Current Events > I'm done with online dating, it's just further ruining my self esteem.

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alt4445 05/08/17 10:05:24 AM #1:	I've used Tinder and OKCupid. I've done god knows how many swipes (even subscribed to a 50% off Tinder Plus for 2 months for the unlimited swipes and boosts and shit), sent hundreds upon hundreds of messages on OKC of every kind of message there is. I've gotten matches on Tinder, even fewer replies. The longest convo I had was some girl that wasn't interested in going out (then why the hell you swipe me??). Other convos include matching with girls a month later when I swiped them halfway across the country. And girls that are too far away AND flaked on meeting up. I've gotten some replies on OKC. I had some very short conversations with girls I really wanted to meet. One girl wanted to, and then never replied. The others just didn't ever say anything after some random point. All the other girls just visit my page but never reply. I've gotten some matches on OKC too, but idk. Either they were really fat or there didn't seem like anything substantial to go off of, let alone going through all the effort to meet up and stuff. Idk, I can't stand all the bad luck, matches that never reply, matches that match but don't want to actually meet, all the effort, and then just the pain of girls I think are cool visiting my page after I send a message but never saying anything back (or they just ghost). Ugh --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:878693199] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>I've used Tinder and OKCupid. I've done god knows how many swipes (even subscribed to a 50% off Tinder Plus for 2 months for the unlimited swipes and boosts and shit), sent hundreds upon hundreds of messages on OKC of every kind of message there is. I've gotten matches on Tinder, even fewer replies. The longest convo I had was some girl that wasn't interested in going out (then why the hell you swipe me??). Other convos include matching with girls a month later when I swiped them halfway across the country. And girls that are too far away AND flaked on meeting up. I've gotten some replies on OKC. I had some very short conversations with girls I really wanted to meet. One girl wanted to, and then never replied. The others just didn't ever say anything after some random point. All the other girls just visit my page but never reply. I've gotten some matches on OKC too, but idk. Either they were really fat or there didn't seem like anything substantial to go off of, let alone going through all the effort to meet up and stuff. Idk, I can't stand all the bad luck, matches that never reply, matches that match but don't want to actually meet, all the effort, and then just the pain of girls I think are cool visiting my page after I send a message but never saying anything back (or they just ghost). Ugh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerSlaw 05/08/17 10:06:03 AM #2:	Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost. --- "Wait a minute...If I ever get a hold of you, I will thank you for showing me the futility of human endeavor." <cite>KillerSlaw posted [p:878693215] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
protestTHEhero 05/08/17 10:06:28 AM #3:	Women are odd; take a break. <cite>protestTHEhero posted [p:878693230] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>Women are odd; take a break.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 05/08/17 10:21:13 AM #4:	KillerSlaw posted... Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost. Like? --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:878693849] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerSlaw posted...</cite> <quote>Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost.</quote> Like?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
green butter 05/08/17 10:23:49 AM #5:	tinder is a game, not a dating service --- http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif <cite>green butter posted [p:878693958] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>tinder is a game, not a dating service</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerSlaw 05/08/17 10:26:20 AM #6:	alt4445 posted... KillerSlaw posted... Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost. Like? match.com zoosk eharmony --- "Wait a minute...If I ever get a hold of you, I will thank you for showing me the futility of human endeavor." <cite>KillerSlaw posted [p:878694047] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerSlaw posted...</cite> <quote>Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost.</quote> Like?</quote> match.com zoosk eharmony</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
deanshow 05/08/17 10:27:02 AM #7:	You should fuck the girls in the ass teach them a lesson --- Will not change this sig until Tommy Wiseau wins an Oscar (Started 12-21-2014) <cite>deanshow posted [p:878694085] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>You should fuck the girls in the ass teach them a lesson</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
l Dudeboy l 05/08/17 10:34:29 AM #8:	Tinder is a waste of time for men. The majority of women on there are either just looking for a boost to their self esteem, or have extremely high standards, because they know it's their market. --- You are now breathing manually. Lets put a little lead in the air, and see what falls over. <cite>l Dudeboy l posted [p:878694399] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>Tinder is a waste of time for men. The majority of women on there are either just looking for a boost to their self esteem, or have extremely high standards, because they know it's their market.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
drunkmuggle 05/08/17 10:34:51 AM #9:	green butter posted... tinder is a game, not a dating service --- http://i.imgur.com/JFmtaHB.gif http://i.imgur.com/jKuSyKI.jpg <cite>drunkmuggle posted [p:878694416] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>green butter posted...</cite> <quote>tinder is a game, not a dating service</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vermander 05/08/17 12:13:52 PM #10:	l Dudeboy l posted... Tinder is a waste of time for men. The majority of women on there are either just looking for a boost to their self esteem, or have extremely high standards, because they know it's their market. drunkmuggle posted... green butter posted... tinder is a game, not a dating service This, never approach Tinder seriously, it will ruin you. Thenonly exception to this is if you are that 5% man who is filthy rich or you look like Matt Bomer. --- 3DS FC: 4312 - 9992 - 0441 <cite>Vermander posted [p:878699400] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>l Dudeboy l posted...</cite> <quote>Tinder is a waste of time for men. The majority of women on there are either just looking for a boost to their self esteem, or have extremely high standards, because they know it's their market.</quote> <cite>drunkmuggle posted...</cite> <quote><cite>green butter posted...</cite> <quote>tinder is a game, not a dating service</quote></quote> This, never approach Tinder seriously, it will ruin you. Thenonly exception to this is if you are that 5% man who is filthy rich or you look like Matt Bomer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 05/09/17 2:24:51 PM #11:	KillerSlaw posted... match.com zoosk eharmony Are these actually good for young people (aka mid 20s)? They're always advertised for older people. Also, I feel like girls on there might be even more likely to be weird or whatever than a free dating service. Reason being is that pretty much any girl who is moderately attractive and even a little cool can get a guy easily, either IRL or online, and have hundreds of options for free, so why would they feel the need to pay for a service? I'm sure they get a lot of dumbass messages from guys because guys are also making use of a free service, so maybe it's worth it for girls to use a paid service where the guys are more serious, but they are absolutely bound to get several serious (and cool) guys on these free sites too. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:878771614] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerSlaw posted...</cite> <quote>match.com zoosk eharmony</quote> Are these actually good for young people (aka mid 20s)? They're always advertised for older people. Also, I feel like girls on there might be even more likely to be weird or whatever than a free dating service. Reason being is that pretty much any girl who is moderately attractive and even a little cool can get a guy easily, either IRL or online, and have hundreds of options for free, so why would they feel the need to pay for a service? I'm sure they get a lot of dumbass messages from guys because guys are also making use of a free service, so maybe it's worth it for girls to use a paid service where the guys are more serious, but they are absolutely bound to get several serious (and cool) guys on these free sites too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mattnd2007 05/09/17 2:27:14 PM #12:	Online dating is bullshit. At least any of the free ones. Maybe paid services are better, I haven't tried any --- go join the "expletive not allowed" nazis then. you "expletive not allowed" psycho- Spudger 01/15/17 <cite>mattnd2007 posted [p:878771761] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>Online dating is bullshit. At least any of the free ones. Maybe paid services are better, I haven't tried any</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MACisBack 05/09/17 2:27:32 PM #13:	what about asking a woman out in real life instead of using an app? --- "There is wife assisted suicide. Get married and every day you die a little more" -teltec http://i.imgur.com/8snn2TX.jpg <cite>MACisBack posted [p:878771781] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>what about asking a woman out in real life instead of using an app?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NathanX95 05/09/17 2:31:35 PM #14:	Are you good looking tc? <cite>NathanX95 posted [p:878772019] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>Are you good looking tc?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lightsasori 05/09/17 2:34:17 PM #15:	Online dating doesn't work because people will only pick you and date you if you're good looking the majority of the time. --- "Yare yare daze" ~ Jotaro Kujo "Children are pure, they know who's the strongest." ~ MaskDeSmith <cite>Lightsasori posted [p:878772202] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>Online dating doesn't work because people will only pick you and date you if you're good looking the majority of the time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
alt4445 05/09/17 2:47:39 PM #16:	MACisBack posted... what about asking a woman out in real life instead of using an app? I turned to online dating because nothing IRL was happening for me either. I got a number of rejections, a number of missed opportunities, and a lot of flakes. NathanX95 posted... Are you good looking tc? Evidently not, but I guess I'm average? I've posted my pic online before, and depending on the angle/lighting/etc, people have very mixed opinions. If I look serious and a bad pic, people say I look like I'm gonna murder them. If I smile and/or the pic is shot not-garbagely, then people say looks is definitely not my problem (and "omg u made me gay"). My guy friends and some irl girls have said that they dont think there's anything wrong with my looks or whatever. --- [prototype invisible font] <cite>alt4445 posted [p:878773003] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>MACisBack posted...</cite> <quote>what about asking a woman out in real life instead of using an app?</quote> I turned to online dating because nothing IRL was happening for me either. I got a number of rejections, a number of missed opportunities, and a lot of flakes. <cite>NathanX95 posted...</cite> <quote>Are you good looking tc?</quote> Evidently not, but I guess I'm average? I've posted my pic online before, and depending on the angle/lighting/etc, people have very mixed opinions. If I look serious and a bad pic, people say I look like I'm gonna murder them. If I smile and/or the pic is shot not-garbagely, then people say looks is definitely not my problem (and "omg u made me gay"). My guy friends and some irl girls have said that they dont think there's anything wrong with my looks or whatever.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EdgeMaster 05/09/17 3:31:03 PM #17:	l Dudeboy l posted... Tinder is a waste of time for men. The majority of women on there are either just looking for a boost to their self esteem, or have extremely high standards, because they know it's their market. You're giving giving them too much credit lol. Many attractive girls have a tinder account only for an ego boost and to further their options. The ones that have extremely high standards don't know it's their market lol. They just haven't realized that they actually aren't pretty and have a plethora of deal breakers despite the amount of messages they get, usually from guys not much better. If they did realize this, they would have an account for attention and be able to pull the guys they are searching for offline. --- If you don't have anything nice to say, say it on the internet. ****poster Extraordinaire <cite>EdgeMaster posted [p:878775546] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>l Dudeboy l posted...</cite> <quote>Tinder is a waste of time for men. The majority of women on there are either just looking for a boost to their self esteem, or have extremely high standards, because they know it's their market.</quote> You're giving giving them too much credit lol. Many attractive girls have a tinder account only for an ego boost and to further their options. The ones that have extremely high standards don't know it's their market lol. They just haven't realized that they actually aren't pretty and have a plethora of deal breakers despite the amount of messages they get, usually from guys not much better. If they did realize this, they would have an account for attention and be able to pull the guys they are searching for offline.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MACisBack 05/10/17 10:20:57 AM #18:	alt4445 posted... I turned to online dating because nothing IRL was happening for me either. I got a number of rejections, a number of missed opportunities, and a lot of flakes. Well keep at it if you got the momentum, but if you need a breather take one as sometimes when you're not looking for something, something might find you. Good luck to TC! --- "There is wife assisted suicide. Get married and every day you die a little more" -teltec http://i.imgur.com/8snn2TX.jpg <cite>MACisBack posted [p:878824899] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote>I turned to online dating because nothing IRL was happening for me either. I got a number of rejections, a number of missed opportunities, and a lot of flakes.</quote> Well keep at it if you got the momentum, but if you need a breather take one as sometimes when you're not looking for something, something might find you. Good luck to TC!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AugustAdoulin 05/10/17 10:26:51 AM #19:	sounds like you're gonna end up alone or with a fat chick TC. Take your pick, those are your options. <cite>AugustAdoulin posted [p:878825154] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>sounds like you're gonna end up alone or with a fat chick TC. Take your pick, those are your options.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowElite86 05/10/17 11:30:06 AM #20:	I met my wife on OKC 10 years ago so I wouldn't say it's complete worthless. Although, I probably wouldn't have met up with her on my own terms if it wasn't for her stalking me retail job at the time. Maybe you can mention where you work and hope that she's a stalker as well? ;) --- GT: ShadowElite86 Fire Emblem Heroes: 9854340417 <cite>ShadowElite86 posted [p:878828175] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>I met my wife on OKC 10 years ago so I wouldn't say it's complete worthless. Although, I probably wouldn't have met up with her on my own terms if it wasn't for her stalking me retail job at the time. Maybe you can mention where you work and hope that she's a stalker as well? ;)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 05/10/17 11:35:15 AM #21:	KillerSlaw posted... alt4445 posted... KillerSlaw posted... Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost. Like? match.com zoosk eharmony lol zoosk --- http://i.imgtc.com/BOhYeOg.jpg <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:878828428] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerSlaw posted...</cite> <quote><cite>alt4445 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KillerSlaw posted...</cite> <quote>Go to a fully paid service where you know people are serious and not just using the service for an ego boost.</quote> Like?</quote> match.com zoosk eharmony</quote> lol zoosk</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 05/10/17 11:37:46 AM #22:	I've had decent success with POF and OKC. Currently seeing someone I met on OKC. --- http://i.imgtc.com/BOhYeOg.jpg <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:878828558] in I'm done w... [t:75324021]...</cite> <quote>I've had decent success with POF and OKC. Currently seeing someone I met on OKC.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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