Went on a date with a girl tonight, super fun. Went mini golfing and go cart riding. It was awesome, she talked a lot about how she wanted to keep doing stuff and do stuff again and stuff.
So later as I'm driving her home she starts talking about how her ex boyfriend is moving back to the same city that she lives in now. She broke up because he moved to the east coast and she mentioned she still loved him.
I'm sitting there kind of o__o, She said that she probably wouldn't ever date him ever again.
B8, How do I proceed.
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That would be code for: "I like you, there's gonna be some baggage drama, but I'm willing to see what you've got." These types of girls are generally somewhat tough to handle from a relationship standpoint, and are better off being used for sexual purposes.
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be careful here. Girls like this can be extremely clingy (to the point where it's creepy) or kinda fickle and you're never actually sure if you're doing a good job in the relationship.
It'll also depend on how much interaction she has with him once he arrives. If she doesn't see him at all, you're probably okay, if she gets in touch with him, you probably have to worry a bit, and if she actually hangs out with him "as friends" then you should probably break it off before she either dumps you for him or cheats on you with him.
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tell her that there was a girl you were with before who cheated on you with her ex and that both of them have not been found >_>
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From: ImTheMacheteGuy | #012 tell her that there was a girl you were with before who cheated on you with her ex and that both of them have not been found >_>
The fact she even mentioned it to you does have a bright side. While it does show she still is thinking about this and the potential situation it may cause, it also shows that she's at least honest about her feelings. If she was deceptive and planned on just dumping you at a moment's notice for him, it wouldn't have even come up.
I would say (or rather my psychologist wife would say) the next time you see her, talk to her about it. Say to her that you've been thinking about what she said about her ex and what it means to her. Bring up the point that the fact she even mentioned it makes it seem like she thinks there might be potential for something to happen (she never would have said anything otherwise). And let her know honestly how you feel about her, but you also need to know where she stands.
Good luck - kinda of a sucky situation though. =/
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advice there's too soft and only works if YOU want to friend zone her and remain in a good spot. in which case yes, bring it up again and try to reason through it. otherwise just enjoy the relationship but be aware of the baggage. whether you want to deal with it or not depends on how much you like the girl and how she responds. pretty much is just a giant 'play it by ear and be aware that she'll probably **** him."
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She's testing whether you're the beta friendzone shoulder-to-cry-upon type
Will you tolerate her thinking about her ex, saying she loves her ex, going back to her ex? The answer should be no, so if she's worth it, make sure she knows that she can't do any of that.
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