Current Events > I think my friend's girl has been hitting on me all night. What do? >.>

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First it was the three of us at the hookah bar.

My friend was a little sick and threw up, insisted I take him home so I did while she waited there for me, I came back and she called me and we decided to chill alone upon her suggestion.

Immediately shit became way more nice, opened up, started talking more, kept leaning in to show me every little thing on her phone and got real close. I flirted back noticeably, let her "borrow" one of my hand spinner things, talked about our lives and yeah.

So after we sat in my car alone with her, waiting for her bf, and we were singing songs together. After he got in the car he was visibly kinda upset seeing but lightened up quick, I made sure to include him and stuff and he was cool with everything. We were all listening to music.

And then my phone popped up a text from "MyRebecca" (my GF) she very notably cursed and said something like don't fucking care wtf and smiled at me. I smiled back with an "oh shit" kinda smile while he looked shocked, defeated, and just miserable.

Am I reading this wrong CE, or is she just gonna be a good friend? <.<
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pics
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You need to let him know.
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She's looking for a bull.
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HaVeNII7 posted...

You need to let him know.

Let me put it this way.

If somehow, he didn't know, after what she said when I got that text...

He is probably worse than a ceman at reading girls
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itachi15243 posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

You need to let him know.

Let me put it this way.

If somehow, he didn't know, after what she said when I got that text...

He is probably worse than a ceman at reading girls

Maybe I read it wrong. I read it as you got a text and she said who cares who it is.

She saw it was your girl then? If so, yeah that's obvious lol.

If that's the case you need to decide which of them is more important to you, because you can't have both at this point.
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HaVeNII7 posted...

itachi15243 posted...

HaVeNII7 posted...

You need to let him know.

Let me put it this way.

If somehow, he didn't know, after what she said when I got that text...

He is probably worse than a ceman at reading girls

Maybe I read it wrong. I read it as you got a text and she said who cares who it is.

She saw it was your girl then? If so, yeah that's obvious lol.

If that's the case you need to decide which of them is more important to you, because you can't have both at this point.

It was clear as day that it was my girlfriend. It read, very loudly "text from My Rebecca Heart" (I have a <3 next to her name and I mentioned earlier I had a gf) and she very clearly over that and the music swore about how she did care who they were and they didn't matter and inched towards me, putting her hand d near mine on the clutch with one hand, took my phone with the other, smiled at me and put on a new song.

Like it shocked the shit out of both me and him. I've never heard her tell either, like shit it was louder than the music that was shaking the car.

I promised I'd see them both tomorrow with a group of friends and get him after work again. I'm not sure what to do. Honestly I'd probably pick her, but I feel kinda bad if it does happen.
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All I can say is tread carefully, TC.
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Dragonblade01 posted...

All I can say is tread carefully, TC.

I know, I'm just like shit, I didn't see this coming. Last weekend when we were out clubbing, she danced with me for most of the night, until she got her bf to dance, but I didn't expect this, not that I'm complaining. Definitely not complaining about her. I like her a lot tbh.

The only issue is her bf who's kinda a friend, and my best friend has a crush on her too and I'd definitely get with her, but then my circle of friends too. Like damn.

Idk exactly what to do.
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Also just for note of CE she is definitely hot.

Should I just go with whatever the flow is tomorrow? >.>
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Is she hot
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go for her
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you dont need friends when you have a gf
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itachi15243 posted...

What do?

Her butt.
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She'll cuck you too when she gets bored.

Question is, how good a friend is he?

SomeLikeItHoth posted...

Is she hot

Yes, very.

Keith_Valentine posted...

She'll cuck you too when she gets bored.

Question is, how good a friend is he?

Like we used too hang out for a while but we just started chilling again and he's cool and shit but I'm honestly way closer to her than him.

But what about my best friend of ten years who has like a die hard crush on her

Honestly I see that as a possibility. I guess it kinda makes sense though. I'm taller, more fit, make more money, and she really likes my art. Maybe I'm just overthinking it or thinking too much of it idk.

She's gonna call me tomorrow, and we're going to hang out with a group of people. It'll be a group that knows him well though, so it gonna be kinda awkward if she like all close and glued too me tomorrow again. Not that I wouldn't mind.

stoltenberg11 posted...

go for her

Honestly the more I think about it the more I want to.
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Does CE halve any more advice or am I probably probably&#8203; going good it tomorrow.

I kinda feel like a snake or something.

Not saying it feels bad or something&#8203; though.
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Your best friend sounds like he has almost 0 chance with her, so ignore how he feels about it. 'Sides if he's really your friend he will be happy that you're happy (tho I know this is rarely how it works out in these situations). But yolo and such, so go for her.
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Gonna need to see some pics in order to give advice.
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I mean, it's your call if you want to risk the relationship with your two bros. If you're looking for an actual relationship with the girl though, I'd definitely recommend she break up before hooking up with you.
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stoltenberg11 posted...

Your best friend sounds like he has almost 0 chance with her, so ignore how he feels about it. 'Sides if he's really your friend he will be happy that you're happy (tho I know this is rarely how it works out in these situations). But yolo and such, so go for her.

Good point, I'm going for it.

Gamer99z posted...

Gonna need to see some pics in order to give advice.

She has the picture of us on her phone and I know some CEmen live around here. >.>

If it goes anywhere tomorrow I'll post pics of her.
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Another thing to consider is how it would make you feel if the situation were reversed.
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How old are you? This sounds like you are really young. I say you just find your own girl, oh wait didn't you say you already had a gf? What are you doing?
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Dragonblade01 posted...

Another thing to consider is how it would make you feel if the situation were reversed.

I've been there and it sucks

Her boyfriend kinda halfway ignores her though, tbh.

I'm just gonna go with it tomorrow.
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She sounds like a piece of shit. If you two become a thing, she'll just go after the next dude that's more fit and well off than you are behind your back.

If you dont want to be friends with the guy, bang her once and move on.

Otherwise, don't fall for her advances and remain friends with both of them.

If you try doing anything even remotely long term with her you'll just end up being as miserable as her boyfriend currently is.
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Sativa_Rose posted...

How old are you? This sounds like you are really young. I say you just find your own girl, oh wait didn't you say you already had a gf? What are you doing?

I'm 23.

Most of us are in college, but pretty much all of us have known each other on and off for a while.

And probably fucking up my life for a while. I don't know, it just feels right, like if it happens it happens and I'm just reading too much into it. Maybe she just wants to get him jealous.

And my GF lives states away and I think I might be into this girl. I'm a horrible person I guess.
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Well remember that proximity is the #1 factor in attraction. You are attracted to her because she's around a lot. You could change that by not being around her a lot, or by being around other girls instead. Also long distance only works if both people are super into it.
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Chicken posted...

She sounds like a piece of shit. If you two become a thing, she'll just go after the next dude that's more fit and well off than you are behind your back.

If you dont want to be friends with the guy, bang her once and move on.

Otherwise, don't fall for her advances and remain friends with both of them.

If you try doing anything even remotely long term with her you'll just end up being as miserable as her boyfriend currently is.

Good point. I'll see how it plays out and see if she's just like this or it really is his fault.
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Sativa_Rose posted...

Well remember that proximity is the #1 factor in attraction. You are attracted to her because she's around a lot. You could change that by not being around her a lot, or by being around other girls instead. Also long distance only works if both people are super into it.

She's legit attractive though

Like I said, we'll see what happens tomorrow.
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This is the type of dick shit that causes mad drama and then people around you all stop fucking with you.

Don't shit where you eat.
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DoctorVader posted...

This is the type of dick shit that causes mad drama and then people around you all stop fucking with you.

Don't shit where you eat.

This, tbh

Like, not only are you banging your friends girlfriend, but you're cheating on your own gf.

If people find out, don't be surprised when they drop your ass.

Also, hand spinners? The fuck dude
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Blue_Dream87 posted...

Also, hand spinners? The fuck dude

Not surprised he's involved in the EDM scene >_>
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Blue_Dream87 posted...

DoctorVader posted...

This is the type of dick shit that causes mad drama and then people around you all stop fucking with you.

Don't shit where you eat.

This, tbh

Like, not only are you banging your friends girlfriend, but you're cheating on your own gf.

If people find out, don't be surprised when they drop your ass.

Also, hand spinners? The fuck dude

Alright, I'll take this into consideration

And they're really good for anxiety. I had two and she wanted one. I told her she can have it until she buys her own. Sativa_Rose posted...

Blue_Dream87 posted...

Also, hand spinners? The fuck dude

Not surprised he's involved in the EDM scene >_>

Who said that

When I said clubbing, I meant a normal college club/bar

I'll go to a rave here and there, but not very often. And I'll see how it goes tomorrow and update the topic.

I really doubt I'm gonna fuck her tomorrow guys.
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DoctorVader posted...

This is the type of dick shit that causes mad drama and then people around you all stop fucking with you.

Don't shit where you eat.

This.

1. Don't flirt with your friend's girl.

2. Don't sleep with your friend's girl.

3. DON'T CHEAT ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND


Why would anyone wanna chill with you if you're doing all three of those things?

Use your moral compass, or at least your brain. Stop thinking with your dick.
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I said I'll see how it goes. I'm not gonna pretend I hate her but if she tries leaning her head on my shoulder again I'll point out it's&#8203; kinda weird in front of them probably maybe.

And just so CE knows, a girl breaking up with someone and dating someone else in this group is oddly normal



Actually that makes me think, fuck this group they ditched me for four years to do hard drugs, and are starting to attract her to them.

The only opinions I care about are her and her bf, since I legit like both of them. Maybe my best friend's too.
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Dude, I watched near the same situation go down with my friends. Here's what happened:

The girl broke up with her boyfriend and immediately got with the third wheel. Third Wheel was in turn broken up with (and emotionally cheated on) when Girl missed Boyfriend and got back with him. Third Wheel now has to watch Girl and Boyfriend be happy together and barely talk to him.

You're Third Wheel in this situation, except you would also be cheating on your girl.

itachi15243 posted...

Actually that makes me think, fuck this group they ditched me for four years to do hard drugs, and are starting to attract her to them.

Ironically this sounds like the kind of thing an addict would think to themselves to try to justify stealing from a friend to get high
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TC, if you repeat that she's attactive one more time and you don't post pics, I'm gonna have to tag you.

kewldude475 posted...

Maybe they didn't ditch you, maybe they just got addicted and didn't wanna get you addicted too, since you seem like a nice guy, as evidenced by the fact that you didn't just go ahead and do it regardless of your friend's feelings. In this situation you probably just need to find another girl, that'd eliminate all potential heartache since you're in a friend group.

No, they ditched me because I was prescribed hard drugs and wouldn't share. They tried to upsell shit to me that I didn't even want

And honestly, I feel like the being a good person is why I always get fucked over. I'm starting to think maybe I should say fuck being a good person here or there. I don't even know what I want to do yet.

I will take CES advise somewhat at least and try to make the best choices.
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well what happened bruh
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I just got home. I was with her and a friend. She was being really flirty again.

I got a call from my girlfriend in the car and ignored called back a few minute. I asked her what her opinion on breaking up because my girlfriend is long distance, jealous, untrusting, insecure, clingy, controlling, etc. She said she would end it herself in that situation, and then started hitting on me a lot and way more openly.

Started complementing me, leaning in really close to say anything to me, told a lot of jokes, all sorts of stuff, and now she sits up in the front with me. The only difference is when her bf is around. I guess they had a talk but she tones it down a bit in front of him, but still compliments me out of nowhere and shit.
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Maybe your girlfriend is jealous and untrusting because you're a cheater.

_Rinku_ posted...

Maybe your girlfriend is jealous and untrusting because you're a cheater.

I didn't cheat and never have though
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Does CE have any advice. .

Also, I learned that they haven't been dating long and he her first after a seven year relationship, Soo... Rebound maybe? >.>
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Keith_Valentine posted...

She'll cuck you too when she gets bored.

Manocheese posted...

pics

DDoS posted...

Keith_Valentine posted...

She'll cuck you too when she gets bored.

Manocheese posted...

pics

If this gets to 60 posts, pics.

We're going clubbing tomorrow without her boyfriend, and me and her are the only two of us who dance

So surely dancing with her should be all good right
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what would Obama do
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If you were planning to break up with your current gf then sure might as well go for it.