Princess Anri posted... From: ImTheMacheteGuy | #036 just say the fresh prince lyrics but in speech form Man, I want to be the best man at a wedding where I don't care quite as much about the bride and groom because this topic has some dynamite suggestions.
you could pull it off if you change direction at the end, like "that's how I became the fresh pirince of bel-air (or however the end goes). While I was living in bel-air, I met <one of them> and we became very good friends very quickly..." and then keep going on about them.
No matter how strange, awkward or douchey you are, if you change direction without giving the audience the time to react, they'll forget all about it. When I worked at a pizza place, we'd get morons and a******s on the phone all the time. I would frequently politely insult their intelligence but then immediately tell them what the wanted to hear without so much as a pause, and by the end they didn't even seem to realize I had insulted their intelligence.
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None of you know ___ like I do. Not you. Not you. Not you. Not you. Not nobody knows ___ like I do. No one. I cant even tell you what weve been through because we made a pact, more important than blood. What I can tell you is this. This is not ____'s first marriage. There was a whore in Las Vegas....
Gwindor, like I said, it was clear that you know the technical aspect quite well but in the end, I just kept my speech the same because it felt more sincere that way and it was way easier.
And like you said, it's mostly in the delivery and since they saw how close we were, every aspect of the speech was a smashing success.
Thanks for all of the tips, everyone.
PS - I made at least 7 people cry (7 confirmed, possibly more).
-- Congratulations to Rafael Nadal on a Career Golden Slam. - The Mana Sword
For those of you who dont know me, Im Joey, Jareds best man or as I like to say, his hetero lifemate. About ten years ago, in South Dakota, while we were in middle school, the two of us became instant best friends and we were pretty much adopted into each others families. Im not trying to steal any of Jareds thunder on his big day but his mom, Elaine, has been known to call me her favorite son. Out of five sons. But from middle school on we did pretty much everything together. We played soccer together, we played video games together, we did each others hair. Typical guy stuff. You know how it is. Then came our senior year of high school and Katie from the movie theater came into the picture, trying to steal him away. At this point I had my own girlfriend, She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named, and for a lot of people, this could easily be a time where we would start to kind of drift apart. A lot of people graduate high school and kind of go their separate ways but luckily that never happened with us. We all went to South Dakota State University together and became a pretty inseparable group up through the end of our Freshman year. Eventually, She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named had to leave our little group but Jared and Katie supported me and they kept going strong.
So for a while it was just the three of us, going to college, all working at the same restaurant, working at the same movie theater, all sitting in a line in macroeconomics lectures, peaking off each others tests. Along the way, there were a few rough times but Jared and Katie continued to be there for me and of course they were always there for each other. After we all finished college in 2009, Katie moved down here to Texas to do her student teaching. It became pretty clear that there wasnt much left for us in South Dakota. Especially since my family and Jareds family had already headed south. I could have used this as my chance to try and steal Jared back, keep him all to myself, but even I was starting to miss Katie. And I saw how much more Jared was missing her so we quickly packed up our stuff and followed her down here. It didnt take long after we got here for Jared to pop the question. And of course she said yes.
So I figured this was it. We had a good run but this is game over. Katie is gonna kick me to the curb. But were gonna be moving to a new place next month and she insists shes still content to let me live with them and to share Jared just a little bit longer. For now at least. Well see. But I know Im really lucky that my best friend is marrying my other best friend. And even though you didnt ask my permission, Katie, you have my full blessing to marry Jared and I promise you guys arent going to have to take care of me that much longer. Ill be out of your hair soon and you guys can get a dog or have kids or maybe just actually be alone for a while. Ive known you two since the beginning of your relationship and I know you guys are going to be together for a long, long time because like Alesha said, youre just weird enough to be perfect for each other. I am so happy for you guys and I hope that I end up finding someone that compliments me as well you two compliment each other. I wish you both all the best. I love you guys so much and I am proud to be here with you for this. Alright, everyone: To the happy couple, Jared and Katie [last name]. Congratulations.
-- Congratulations to Rafael Nadal on a Career Golden Slam. - The Mana Sword
I ad-libbed quite a bit because there were more people there that I knew than I was expecting so I told a few quick stories/made semi shout-outs to people that I felt should be included in the tale.
-- Congratulations to Rafael Nadal on a Career Golden Slam. - The Mana Sword
Everyone in the wedding party is in my living room right now. But I came into my room to use my computer for like five minutes because it was so hot in there.
Then the maid of honor followed me in here and got on my bed (even though she is staying in the guest room) and asked me to watch The Bachelorette with her.
I declined since she's the bride's best friend and she has a boyfriend.
Figured it might not be a good idea and The Bachelorette is awful.
But she has been doing this kind of stuff to me all weekend wtf
-- Congratulations to Rafael Nadal on a Career Golden Slam. - The Mana Sword
I thought about not telling my friend but I didn't feel right about it.
She hardly even cared. She seemed disappointed in her friend but that's about it.
This was probably the best weekend of my life.
My family, his family, and her family were all together so I got to see pretty much everyone I care about. Even the people who live 1,000 miles away whom I never get to see anymore.
And I got to meet a lot of new people. Aaaand last night was pretty sweet too.
Welp, they're about to leave on their honeymoon (and I am going to be alone in the apartment for a week for like the first time ever). Which is pretty weird for me.
But I guess it's time to get back to normal and go play some tennis.
-- Congratulations to Rafael Nadal on a Career Golden Slam. - The Mana Sword