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Kinny100 07/23/22 6:09:35 PM #1:	Real talk we went to a show and she got hammered. She passed out in the car, fell down in the bathroom and everything. Now she wants to have sex. I said no because she cant consent. Shes mad...like REAL MAD. Am I the asshole? --- http://i.imgur.com/riPcH.jpg <cite>Kinny100 posted [p:966787316] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Real talk we went to a show and she got hammered. She passed out in the car, fell down in the bathroom and everything. Now she wants to have sex. I said no because she cant consent. Shes mad...like REAL MAD. Am I the asshole? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamsungGearS2 07/23/22 6:10:05 PM #2:	This isnt Reddit op, go post this shit there --- Sent from my iPhone 12/HP Envy x360 on VZW 5G Home Internet CP: WarioWare: Get it Together (NS), Saints Row IV: Re-Elected (PC), Rayman Legends (Wii U) <cite>SamsungGearS2 posted [p:966787327] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>This isnt Reddit op, go post this shit there </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kinny100 07/23/22 6:10:48 PM #3:	reddit is trash --- http://i.imgur.com/riPcH.jpg <cite>Kinny100 posted [p:966787341] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>reddit is trash </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:11:10 PM #4:	Do you guys regularly have sex? I think it's fine. I definitely would not have sex the first time with someone like that. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787346] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Do you guys regularly have sex? I think it's fine. I definitely would not have sex the first time with someone like that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MarcoRubio 07/23/22 6:12:15 PM #5:	Get this shit outta here. --- Vote for me, 2016! <cite>MarcoRubio posted [p:966787361] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Get this shit outta here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kinny100 07/23/22 6:12:25 PM #6:	imagine getting mad at your SO cuz he wont rape you girls...amirite? --- http://i.imgur.com/riPcH.jpg <cite>Kinny100 posted [p:966787369] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>imagine getting mad at your SO cuz he wont rape you girls...amirite? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 07/23/22 6:13:29 PM #7:	You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag . --- To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships. W.E.B. Du Bois <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:966787393] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag . </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:15:22 PM #8:	Kinny100 posted... imagine getting mad at your SO cuz he wont rape you girls...amirite? Seriously, you are now trivializing actual rape. Doubt you have a gf --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787424] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Kinny100 posted... </cite> <quote>imagine getting mad at your SO cuz he wont rape you girls...amirite?</quote>Seriously, you are now trivializing actual rape. Doubt you have a gf </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:15:58 PM #9:	cjsdowg posted... You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag . You can't reason with a drunk person. Otherwise, I agree that is bad --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787435] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>cjsdowg posted... </cite> <quote>You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag .</quote>You can't reason with a drunk person. Otherwise, I agree that is bad </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarkRoast 07/23/22 6:16:50 PM #10:	Cj's right. It's not the inebriation that's the problem it's the fact that she's mad that you are exercising your right to say no. I will say, it would be nice if the law was a little more clear about situations like this. I suspect you probably would be okay, but ethically I'm exactly the same way. I don't sleep with drunk people, even if I know they'd consent when sober. --- Lenovo Legion 7 - Ryzen 5900HX, RTX 3080 16 GB (165W), 32 GB DDR4-3200 By Grabthar's hammer............... What a laptop. <cite>DarkRoast posted [p:966787448] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Cj's right. It's not the inebriation that's the problem it's the fact that she's mad that you are exercising your right to say no. I will say, it would be nice if the law was a little more clear about situations like this. I suspect you probably would be okay, but ethically I'm exactly the same way. I don't sleep with drunk people, even if I know they'd consent when sober. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JTilly 07/23/22 6:19:02 PM #11:	This happened --- pEaK cEman <cite>JTilly posted [p:966787493] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>This happened </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonOctopus 07/23/22 6:20:35 PM #12:	Kinny100 posted... imagine getting mad at your SO cuz he wont rape you girls...amirite? I remember one time I slept with a chick and she wanted me to choke her during it >_> I couldn't do it cuz it was too weird for me lol. Some people got weird kinks --- http://i.imgur.com/nlaY1qH.jpg http://i.imgur.com/zHJ1OCo.gif http://i.imgur.com/btBPP4E.jpg http://i.imgur.com/1B3bMHw.gif https://imgur.com/nQik2zW <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:966787516] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Kinny100 posted... </cite> <quote>imagine getting mad at your SO cuz he wont rape you girls...amirite?</quote>I remember one time I slept with a chick and she wanted me to choke her during it >_> I couldn't do it cuz it was too weird for me lol. Some people got weird kinks </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rharyx211 07/23/22 6:22:06 PM #13:	She'll be too hungover in the morning to be mad at you, or even remember this happening. Just get her some water and let her pass out. --- Watch "Final Fantasy XV Abridged" and "Kingdom Hearts Abridged" right here! https://www.youtube.com/user/mcknett3 <cite>Rharyx211 posted [p:966787546] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>She'll be too hungover in the morning to be mad at you, or even remember this happening. Just get her some water and let her pass out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kirbyy 07/23/22 6:24:08 PM #14:	I mean if she's drunk mad I can get that. If she's sobered up in the morning and still genuinely angry about it then that's kinda dumb because you were just looking out for you two imo. --- Crayons taste like purple. <cite>kirbyy posted [p:966787588] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>I mean if she's drunk mad I can get that. If she's sobered up in the morning and still genuinely angry about it then that's kinda dumb because you were just looking out for you two imo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Arcanine2009 07/23/22 6:24:29 PM #15:	did you guys talk after she sobered up? --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. <cite>Arcanine2009 posted [p:966787593] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>did you guys talk after she sobered up? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tote_All_ 07/23/22 6:28:16 PM #16:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/3/3/AAfTzuAADfIN.jpg <cite>Tote_All_ posted [p:966787679] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/3/3/AAfTzuAADfIN.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InTheEyesOfFire 07/23/22 6:32:02 PM #17:	NeonOctopus posted... I remember one time I slept with a chick and she wanted me to choke her during it >_> I couldn't do it cuz it was too weird for me lol. Some people got weird kinks More common than you think. --- "Oh man would you just shut up already, how come all you sword guys have to talk about how cool your swords are?" <cite>InTheEyesOfFire posted [p:966787745] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>NeonOctopus posted... </cite> <quote>I remember one time I slept with a chick and she wanted me to choke her during it >_> I couldn't do it cuz it was too weird for me lol. Some people got weird kinks</quote> More common than you think. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:33:30 PM #18:	InTheEyesOfFire posted... More common than you think. Yep. Had this request more than once --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787769] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>InTheEyesOfFire posted... </cite> <quote>More common than you think.</quote>Yep. Had this request more than once </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RenescoStCewl 07/23/22 6:35:21 PM #19:	bsp77 posted... Seriously, you are now trivializing actual rape. Doubt you have a gf I mean he's not wrong. I wouldn't sleep with my wife if she was plastered and I was sober. It just seems wrong. --- He/him <cite>RenescoStCewl posted [p:966787803] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Seriously, you are now trivializing actual rape. Doubt you have a gf</quote>I mean he's not wrong. I wouldn't sleep with my wife if she was plastered and I was sober. It just seems wrong. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/23/22 6:35:30 PM #20:	Kinny100 posted... reddit is trash This topic would fit right in then.. --- "I have a cat he's burly n buff but he just likes goin' for walks n stuff" https://files.catbox.moe/gqwlkg.jpeg ~ by JimCarrysToe. Be amaze. <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:966787806] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Kinny100 posted... </cite> <quote>reddit is trash</quote> This topic would fit right in then.. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rharyx211 07/23/22 6:36:41 PM #21:	Tote_All_ posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/3/3/AAfTzuAADfIN.jpg lmfaooo --- Watch "Final Fantasy XV Abridged" and "Kingdom Hearts Abridged" right here! https://www.youtube.com/user/mcknett3 <cite>Rharyx211 posted [p:966787828] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Tote_All_ posted... </cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/3/3/AAfTzuAADfIN.jpg</quote>lmfaooo </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem-man 07/23/22 6:37:40 PM #22:	If she's drunk mad, then ignore her. It hurts and is annoying, but yeah. I've done the same as you. That's just a weird situation and I couldn't bring myself to do it. If she's mad the next morning, she's completely in the wrong. --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem-man posted [p:966787841] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>If she's drunk mad, then ignore her. It hurts and is annoying, but yeah. I've done the same as you. That's just a weird situation and I couldn't bring myself to do it. If she's mad the next morning, she's completely in the wrong. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:42:00 PM #23:	RenescoStCewl posted... I mean he's not wrong. I wouldn't sleep with my wife if she was plastered and I was sober. It just seems wrong. Do you think that is rape? To be clear, I do believe it is possible to rape someone you are in committed relationship with. But if you regularly have sex and she propositions as a normal occurence, then how is her being drunk that different? I mean my gf wants sex every night after we come in from being out and having fun. So it would be a normal ask. Also, the way he phrased toward women that may be lurking was icky. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787913] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>RenescoStCewl posted... </cite> <quote>I mean he's not wrong. I wouldn't sleep with my wife if she was plastered and I was sober. It just seems wrong.</quote>Do you think that is rape? To be clear, I do believe it is possible to rape someone you are in committed relationship with. But if you regularly have sex and she propositions as a normal occurence, then how is her being drunk that different? I mean my gf wants sex every night after we come in from being out and having fun. So it would be a normal ask. Also, the way he phrased toward women that may be lurking was icky. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:43:25 PM #24:	If he doesn't want to have sex with her when drunk that is fine, but he is escalating the situation on this site. Or more likely making it up --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787948] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>If he doesn't want to have sex with her when drunk that is fine, but he is escalating the situation on this site. Or more likely making it up </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/23/22 6:44:32 PM #25:	I mean anyone can turn down sex for any reason but bringing consent into it just seems fake or disingenuous. If it was the first time then yeah that makes total sense, but I'm an established relationship where you've already fucked a buncha times consent isn't an issue in this scenario at all. --- "I have a cat he's burly n buff but he just likes goin' for walks n stuff" https://files.catbox.moe/gqwlkg.jpeg ~ by JimCarrysToe. Be amaze. <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:966787971] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>I mean anyone can turn down sex for any reason but bringing consent into it just seems fake or disingenuous. If it was the first time then yeah that makes total sense, but I'm an established relationship where you've already fucked a buncha times consent isn't an issue in this scenario at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lairen 07/23/22 6:44:33 PM #26:	To be honest if a girls horny then shes under the influence of hormones and cant consent then either. --- When it rains, it pours. <cite>Lairen posted [p:966787973] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>To be honest if a girls horny then shes under the influence of hormones and cant consent then either. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 6:45:26 PM #27:	CanuckCowboy posted... I mean anyone can turn down sex for any reason but bringing consent into it just seems fake or disingenuous. If it was the first time then yeah that makes total sense, but I'm an established relationship where you've already fucked a buncha times consent isn't an issue in this scenario at all. Thank you --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966787986] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>CanuckCowboy posted... </cite> <quote>I mean anyone can turn down sex for any reason but bringing consent into it just seems fake or disingenuous. If it was the first time then yeah that makes total sense, but I'm an established relationship where you've already fucked a buncha times consent isn't an issue in this scenario at all.</quote>Thank you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guns_of_Verdun 07/23/22 6:57:31 PM #28:	cjsdowg posted... You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag . --- http://i.imgur.com/VwJsmAR.gifv <cite>Guns_of_Verdun posted [p:966788158] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>cjsdowg posted... </cite> <quote>You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag .</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_Karate_II 07/23/22 6:58:22 PM #29:	CanuckCowboy posted... I mean anyone can turn down sex for any reason but bringing consent into it just seems fake or disingenuous. If it was the first time then yeah that makes total sense, but I'm an established relationship where you've already fucked a buncha times consent isn't an issue in this scenario at all. It is when someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs. --- Currently Playing: Dead by Daylight,Friday the 13th and Forza Horizon 5 <cite>Mr_Karate_II posted [p:966788170] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>CanuckCowboy posted... </cite> <quote>I mean anyone can turn down sex for any reason but bringing consent into it just seems fake or disingenuous. If it was the first time then yeah that makes total sense, but I'm an established relationship where you've already fucked a buncha times consent isn't an issue in this scenario at all.</quote>It is when someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 7:03:44 PM #30:	Mr_Karate_II posted... It is when someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs. But you already have sex all the time and she is propositioning. I actually have had a couple gfs flat out tell me that if they ever get super drunk and come on to me, then I have her consent. Also, on my birthday a few months ago, I got super drunk and my gf was my designated driver. When we got home, I initiated sex and she went with it. Do you think I woke up and was upset I didn't consent? This is absolutely ridiculous unless your relationship is poor and she typically does NOT want sex. But with a healthy sex life, this is just a regular night whether someone is drunk or not. I will agree that this may differ from relationship to relationship, but when already having sex 5x a week or so... that is why I asked if they were regularly having sex at the beginning and he responds hy talking about rape. Seems disingenuous. If uncomfortable with it, then that is fine though. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966788250] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Mr_Karate_II posted... </cite> <quote>It is when someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs.</quote>But you already have sex all the time and she is propositioning. I actually have had a couple gfs flat out tell me that if they ever get super drunk and come on to me, then I have her consent. Also, on my birthday a few months ago, I got super drunk and my gf was my designated driver. When we got home, I initiated sex and she went with it. Do you think I woke up and was upset I didn't consent? This is absolutely ridiculous unless your relationship is poor and she typically does NOT want sex. But with a healthy sex life, this is just a regular night whether someone is drunk or not. I will agree that this may differ from relationship to relationship, but when already having sex 5x a week or so... that is why I asked if they were regularly having sex at the beginning and he responds hy talking about rape. Seems disingenuous. If uncomfortable with it, then that is fine though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/23/22 7:05:48 PM #31:	Mr_Karate_II posted... It is when someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs. bsp77 posted... But you already have sex all the time and she is propositioning. I actually have had a couple gfs flat out tell me that if they ever get super drunk and come on to me, then I have her consent. Also, on my birthday a few months ago, I got super drunk and my gf was my designated driver. When we got home, I initiated sex and she went with it. Do you think I woke up and was upset I didn't consent? This is absolutely ridiculous unless your relationship is poor and she typically does NOT want sex. But with a healthy sex life, this is just a regular night whether someone is drunk or not. I will agree that this may differ from relationship to relationship, but when already having sex 5x a week or so... that is why I asked if they were regularly having sex at the beginning and he responds hy talking about rape. Seems disingenuous. This. --- "I have a cat he's burly n buff but he just likes goin' for walks n stuff" https://files.catbox.moe/gqwlkg.jpeg ~ by JimCarrysToe. Be amaze. <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:966788284] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Mr_Karate_II posted... </cite> <quote>It is when someone is drunk or under the influence of drugs.</quote> bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>But you already have sex all the time and she is propositioning. I actually have had a couple gfs flat out tell me that if they ever get super drunk and come on to me, then I have her consent. Also, on my birthday a few months ago, I got super drunk and my gf was my designated driver. When we got home, I initiated sex and she went with it. Do you think I woke up and was upset I didn't consent? This is absolutely ridiculous unless your relationship is poor and she typically does NOT want sex. But with a healthy sex life, this is just a regular night whether someone is drunk or not. I will agree that this may differ from relationship to relationship, but when already having sex 5x a week or so... that is why I asked if they were regularly having sex at the beginning and he responds hy talking about rape. Seems disingenuous.</quote> This. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem-man 07/23/22 7:10:14 PM #32:	TC is talking about falling down drunk. There's a clear line in behavior where it becomes too uncomfortable and it goes past "sex after a night out" and I personally wont do it --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem-man posted [p:966788364] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>TC is talking about falling down drunk. There's a clear line in behavior where it becomes too uncomfortable and it goes past "sex after a night out" and I personally wont do it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 7:12:04 PM #33:	emblem-man posted... TC is talking about falling down drunk. There's a clear line in behavior where it becomes too uncomfortable and it goes past "sex after a night out" and I personally wont do it And that's cool. He doesn't have to and she should respect that. At least once she sobers up. I am reacting to calling this rape. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966788389] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>emblem-man posted... </cite> <quote>TC is talking about falling down drunk. There's a clear line in behavior where it becomes too uncomfortable and it goes past "sex after a night out" and I personally wont do it</quote>And that's cool. He doesn't have to and she should respect that. At least once she sobers up. I am reacting to calling this rape. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FortuneCookie 07/23/22 7:12:21 PM #34:	bsp77 posted... Do you guys regularly have sex? I think it's fine. I definitely would not have sex the first time with someone like that. "I have a question while you're sober. If you ever come home hammered and horny, should I smash or pass? If you give me the go ahead now, it's consensual." #SecondDateQuestions <cite>FortuneCookie posted [p:966788398] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>Do you guys regularly have sex? I think it's fine. I definitely would not have sex the first time with someone like that.</quote> "I have a question while you're sober. If you ever come home hammered and horny, should I smash or pass? If you give me the go ahead now, it's consensual." #SecondDateQuestions </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/23/22 7:15:05 PM #35:	FortuneCookie posted... "I have a question while you're sober. If you ever come home hammered and horny, should I smash or pass? If you give me the go ahead now, it's consensual." #SecondDateQuestions Lol at second date, but it's not a bad conversation to have. I think I have only had sex with 2 women while they were smashed. Both gave me pre-consent. One even gave consent if I ever woke up horny in the middle of the night and she was asleep lol --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966788448] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>FortuneCookie posted... </cite> <quote>"I have a question while you're sober. If you ever come home hammered and horny, should I smash or pass? If you give me the go ahead now, it's consensual." #SecondDateQuestions</quote>Lol at second date, but it's not a bad conversation to have. I think I have only had sex with 2 women while they were smashed. Both gave me pre-consent. One even gave consent if I ever woke up horny in the middle of the night and she was asleep lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
unclekoolaid73 07/23/22 7:16:11 PM #36:	Shes ready. <cite>unclekoolaid73 posted [p:966788462] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Shes ready. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Panthera 07/23/22 7:25:24 PM #37:	Even in the context of a relationship where you've fucked plenty, I think being drunk enough to actually pass out from it is too drunk for sex to be a good idea unless you've already explicitly discussed that exact scenario and she says it's fine so long as she's still actively engaging in the moment. Even then I don't think I'd be comfortable with it. cjsdowg posted... You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag . I would say to give her a chance to apologize, but yes, throwing tantrums over someone not having sex with you is not okay. --- Meow! <cite>Panthera posted [p:966788662] in my gf got ... [t:80104374]...</cite> <quote>Even in the context of a relationship where you've fucked plenty, I think being drunk enough to actually pass out from it is too drunk for sex to be a good idea unless you've already explicitly discussed that exact scenario and she says it's fine so long as she's still actively engaging in the moment. Even then I don't think I'd be comfortable with it. cjsdowg posted... </cite> <quote>You need to get out of this relationship and I am not even joking. To get upset with you because you don't want to have sex. (for any reason) is a red flag .</quote> I would say to give her a chance to apologize, but yes, throwing tantrums over someone not having sex with you is not okay. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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