59:29 PM #22: |
leverageblargh posted...
The victim's obviously not gonna make rational decisions regarding this because her judgement's been compromised. You are right. I was actually looking into news articles with similar situations. The rapists are often looking at adult prison sentences. My mind has a bit more clarity now. If I ever see this fucker again, I'm telling him straight up to stay away from me or I'm swinging. And that warning is only out of respect for the victim who, for whatever reason, is trying to forgive and forget. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DocileOrangeCup 07/03/17 7:01:17 PM #23: |
was it legit forced rape or did he just trick her into doing it or something?
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Drpooplol 07/03/17 7:01:21 PM #24: |
leverageblargh posted...
14 is old enough to know that an act like that is straight up evil unless you've been brainwashed to believe otherwise. this --- "Or do you want to know more about my vagina?" *LIE* "No" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tamashii 07/03/17 7:01:35 PM #25: |
Happened to a person I know. He molested his little half brother (he was like 13, brother was like 5). Turned out his step mom's brother had raped him several times when he was younger and the step mom never did anything to stop it. Anyway he got taken away from the rest of his family and raised by his grandmother and received counseling, which was the best thing that could have happened for him. He's pretty normal now, got a girlfriend and a kid on the way. The little brother is doing ok too. Still a shit thing to have happened.
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DesuDeku 07/03/17 7:03:44 PM #28: |
Tezlok posted...
reminds me of a Friends fanfic I saw once. Ross rapes Monica, and then all the friends and their family take Ross's side for some reason and blame Monica and she gets all mad and depressed wtf!? --- Take me away! http://i.imgur.com/IC8QECQ.gifv ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DocileOrangeCup 07/03/17 7:04:21 PM #30: |
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fenderbender321 posted...If my son did that, I would make him look his cousin in the eye and apologize. Also, no TV for 2 and a half weeks, and a 1 month ban on seeing his little cousin again. hes jokin dude --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DocileOrangeCup 07/03/17 7:08:01 PM #32: |
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3khc 07/03/17 7:09:43 PM #33: |
DocileOrangeCup posted...
was it legit forced rape or did he just trick her into doing it or something? I do not know and I don't want to know or ask or think about it. tamashii posted... Happened to a person I know. He molested his little half brother (he was like 13, brother was like 5). Turned out his step mom's brother had raped him several times when he was younger and the step mom never did anything to stop it. Anyway he got taken away from the rest of his family and raised by his grandmother and received counseling, which was the best thing that could have happened for him. He's pretty normal now, got a girlfriend and a kid on the way. The little brother is doing ok too. Still a shit thing to have happened. To clarify, 13 year old boy was raped by his step-uncle. 13 year old boy, in turn, molested his 5 year old brother. 13 year old boy was sent to live with grandma and he turned out okay. Question tho, how/when did they find out? Conflict posted... 3khc posted...Are they horrible for raising someone that would do this in the first place? From what I'm hearing, I wouldn't be surprised if other family members started it with him. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ChainedRedone 07/03/17 7:12:12 PM #34: |
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TheCurseX2 07/03/17 7:16:31 PM #36: |
3khc posted...
Is it my place to do so? I'm sure his family would back him up still anyway. Then beat the shit out of his family too. --- As a Level 37 Sage, I expect to be treated with proper respect and acknowledged for my dedication to the GameFAQs Message Board Community as a whole. Thank you. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ChainedRedone 07/03/17 7:18:36 PM #37: |
That kid needs to be beaten the shit out of. I agree with CE
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Mist_Turnips 07/03/17 7:19:01 PM #38: |
3khc posted...
Lmao. Please tell me that this outrages you more than if the dude was a murderer. --- "They say if you don't hide your belly button, lightning could take it away from you! What would happen if it did?" http://i.imgur.com/G74y2NJ.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tezlok 07/03/17 7:19:48 PM #39: |
if you attack him, you will get assault charges. why don't you just stay out of private family business? for all you know, it's been dealt with in their own way. you have no idea about what they did. they might have done something internally and want to keep it in the family. every family has secrets. if even the victim has forgiven then back off and stay away from it. its not your place and your putting your nose in private business
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EnragedSlith 07/03/17 7:20:30 PM #40: |
Danger_Close posted...
3khc posted...Like is he a piece of shit for the rest of his life? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 07/03/17 7:26:45 PM #42: |
fenderbender321 posted...
It's got to be a tough situation to be the parent. It's an embarrassment and it could really destroy a lot of relationships within the greater family. Well I'm not seeing it and it kinda irks me. ChainedRedone posted... That kid needs to be beaten the shit out of. I agree with CE Not a kid anymore. This was long ago. Mist_Turnips posted... 3khc posted... I'm not sure I follow, but definitely not liking your tone at all. Tezlok posted... if you attack him, you will get assault charges. why don't you just stay out of private family business? for all you know, it's been dealt with in their own way. you have no idea about what they did. they might have done something internally and want to keep it in the family. every family has secrets. if even the victim has forgiven then back off and stay away from it. its not your place and your putting your nose in private business Never said I was going there looking for trouble. Pretty sure I said the opposite out of respect for those involved. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tamashii 07/03/17 7:27:40 PM #43: |
3khc posted...
Correct. Caught him in the act, I think. --- PSN: helicene http://steamcommunity.com/id/helicene/wishlist/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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E32005 07/03/17 7:27:44 PM #44: |
3khc posted...
Like is he a piece of shit for the rest of his life? not necessarily. though many family members will regard him as such regardless of his rehabilitation. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EnragedSlith 07/03/17 7:28:29 PM #45: |
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3khc posted...Like is he a piece of shit for the rest of his life? Some will. Shit like this tears families apart --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tezlok 07/03/17 7:31:04 PM #46: |
3khc posted...
Never said I was going there looking for trouble. Pretty sure I said the opposite out of respect for those involved. you said you would start swinging if you see him and warned him to stay away cause you apparently can't control yourself ... Copied to Clipboard!
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E32005 07/03/17 7:39:02 PM #47: |
EnragedSlith posted...
E32005 posted...3khc posted...Like is he a piece of shit for the rest of his life? oh yeah. i would wager the girls parents and sibs wont forgive. I probably wouldnt either. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 07/03/17 7:39:54 PM #48: |
Tezlok posted...
3khc posted...Never said I was going there looking for trouble. Pretty sure I said the opposite out of respect for those involved. Yeah, is that not a fair warning? Maybe I should clarify that he is a wannabe tough guy who tries to punk people who comes to his family parties. As if he was the protector of the family. Some nerve. So you saying me letting him know I don't like him is me looking for trouble? --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sativa_Rose 07/03/17 7:51:24 PM #50: |
That's really messed up. It does seem like that age of around 14-15 or so that there seems to be an uptick in this stuff with young men. Obviously the person who did it is still to blame, but I wonder if this would happen less frequently if society had a more sex positive attitude towards boys this age instead of trying to shame them for or suppress their sexuality, because the parents can't bare the idea that little Johnny has started getting horny.
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HogRiderreturns 07/03/17 7:56:38 PM #51: |
Depends on age and whether it was statutory or forced rape.
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