Current Events > Im an attractive dude, and can't even get a match in Tinder.

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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

There's another pic of me. Interesting y'all think I'm average, tho.

This pic definitely confirms you're average tbqh. It's good to to be confident, but don't get carried away.

Some better clothing could definitely help too. You're a bit overweight seemingly too.
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So much shit talk ITT

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

So much shit talk ITT

Can't help you if you can't take the truth man.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

So much shit talk ITT

It's called an opinion, not shit talking. You're nowhere close to good looking IMO and a lot of people in here seem to think so. It's great that you put yourself on a high pedestal but that doesn't get you too far with women.

Confirmed manlet.
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That beard doesn't work for you imo.

And you're not fat.
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Getting laid isn't about looks most of the time. I've had many woman tell me I'm handsome but I know my flaws as well. It's about making them laugh and feel comfortable. After that day whatever is needed to get laid or try to lay groundwork if you actually want to build something. You're at least average which is definitely enough to get laid pretty much any time you want. Then again, I live in a city so it may be easier around these parts.
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You're better looking than most people here IMO. And at least you show yourself, unafraid of criticism.

buttsncoconuts posted...

i'm not seeing why women should be flocking to you

average at best

Dude is actually pretty good looking.

But even good looking guys have the odds stacked against them online when there's tons of guys messaging even average girls every day

I'd give TC a 7.5

He is handsome to me imo. He just looks a little pudgy and his clothes accentuates that. You look like you just don't care
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TC's good looking enough, probably just boring stuff in his bio.
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Maybe it's just your style TC. Here's a few pics of me. I never really had much trouble during my tinder days.








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itachi15243 posted...

Maybe it's just your style TC. Here's a few pics of me. I never really had much trouble during my tinder days.

You look like you have a tumblr and listen to twenty one pilots. I'd skip yo ass


Jk. Sorta
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iLikeMtnDew posted...

I've been on tinder for a few months now. The first couple months I was matching a ton of girls, most of them were pretty cute. But the last couple weeks I've barely been getting any matches even on below average women. I'm thinking about just deleting my account and starting a new one because I feel if you're a newer account they push you to the front or something. My pictures and bio haven't changed at all so it doesn't make sense why I'm matching with hardly anyone

This is true. I'm actually not even matching with bots anymore, so I know it isn't displaying my profile.
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Vermander posted...

iLikeMtnDew posted...

I've been on tinder for a few months now. The first couple months I was matching a ton of girls, most of them were pretty cute. But the last couple weeks I've barely been getting any matches even on below average women. I'm thinking about just deleting my account and starting a new one because I feel if you're a newer account they push you to the front or something. My pictures and bio haven't changed at all so it doesn't make sense why I'm matching with hardly anyone

This is true. I'm actually not even matching with bots anymore, so I know it isn't displaying my profile.

I think all dating apps do this because Ive noticed this too

Just like every single person. At least 1 will like you back.
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Thx, bros, for the ones that have my back.

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

There's another pic of me. Interesting y'all think I'm average, tho.

I think that rainbow in the background means you are using the wrong app.
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^Y u hate me tho? I love you.

Your personality is the problem, I can tell by your responses. BTW don't hate on your friends just because they got game.

You're a good looking dude, but you seem pretty hostile. Maybe it's a sign tinder isn't for you.

@itachi15243 there's a big difference between you and the tc. You wouldn't necessarily attract the same group he would. Nice pictures though.
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I'll work on my personality. :/ Idk how though

pretty average looking tbh, and you don't come off as likable either based off this topic.
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You guys are missing the point tho, he's not even getting to the conversation so that girls can shut him down for his personality. What's your bio say? Maybe you seem boring?

Tinder is weird tho. I hadn't ever used it, but I set it up when I was in Vegas last year. 2 days there and not a single match. About three months later I re-downloaded it, and about a dozen girls I had matched with in Vegas got pushed through. I was pretty annoyed and haven't bothered with it since.
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5'11" and 180 is 25.1 BMI... do you work out? You don't really look overweight, but maybe you have some muscle underneath?


What I think would help you:

Good pics. Make sure none look tryhard, though.
- Dog pic (overused now but still it's better than nothing).
- Pic with a few friends so they know you don't go on GameFAQs 24/7.
- Pic in nice clothes.
- Pic doing something really adventurous. Skydiving, rock climbing, at the top of a mountain, etc.

Wear nice clothes in the pics. No $5 T-shirts anymore unless you're trying to show off your arms.

Your beard overpowers your head rn so you shouldn't overemphasize it.

I would also photoshop out the acne marks on your cheeks. The girls on tinder do it, so it's fair game if you do it, too.
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Thanks, boo and sfgiants. I think I should move on to legit dating apps

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Thanks, boo and sfgiants. I think I should move on to legit dating apps

Fix your personality first and don't think you're hot shit which you're clearly not. After that you'll do just fine.

~_~haters. Nice pic of you, btw. :/

Nothing less attractive than when someone (especially a dude) calls themselves attractive especially when they are rather average looking...just saying this, you know, as a friend, don't take it too hard.

Confidence is good though.
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Could be you need something more interesting in your bio to help you stand out; but just regarding the profile pic, probably the best thing you could do is dress a bit nicer. A good sense of style goes a long way.
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Posting your pics on a videogame site and asking for an opinion, LMAO.

If you're trying to get a girl, go to a college party/club/bar, don't use an app.

Also, fucking smile.
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JDuncs posted...

average which is definitely enough to get laid pretty much any time you want.

*sigh* I suck at life.
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You need a shirtless pic. It's practically a requirement on tinder these days.
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i need a beard like that
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You are definitely overselling yourself on the looks.

It's simply not enough to just sit there and let them come to you. Gotta work your actual game.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Thanks, boo and sfgiants. I think I should move on to legit dating apps

What app is that? ChristianMingle? Bumble?

Any way you slice it, you're gonna need some good pics for apps/dating sites.
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There was a TED talk about someone using a data sciencey approach to Tinder. Among other things they learned that the optimal profile had around 90 words. Writing more isn't writing better. What turns people off isn't just your looks - it's the type photos and what's written in your profile.
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sfgiants posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Thanks, boo and sfgiants. I think I should move on to legit dating apps

What app is that? ChristianMingle? Bumble?

Any way you slice it, you're gonna need some good pics for apps/dating sites.

He is going to move to Grinder I believe.
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scar the 1 posted...

There was a TED talk about someone using a data sciencey approach to Tinder. Among other things they learned that the optimal profile had around 90 words. Writing more isn't writing better. What turns people off isn't just your looks - it's the type photos and what's written in your profile.

I do remember this, it was pretty good.

Anyways tinder shouldn't be taken too seriously.
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Monolith1676 posted...

sfgiants posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Thanks, boo and sfgiants. I think I should move on to legit dating apps

What app is that? ChristianMingle? Bumble?

Any way you slice it, you're gonna need some good pics for apps/dating sites.

He is going to move to Grinder I believe.

Srsly tho - I've never done anything to you. Why are you so hostile?

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Monolith1676 posted...

sfgiants posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Thanks, boo and sfgiants. I think I should move on to legit dating apps

What app is that? ChristianMingle? Bumble?

Any way you slice it, you're gonna need some good pics for apps/dating sites.

He is going to move to Grinder I believe.

Srsly tho - I've never done anything to you. Why are you so hostile?

You mad bro? Don't be mad bro. It is April Fools Day for 30 more minutes.
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Beak.

Tinder is still a thing?

damn it's been so many years already
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That's unfortunate TC just swipe right on everything and you'll eventually get a hit.
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apocalyptic_4 posted...

That's unfortunate TC just swipe right on everything and you'll eventually get a hit.

Thats the whole point of it all