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XT3M3
06/02/17 1:28:46 PM
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Lets meet I said great. We decided to meet downtown and had some great conversations. Walking and store windows shopping. She mentioned how she love many things she saw on the store windows and those were her dreams to have one day(not from me).

We then decided to go and eat something. She picked this very fancy restaurant and the food was expensive, but I most say it was excellent. She got the most expensive food on the menu. The waiter come with one bill and give it to me (she smile and said thanks). I go, I'm sorry to the waiter, but we are just friend not a couple. Can you give us two separates bills please. She gives me this weird look(very upset). She then said that she didn't have enough money on her to pay. If I don't mind to pay and she will pay me back (Yeah right).

I loved this part. I'm Sorry, but I never lend money to friends, because I believe it is the worst thing one can do and that I would like to continue to have her as a friend. She suddenly took her credit card out and she pay her share. She never call or message me again and never answer my messages. What happen with the friendship today? or a men can't have a women as a friend unless he pay everything


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Coolppl Owns
06/02/17 1:32:23 PM
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MGTOW is a good place
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Darkman124
06/02/17 1:33:27 PM
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seems real

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06/02/17 1:36:42 PM
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hitokoriX
06/02/17 1:40:37 PM
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How did she try and 'use' him? They went on what sounds like a date if she expected him to pay.
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Pastryarchy
06/02/17 1:40:41 PM
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This does actually happen, so it should not be surprising to see posts about it online.


However, it should not be used as an indicator that all women are like this.
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.
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Darkman124
06/02/17 1:41:24 PM
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Pastryarchy posted...
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.


Indeed. Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

It shows that sex really is very commodified by everyone.
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Returning_CEmen
06/02/17 1:42:49 PM
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Reads like a 3rd grader wrote that.
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Coolppl Owns
06/02/17 1:48:15 PM
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Darkman124 posted...
Pastryarchy posted...
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.


Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

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Esrac
06/02/17 1:51:29 PM
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Darkman124 posted...
Pastryarchy posted...
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.


Indeed. Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

It shows that sex really is very commodified by everyone.


I've overheard quite a few women who have gone on dates with men they weren't attracted to because they were hungry. Or wanted to try a new restaurant without paying for it.

You can over hear a lot when you work around mostly women. I've heard female coworkers talk about dates and guys and their policy around dating. Of the ones I've heard, they all pretty much agreed that a guy isn't boyfriend material if he doesn't pay for everything on dates. It's a huge turn off if they have to split a bill.

One woman was talking about how, after she and her ex husband divorced, she went out on a lot of dates and had strung this one guy along for half a dozen expensive dinners with no intention of getting sexually or seriously romantically involved with him.

So, I think I can really understand how the fear men may have for being exploited by women for their resources is justifiable.
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Damn_Underscore
06/02/17 1:54:13 PM
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Why don't feminists talk about women using men for free food?
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Paper_Okami
06/02/17 1:55:13 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
Why don't feminists talk about women using men for free food?


I went on a couple dates in college with a girl who described herself as a feminist, we both paid for our own stuff every time, and we didn't even talk about it.
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im not 13
06/02/17 1:57:07 PM
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Happened to me once or twice. It's just how the game goes.
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Esrac
06/02/17 1:57:31 PM
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kewldude475 posted...
Darkman124 posted...
Pastryarchy posted...
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.


Indeed. Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

It shows that sex really is very commodified by everyone.

Yeah this mentality is horribly straining when it comes to relationships, but you're absolutely correct and it's very real. Everyone is afraid of being used or left behind.


It's kind of the natural state of things. Sex is a commodity that, historically, women could trade to men for resources. Or families could trade to other families for alliances and resource exchange through a marriage contract.

Getting into more naturalistic shit, if you give a male monkey a bunch of extra food, what do you think he's going to do with it? He'll immediately trade it to a female monkey for sex.
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Coolppl Owns
06/02/17 2:00:09 PM
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Esrac posted...
Darkman124 posted...
Pastryarchy posted...
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.


Indeed. Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

It shows that sex really is very commodified by everyone.


I've overheard quite a few women who have gone on dates with men they weren't attracted to because they were hungry. Or wanted to try a new restaurant without paying for it.

You can over hear a lot when you work around mostly women. I've heard female coworkers talk about dates and guys and their policy around dating. Of the ones I've heard, they all pretty much agreed that a guy isn't boyfriend material if he doesn't pay for everything on dates. It's a huge turn off if they have to split a bill.

One woman was talking about how, after she and her ex husband divorced, she went out on a lot of dates and had strung this one guy along for half a dozen expensive dinners with no intention of getting sexually or seriously romantically involved with him.

So, I think I can really understand how the fear men may have for being exploited by women for their resources is justifiable.


tje women who don't think you're bf material because you didn't pay for everything aren't worth keeping around

but really, who would turn down a free meal? shit I'd do that all the time if I had the opportunity.. And just because you decide to pay for dinner doesn't entitle you to her vagina or a romantic relationship with a woman. Be charming and attractive and make her want to want you.
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deupd_u
06/02/17 2:01:05 PM
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hitokoriX posted...
How did she try and 'use' him? They went on what sounds like a date if she expected him to pay.

Shhhh. This is like those $5 romantic novels in the grocery store with Fabio on the cover, except for men.
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Error1355
06/02/17 2:01:18 PM
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CE has such a healthy view on women.
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The Admiral
06/02/17 2:03:29 PM
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Why is it written in broken English?
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Leight_Weight
06/02/17 2:04:51 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Reads like a 3rd grader wrote that.

Yeah. Fuck that.
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ClockworkHare
06/02/17 2:05:10 PM
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Just a theory, but English was probably not the first language of the poster.

Elementary level students of the language (regardless of age) typically sound similar to American grade schoolers.
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darkphoenix181
06/02/17 2:05:51 PM
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Damn_Underscore posted...
Why don't feminists talk about women using men for free food?


they do

they call it the wage gap

aka women can't eat because the patriarchy don't pay enough
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Esrac
06/02/17 2:06:18 PM
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Coolppl Owns posted...
Esrac posted...
Darkman124 posted...
Pastryarchy posted...
And some men demonstrate similar tactics; it's just more often about ditching the woman after sex.


Indeed. Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

It shows that sex really is very commodified by everyone.


I've overheard quite a few women who have gone on dates with men they weren't attracted to because they were hungry. Or wanted to try a new restaurant without paying for it.

You can over hear a lot when you work around mostly women. I've heard female coworkers talk about dates and guys and their policy around dating. Of the ones I've heard, they all pretty much agreed that a guy isn't boyfriend material if he doesn't pay for everything on dates. It's a huge turn off if they have to split a bill.

One woman was talking about how, after she and her ex husband divorced, she went out on a lot of dates and had strung this one guy along for half a dozen expensive dinners with no intention of getting sexually or seriously romantically involved with him.

So, I think I can really understand how the fear men may have for being exploited by women for their resources is justifiable.


tje women who don't think you're bf material because you didn't pay for everything aren't worth keeping around

but really, who would turn down a free meal? shit I'd do that all the time if I had the opportunity.. And just because you decide to pay for dinner doesn't entitle you to her vagina or a romantic relationship with a woman. Be charming and attractive and make her want to want you.


Don't be a dipshit.

No one said paying for dinner entitles a man to his date's vagina or relationship status. But we live in a society where that's a standard part of the courtship process. If a woman keeps going on dates with a guy just for free food and has no intention of being romantic with him when he's looking for a girlfriend, she's exploiting his good intentions. I think most can agree that's a kinda shitty thing to do.
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Mernardi
06/02/17 2:07:37 PM
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Thanks TC for letting me update my tag list.
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im not 13
06/02/17 2:08:41 PM
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You should be able to deduce if a girl is a gold digger by maximum 2 dates

Anything after you are just fooling yourself.
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The Admiral
06/02/17 2:09:43 PM
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Esrac posted...
Don't be a dipshit.

No one said paying for dinner entitles a man to his date's vagina or relationship status. But we live in a society where that's a standard part of the courtship process. If a woman keeps going on dates with a guy just for free food and has no intention of being romantic with him when he's looking for a girlfriend, she's exploiting his good intentions. I think most can agree that's a kinda shitty thing to do.


The guy also doesn't have to keep taking her out to dinners, BTW. If I've ever gotten the idea that a girl was using the dates for anything and wasn't really interested in me, I either cancelled them or immediately downgraded them to drinks at an affordable place. This is rare, but it does happen occasionally.
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sylverlolol
06/02/17 2:10:49 PM
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admiral still talking like he has game, lel
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darkphoenix181
06/02/17 2:11:58 PM
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sylverlolol posted...
admiral still talking like he has game, lel


when he says "liberals" it makes many a woman wet

don't deny it
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The Admiral
06/02/17 2:12:56 PM
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sylverlolol posted...
admiral still talking like he has game, lel


Don't hate the player, buddy.
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Pogo_Marimo
06/02/17 2:13:21 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Reads like a 3rd grader wrote that.

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HippopotamusRex
06/02/17 2:24:30 PM
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Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?
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averagejoel
06/02/17 2:26:14 PM
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Returning_CEmen posted...
Reads like a 3rd grader wrote that.

of course it does - it's MGTOW.
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Mernardi
06/02/17 2:26:49 PM
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averagejoel posted...
Returning_CEmen posted...
Reads like a 3rd grader wrote that.

of course it does - it's MGTOW.

Lmao nice
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The Admiral
06/02/17 2:27:56 PM
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HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?
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The Catgirl Fondler
06/02/17 2:31:11 PM
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Women fear being used for sex. Men fear being used for resources.

Pretty much this.

It's why I don't fault anyone for wanting to stay out of the dating game, the risk of exploitation is there regardless of your gender.
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HippopotamusRex
06/02/17 2:33:08 PM
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The Admiral posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?


No, because you're a willfully obtuse traditionalist and you think you can just 'man up' and fix it.

It's more the way he said it. In what world do you pick a lead moderator for a site that will go and behave like this to everyone on one side of an issue and just throw flames all over the board? Like seriously, what kind of site representative is that? At least have the foresight NOT to attach an official site pr account to such a post like that.
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ThePieReborn
06/02/17 2:34:55 PM
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The boot fits in this instance, though.
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averagejoel
06/02/17 2:36:46 PM
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HippopotamusRex posted...
The Admiral posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?


No, because you're a willfully obtuse traditionalist and you think you can just 'man up' and fix it.

It's more the way he said it. In what world do you pick a lead moderator for a site that will go and behave like this to everyone on one side of an issue and just throw flames all over the board? Like seriously, what kind of site representative is that? At least have the foresight NOT to attach an official site pr account to such a post like that.

MGTOW is not a legitimate side of an issue and does not deserve to be treated as such
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pinky0926
06/02/17 2:36:51 PM
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This kind of thing is really shitty and definitely does happen, but MGTOW...really? Awful fucking place/idea/cult.
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pinky0926
06/02/17 2:40:20 PM
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HippopotamusRex posted...
The Admiral posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?


No, because you're a willfully obtuse traditionalist and you think you can just 'man up' and fix it.

It's more the way he said it. In what world do you pick a lead moderator for a site that will go and behave like this to everyone on one side of an issue and just throw flames all over the board? Like seriously, what kind of site representative is that? At least have the foresight NOT to attach an official site pr account to such a post like that.


I think you're vastly overestimating the importance a voluntary video game message board post checker needs to place on "professionalism". Right now you're acting like the mother who complains to see the manager at the sunday village lemonade stand.
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HippopotamusRex
06/02/17 2:40:46 PM
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averagejoel posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
The Admiral posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?


No, because you're a willfully obtuse traditionalist and you think you can just 'man up' and fix it.

It's more the way he said it. In what world do you pick a lead moderator for a site that will go and behave like this to everyone on one side of an issue and just throw flames all over the board? Like seriously, what kind of site representative is that? At least have the foresight NOT to attach an official site pr account to such a post like that.

MGTOW is not a legitimate side of an issue and does not deserve to be treated as such


It's extremely legitimate. Of course if you aren't willing to listen you're making the problem worse. I guarantee you haven't listened to the complaints they have. There's a behavioral structure embedded in the male psyche where they are rewarded for not complaining. So most men know what is going on is bullshit, but they'll either stay silent or give platitudes (or snap like the rare cases of men getting violent which will become more problem as this gets worse). Males are rewarded for shutting up, women are rewarded for complaining, and that formula doesn't change when women get the upper hand. Which creates disaster the further it slides in that direction. Which is what society is seeing now.
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dave_is_slick
06/02/17 2:40:56 PM
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kewldude475 posted...
im not 13 posted...
Happened to me once or twice. It's just how the game goes.

Don't be a lame you know the game and how it goes

We tryna get chose

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HippopotamusRex
06/02/17 2:41:57 PM
#45:


pinky0926 posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
The Admiral posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?


No, because you're a willfully obtuse traditionalist and you think you can just 'man up' and fix it.

It's more the way he said it. In what world do you pick a lead moderator for a site that will go and behave like this to everyone on one side of an issue and just throw flames all over the board? Like seriously, what kind of site representative is that? At least have the foresight NOT to attach an official site pr account to such a post like that.


I think you're vastly overestimating the importance a voluntary video game message board post checker needs to place on "professionalism". Right now you're acting like the mother who complains to see the manager at the sunday village lemonade stand.


I'm more offended by his incredible lack of intelligence for actually putting that comment forward more than the content of the message itself. It's like JK Rowling posting a stupid twitter message or Donald Trump doing one. It's more offensive that someone that high up could think it's a good idea to go through with the process than the actual singular message itself.
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Mernardi
06/02/17 2:42:03 PM
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Goddamn this topic got neckbeardy. Oh well, it's great for updating my tag list!
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AlephZero
06/02/17 2:43:14 PM
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can't wait for vr to advance to the point where interacting with real women is no longer necessary

one day ill enter the virtual world for good and never leave the house again
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06/02/17 2:44:01 PM
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HippopotamusRex
06/02/17 2:44:34 PM
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Mernardi posted...
Goddamn this topic got neckbeardy. Oh well, it's great for updating my tag list!


Yeah thanks for helping me update mine too. You totally added to the conversation here. Non facetiously. My life will actually contain a net positive by not being able to see your posts in the future.

(By the way, Golden Sun is a shit game.)
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The Admiral
06/02/17 2:44:37 PM
#50:


HippopotamusRex posted...
averagejoel posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
The Admiral posted...
HippopotamusRex posted...
Error1355 posted...
CE has such a healthy view on women.


Seriously? Have you any idea of the current gender climate and the problems men are going through? How in the world did you become a lead moderator with an attitude like that?


I'm ignorant to these problems too. Can you enlighten me?


No, because you're a willfully obtuse traditionalist and you think you can just 'man up' and fix it.

It's more the way he said it. In what world do you pick a lead moderator for a site that will go and behave like this to everyone on one side of an issue and just throw flames all over the board? Like seriously, what kind of site representative is that? At least have the foresight NOT to attach an official site pr account to such a post like that.

MGTOW is not a legitimate side of an issue and does not deserve to be treated as such


It's extremely legitimate. Of course if you aren't willing to listen you're making the problem worse. I guarantee you haven't listened to the complaints they have. There's a behavioral structure embedded in the male psyche where they are rewarded for not complaining. So most men know what is going on is bullshit, but they'll either stay silent or give platitudes (or snap like the rare cases of men getting violent which will become more problem as this gets worse). Males are rewarded for shutting up, women are rewarded for complaining, and that formula doesn't change when women get the upper hand. Which creates disaster the further it slides in that direction. Which is what society is seeing now.


You sound like Elliot Rodger with this deliberately vague talk that asserts an injustice you can't seem to explain.
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