Current Events > It sucks when you like someone, but you both want different things in life

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She grew up in the same house her entire childhood and wants to go everywhere and see everything

I spent my childhood moving from place to place, even country to country, and just want to settle down somewhere

I vould tell her how I feel, but a) she just broke off a long distance relationship cause the distance was getting to her and b) in october she's leaving for SE Asia for 6/7 months

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CE doesn't care
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Settling down is boring unless youre like in your late 30s.
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Yes, it does suck.

What do you want out of it? You can try to make it work, or you can spare yourself a lot of headache and heartache and look for someone with similar goals in life.
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Maybe connect with her when she gets back from SE Asia but that sounds like a non starter for now if she wants a serious relationship.
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Yeah, been there. It's worse when you're basically perfect for one another aside from the things you can't compromise on at all (like one person wanting kids and the other being strictly against it).
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masticatingman posted...

Maybe connect with her when she gets back from SE Asia but that sounds like a non starter for now if she wants a serious relationship.

I'll definitely see her around

But I guess I'm worried about her finding someone while she's there
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You guys can still FUCK
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WaterLink posted...

You guys can still FUCK

Nah
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The only thing I want in life is to be healthy and happy. The girl I talk to idk what she wants. But whatever she wants I'll do. Unless it involves living in Mexico. Can't do that.
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It sucks, dude.

But one day you'll find someone and be so glad you don't have to go through that shit anymore.
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gatorsPENSbucs posted...

But one day you'll find someone and be so glad you don't have to go through that shit anymore.

Here's hoping


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Did you at least hit it and quit it?
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NeonOctopus posted...

Did you at least hit it and quit it?

Yeah TC are you stressing over a girl who doesn't even like you? Using the "different goals" crutch to protect your ego?
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EpicMickeyDrew posted...

NeonOctopus posted...

Did you at least hit it and quit it?

Yeah TC are you stressing over a girl who doesn't even like you? Using the "different goals" crutch to protect your ego?

She's religious, so no hitting it and quitting it

Plus I'm no stranger to rejection lmao
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I know that feeling

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Religious girls are often very wild, I doubt she is saving herself for marriage as most times they only say that bullshit around family.

See if she wants to bang, stop moping.
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Gladius_ posted...

masticatingman posted...

Maybe connect with her when she gets back from SE Asia but that sounds like a non starter for now if she wants a serious relationship.

Why would you wait around six months for someone when that someone likely isn't going to be doing any waiting around? Focus on you. There's other people.

Finding them is difficult tho

My college has waaaaay more dudes than ladies

And of the ladies, practically all of them are spoken for

Plus, y'know, I'm not getting any younger
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cAPITALISATION posted...

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