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BalanceLost
02/02/24 2:37:00 PM
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KStateKing17
02/02/24 2:38:32 PM
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Just close the app and try again next weekend

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Xenogears15
02/02/24 2:41:39 PM
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They could be ENM?

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ArsGoetia
02/02/24 2:46:31 PM
#4:


yall want my grindr dump?
no?
too bad
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best compliment i ever got

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Xenogears15
02/02/24 2:55:05 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
yall want my grindr dump?
no?
too bad
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best compliment i ever got

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I refuse to believe that you're that creative with your responses. Where did you pilfer these funny as fuck responses from?

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HylianFox
02/02/24 3:00:34 PM
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Take it from someone who knows: stay the fuck away from married dudes
>_>

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wanderingshade
02/02/24 3:01:54 PM
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"what movie is that?"

He's too young for you dood.

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ArsGoetia
02/02/24 3:14:58 PM
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Xenogears15 posted...
I refuse to believe that you're that creative with your responses. Where did you pilfer these funny as fuck responses from?


most of the time im just shit posting tbh
most of these responses were when i set my profile name to "orgy"
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Kurt_Russel
02/02/24 3:18:44 PM
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I love orgy. Karma kastles was a more recent hit of theirs (suprised jay Gordon is still going strong), but the whole candyass album is top-notch.
The Schindlers list line killed me, tho.

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ArsGoetia
02/02/24 3:23:15 PM
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Kurt_Russel posted...
I love orgy. Karma kastles was a more recent hit of theirs (suprised jay Gordon is still going strong), but the whole candyass album is top-notch.
The Schindlers list line killed me, tho.

i havent listened to them since vapor transmission came out
apparently jay reformed the band by himself and a dude i knew in high school plays guitar for them now

and that response came from when i had my name set as "moms chest hair" and my profile text set as "dont have sex. b/c you will get pregnant. and die"

i got some interesting replies
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Ratchetrockon
02/02/24 4:00:48 PM
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woah

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pauIie
02/02/24 4:03:26 PM
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these are pretty funny lol

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BalanceLost
02/04/24 6:28:17 PM
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ROBANN_88
02/04/24 6:39:55 PM
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is it weird that instantly knew that was a Mean Girls reference even though it has been several years since i saw it and i do not remember that line at all?

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IceT
02/04/24 6:44:10 PM
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LMAO men have no game on Grindr
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 7:07:36 PM
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IceT posted...
LMAO men have no game on Grindr

They don't need it to tbf

Just like straight girls don't need game with straight dudes

I'm not saying no girls have game, some do, but they don't need it

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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 7:13:49 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
They don't need it to tbf

Just like straight girls don't need game with straight dudes

I'm not saying no girls have game, some do, but they don't need it

all my responses are from functionally straight dudes looking for trans women
more than once ive had a dude have a meltdown in my inbox because i wouldnt respond to him and its so unfair that none of the girls ever want to talk to him
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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 8:14:43 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


yea i didnt really believe it until i got on dating apps
i get literally hundreds of messages an hour when i'm active
so yeah mr blank profile, "pics?" is not a good icebreaker
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 8:18:55 PM
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I think neither side really understands what the other goes through - (or at least the effect it has on their mental well-being )on any large scale


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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 8:23:56 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
I think neither side really understands what the other goes through - (or at least the effect it has on their mental well-being )on any large scale

im trans
ive been on both sides lol
"why wont you talk to me you fuckin whore?"
aint a good look look regardless of gender lol

and like gladius said, unless youve experience it, you really cant understand what its like to be a woman on a dating app
my profile tags specify that i'm asexual and that i will block if you send NSFW pic
what does my inbox look like?
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 8:39:41 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
im trans
ive been on both sides lol
"why wont you talk to me you fuckin whore?"
aint a good look look regardless of gender lol

and like gladius said, unless youve experience it, you really cant understand what its like to be a woman on a dating app
my profile tags specify that i'm asexual and that i will block if you send NSFW pic
what does my inbox look like?
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The "on any large scale" part of my message was for trans people.

And I haven't directly experienced it but I've had girls I was dating show me their tinder chats etc, I'm aware it's rough.

I've experienced a lot of very damaging behaviour on dating apps too. I get annoyed at the general narrative I see online(at least in my algorithm) that it's a one way street

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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 9:40:56 PM
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Some men take it way too far. Nobody has any right to whinge about a convo dying before two people have met, I barely view that as ghosting. I've seen some guys lose it over things like that

My issue is more with mixed signals and fickleness(after actually going on dates) or words not matching up with actions.

I also think some girls have taken the concept of "self care" and "I need to focus on me" to the point they're basically just selfish and struggle to really care about the guys they're talking to

That's something that has exhausted me and I have to take time to rebuild my confidence between each person I've met from dating apps

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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 9:44:06 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
words not matching up with actions.

bold of you to assume your average man actually reads a dating profile
i could literally set my profile text to "im a catfish serial killer and will absolutely murder your ass and bury your remains in an unmarked grave" and still get dozens of replies
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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 9:45:55 PM
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also after months on here and repeat offenders
a lot of these dudes just copy and paste the same thing over and over to literally any woman in firing distance
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 9:46:11 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
bold of you to assume your average man actually reads a dating profile
i could literally set my profile text to "im a catfish serial killer and will absolutely murder your ass and bury your remains in an unmarked grave" and still get dozens of replies

I'm talking about more than just opening interactions with each other on the apps etc I mean after meeting

I accept way too many guys go nuts after just matching with someone either by being too pushy or getting angry over a slow reply

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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 9:52:55 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
I'm talking about more than just opening interactions with each other on the apps etc I mean after meeting


why does it matter if weve met
i meet dozens of ppl every day and i dont owe a single one of them a goddamn thing

acting like im obligated to continue speaking to you just b/c weve been in close physical proximity is kinda shitty imo
unless weve committed to some kind of formal relationship (regardless of label) ghosting is on the table and i really dont give a shit if anyone thinks thats mean
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 10:09:33 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
why does it matter if weve met
i meet dozens of ppl every day and i dont owe a single one of them a goddamn thing

acting like im obligated to continue speaking to you just b/c weve been in close physical proximity is kinda shitty imo
unless weve committed to some kind of formal relationship (regardless of label) ghosting is on the table and i really dont give a shit if anyone thinks thats mean

Okay I'm referring to more than ghosting in general and don't wish to make this a "ghosting vs unsolicited dick pics" discussion lol one is obviously a lot worse

But personally once someone has taken the time to arrange and go on a date I feel it's respectful to not just cut contact completely unless they were inappropriate. I do give a shit if people find my behaviour mean so maybe we're just different

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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 10:14:45 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Okay I'm referring to more than ghosting in general and don't wish to make this a "ghosting vs unsolicited dick pics" discussion lol one is obviously a lot worse

But personally once someone has taken the time to arrange and go on a date I feel it's respectful to not just cut contact completely unless they were inappropriate. I do give a shit if people find my behaviour mean so maybe we're just different


youve not been on this side of the fence
"fuck you c***! i will find you and kill you"
b/c you didnt want second date and verbally indicated as such isnt an altogether uncommon reaction
most common for me is that i'm just a "whore that wants attention"
so yeah
i reserve my right to just not fucking talk to someone i have no interest in saying anything to anymore lol
would you prefer i tell you you're ugly and weird and smell like mothballs and i wouldn't fuck you if you paid me? lol
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 10:17:43 PM
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So it's straight ghost or brutal, tactless insult/honesty?

Hmm

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ArsGoetia
02/04/24 10:23:42 PM
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this is my inbox over the last like 4 nights I was active on here lol
why would i give any semblance of a fuck
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haloiscoolisbak
02/04/24 10:33:42 PM
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Yeah I'm not gonna argue for or defend opening messages on the app. That must be overwhelming for you

My initial mention of guys taking things too far and getting angry with girls they've simply matched with didn't mean after one date you can never ghost in any circumstances, I was actually trying to say ghosting complaints are kinda meh

I wouldn't do it to someone myself but then again 1% of my matches lead to dates and I'm pretty selective with who I'll go on one with to begin with anyway


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Nirvanas_Nox
02/04/24 10:37:43 PM
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Trust me it's not.

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Scintillant
02/04/24 11:18:11 PM
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this was the last time I was actively using grindr to hook up with people (approx 4 years ago)
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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/04/24 11:28:27 PM
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ArsGoetia posted...
and like gladius said, unless youve experience it, you really cant understand what its like to be a woman on a dating app
my profile tags specify that i'm asexual
Uhh why are you on a dating app

Do you go on vegan forums and try to talk to people about beef brisket as well?

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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/05/24 12:32:22 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

It's not about whether or not asexuality is valid, lol. It's a dating site.

Talking about beef brisket doesn't necessarily mean you aren't vegan either but why go to a vegan forum if that's what you wanna talk about

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BloodMoon7
02/05/24 12:56:07 AM
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ArsGoetia posted...
bold of you to assume your average man actually reads a dating profile
i could literally set my profile text to "im a catfish serial killer and will absolutely murder your ass and bury your remains in an unmarked grave" and still get dozens of replies
This would be the ONLY profile that would get me to try my luck.

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haloiscoolisbak
02/05/24 1:01:07 AM
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Last girl I met off a dating app talked non stop about red flags and all this dating etiquette stuff like it was a science, then invited me into the bathroom while she peed the first time we hung out. And we were meant to be hanging out as friends to, her idea. I made a topic about it recently

Imagine having to hear red flag this deal-breaker that etc and trying really hard to be... on your best behaviour basically followed by something as out of pocket as that. Just has my scratching my head at this point

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BloodMoon7
02/05/24 1:02:50 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Last girl I met off a dating app talked non stop about red flags and all this dating etiquette stuff like it was a science, then invited me into the bathroom while she peed the first time we hung out. And we were meant to be hanging out as friends to, her idea. I made a topic about it recently

Imagine having to hear red flag this deal-breaker that etc and trying really hard to be... on your best behaviour basically followed by something as out of pocket as that. Just has my scratching my head at this point
I remember that topic. You really messed up tbh, that was totally on you. Imagine not peeing with your friends smh

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Giblet_Enjoyer
02/05/24 1:40:20 AM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

It's not. My stance is that a heterosexual -- er, a woman who likes men, but asexually -- probably is not gonna get whatever she's looking for on a dating site

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ArsGoetia
02/05/24 5:14:44 AM
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Giblet_Enjoyer posted...
Uhh why are you on a dating app

Do you go on vegan forums and try to talk to people about beef brisket as well?


like gladius said, some ace ppl still like dating and romance
but me personally, i'm not asexual. it's just that listing myself as ace is easier than explaining "i have an incredibly low libido and like having sex maybe once a month, if that, and my desire for it comes exclusively from romantic feelings not any kind of physical arousal" because trying to explain that to someone leads to a lot of them trying to convince me that "oh you just dont like it because you havent had good sex baby. lemme show you how its done with my GIANT (small) penis (that i also explicitly said i didnt wanna see)". so it hopefully deters at least some people just looking for a hookup.

and regardless, there's plenty of ppl on there just looking for chat and friends. most of my longer convos on there have been about music, video games and nerdy stuff.
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CSCA33
02/05/24 1:36:19 PM
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NoxObscuras
02/05/24 1:58:20 PM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
Some men take it way too far. Nobody has any right to whinge about a convo dying before two people have met, I barely view that as ghosting. I've seen some guys lose it over things like that
For me, the cutoff for what counts as ghosting is once we've set up a first date. Had a woman just disappear the day of the date and I absolutely still considered that ghosting. Had I not tried to confirm with her first, I would have just been sitting there waiting for a date that wasn't gonna show up.

ArsGoetia posted...
bold of you to assume your average man actually reads a dating profile
i could literally set my profile text to "im a catfish serial killer and will absolutely murder your ass and bury your remains in an unmarked grave" and still get dozens of replies

ArsGoetia posted...
also after months on here and repeat offenders
a lot of these dudes just copy and paste the same thing over and over to literally any woman in firing distance
These happen because for a lot of guys, they just treat it as a numbers game. That if they reach out to as many women as possible, eventually, some will be interested. And that putting in effort into each message is a waste of time because most of the women will ignore them.

And women get flooded with messages because so many guys take that approach. It's self sabotage really and I wish more guys understood that it's doing more harm than good.

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ArsGoetia
02/05/24 2:40:34 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...


These happen because for a lot of guys, they just treat it as a numbers game. That if they reach out to as many women as possible, eventually, some will be interested. And that putting in effort into each message is a waste of time because most of the women will ignore them.

And women get flooded with messages because so many guys take that approach. It's self sabotage really and I wish more guys understood that it's doing more harm than good.


oh i get it
its spray n pray strategy
guy i knew in high school used to DM literally every girl he saw on myspace
"send me nudes"
99/100 blocked him
but there was always that 1 that would
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