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MZero11 09/25/19 6:39:19 AM #1: |
Choose your poison - Results (4 votes)
In-person
100% (4 votes)
4
Over the phone/Skype/etc.
0% (0 votes)
0
In writing/text/e-mail/
0% (0 votes)
0
I know I'm in the minorty here but anyone else here agree? --- MZero, to the extreme Listen to Advokaiser's bracket, this may be our last chance ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GenesisSaga 09/25/19 7:59:05 AM #2: |
I guess it depends on how long we'd been dating, but if it was anything more than a month-long fling the in-person is the ONLY way to do it. You kind of owe it to the other person to do them the courtesy of breaking up face-to-face.
Unless it's someone you suspect might be a crazed stalker, in which case text them it's over, change number, change locks if they've ever been over, block em on social media, ghost the fuck out of them, cut and run --- "You're stronger than you believe. Don't let your fear own you. Own yourself." - Michelle Hodkin ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Peace___Frog 09/25/19 8:05:48 AM #3: |
In person is such a hassle and totally unnecessary. Just call.
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redrocket 09/25/19 8:52:56 AM #4: |
You left the ghosted option off, this poll is invalid.
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Nrrr 09/25/19 9:15:39 AM #5: |
In person so that they can see the hurt on my face and feel as badly as possible about their poor decision to break up with me, a literal top 200 board 8 poster
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MZero11 09/25/19 9:56:40 AM #6: |
redrocket posted...
You left the ghosted option off, this poll is invalid. Dang it I was going to add it and forgot >_> But idk why anyone would want to be ghosted Peace___Frog posted... In person is such a hassle and totally unnecessary. Just call. Heck yeah --- MZero, to the extreme Listen to Advokaiser's bracket, this may be our last chance ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LadyVyxx 09/25/19 9:58:39 AM #7: |
Face to face I guess but definitely in a public setting, or at least that's how I've done it when I had to end things before. I was ghosted once it's the worst feeling ever at least give them a damn phone call or even a text
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LeonhartFour 09/25/19 10:00:47 AM #8: |
yeah I've been ghosted before and it's the worst
I don't know that I've ever had a relationship end in person, whether it was initiated by me or the other person. It's always been over the phone (minus the ghosting incident). --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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redrocket 09/25/19 10:14:18 AM #9: |
Ghosting as a poll option was meant for the sake of completeness and to stand in contrast to the other options.
What the poll needs even more, actually, is IDGAF as long as they do something other than ghosting me. --- It's like paying for bubble wrap. -transience on Final Fantasy: All the Bravest ... Copied to Clipboard!
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banananor 09/25/19 10:15:11 AM #10: |
How long you been dating?
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The Mana Sword 09/25/19 10:15:28 AM #11: |
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Surskit 09/25/19 11:21:08 AM #12: |
I broke up with my ex at their apartment. Then my next partner broke up at my apartment. Both times it felt... optimal? When I'm broken up with, I want to immediately wallow in my pity and cry or whatever, so being in my apartment rather than in public is definitely my preference. I almost felt bad for my ex who had to take the hour-plus subway ride back.
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GuessMyUserName 09/25/19 12:06:01 PM #13: |
i mean it obviously depends on the relationship, the severity, exactly what's going wrong, and how the decision is being reached
I've had a pretty good experience with face-to-face, like it was sad but of course if it's serious with both people. it was sad, but nice at the same time actually been ghosted fine but that was when the relationship deteriorated so horrifically over a month that I knew there'd be no more contact the moment I finished walking them home. hell if anything the ghosting worked out better for me than it did them the worst is when you're ghosted by a catfish --- I request affiliated many pipes. Been a bad girl, I know I am. And I'm so hot, I need a fan. I don't want a boy, I need a man. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LOLIAmAnAlt 09/25/19 12:18:58 PM #14: |
Could you imagine a 5+ year relationship ending through a text. It would be glorious.
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MZero11 09/27/19 6:31:48 AM #15: |
LOLIAmAnAlt posted...
Could you imagine a 5+ year relationship ending through a text. It would be glorious. I don't think a 5 year relationship ending would be glorious regardless of the method But if it has to happen give me the text everytime tbh --- MZero, to the extreme Listen to Advokaiser's bracket, this may be our last chance ... Copied to Clipboard!
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foolm0r0n 09/27/19 7:25:40 AM #16: |
MZero11 posted...
I never got why that's the ideal for most people Because a relationship is based on communication although in your case it seems to be based on convenience and monetary transactions Which reminds me we really gotta see other, less sociopathic people --- _foolmo_ 2 + 2 = 4 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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foolm0r0n 09/27/19 7:28:09 AM #17: |
If you invite someone to Disney just to break up with them then you're crazy but yeah just go over to their place or a nearby cafe or something
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Llarian 09/27/19 10:01:46 AM #18: |
Closure of some kind is always good. I'd prefer in person, although I am out of the dating scene. Thanks @Tom_Bombadil .
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MZero11 09/27/19 10:37:09 AM #19: |
foolm0r0n posted...
MZero11 posted...I never got why that's the ideal for most people Yes, a relationship is based on communication, and a breakup is based on destroying said relationship. Hence such communication is also destroyed. So what"s the point of enduring 10-30 minutes (or worse) of painful awkwardness just to probably never see that person again? foolm0r0n posted... If you invite someone to Disney just to break up with them then you're crazy but yeah just go over to their place or a nearby cafe or something I do do this (except for the long distance ones which get a phone call) because it's considered the "right thing to do". But personally if I'm on the receiving end I'd just prefer a text or phone call Llarian posted... Closure of some kind is always good. I'd prefer in person, although I am out of the dating scene. Thanks @Tom_Bombadil . That makes sense. I'm more of a rip it off like a band-aid and start the healing kind of guy though. Oh you want to break up? Alright then. Thanks for the memories and have a good life. Good Bye. I wish I had a Tom :/ --- MZero, to the extreme Listen to Advokaiser's bracket, this may be our last chance ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LeonhartFour 09/27/19 10:40:51 AM #20: |
MZero11 posted...
Yes, a relationship is based on communication, and a breakup is based on destroying said relationship. Hence such communication is also destroyed. Destruction isn't a necessary part of a breakup. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NFUN 09/27/19 11:19:51 AM #21: |
MZero11 posted...
foolm0r0n posted...MZero11 posted...I never got why that's the ideal for most people Because, depending on why you're breaking up with them, you still respect them and they deserve the same open communication that was the foundation of the relationship? --- Video Game Music Contest 14 winner: Terraria Calamity - Scourge of the Universe ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MZero11 09/27/19 11:51:47 AM #22: |
LeonhartFour posted...
MZero11 posted...Yes, a relationship is based on communication, and a breakup is based on destroying said relationship. Hence such communication is also destroyed. Destroy was a bad word choice I guess. I just meant it's ending it. NFUN posted... MZero11 posted...foolm0r0n posted...MZero11 posted...I never got why that's the ideal for most people You guys seem to be arguing against the wrong thing here. I'm not asking "why should I break up with someone face to face", I'm asking why people prefer it Like I have no interest in that same "open communication" after I've been dumped. I don't feel any more closure from in-person vs phone/text. What is going to make me feel better that I was dumped face to face rather than from a distance? Idk maybe it can't be explained --- MZero, to the extreme Listen to Advokaiser's bracket, this may be our last chance ... Copied to Clipboard!
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foolm0r0n 09/27/19 6:43:53 PM #24: |
MZero11 posted...
Like I have no interest in that same "open communication" after I've been dumped That is all on you. Breaking up doesn't erase your relationship. If you want to pretend the other person never exists, you're gonna end up that psycho who pathologically avoids their exes, which it sounds like you are. It's way better to just end it clearly and humanely. In person is the best for that. --- _foolmo_ 2 + 2 = 4 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Haste_2 09/27/19 8:20:15 PM #25: |
Most ways I would prefer in-person. But if I'm dumped for a physical attraction reason then I wouldn't want to be told that in person, nor over the phone, nor via text!
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