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MildlyIrkedOwl
06/04/17 1:20:28 PM
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This girl keeps blowing me off (and not in the good way), saying she's interested to meet up but can just never find the time. When I suggest times she's non-commital. When I ask her when she's free I get a vague "Well I might have an evening this week but my plans are changing spontaneously!"

It's not that hard to make plans. No one is so fucking busy that they can't just say "yep, wednesday evening is good". I've never met a busy person who was genuinely like "I just don't know if I have any time this week!" No, busy people have their shit organised.

I get it by the way. She's just not that into me, and is going to continue to hedge her bets with maybe 10 other guys until she literally has nothing else going on and then maybe she'll go for a drink with me. Still rude though.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/04/17 1:34:47 PM
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I been in this situation. Sucks cause it was one my first crushes I felt like I was getting a chance 10 years later. So I was giddy to the point my whole life seemed brighter but then I slowly became aware I misinterpreted how much her laughing at all my jokes and letting me spoon with her over the night meant lol. At this point you gotta lay all the cards on the table and just tell her "look Im into you, I really like you as a person and want to get to know you more. Its really frustrating that you're making it so hard for me" of course in your own words and flair.
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Burgess
06/04/17 1:35:07 PM
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Just give them some lotion.
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frozenshock
06/04/17 1:44:03 PM
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Tell them you just won the lottery

Then when she shows up and asks about it say you lost the winning ticket and can't claim the money anymore. You last saw the ticket somewhere in your bedroom.
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Colorahdo
06/04/17 1:46:51 PM
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Spoilers: She's not that into you
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MildlyIrkedOwl
06/04/17 1:56:46 PM
#6:


Colorahdo posted...
Spoilers: She's not that into you


Did you read my post or did you not read my post

MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
I get it by the way. She's just not that into me

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SrRd_RacinG
06/04/17 1:59:57 PM
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They like to be pursued by many. But ultimately choose only a select few to commit to.
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MildlyIrkedOwl
06/04/17 2:15:14 PM
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So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.
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Coolppl Owns
06/04/17 2:23:15 PM
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MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.


you're way too available

dont know why you're even bothering with this chick tbh, flaky girls should be auto nexted for any dude who values their time
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G_G
06/04/17 2:24:12 PM
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They're GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREAT
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Volkswagen_Bros
06/04/17 2:32:03 PM
#11:


Burgess posted...
Just give them some lotion.

Or some premium conditioner.
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DoctorVader
06/04/17 2:33:57 PM
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Damn...

That sounds just like me down to the "Well I might have an evening this week but my plans are changing spontaneously!"

Because girls are very quick to start making plans if they are really interested in you and I don't like committing.

I can be talking to no one else and she could be a dime, but sometimes, I'm just not in the mood to meet anyone outside of my crew.
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MildlyIrkedOwl
06/04/17 2:36:53 PM
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Coolppl Owns posted...
MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.


you're way too available

dont know why you're even bothering with this chick tbh, flaky girls should be auto nexted for any dude who values their time


K, whatever you say player
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Forever_Black
06/04/17 2:46:11 PM
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If a girl is truly interested in you, she'll find time for you no matter how busy she is.

The worst thing girls do sometimes is they'll disappear on you and act distance making you think they're clearly not interested in you and then you finally Decide to let her go over and move on and they'll come back outta no where talking that sweet ish.
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DezCaughtIt
06/04/17 2:49:54 PM
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MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
Coolppl Owns posted...
MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.


you're way too available

dont know why you're even bothering with this chick tbh, flaky girls should be auto nexted for any dude who values their time


K, whatever you say player


Listen to Coolppl

He's one of the few people on this board that actually knows what he's talking about
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TheBiggerWiggle
06/04/17 2:53:00 PM
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You're wasting your time, TC. It's time to move on.
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GAMER_X_REVIVAL
06/04/17 3:01:50 PM
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Chicks (for the most part sadly) are ****in crazy and treat love like a game, they like to play head games and reverse psychology works way too well, everythings ass backwards logic and obnoxious bs. One of the main reasons I'm more than happy to be single and not even be bothered, already had my fill of relationships long and short term and the god awful dating game BS

As hard as it might be, just flat out start ignoring her. If she finally comes around once she realizes shes being ignored, be too busy the first few weeks if she mentions a time she's free, then the next one if she suggest a time again assert yourself and say when you're actually free, she can take it or leave it. Sadly some women need to be told what day they're free, because they can't make up their own damn minds, or even worse, they want to be told and ordered around smdh

God I wish there were more sane down to earth women out there that didn't require all the head game bull, I don't have time for that stupid garbage
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Coolppl Owns
06/04/17 6:35:38 PM
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MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
Coolppl Owns posted...
MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.


you're way too available

dont know why you're even bothering with this chick tbh, flaky girls should be auto nexted for any dude who values their time


K, whatever you say player


Well do you value your time or not
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Lost_All_Senses
06/04/17 7:59:31 PM
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Comfirmed too scared to actually make a move
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umax555
06/04/17 8:24:34 PM
#20:


GAMER_X_REVIVAL posted...
Chicks (for the most part sadly) are ****in crazy and treat love like a game, they like to play head games and reverse psychology works way too well, everythings ass backwards logic and obnoxious bs. One of the main reasons I'm more than happy to be single and not even be bothered, already had my fill of relationships long and short term and the god awful dating game BS

As hard as it might be, just flat out start ignoring her. If she finally comes around once she realizes shes being ignored, be too busy the first few weeks if she mentions a time she's free, then the next one if she suggest a time again assert yourself and say when you're actually free, she can take it or leave it. Sadly some women need to be told what day they're free, because they can't make up their own damn minds, or even worse, they want to be told and ordered around smdh

God I wish there were more sane down to earth women out there that didn't require all the head game bull, I don't have time for that stupid garbage


To be fair, guys can be just as bad.

But I agree with TC, flaky girls are the worst. If a girl is flaking a lot it pretty much means you're the backup plan if no other plans come up.
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AsucaHayashi
06/04/17 8:30:28 PM
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girls get off on attention.

deal with it and move on tbh.
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SomeLikeItHoth
06/04/17 8:30:38 PM
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MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.

Cringe af. Trying way too hard dude.
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Lost_All_Senses
06/04/17 9:41:03 PM
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SomeLikeItHoth posted...
MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.

Cringe af. Trying way too hard dude.


Just asking to be friend zoned. He continues to ignore the advice of actually growing balls and setting it straight like a man.
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SK8T3R215
06/04/17 9:42:51 PM
#24:


MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
Colorahdo posted...
Spoilers: She's not that into you


Did you read my post or did you not read my post


Its literally that she's not into you hth
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SomeLikeItHoth
06/04/17 10:12:13 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
SomeLikeItHoth posted...
MildlyIrkedOwl posted...
So I've basically just said "K, I'm free every day this week except friday. Pick a day :)"

I'll leave it at that. Not going to chase a girl that's not even going to try.

Cringe af. Trying way too hard dude.


Just asking to be friend zoned.

Oh definitely. If a girl is interested in you then it won't take much effort at all. Making yourself readily available to her reeks of desperation.
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