This woman was giving me signs all last week, and I'd definitely do it. I just wanted to know her name though, so one day after work I went up to her co-worker.. He's about 60, and don't really know him at all. He seems kinda grumpy tbh. Anyways, I basically said "what's the ladies name who just left? Girl in produce I think had to ask her something". He said oh, ok. The next day, I saw her there, and she still staring at me, but so was this older lady co worker. Not a good stare either. More like a "you should be ashamed". Did this guy rat me out or something? I have now not seen her since last week. Did I get c*** blocked? Asking because a coworker told me that them three(guy,older lady, and her) are close, and eat lunch together etc. Am I thinking into it too much?
StealThisSheen posted... Sounds like the "signs" weren't signs and now you look pervy.
I doubt that, I've never been wrong in the past, and usually give it a lot of thought before assuming so. All I did was ask her name anyhow. I didn't show any direct signs of interest or w/e.
I think you're underestimating how easy women (especially older women) can read people. Asking for someone's name can only be read in a few ways, and I take it she picked the right one.
Best thing to do now, assuming you'd like to pursue in the future, is try and ignore her for a while.
Westbrick posted... I think you're underestimating how easy women (especially older women) can read people. Asking for someone's name can only be read in a few ways, and I take it she picked the right one.
Best thing to do now, assuming you'd like to pursue in the future, is try and ignore her for a while.
That's the thing. I told him that a lady I work with had to ask her about something. Did he go inspector gadget on my ass and look way into things?
Hell yeah. No, but it's just that I'm sure she cares what they think. Like I said. My coworker said them three are sorta close.. She's been with them there like 3 years.
What's the situation here? Is this woman your co-worker? If so, introducing yourself or at the very least asking her name shouldn't be an awkward affair.
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I don't work in her area, and typically would see her twice a week for an hour or so. Her shift is about to end when I enter work. I have said hello,etc on different occasions. And, damn you TRT :(