Current Events > Sometimes when I think about always being single I feel like an incel.

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Want to know what my one of my biggest dreams in life is?

Just to go on a romantic weekend away with a girl.
That's it.

But it's never happened and probably will never happen. And when I think about it, it makes me sad (probably a little bitter too, but mostly sad).

(I don't really think I fit the profile of an incel btw, as far as I know. I don't hate women and don't think that I deserve a woman to like me or anything).

Anyways, I am just posting through it tonight.

/blogfaqs

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You guys....

When you say "with a girl", that pretty much means any girl. So...stop thinking about it. Pick a random girl who isn't attractive and go for a romantic week.

You want a model? You better have the funds, but we're not talking about hotties. Just a girl.


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billcom6 posted...

(I don't really think I fit the profile of an incel btw, as far as I know. I don't hate women and don't think that I deserve a woman to like me or anything).

You're not an incel unless you get irrationally angry about women and cultural issues pertaining to women. (instagram, windmovers, etc included)

You can get women. You just need to open your prospects and get into situations IRL that involve women.
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What is stopping you from finding a partner my friend?

Have you tried finding a good gym and getting shredded?

Kylo_Ren_ posted...

You guys....

When you say "with a girl", that pretty much means any girl. So...stop thinking about it. Pick a random girl who isn't attractive and go for a romantic week.

You want a model? You better have the funds, but we're not talking about hotties. Just a girl.

Standards aren't the problem in these situations.
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the grass isnt greener over here it might look like it

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Kylo_Ren_ posted...

You guys....

When you say "with a girl", that pretty much means any girl. So...stop thinking about it. Pick a random girl who isn't attractive and go for a romantic week.

You want a model? You better have the funds, but we're not talking about hotties. Just a girl.

???
Kidnapping isn't a solution.

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Notti posted...

You're not an incel unless you get irrationally angry about women and cultural issues pertaining to women. (instagram, windmovers, etc included)

You can get women. You just need to open your prospects and get into situations IRL that involve women.

And here I thought that an Incel was just someone who is celibate involuntarily. I had no idea that it was a term only used to categorise irrational anger.

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Jornavyr posted...

And here I thought that an Incel was just someone who is celibate involuntarily. I had no idea that it was a term only used to categorise irrational anger.

Originally it was just about the involuntary celibate part. It was coined by a girl in the 90s. Then angry misogynists took it for their own label more recently.

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You can do that idk why you havent yet though

oh and by do that I mean the general do anything you want in this life, idk why you havent yet

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If my fat ass can get hit on by 4's, 5's, and 6's, anyone can get a date.

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Solo_Wing posted...

If my fat ass can get hit on by 4's, 5's, and 6's, anyone can get a date.

Hit yourself in the balls.

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billcom6 posted...

Want to know what my one of my biggest dreams in life is?

Just to go on a romantic weekend away with a girl.
That's it.

But it's never happened and probably will never happen. And when I think about it, it makes me sad (probably a little bitter too, but mostly sad).

(I don't really think I fit the profile of an incel btw, as far as I know. I don't hate women and don't think that I deserve a woman to like me or anything).

Anyways, I am just posting through it tonight.

/blogfaqs

you can get a date. Just go on okcupid and swipe right on the unattractive girls. They might have good personalities.

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None of this is helpful. Being told how easy it is constantly while when we try and always find it extremely difficult just further shows how inept we are at this.

It mostly just feels like you're just telling us to give up. Like we are just useless because apparently we can't even do something really easy.


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MrNintendo1213 posted...

Originally it was just about the involuntary celibate part. It was coined by a girl in the 90s. Then angry misogynists took it for their own label more recently.

I am a bit of a stickler for the traditional interpretations, so makes sense that I missed that shift. Also, I can't see why anyone would want to label themselves as an Incel.
MrNintendo1213 posted...

None of this is helpful. Being told how easy it is constantly while when we try and always find it extremely difficult just further shows how inept we are at this.

It mostly just feels like you're just telling us to give up. Like we are just useless because apparently we can't even do something really easy.

Mate, just don't worry about it. Sex isn't all there is too it. Not to mention that prostitutes don't discriminate any time I get hard up for a woman, I just go drop $50 on one for a night. No fuss, I get what I want, and I don't have to navigate the dating scene. Forming relationships in general is just difficult these days, and that pertains to more than sex and dating. The world is just in a fucked up spot at the moment. Just try and enjoy your life for what it is. You don't need a gash in it to make you happy. Or at least, i definitely don't need one in mine.

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Jornavyr posted...

I am a bit of a stickler for the traditional interpretations, so makes sense that I missed that shift. Also, I can't see why anyone would want to label themselves as an Incel.

Mate, just don't worry about it. Sex isn't all there is too it. Not to mention that prostitutes don't discriminate any time I get hard up for a woman, I just go drop $50 on one for a night. No fuss, I get what I want, and I don't have to navigate the dating scene. Forming relationships in general is just difficult these days, and that pertains to more than sex and dating. The world is just in a fucked up spot at the moment. Just try and enjoy your life for what it is. You don't need a gash in it to make you happy. Or at least, i definitely don't need one in mine.

We weren't talking about getting laid. Plus how could I see a prostitute anyway? That sounds like one of the most uncomfortable situations I could imagine. I would rather punch myself in the balls then try that. I would have a huge panic attack. Tbh Id rather someone just kill me if I was forced to try that.

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MrNintendo1213 posted...

Being told how easy it is constantly while when we try and always find it extremely difficult just further shows how inept we are at this.

Ok it's not extremely easy, but it's easy. The problem is that they don't want what's infront of them. The 3s, the 4s and the 5s.

Ever heard of the term, stay in your lane? That's pretty much the majority of the problem.

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MrNintendo1213 posted...

We weren't talking about getting laid. Plus how could I see a prostitute anyway? That sounds like one of the most uncomfortable situations I could imagine. I would rather punch myself in the balls then try that. I would have a huge panic attack. Tbh Id rather someone just kill me if I was forced to try that.

Well, you're not being forced to do anything man. If you don't want to see a prostitute, then don't. It's pretty simple. Just means that you've gotta get your female attention by the traditional means. Ya know, by forming relationships and all that other shit. And remember, sex work is real work. Or at least, so I've been told.

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Kylo_Ren_ posted...

Ok it's not extremely easy, but it's easy. The problem is that they don't want what's infront of them. The 3s, the 4s and the 5s.

Ever heard of the term, stay in your lane? That's pretty much the majority of the problem.

I don't like super model style looks in the first place. Almost all the girls I like most people don't consider super attractive. The main thing I like is them being nerdy and at least mildly cute. Kate Micucci is the kind of girl I usually get a crush on. The problem is I can't talk to anyone offline. Besides I live in the middle of nowhere up in the mountains. So its pretty much only country girls and stuff here who would never like me.
Jornavyr posted...

Well, you're not being forced to do anything man. If you don't want to see a prostitute, then don't. It's pretty simple. Just means that you've gotta get your female attention by the traditional means. Ya know, by forming relationships and all that other shit. And remember, sex work is real work. Or at least, so I've been told.

You aren't saying anything that isn't super obvious. Not being able to form relationships is the entire problem. That's like telling a dyslexic person they just have to look at letters and read them. No shit.

And I don't have anything against sex work at all. I wish I could be a cute onlyfans femboy honestly. Its the social parts I couldnt handle.

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